Do you prefer to watch your wife having sex with another man than to have sex with her?

BOGMANDIAS · Unread post by **BOGMANDIAS** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 8:22 am

Can you describe the feeling of watching your wife?

SmallHubbyTexas · Unread post by **SmallHubbyTexas** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 10:15 am

It is conflicting. On the one hand it is one of the best feelings in the world for me. Watching her enjoying herself is awesome. Watching her play with his cock and watching the cock enter my wife and her reaction is mind blowing for me.

It is also somewhat disappointing that it is not my cock.

Overall I enjoy watching my wife having a good time with her lovers.

pixwellguy · Unread post by **pixwellguy** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 10:37 am

Even though it's a small sample, I'm not surprised that the response is so overwhelmingly YES. I'd say most cuckolds would answer yes, because we know that our wives are getting more pleasure, and more satisfaction, from the other men. We simply can't satisfy our wives, and we know it.

In my case, all I can do is watch anyway, since I'm no longer allowed to have sex with my own wife.

ucaneffher · Unread post by **ucaneffher** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 12:53 pm

I never watched my ex but I did reach a point where I preferred seeing her get ready for her dates, and seeing her leave the house looking amazing to get fucked. I got to a point where I preferred seeing this process and her not coming home that night than actually fucking her myself.

This in part led to preferring my girlfriend live with another man who in turn would fuck her in their home every night instead of myself in our home.

ucaneffher · Unread post by **ucaneffher** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 1:01 pm

I never watched my ex but I did reach a point where I preferred seeing her get ready for her dates, and seeing her leave the house looking amazing to get fucked. I got to a point where I preferred seeing this process and her not coming home that night than actually fucking her myself.

This in part led to preferring my girlfriend live with another man who in turn would fuck her in their home every night instead of myself in our home.

Des 31 · Unread post by **Des 31** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 4:15 pm

I typically am in another room, but our sex is far better when we're fucking and she is telling me the details of her with another man. I don't know which is better. I think I'm equally excited with both - or jerking off when she is being fucked in our master bedroom while I'm in our guest bedroom.

jayhawker1984 · Unread post by **jayhawker1984** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 4:21 pm

It was a fantasy of mine from almost the day we met but after she placed me into chastity, my craving to watch her have sex has gone through the roof. We both agreed I couldnt have it both ways--watching her have sex with another guy and me being released to fuck her 1x a month. Now he has her all to himself and i only get 2 handjobs -ruined orgasms - 2x a month. I will never get into my wife again and that is fine with both pf us. Do i miss intercourse? Yes, but as time goes by i am becoming more comfortable with that being absent from this great marriage. The more sex my wife has with him, the happier we all are.

jayhawker1984 · Unread post by **jayhawker1984** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 4:22 pm

It was a fantasy of mine from almost the day we met but after she placed me into chastity, my craving to watch her have sex has gone through the roof. We both agreed I couldnt have it both ways--watching her have sex with another guy and me being released to fuck her 1x a month. Now he has her all to himself and i only get 2 handjobs -ruined orgasms - 2x a month. I will never get into my wife again and that is fine with both pf us. Do i miss intercourse? Yes, but as time goes by i am becoming more comfortable with that being absent from this great marriage. The more sex my wife has with him, the happier we all are.

Unread post by **4herpleasure89** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 6:42 pm

I enjoy and desire both. Complete denial is not desirable to either of us.

2wheel · Unread post by **2wheel** » Wed Nov 25, 2020 2:29 am

At times yes.

upsaitig · Unread post by **upsaitig** » Wed Nov 25, 2020 3:49 am

I am never around when my wife gets fucked. She doesn't want that and neither do I.

petco · Unread post by **petco** » Thu Nov 26, 2020 3:14 am

As i watched my former wife,i felt proud and happy for her. but it is also a big turn on for me. not only to watch her, to hear her sounds but also the fact that " he " becomes a stiff cock because of my wife.
it turns me on like hell _ want to fuck her and i will not give up having sex with her.
so for me it is not the question instead of it is an addition a kind of foreplay. if i have to decide only one of these i would choose having sex with her. i am adicted to her sexy body

knight4princess · Unread post by **knight4princess** » Thu Nov 26, 2020 7:20 pm

Right now -- with the Covid stand-down from Hot Wife play -- I definitely would vote #1, that I'd rather watch her get fucked than fuck her myself.

But I voted like I would in normal times, so I went with #3 -- I can't answer because they are different things.

The reason is that at absolute most my wife might average 4-5 encounters with a boyfriend per month during normal times and I would get to fuck her probably 25 times each month because she's so horny. With no such boyfriend encounters going on as we've been hunkered down, I find that we sort of slack back to maybe a dozen times a month that I get to fuck her, which I really can't complain about. But still ... we both miss the adventure.

Not good enough · Unread post by **Not good enough** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 12:58 am

It's a special treat when they let me watch. Usually I have my cage on as well as handcuffs. The pelasure becomes almost unbearable. The they usually slap me around for cumming.

desertsub · Unread post by **desertsub** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 6:30 am

When my wife first started cuckolding me I never got to watch, I was always left at home and unable to masturbate. My imagination took me to some amazing levels and I loved it. When she returned home I usually got to fuck her myself after cleaning her well used pussy. Now, since we transitioned into a total femdom relationship she prefers that I be there watching when she gets a good fucking and I am always locked in chastity while watching. I still have to clean her (and him too now) but I am never allowed to fuck her afterwards. Watching another man fuck my wife , and usually better than I can, is a huge turn on and knowing that my dick will stay caged and denied plays right into my need to be dominated by her.

