Telling GF -breaking the ice

[rascalnvixen]

Wow, those were two wonderful updates!! I could almost feel the excitement in your gut! I'm going to subscribe to this thread so I don't miss any of the adventures you two enjoy!!

Rascal

[lionbrand]

Wow!!! So hot story. Why exactly you would like to be present? Personally I wouldn't. All the best to both of you!

[Dharmadude]

So hot thinking of the adventures that await! Enjoy.

[bradisalpha]

This is a very exciting journey you are taking together. Keep us updated.

Brad

[toshare]

Wow, those were two wonderful updates!! I could almost feel the excitement in your gut! I'm going to subscribe to this thread so I don't miss any of the adventures you two enjoy!!

Rascal

Hi, thanks for the follow, glad you are enjoying our journey too. Yes, it was an exciting night.

[toshare]

Wow!!! So hot story. Why exactly you would like to be present? Personally I wouldn't. All the best to both of you!

Well, I guess because from our talk we both thought it would be hot. Who would you not want to see their girl enjoying her self sexually? She also says shed like me to be there too, why, because shed like that too. I guess its the same reason some dont even want to get in this lifestyle, to each their own.

[toshare]

This is a very exciting journey you are taking together. Keep us updated.

Brad

Thanks for following. Yes, its been a fun ride so far.

[toshare]

Continue:
That morning the guys and I, who I was on a trip with,were having lunch as she sent me a few messages about last night. I sent her one saying, "Im not even the last guy you kissed any more." She sent back, "nope, I kissed a cute bartender" (with lip emoji). I said something about how when I get home, Ill be sure to change that back to how its supposed to be and get my girls lips again, she said, "cant wait!" I learned that her girl friend did know about her kissing the other guy, and they text about it. My girl (T) told her gf that she told me everything and was upset that she let herself get that drunk and that she and I talked it through and I was not mad (her gf did not know that T went to the guys place, only that they kissed). Her gf was ok, glad you guys worked it through.

From that encounter we had fun sex and learned more about us, and that we have enjoyed playing our little "game".
We both learned is fun for her to have some freedoms when shes out, and she needs to be a bit more careful around friends, but that it was a big sexual charge for her to get to be flirty, and how I liked the bit of the unknown of whats my girl up to, she liked that too.
As matter fact, she went back to that bar one night alone (about 2 or weeks later), she did make out with him once more as I was in a bar close by and walked by to see them chatting. She said, she was not really feeling it with him anymore and came to join me.

We had planned this vacation to New Orleans for about 2 months (this was about 3 months after the above story). We knew we/she wanted her to have some flirty fun with no expectations. We planned on being there 5 nights, Wed- Monday. We had a blast together, checking out the city, the food, the music, cool buildings, tours, and her getting to wear some sexier clothes that NOLA appreciates and does not judge (shes typically way more conservative in her dress). Wednesday night was just enjoying the city together, and talking about some possible fun for her/us to get into with our "game". We decided on the most part to let things flow naturally.

