Steel/Daphne Sex Journal

[SteelRidge]

Tonight's the night. Daphne appears to be ready. I'm ready. At least both as can be. The air was cleared with the fb about what's expected as Daphne wants to fuck but she is also still nervous about it. I think once she arrives after the glass of wine it'll get hot and heavy pretty quick.

[afagehi7]

We're all excited for you! Hopefully it's a good experience for you both (and him but mainly you and daphne).

[SteelRidge]

Well she left for her fuck date. A kiss and a pat on the butt and off she goes!

[SteelRidge]

Daphne got back just before midnight. She a had a real fun time. She got there and had a little wine. They started making out on the sofa and before she knew it she was naked and he was fingering her and eating her pussy.

They moved to the massage table and he gave her a massage then started kissing her all over. She roll over in the table and started eating her pussy. Then moved to the end of the table and started grinding.

Eventually they made it to the bed and she got on top and started fucking. He moved her to her back and she said he was pounding her hard. The condom broke and he pulled out and came on her belly.

They rested and he got hard again and they started fucking in different positions. All told he fucked her three times. Then she was getting tired because it was getting late. So they wrapped up and talked some. And she got dressed and came home.

[afagehi7]

Daphne got back just before midnight. She a had a real fun time. She got there and had a little wine. They started making out on the sofa and before she knew it she was naked and he was fingering her and eating her pussy.

They moved to the massage table and he gave her a massage then started kissing her all over. She roll over in the table and started eating her pussy. Then moved to the end of the table and started grinding.

Eventually they made it to the bed and she got on top and started fucking. He moved her to her back and she said he was pounding her hard. The condom broke and he pulled out and came on her belly.

They rested and he got hard again and they started fucking in different positions. All told he fucked her three times. Then she was getting tired because it was getting late. So they wrapped up and talked some. And she got dressed and came home.

I logged in just to see if you posted.

Sounds like it was a great experience! Hopefully you reclaimed her naughty pussy or you do tomorrow (or again tomorrow).

Congratulations on having an official hot wife. If it's not something y'all do again then at least you tried. It should provide fun for years to come. "Remember when we..."

[SteelRidge]

Daphne got back just before midnight. She a had a real fun time. She got there and had a little wine. They started making out on the sofa and before she knew it she was naked and he was fingering her and eating her pussy.

They moved to the massage table and he gave her a massage then started kissing her all over. She roll over in the table and started eating her pussy. Then moved to the end of the table and started grinding.

Eventually they made it to the bed and she got on top and started fucking. He moved her to her back and she said he was pounding her hard. The condom broke and he pulled out and came on her belly.

They rested and he got hard again and they started fucking in different positions. All told he fucked her three times. Then she was getting tired because it was getting late. So they wrapped up and talked some. And she got dressed and came home.

I logged in just to see if you posted.

Sounds like it was a great experience! Hopefully you reclaimed her naughty pussy or you do tomorrow (or again tomorrow).

Congratulations on having an official hot wife. If it's not something y'all do again then at least you tried. It should provide fun for years to come. "Remember when we..."

I can't say for me it was a fun or turn on experience. I did get hard when she was recounting what happened but big whoop I get hard other times without that. The little reclaim sex was not worth it.

I guess I'm happy (not the right word) she had a great experience, but I'm experiencing some jealousy for various reasons.

[36DDwife]

Daphne got back just before midnight. She a had a real fun time. She got there and had a little wine. They started making out on the sofa and before she knew it she was naked and he was fingering her and eating her pussy.

They moved to the massage table and he gave her a massage then started kissing her all over. She roll over in the table and started eating her pussy. Then moved to the end of the table and started grinding.

Eventually they made it to the bed and she got on top and started fucking. He moved her to her back and she said he was pounding her hard. The condom broke and he pulled out and came on her belly.

They rested and he got hard again and they started fucking in different positions. All told he fucked her three times. Then she was getting tired because it was getting late. So they wrapped up and talked some. And she got dressed and came home.

I logged in just to see if you posted.

Sounds like it was a great experience! Hopefully you reclaimed her naughty pussy or you do tomorrow (or again tomorrow).

Congratulations on having an official hot wife. If it's not something y'all do again then at least you tried. It should provide fun for years to come. "Remember when we..."

I can't say for me it was a fun or turn on experience. I did get hard when she was recounting what happened but big whoop I get hard other times without that. The little reclaim sex was worth it.

I guess I'm happy (not the right word) she had a great experience, but I'm experiencing some jealousy for various reasons.

The first time is never perfect & is usually awkward. My view is that if the basics of attraction are there, everybody’s equipment is working properly, & you genuinely like the other person then the chemistry can get better.

[SteelRidge]

Daphne got back just before midnight. She a had a real fun time. She got there and had a little wine. They started making out on the sofa and before she knew it she was naked and he was fingering her and eating her pussy.