I really miss the first style of cuckolding, not knowing anything for sure and letting my imagination take over, but being there and watching and knowing that I won't be allowed to fuck her at all is just as intense, just on a different level.

Littlewilly1970 · Unread post by **Littlewilly1970** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 8:46 am

My tiny cock is only 3 inches fully hard, when I can get hard that is, and I cum in seconds and even cum before entering her. So to me watcher her with real men getting her large pussy filled was the only option and we both loved it.

isinlarsa · Unread post by **isinlarsa** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 8:58 am

If I could arrange it I would always watch her fucked first by another man, and then take her sloppy seconds. That's not realistic; but I would like it if she only let me fuck her after another man.

Stretch2517 · Unread post by **Stretch2517** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 12:35 pm

For me better than sex. She knows how much I like to watch.

I do not come when watching but it is hard not to, I just stroke myself gently.

Especially like when she looks at me when she is sucking a bulls cock. She tends to position herself so I can see her licking the entire shaft while her eyes are on me.

jayhawker1984 · Unread post by **jayhawker1984** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 5:07 pm

I love my wife very much and she loves me a whole lot, too. However, when it comes to sex I cannot meet her needs. Cuckolding is a way for her to get what she deserves and for her to have fun humiliating me.

Unread post by **2inUPMichigan** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 5:24 pm

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tractorman2 · Unread post by **tractorman2** » Fri Nov 27, 2020 11:38 pm

Over the very early years of our marrage Mrs TM2 "conditioned" me to accept her preference to having her lovers cock and not mine, then she went on to semi feminise me. Over time my sexual pleasures have come from watching her being pleasured rather than myself. As she chose years since to put me in a CB too my sexual pleasure has become more about being mentally stimulated rather than physically.

The downside for us both is as this bloody virus appeared her access to her lover ceased, so after overe 30 years as an accepted cuck she turned to me and said we should make love more, but how do we undo 30 years of me being a cuck husband both mentally and physically?

Des 31 · Unread post by **Des 31** » Sat Nov 28, 2020 2:10 am

I changed my mind. I wrote it was about equal but seeing this question a second time here, I like it best when another man is fucking her.

When her youngest guy was here last night and fucking her brains out, I watched out of sight from the hallway. I was jerking off and so weak at watching his superior performance, I had to go to the living room and sit down. She has told me that "If it wasn't better with another man, there would be no point in fucking him." She likes it better too.

dinoo · Unread post by **dinoo** » Wed Dec 02, 2020 4:27 am

Difficult to answer but knowing that my wife loves me watching, I chose for watching.

jw_kk · Unread post by **jw_kk** » Wed Dec 02, 2020 5:53 am

I find watching my wife have sex one of the most intensely erotic, sensual and stimulating activities there is.

I consider, and sometimes “label” KK as my own personal porn-star. KK is an exhibitionist and performer at heart, which makes things all that much better, natural, and sexy.

On occasion, watching KK having sex with another man, or men has been so visually stimulating, so erotic, that I’ve experienced hands-free orgasm and ejaculation - the visual sensation is so intense, so hot that I lose control.

Admittedly, being in the role of watching hasn’t always been easy, or without negative emotion. The very first time I ever watched KK with another man I experienced waves of nausea, conflicting feelings of disgust, humiliation, revulsion, anger, jealousy with simultaneous off-the-chart lust, a raging hard-on, and cumming in my own pants, spontaneous orgasm that was unimaginably intense.

Those ‘firsts’ are indelible memories; the first time I saw KK sucking, fucking and experiencing sexual abandon with a stranger, the first time I watched her with two men, the first time I saw her as the object of sexual pleasure and lust in a gang-bang all are etched in my mind, unforgettable.

KK is a very uninhibited, talented, and skilled sexual partner. She knows the sensual value of things like eye-contact, giving herself over to abandon, being visual for a partner. Those skills are amazing to see in action. KK loves the art of the tease, so things like lascivious, slutty blow-jobs, verbalizing her pleasure and desire, and the perverse pleasure she takes in being ‘dirty’ during sex add to the visual and audible spectacle.

The intense emotion, visual, and audible stimulation of seeing KK riding a stranger’s cock, begging him to fuck her, her moans, and the total abandon I see during her fuck session are ball-draining.

As to the poll question, it is a fine line answer; I prefer participating, but watching is a close second.

SailorGuy · Unread post by **SailorGuy** » Wed Dec 02, 2020 8:35 am

In some 20 years of cuckolding my wife has allowed me to watch only once, and that was in secret. Her lover didn't know, and I'm sure he wouldn't allow it. As mind-blowing as that was it is enough for me to use my imagination, either when she is away with him or when she is home and tells me a bit about their love making. The orgasms I have in this context are far far better than the ones I used to have when I was her lover.
I guess I could say that even when I was my wife's lover she was my masturbatory fantasy woman. I loved just admiring her fully clothed! And then when she would agree to let me make love to her ( it wasn't all that often ) I was in heaven rubbing and licking and kissing her. Of course she would eventually pull me up to be inside her - her pleasure - and I would cum in no time at all, so excited was I.
She never complained about being unsatisfied by our lovemaking. Even so it was I who came up with the fantasy that she have another lover, not her. But she played along with it as a fantasy of mine, telling me made-up stories about her meeting some gorgeous ( well hung ) guy. These stories got us BOTH hot as hell. I of course got hard as a rock, but she was all wet as well.
Eventually a neighbor hit on her and she went with it. This made our sex life even better! But eventually the two of them wanted to be monogamous with each other, and I found myself to be a cuckold. But I realized this was my true home with her. She is finally having great long-lasting sex, while I have jet-propelled orgasms whenever I masturbate thinking about her and her man.

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