Ill skip to a more interesting night, Friday night. On this night ,after dinner together and drinks, we went back to the room to find an outfit more daring for her (ill include a pic later). From there we went to Bourbon st looking to see what we may find fun to check out. At some point we found ourselves in a bar which had a host on stage getting the crowd excited with the music and encouraging dancing and girls getting on stage. She and I decided it could be fun if she went into the dance area alone, I was up high a bit looking down on the crowd, her. Was not one minute a guy started chatting her up, and she seemed to like him, then another guy did too and she liked him better (it seemed as she turned her direction to him). It was wild watching my girl on vacation opening herself up to other men. This guy and she danced a bit and I saw them touching as they dirty danced. Such a charge seeing them dance together and him taking advantage of the closeness of the dance to get to enjoy touching her body, her curves. The song ended and he asked her if she wanted a drink. I got to watch them talk and see him rub her arm and her his until he had the courage to slightly rub her hip. That's when I saw her go for a kiss. They kissed for a few mins as I quickly became hard. They did this several times between drinking and kissing. It was all very hot to watch.
To make a long story a bit short she ended up moving from him and found me saying she had fun, but wanted to keep checking out the city. So we left that bar and she quickly became friendly with this guy next to her at the bar while I was there next to her. He was much younger but she thought he was cute. They talked a bit and she introduced me too. He was a nice guy and she asked me, "can we keep him?" I laughed and he said, something about how he was a keeper! lol Again, to move this story along, she told him how much I've always wanted to see her kiss another guy, and he said hed like me to see that too, and they began to make out. He had no issues with me watching, we all had a beer together in this garden area of the bar where she sat between us. It was so erotic to see my girl enjoying the company of her new cute friend, and the newness of getting to share the moment with me as we all were sitting together, chatting and laughing and having a generally good time getting to all hang, although, with this sexy element of her openly letting others in the bar see that shes enjoying the attention of two men. It all was very sexy to me getting to see her enjoy herself like this,and how she was really enjoying our vacation, and the things we had done together exploring the city, and the night with all the things we did together and yet still getting to be open to explore her sexual side freely,openly and know I was there supporting and loving her too.

Continue soon

[aussienerd]

Loving your story so far. Thanks for sharing it with us.

[RetiredSnowbird]

I really like the communication between the two of you. For a wife to allow her husband to simply see her kissing a guy is, in my opinion, a great way to test the waters. All too many times couples rush headlong into this only to discover they weren't ready emotionally. So it's great that the two of you are being careful not to move too quickly with her fucking another guy,

Is your wife aware you post here? If so, is there any way you could convince her to start posting her perspective on things?

[RetiredSnowbird]

Correction needed. I mistakenly referred to her as your wife rather than your girlfriend. Regardless, the communication going on between you is great. Keep it up.

[aztd]

Can't wait

[toshare]

I really like the communication between the two of you. For a wife to allow her husband to simply see her kissing a guy is, in my opinion, a great way to test the waters. All too many times couples rush headlong into this only to discover they weren't ready emotionally. So it's great that the two of you are being careful not to move too quickly with her fucking another guy,

Is your wife aware you post here? If so, is there any way you could convince her to start posting her perspective on things?

Thanks. Communication can be hard, even among willing partners. No, she does not know I've decided to share this story there. I prefer her not knowing as it lets me feel more free to communicate with you like-minded folks my thought processes. However, she does know about this site, I told her about it.

[afagehi7]

I really like the communication between the two of you. For a wife to allow her husband to simply see her kissing a guy is, in my opinion, a great way to test the waters. All too many times couples rush headlong into this only to discover they weren't ready emotionally. So it's great that the two of you are being careful not to move too quickly with her fucking another guy,

Is your wife aware you post here? If so, is there any way you could convince her to start posting her perspective on things?

Thanks. Communication can be hard, even among willing partners. No, she does not know I've decided to share this story there. I prefer her not knowing as it lets me feel more free to communicate with you like-minded folks my though processes more freely. However, she does know about this site, I told her about it.

I understand. If she's reading then you have to filter your writing. There was a girl who wrote on medium (or similar) named alexis mccall who had some good hotwife advice. Don't go to her website because it's malware. Remove spaces below

https:// medium.com/@AlexisMcCall35

[toshare]

That night was a lot of fun for us. It did not end with him coming home with us, but it did let us get to enjoy a level of comfort and sexual charged moment of us both there while she enjoyed the attention of another man, getting to feel/enjoy his touch and getting to kiss him freely in front of me with him knowing it was fun for us all. The night continued with them having fun, even dancing while I got to stand back and watch my girl have fun dancing and kissing another guy. It did turn late, and after a bit of drinking she was starting to get tired, so sadly to say or glad to say, it stayed as described above. Once back in the of the night
, though, we did have fun replaying the night together talking about the fun things we enjoyed about the night. She loved the attention, and how turned on she saw it made me, seeing her have fun. She said she could not believe how lucky she is She commented on how her previous bfs were super jealous and would not be cool with this at all, and said shes glad we get to have fun with this side of our relationship.