They moved to the massage table and he gave her a massage then started kissing her all over. She roll over in the table and started eating her pussy. Then moved to the end of the table and started grinding.

Eventually they made it to the bed and she got on top and started fucking. He moved her to her back and she said he was pounding her hard. The condom broke and he pulled out and came on her belly.

They rested and he got hard again and they started fucking in different positions. All told he fucked her three times. Then she was getting tired because it was getting late. So they wrapped up and talked some. And she got dressed and came home.

I logged in just to see if you posted.

Sounds like it was a great experience! Hopefully you reclaimed her naughty pussy or you do tomorrow (or again tomorrow).

Congratulations on having an official hot wife. If it's not something y'all do again then at least you tried. It should provide fun for years to come. "Remember when we..."

I can't say for me it was a fun or turn on experience. I did get hard when she was recounting what happened but big whoop I get hard other times without that. The little reclaim sex was worth it.

I guess I'm happy (not the right word) she had a great experience, but I'm experiencing some jealousy for various reasons.

The first time is never perfect & is usually awkward. My view is that if the basics of attraction are there, everybody’s equipment is working properly, & you genuinely like the other person then the chemistry can get better.

Sorry the little reclaim sex was NOT worth it. I don't know how I dropped "not" (edited the post to put it in).

For Daphne and this guy, it was just about perfect. I don't feel like there will be any chemistry between me and this guy (call him "A").

[afagehi7]

I think it's first time jitters or whatever you call it. If you try it again and it's not for you then end the play and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Oh wait, you no longer have any say and you have to let her do whatever she wants now because this has become a need of hers and it's wrong to ask her to stop. SMH

Seriously, if it's not for you then don't continue. Let everything marinate for a while. Better to cap it before it goes too long and far and anger and resentment take over and destroy your relationship. If you cap it then you'll never go there again.

[SteelRidge]

I think it's first time jitters or whatever you call it. If you try it again and it's not for you then end the play and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Oh wait, you no longer have any say and you have to let her do whatever she wants now because this has become a need of hers and it's wrong to ask her to stop. SMH

Seriously, if it's not for you then don't continue. Let everything marinate for a while. Better to cap it before it goes too long and far and anger and resentment take over and destroy your relationship. If you cap it then you'll never go there again.

I think both Daphne and I would agree if our marriage suffers, it's not worth it. Definitely going to let it marinate, this is just like the first massage. But honestly I'm getting nothing out of it vicariously so it's more of a concession type of thing in my opinion.

[afagehi7]

I think it's first time jitters or whatever you call it. If you try it again and it's not for you then end the play and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Oh wait, you no longer have any say and you have to let her do whatever she wants now because this has become a need of hers and it's wrong to ask her to stop. SMH

Seriously, if it's not for you then don't continue. Let everything marinate for a while. Better to cap it before it goes too long and far and anger and resentment take over and destroy your relationship. If you cap it then you'll never go there again.

I think both Daphne and I would agree if our marriage suffers, it's not worth it. Definitely going to let it marinate, this is just like the first massage. But honestly I'm getting nothing out of it vicariously so it's more of a concession type of thing in my opinion.

Maybe once the dust settles you'll enjoy reclaiming her while she tells you how naughty she was... even better if you can call her a slut and punish her for being bad. Not sure if she's the type that would get off on that or not. I know my wife sometimes loved it and others didn't like that kind of talk (never a hot wife but she did make out with a friend once and would get hot when I told her she was going to be his slut some night).

Hopefully daphne is giving you some reassurance if you need it. I think I would at least at first

[SteelRidge]

I think it's first time jitters or whatever you call it. If you try it again and it's not for you then end the play and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Oh wait, you no longer have any say and you have to let her do whatever she wants now because this has become a need of hers and it's wrong to ask her to stop. SMH

Seriously, if it's not for you then don't continue. Let everything marinate for a while. Better to cap it before it goes too long and far and anger and resentment take over and destroy your relationship. If you cap it then you'll never go there again.

I think both Daphne and I would agree if our marriage suffers, it's not worth it. Definitely going to let it marinate, this is just like the first massage. But honestly I'm getting nothing out of it vicariously so it's more of a concession type of thing in my opinion.

Maybe once the dust settles you'll enjoy reclaiming her while she tells you how naughty she was... even better if you can call her a slut and punish her for being bad. Not sure if she's the type that would get off on that or not. I know my wife sometimes loved it and others didn't like that kind of talk (never a hot wife but she did make out with a friend once and would get hot when I told her she was going to be his slut some night).

Hopefully daphne is giving you some reassurance if you need it. I think I would at least at first

She might say she's a slut while fucking but she already does that. I'm not sure reclaim sex is going to be that great. I just don't feel that attractive or great or even in the mood for it.

