What does a guy have to do to go bareback?

[RetiredSnowbird]

Regardless of whether a man is D/D free or has had a vasectomy, many married women may never want the other guy to go bareback. Otherwise it could result in the woman becoming too emotionally connected to the man. Another man's semen can destabilize an otherwise stable marriage and for that reason some wives just don't want to cross that line

[Farmgirl]

Regardless of whether a man is D/D free or has had a vasectomy, many married women may never want the other guy to go bareback. Otherwise it could result in the woman becoming too emotionally connected to the man. Another man's semen can destabilize an otherwise stable marriage and for that reason some wives just don't want to cross that line

That would have to be a pretty weak marriage, not a good one. The only way a woman can become too emotionally connected to another man is if she doesn't already get her emotional needs from her husband. Women don't leave their husbands because she has another guy's sperm in her, no matter how often. They leave because there is already a failure of emotional connection in the marriage.
If you don't want your wife to leave, make sure you are the husband she wants and needs you to be, not the husband you think you are. BTW, the same goes for wives.

[2inUPMichigan]

Regardless of whether a man is D/D free or has had a vasectomy, many married women may never want the other guy to go bareback. Otherwise it could result in the woman becoming too emotionally connected to the man. Another man's semen can destabilize an otherwise stable marriage and for that reason some wives just don't want to cross that line

My regular FWB is V-safe and tests regularly but I insist on condoms. It has nothing to do with being concerned about emotions. A man's semen is not the magic elixir you seem to think it is.

Hubby and I both felt that condoms were important to us as a safety precaution so I will never change that rule for men that I play with. (Yes it is a rule for them, from us)

Semen disrupting a marriage? Oh jeez! In all seriousness, if a marriage is that shaky that some cum will disrupt it then the couple in question wasn't prepared for this journey and/or shouldn't have done this is the first place.

[OZCPL]

Mine always went BB

[afagehi7]

The other guy is free to wear a condom if he wants but otherwise we are 100% bareback.

I've just fallen deeper in love with Mrs DD

[36DDwife]

The other guy is free to wear a condom if he wants but otherwise we are 100% bareback.

I've just fallen deeper in love with Mrs DD

Ha. Good to know. No sense in sugarcoating it....we just don’t care for condoms. We are selective upfront so if we think there’s a chance that someone has a STD then we won’t play with them. And I like sloppy seconds.

[respectabullinma]

I'll tell you what I do. I earn the trust of a couple. I show that I respect their rules and boundaries, that I don't flake on dates. I share my testing information with that and get multiple tests if they want to establish consistent results. I show them that I can talk about STI risk and what we can do to minimize it and that I understand sexual health and well being. This decision is a big one and it's up to the couple if they want to take that step.

[Minnhotwife]

My wife is meeting her new boyfriend this morning and the last time they didn't use condoms for one of their multiple sessions.

Hope it's the same today and my wife knows I am okay with her going bareback since she uses script BC.

[inherpants]

For me it took a few dates to understand her well, an std report and as we grew emotionally connected wham i was inside here without any protection.

[Anrew]

I haven't had a rubber on my cock for 30 odd years. But then i haven't been anywhere else for 32 years. Apart from 1 time with my best (girl) friend a few yr ago. And that time, she said "it's a long time since anyone's come in me". I do still want her.

[Adabel]

I said OTHER because for them to go bareback with me they have to have a vasectomy and be tested. I couldn't choose both so there you go.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

Well I would have said long term a few months ago, but my wife went bareback immediately with a guy the first time they were together a few months ago. I guess they had been talking about it before he came over, so she was pretty eager.
My wife is a bit too trusting. She goes with verbal assurances that testing was done without verifying it herself. She should be more careful.
We get tested every 6 months, so hopefully everything turns out okay.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

She can't get pregnant so she always goes bareback. She loves a man cumming in her. We love knowing she is holding another mans cum inside her. She sleeps with a smile. I think she thinks she has somehow possessed a piece of his soul. Is that like a succubus?

Shelley has always been the same way too--a special smile and glow after she's been well seeded. I'm sure part of that has to do with the fun and orgasms she had along the way. But taking a man's load...a part of him inside her...seems to put her in a sort of a blissful state not usually present when a guy cums elsewhere.

Some Eastern traditions say a transfer of energies happens in ejaculation. She receives Kundalini energy from him. Maybe there's some truth in those ideas.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

Regardless of whether a man is D/D free or has had a vasectomy, many married women may never want the other guy to go bareback. Otherwise it could result in the woman becoming too emotionally connected to the man. Another man's semen can destabilize an otherwise stable marriage and for that reason some wives just don't want to cross that line

That would have to be a pretty weak marriage, not a good one. The only way a woman can become too emotionally connected to another man is if she doesn't already get her emotional needs from her husband. Women don't leave their husbands because she has another guy's sperm in her, no matter how often. They leave because there is already a failure of emotional connection in the marriage.
If you don't want your wife to leave, make sure you are the husband she wants and needs you to be, not the husband you think you are. BTW, the same goes for wives.

Well stated, Farmgirl. I couldn't agree more. And that said, RetiredSnowbird's statement may be suggesting a belief of some women--not necessarily the truth of the matter.

[Pufferfish]

I said "First use condoms, future dates bareback." Not quite accurate, but close enough. What does he have to do? Simply prove/seem to be honest and trustworthy enough for her to be comfortable to let him cum inside her. Could be the first time, could be the 3rd. If they're married or tested, that certainly helps their cause.

[leo-cpl]

wifes fucked all the 5 guys so far with condoms! (two of them multiple times). However her very first exp (i wasnt in the room) condoms were decided between her n me but she ended up fucking the guy bareback (she was super comfortable with him and he was someone shed known n met many times before it happened). She was super turned on she asked if he wanted to use condoms...he said no...he said he will pull out (which he did)....things were go with the flow!!!! just to be sure she took the after pill.

Since then we have been strict about this....however may change 1-2 guys she likes and shes recently got on the pill for hormonal reasons......feel eventually if she likes someone a lot n hes a regular....if hes ready to get himself tested then she may fuck bareback.....coz she loves fucking bareback...she and i never use condoms....my pull out game is string too lol.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife has to feel comfortable and safe with a lover before she allows him to go bareback.

[Sheli86]

She never asks for a condom. Only if he wants to use one. She gets STD tested four times a year. She loves the cum pumped into her. It’s her fetish.

[LocutusBorg]

I’d love to hear from more people that picked “ Nothing, all guys go bare. No questions asked.”