The next day(Saturday) we were a bit hung over and agreed to take it easy this day. We filled the day with typical tourist stuff, had dinner at Peche (really good) in the wearhouse district then had a stroll where we ended up having coffee and pastries. We stopped by the hotel Monteleone with the carousel bar had a night cap and called it a bit eary (yeah I know, lame for a Saturday night in Nola) but we had a late one the night before.

Sunday came and we went for lunch did some more tourist things/shopping during the early afternoon. Then as late afternoon came we both were in the mood for a vacation drink, easy to find a good bar there. Shortly after the drink we decided to take in the sun by the pool. We ordered a stack and some drinks. T can be friendly after a few drinks and shortly into her second, she was making friends left and right lol. We all were having fun meeting the new people hanging by the pool (was cool, but people were in bathing attire, though not many in the water). She was in her bikini and we were enjoying the day. At some point, I told her I wanted a nap and to have fun, but let me rechagre my batteries with a 10/15 min nap.

What seemed like 15 seconds later, I get a "hey, babe!" wake up from her. I'm like yeah, you ok? SHe said, I think I found a cool guy, weve been making out, you ok with that? I shot up, wide awake...haha. Wondering what I missed she said,"...... hes cool with it, I told him about you and he said he use to like watching his gf too, come meet him" I said, ok give me a few mins to knock the cobwebs from my head from the nap and ill be right with you guys. ( I actually wanted to see her go back to him and see how they looked together and what they may resume doing with me not being there) She sat back down along the pool with her legs in the water, where I saw him in the water rubbing her legs. OMG what a rush to see this. Esp, as some others there, knew she and I were together. It was not long, I moved in to say hello to her new friend. He was polite enough, and we all three hung and chatted about some things of the "lifestyle". Soon after, we agreed to move to a hot tub as not many people were there, and the air was getting cooler. It was there where we had more privacy for them to make out a lot, she sat in his lap in the water kissing him and then leaning over to kiss me. I was thinking to myself how far we had come, and how wild it is that she seems to really enjoy it too


Ugh, I deleted accidentally sooo much of what I typed. I dont want to have to retype it all. UGH EFing sucks!!!!

Ok, to sum up. He asked us to the room. She agreed with no expectations. We go up, they big time start making out and upagains the wall. He stopped (being a gentleman) asked her if she wanted anything. We all stopped for a beer from the mini frig. Were sitting on the couch he had in the room, soon they are kissing again and I see them touching and her reaching in her pants rubbing his cock. I was so hard seeing my girl, reach in to feel another mans hard cock, knowing it was hard for my girl. It was not 2 mins later I see her lower her self and op en her mouth to take his hard cock in her pretty lips. My face was flush with lust, my cock too was super hard, but she was full attention to him. After a bit of her sucking his cock, he moved to get her bikini off and was enjoying kissing and licking her nipples. Shes looking at me smiling and asking if I'm ok. I affirm I'm very ok, and move her hand to feel my hardness. She smiled and had me come closer to her where she could unzip me and put my cock in her mouth as she was enjoying his lips on her body. He went down on her, and soon she asked him if he had a condom. I was like, wow my girl is ready to have sex with another man.....and I'm so ready to see her. It a wild moment, she actually said to me, will you put his condom on him. I swear guys, we never talked of this, but I was like sure, why not. I actually (first time ever touching another mans cock , though not sure I touched it, ) I rolled a condom over a mans cock, so he could fuck my girl.
It was amazing seeing him slide in her as she got up on top of him to ride him. I had a great view of seeing her ride as his cock pushed its way inside my girl. I could hear their pleasure and even got to join in. I'm not sure who, but either he or she asked for a DP. We actually DVP her together and she did not last long and she began to cum. I felt a bit self conscious about it all in that DVP and was beginning to loose my erection and moved to let them enjoy the newness of being naked together.

That was about it, but just as we said our good byes as we finished that beer, they deeply kissed we exchanged numbers ( I took pics and promised to share). That is the result of telling my girl, Id like to one day see her enjoy her sexuality. Now, I have a hot wife (hot gf) and we have had a few other fun moments since then. Ill be sure to bring you all up to speed.