Pretty much everything that I thought would happen, did happen. Oh well, not very exciting in actuality.

[afagehi7]

I think it's first time jitters or whatever you call it. If you try it again and it's not for you then end the play and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Oh wait, you no longer have any say and you have to let her do whatever she wants now because this has become a need of hers and it's wrong to ask her to stop. SMH

Seriously, if it's not for you then don't continue. Let everything marinate for a while. Better to cap it before it goes too long and far and anger and resentment take over and destroy your relationship. If you cap it then you'll never go there again.

I think both Daphne and I would agree if our marriage suffers, it's not worth it. Definitely going to let it marinate, this is just like the first massage. But honestly I'm getting nothing out of it vicariously so it's more of a concession type of thing in my opinion.

Maybe once the dust settles you'll enjoy reclaiming her while she tells you how naughty she was... even better if you can call her a slut and punish her for being bad. Not sure if she's the type that would get off on that or not. I know my wife sometimes loved it and others didn't like that kind of talk (never a hot wife but she did make out with a friend once and would get hot when I told her she was going to be his slut some night).

Hopefully daphne is giving you some reassurance if you need it. I think I would at least at first

She might say she's a slut while fucking but she already does that. I'm not sure reclaim sex is going to be that great. I just don't feel that attractive or great or even in the mood for it.

Pretty much everything that I thought would happen, did happen. Oh well, not very exciting in actuality.

Give it some time amigo. Maybe once the dust settles you'll be happy... or maybe it's just not for you. If it's not for you then it's not. You're a bit down. I think once your mojo is pounding and you give daphne a good dickering your perspective will change. Give it some time before you give the negativity to her. Make sure because we all know stopping and starting is not feasible

[SteelRidge]

I think it's first time jitters or whatever you call it. If you try it again and it's not for you then end the play and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Oh wait, you no longer have any say and you have to let her do whatever she wants now because this has become a need of hers and it's wrong to ask her to stop. SMH

Seriously, if it's not for you then don't continue. Let everything marinate for a while. Better to cap it before it goes too long and far and anger and resentment take over and destroy your relationship. If you cap it then you'll never go there again.

I think both Daphne and I would agree if our marriage suffers, it's not worth it. Definitely going to let it marinate, this is just like the first massage. But honestly I'm getting nothing out of it vicariously so it's more of a concession type of thing in my opinion.

Maybe once the dust settles you'll enjoy reclaiming her while she tells you how naughty she was... even better if you can call her a slut and punish her for being bad. Not sure if she's the type that would get off on that or not. I know my wife sometimes loved it and others didn't like that kind of talk (never a hot wife but she did make out with a friend once and would get hot when I told her she was going to be his slut some night).

Hopefully daphne is giving you some reassurance if you need it. I think I would at least at first

She might say she's a slut while fucking but she already does that. I'm not sure reclaim sex is going to be that great. I just don't feel that attractive or great or even in the mood for it.

Pretty much everything that I thought would happen, did happen. Oh well, not very exciting in actuality.

Eh, my emotions are swinging back and forth.

[afagehi7]

I think both Daphne and I would agree if our marriage suffers, it's not worth it. Definitely going to let it marinate, this is just like the first massage. But honestly I'm getting nothing out of it vicariously so it's more of a concession type of thing in my opinion.

Maybe once the dust settles you'll enjoy reclaiming her while she tells you how naughty she was... even better if you can call her a slut and punish her for being bad. Not sure if she's the type that would get off on that or not. I know my wife sometimes loved it and others didn't like that kind of talk (never a hot wife but she did make out with a friend once and would get hot when I told her she was going to be his slut some night).

Hopefully daphne is giving you some reassurance if you need it. I think I would at least at first

She might say she's a slut while fucking but she already does that. I'm not sure reclaim sex is going to be that great. I just don't feel that attractive or great or even in the mood for it.

Pretty much everything that I thought would happen, did happen. Oh well, not very exciting in actuality.

Eh, my emotions are swinging back and forth.

As should be expected. I don't think you've surprised by the emotional rollercoaster. It's one thing to know about the rollercoaster and another to actually experience it.

[SteelRidge]

Maybe once the dust settles you'll enjoy reclaiming her while she tells you how naughty she was... even better if you can call her a slut and punish her for being bad. Not sure if she's the type that would get off on that or not. I know my wife sometimes loved it and others didn't like that kind of talk (never a hot wife but she did make out with a friend once and would get hot when I told her she was going to be his slut some night).

Hopefully daphne is giving you some reassurance if you need it. I think I would at least at first

She might say she's a slut while fucking but she already does that. I'm not sure reclaim sex is going to be that great. I just don't feel that attractive or great or even in the mood for it.

Pretty much everything that I thought would happen, did happen. Oh well, not very exciting in actuality.

Eh, my emotions are swinging back and forth.

