How much details do you ask her?

[gruenberg]

for my wife and i it is not a question-answer game. she tells my about it, afterwards and we talk about it.

i sometimes assume that there are more things she maybe don`t tell in all the glory. espacially her affair with her client (we call him The Client; she is a lawyer). i guess she don`t want to worry me, because the sex between them is kind of kinky.

[Shared]

My wife gets excited telling me all the details, mostly while I’m licking her clean, so I don’t have to ask. Over the years I’ve found that I get as much turned on hearing about her feelings and emotions as I do about the physical description of their love making.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Shared.

[stevens4fun]

I found that as m wife's relationships with her lovers evolved over time, I was much less focused on details and grew to enjoy (and get off on!) her enhanced sense of well being. I still liked knowing she and her guy had sex x times during the night and she'd always slip in a few erotic tidbits as we had sex when she returned. That said, I learned that when my wife spent the night or weekend with her lover 1) their time together was more focused around sex (at home with me there's all the normal marriage stuff, kids, work, friends (vanilla), bills, etc. And 2), when she's in bed with a "regular" she likes to be fucked the same as with me: lots of erotic foreplay, missionary or anal (on her stomach) to completion, then relaxing in her lover's arms until he can go again. Wake up in his arms or under him as his morning wood is going in. There wasn't too much new to tell!

[dinoo]

I wanted to hear details but it took some time how specific my wife LadyD described them. Sometimes I had to ask what exactly happened. And it took even more time that she would confess he was superior compared to me.

[secretdatesdiary]

If he is not watching, I will force him to listen to all the little details. Love the humiliation in his eyes.

[early-kink]

If he is not watching, I will force him to listen to all the little details. Love the humiliation in his eyes.

Back then, my hotGF and I weren't into humiliation at all, but she LOVED to tell me all the details of what she did to/ with her dates. She loved seeing how horny her sharing details made me ............ then she took advantage of me!!

[Curioushubby99]

Most times I am there to watch so don't need to ask details but we will discuss how much she enjoyed herself and whether she would like to meet the guy again etc. If I am not there then I will want as many details as possible, and she enjoys giving them, what they did, how she felt, does she want to meet again. She really likes to tell me what they did as she reenacts with me, that is very arousing for both of us. I absolutely love hearing what she got up to and she loves to tell me. I think also for her she feels she is not cheating if she reveals everything.

[Tom_Fetch]

She played 6 times past 12 months. Every time she plays the excitement starts the moment they set the date and it ends usually a day and night after her return. When she comes back I want to hear every single detail. And I’m lucky that she gets turned on from my reaction when I hear from her what they did.

[CuriousUK]

She played 6 times past 12 months. Every time she plays the excitement starts the moment they set the date and it ends usually a day and night after her return. When she comes back I want to hear every single detail. And I’m lucky that she gets turned on from my reaction when I hear from her what they did.

Sounds like you have the perfect arrangement, very jealous

[True Cuckold]

I don't ask for a lot of detail. I don't want to ruin it for her by asking too many questions. I do tend to ask about how big he is, what positions, and did he cum inside her.

[Mgcouplemn]

i am lucky, in I always get to watch

[Tank Turner]

I don't ask for details. I participate.

[annsman]

Every single detail every time whether he’s a regular or not

[10ur]

Unfortunately, we haven't started this lifestyle yet. But my wife has someone she wants to have sex with. My wife occasionally has sexual dreams about this person.I get incredibly excited when my wife tells me the details of these dreams. I need all the details down to the smallest detail.

[gruenberg]

I don't ask for details. Because I'm not interested and we see it as her thing. She needs some escapes from her life as a working mother and wife. This is her idea of escaping this world for a few moments. I accept it but I don't courage her. This is probably different to most of the others here.

[Parsifal]

My long term trajectory has been to ask for fewer details. Let's face it. Some hotwifing situations are reruns. Lot's of the same can become too much of the same. So nowadays I then to cherry pick in my questioning of her, both as to the content of the details I want to hear most about - the ones that strike me as most titillating at that precise moment - and also as to the timing of when I want to hear the answer. I always ask the best Q by those metrics when I'm rimming and I want the answer just in time to power my climax inside her.

[Shadnaster]

I love to hear every detail when she gets home. When did she first touch his cock through his pants. Was he hard right away? When did she need his cock in her? Stuff like that. Sometimes hear her telling me is even better than watching. There's things she will tell me that I could never see if I was watching. Like, when she first started to get wet. When did he first start rubbing her pussy. She cums really hard and loud but, she also has a lot of little orgasms too that I might not notice if I was watching. She'll tell me about those too.

[rogerg]

When we first got into the lifestyle I always asked a lot of questions. My wife was more than willing to answer anything I asked and often provided some basic information about how it went, including how many times they fucked and what positions they used. She always wanted me to know that he had cum inside her and that he hadn’t used a condom. Now she only tells me when something wild happened and I know without asking that she had sex multiple times and came home satisfied.