[Dharmadude]

Congratulations! What a special moment and thank you for sharing. Looking forward to hearing about the rest of your adventures.

Will never forget the first time my HW (then GF) pushed me out of the way so she could ride another guy’s cock. Amazing sight.

[RetiredSnowbird]

Yes, congrats to both of you. I think you're going to have some great and hot times ahead of you. Keep up the communication.

[k-s-v-65]

oh my god congratulations! At the moment where you wrote she took his cock in her mouth I started stroking and when you wrote he was sliding in I was allready cuming. Hot as hell!!!!

[aussienerd]

Congrats and I hope you get many more fun moments ahead.

[toshare]

Thanks guys. Yes, it was all kinda wild to think it was something I thought would be sexy to see and her actually wanting to do it. We talked the next day and she was excited and smiled said things like, I want to tell my friends, but I cant! I had a threesome omg! We did talk a bit about it and had sex and dirty talk during sex where she was saying thing like how she enjoyed the attention of two men and would love to do it again.

A bit of background, this happened in Sept of 2019. We started dating in November of 2018 started our little flashing game in April ( I think). So, during that time, April to Sept, I had seen her make out with several guys and it was always a big rush/turn on.

Well since then her first sexual encounter with a guy outside our relationship, shes had sex with 2 other guys, one was a repeat two other times (Ive been with her for all them). We met them on a swinger website. Shes also gone out for happy hour and met a guy shes made out with in a bar while I was gone away with work. Nothing happen between them other than kissing.

I'm probably like most guys here, I love her promiscuity and having the numbers of how many other men shes kissed, or have had sex with, while she hates me to remind her lol She says, just let me have fun and don't remind me how bad I am lol
Covid did shut things down for her, however, as of last month she has expressed interest in playing again. Its often our subject when we have sex. She wants more of a regular guy she see, where I like the numbers, but I understand , going out on meeting new guys can get tiresome. She made a profile on a dating app and has been chatting with a few guys. She even has a date lined up for Friday, hes aware of me, and our situation. This will be a first for us as she is going out with him alone for drinks and see if there is a mutual connection. I'm nervous and excited for her at the same time as ill not be there to be apart of it. Yet, we both think its a turn on that she has a date. The "cuckold angst" (as it seems to be called) I've read about here on the forum is real. Its what keeps you hard, yet anxious at the same time. Its an odd feeling hoping your girl hits it off with a guy, and that he also likes your girl. Ill keep you guys posted

[toshare]

oh my god congratulations! At the moment where you wrote she took his cock in her mouth I started stroking and when you wrote he was sliding in I was allready cuming. Hot as hell!!!!

Nice! Glad to hear she could also help you get off too

[toshare]

Congratulations! What a special moment and thank you for sharing. Looking forward to hearing about the rest of your adventures.

Will never forget the first time my HW (then GF) pushed me out of the way so she could ride another guy’s cock. Amazing sight.

Now I can say I truly know how you felt, too. Its a rush, not sure the psychology of it all, but I just know it really is

[sandythedude7]

Wonderful story . M happy she got u off too. On the virtual side I have been seeing wives get off when I strip for her on cam and the husband watches her watching me.

The best reaction is when she jus bites her lip while watching the screen and the husband just gets off knowing she's turned on just seeing a guy do things for her on cam.

If any of you wish to try the online thing , do give me a shout out. Will be glad to play!

[toshare]

Wonderful story . M happy she got u off too. On the virtual side I have been seeing wives get off when I strip for her on cam and the husband watches her watching me.

The best reaction is when she jus bites her lip while watching the screen and the husband just gets off knowing she's turned on just seeing a guy do things for her on cam.

If any of you wish to try the online thing , do give me a shout out. Will be glad to play!

No,not at all. Would actually be a turn off for us both

[toshare]

Her date Friday totally ghosted her. Never showed up after confirming one hour before.