As should be expected. I don't think you've surprised by the emotional rollercoaster. It's one thing to know about the rollercoaster and another to actually experience it.

It didn't help with the multiple dumps today.

[afagehi7]

She might say she's a slut while fucking but she already does that. I'm not sure reclaim sex is going to be that great. I just don't feel that attractive or great or even in the mood for it.

Pretty much everything that I thought would happen, did happen. Oh well, not very exciting in actuality.

Eh, my emotions are swinging back and forth.

As should be expected. I don't think you've surprised by the emotional rollercoaster. It's one thing to know about the rollercoaster and another to actually experience it.

It didn't help with the multiple dumps today.

It's a rollercoaster. It'll go back up in a few days

[SteelRidge]

Feeling a little better this morning even though I haven't much sleep.

I probably shouldn't have planned any meetings with other women the day after Daphne's rendezvous.

I'm sure it's still going to be bumpy, but Daphne and I had some better reclaim sex this morning than the reclaim "sex" we had Friday night. I appreciate her going out with me when my dates fell through, I just wish her talking about Friday could have been put on hold for the time.

Anybody got any opinions on how often a hotwife and fb should text each other?

[36DDwife]

Feeling a little better this morning even though I haven't much sleep.

I probably shouldn't have planned any meetings with other women the day after Daphne's rendezvous.

I'm sure it's still going to be bumpy, but Daphne and I had some better reclaim sex this morning than the reclaim "sex" we had Friday night. I appreciate her going out with me when my dates fell through, I just wish her talking about Friday could have been put on hold for the time.

Anybody got any opinions on how often a hotwife and fb should text each other?

I think the texting should be as much/little as everyone is comfortable with. And all parties should be privy to what’s being said if they choose to be. My $.02

[kinkydetroit]

At this point we are talking NRE, texting will be daily.

[SteelRidge]

At this point we are talking NRE, texting will be daily.

How long should that last about?

[afagehi7]

At this point we are talking NRE, texting will be daily.

How long should that last about?

He nailed it. She's nre hard. Hopefully she understands. I'm not saying not to enjoy it but put it in perspective.

DD saying everyone should be privy is a good idea. You don't have to read real time or at all but you should be included IMHO. How much are they texting?

[SteelRidge]

At this point we are talking NRE, texting will be daily.

How long should that last about?

He nailed it. She's nre hard. Hopefully she understands. I'm not saying not to enjoy it but put it in perspective.

DD saying everyone should be privy is a good idea. You don't have to read real time or at all but you should be included IMHO. How much are they texting?

Everyday, text some in morning, a little during the day than more extensive at night.

They don't appear to be sexting, but I haven't been reading them.

[afagehi7]

At this point we are talking NRE, texting will be daily.

How long should that last about?

He nailed it. She's nre hard. Hopefully she understands. I'm not saying not to enjoy it but put it in perspective.

DD saying everyone should be privy is a good idea. You don't have to read real time or at all but you should be included IMHO. How much are they texting?

Everyday, text some in morning, a little during the day than more extensive at night.

They don't appear to be sexting, but I haven't been reading them.

IMHO it's a bit much for a FB or fwb. I'd give it a couple of days for the dust to settle. If it doesn't slow down by Monday or Tuesday I'd bring it up and mention that it's a bit much given the situation. Surely there's some sexting. They're probably talking about Friday night and about they liked this or that. It should be out of her system in a couple of days. If not I'd intervene lightly and softly. Don't let the nre turn into her thinking she's fallen in love. She's not experienced and may not be able to separate the two.

That is how I would feel but others may disagree. Give her a good pounding in the meantime.

I'll be interested to hear what more experienced nmembers think especially dd.

[SteelRidge]

How long should that last about?

He nailed it. She's nre hard. Hopefully she understands. I'm not saying not to enjoy it but put it in perspective.

DD saying everyone should be privy is a good idea. You don't have to read real time or at all but you should be included IMHO. How much are they texting?

Everyday, text some in morning, a little during the day than more extensive at night.

They don't appear to be sexting, but I haven't been reading them.

IMHO it's a bit much for a FB or fwb. I'd give it a couple of days for the dust to settle. If it doesn't slow down by Monday or Tuesday I'd bring it up and mention that it's a bit much given the situation. Surely there's some sexting. They're probably talking about Friday night and about they liked this or that. It should be out of her system in a couple of days. If not I'd intervene lightly and softly. Don't let the nre turn into her thinking she's fallen in love. She's not experienced and may not be able to separate the two.

That is how I would feel but others may disagree. Give her a good pounding in the meantime.

I'll be interested to hear what more experienced nmembers think especially dd.

I plan on having a conversation with her tonight. She hasn't clearly defined what she wants out of their relationship. She calls it a friends with benefits and he does too. To me that's one step down from lover or boyfriend.