[Tank Turner]

My wife has been on a sport fucking hiatus. I always participated, so I didn't have to ask for detailed. Brad was a different entity. She was best friends with her brother-in-law. When the engaged in sport fucking alone, my wife came home exhausted. She'd often tell me how they fucked each other into comas. I could figure it out without her telling me a thing, but she almost always recounted their activities as though she relived them.

[Wooster]

She's had the same boyfriend for a few years now, so there isn't that much to tell any more. If she's feeling indulgent she'll talk about their sex life to me, but it's fine with me when she doesn't. We talk a lot about their relationship, but the details of their sex life are pretty repetitive, and, tbh, she's not the world's best narrator, so no huge loss.

[bewareoflizzy]

I always loved to hear the details of Liz's trysts with her younger lover, Jim. She would come thru the door at 3 a.m. and still be excited enough to undress, grab the bottle of baby oil, and stroke me like it was a confessional and she couldn't believe she had been so naughty. As their relationship progressed, she would recount how she prepared herself knowing she would be with him that night, how they interacted at work, and how they would make quiet plans to meet at his place when done. How they would relax on his couch, drink wine, smoke pot, and get really horny. Her hands would be all over him and eventually wrapped around his prodigious cock pleasuring him with both her hands and her mouth. Their fuck sessions could go on for hours. Details were essential to my pleasure and excitement.

[Long Lurker 34]

I always loved to hear the details of Liz's trysts with her younger lover, Jim. She would come thru the door at 3 a.m. and still be excited enough to undress, grab the bottle of baby oil, and stroke me like it was a confessional and she couldn't believe she had been so naughty. As their relationship progressed, she would recount how she prepared herself knowing she would be with him that night, how they interacted at work, and how they would make quiet plans to meet at his place when done. How they would relax on his couch, drink wine, smoke pot, and get really horny. Her hands would be all over him and eventually wrapped around his prodigious cock pleasuring him with both her hands and her mouth. Their fuck sessions could go on for hours. Details were essential to my pleasure and excitement.

BL
- I've read a number of your other posts, but i can't recall if you ever mentioned if the other staff at the restaurant knew of Lizzy and Jim 'getting together".

[bewareoflizzy]

I always loved to hear the details of Liz's trysts with her younger lover, Jim. She would come thru the door at 3 a.m. and still be excited enough to undress, grab the bottle of baby oil, and stroke me like it was a confessional and she couldn't believe she had been so naughty. As their relationship progressed, she would recount how she prepared herself knowing she would be with him that night, how they interacted at work, and how they would make quiet plans to meet at his place when done. How they would relax on his couch, drink wine, smoke pot, and get really horny. Her hands would be all over him and eventually wrapped around his prodigious cock pleasuring him with both her hands and her mouth. Their fuck sessions could go on for hours. Details were essential to my pleasure and excitement.

BL
- I've read a number of your other posts, but i can't recall if you ever mentioned if the other staff at the restaurant knew of Lizzy and Jim 'getting together".

Thanks, LL. To my knowledge no one knew what was going on between Liz and Jim, who was 9 years younger. They would chat innocently during their shift but would exchange quiet assurances of meeting later at his apartment. Liz would flirt with the other guys just to distract from any suspicion. Jim would disappear as soon as the kitchen was cleaned-up. He would head home, shower, and set the scene with wine, music, and candles. Liz would enjoy a glass of wine with the other waitresses while checking out and splitting up the tips. They would ask her to stay but she would always beg off and say she had to get home. She would freshen up in the ladies room, sneak out the back door, and drive directly to Jim's place. Their private party would begin about 11:30 or midnight and continue til 3 or 4 in the morning.

One time, her fellow girlfriend waitress suggested a lunch with Jim and another cook, who were all surreptitiously platonic friends. Before their appointed meeting time, Liz went over to Jim's house, soaked naked with him in his hot tub, fucked him on the floor of his finished basement, then went together to the restaurant. She said she couldn't look at him as his cum ran down her legs.

[Tryagain]

Since i am with them every single time they have sex, I "see" all of the details. I know some guys seem to like their wife going solo - god only know why.
But how many details and what they consist of baffles me. Unless something very unusual happened - like there was a fire alarm scare at the hotel while they just started fucking - I mean they had sex. maybe they had anal too. But what the heck else is there to talk about? And it surely must annoy wives to have to juice it up a bit - on occasion only. I mean when i see them having sex, I would be hardpressed to come up with a lot of "details"

Of course, when i read about such detailed accounts of the sex their wife had with another, I cannot help to think this is all made up for our enjoyment but no way is it real.

Does anyone out there feel this way also?