We're starting very very slowly

[dickhurts472]

i'm really enjoying your journey. i hope it works out, favorably.

please keep posting.

one question; does hubby know you are posting here?

[crystal]

Thanks for support and we hope so at least at the end we’ll say WE DID IT . Yes he knows and he reads. Told me I’m addicted to OHW

[BallSpanking]

Addicted is a little harsh ..., maybe you are just ... feening.

[crystal]

All jokes aside he's my best friend, a great supporter, my biggest comfort, my deepest love, and the best step-dad. So Bill if you read(I'm sure you will) this I love you, darling.

[54321]

All jokes aside he's my best friend, a great supporter, my biggest comfort, my deepest love, and the best step-dad. So Bill if you read(I'm sure you will) this I love you, darling.

Love this!

54321

[leander99]

Take it slow, this is all about exploring and having fun along the way. So make sure you enjoy the ride ;-)

Keep talking and sharing fantasies with your husband. You are doing this the correct way, I'm happy to see a couple here who really get it. You guys haven't even started fully, but you are already a positive example to others here on the forum.

Strong communication is also essential, because somewhere along the way there will be a bit of trouble. But that's part of it, it will make you stronger as a couple. You both seem to in the right headspace, so I don't doubt you'll sail through everything together.

As for the difference between being a "cuckoldress" or a "hotwife", it is a bit artificial. The main difference in my view is that the "cuckoldress" is more in the driving seat, which then turns into the husband sort of 'losing control'. But that's really just a game, like a role play. The 'humiliation' aspect, honestly it's also just a game.

Regardless, you will eventually find your own rithm. Color it anyway you like, and then spice it the way you desire. Whatever label people put on it... it's irrelevant.

That said, from what you write I have the impression that you may indeed be the one leading the charge soon. You do seem to have happily embraced this change in your marriage, and all the possibilities it creates. Nothing wrong with that. Heck, that's amazing! Your husband is a lucky guy.

And you are going to make one incredible hotwife, without doubt.

I hope you and your husband are going to have loads of fun!

[RetiredSnowbird]

It gladdens my heart to hear of your love for your husband

[crystal]

And you are going to make one incredible hotwife, without doubt.

I hope you and your husband are going to have loads of fun!

Thanks for the great support and being so nice

[R_H_NC]

Thanks for support and we hope so at least at the end we’ll say WE DID IT . Yes he knows and he reads. Told me I’m addicted to OHW

I can understand. I read threads which actually effect me physically. Call it my own version HW angst. Albeit not nearly on par with HW husbands real life angst. I swear I will leave for at least a while and will avoid some threads, particularly in the cuck forum. That decision fades very fast and I am back.....

[crystal]

Killing some time at the airport. I’ve been so mean today than even surprise me . My female friend we’re on vacation together decided to let me know how I have to bring up my kids. Usually those comments wouldn’t affect me but today I wake up nervous, higher pulse. Probably I overdose with coffee, probably something else.

[RetiredSnowbird]

I'm finding this to be one of the most exciting upcoming OHW events in a long time. Hopefully your lover will be up to the 'task', but even if he isn't, you and hubby are sure to have an exciting time.

[crystal]

Happy Monday

We're good for tonight -physically and mentally but that's not important

Did I mention I work as a freelance web developer, usually getting projects via one of the freelance portals? I've been working with this guy on several projects for the past 2 years, he's a big flirt(never talks about sex) -50 years old gentleman, throwing compliments all the time and asking to take me out almost every month. I politely turned down all his offers.

This morning I finished the last project for him, he released the payments for it but I noticed the last payment is more than we've agreed and what's been set up into the system; +500. I asked him what for? He said I did an amazing job with the last project and he wanted to show his gratitude, how generous. Of course, he asked me out to dinner. Poor Brian didn't know how to take it first when I told him I'd consider this and need to talk with my husband about it. He couldn't believe I'd consider this

With our new "hobby", it might be fun, it's not like a boss-employee relationship.

What do you think should I go or not?

[Her number1]

Well, it sounds like something Farmgirl would do , so I say go for it!

[CU4A2on1]

I’d say why not? Business is complete so not unethical. (Although if you potentially have future business opportunities it could get weird.

However, here is my advice on the the hotwife relationship management of this since you asked for opinions.

You guys seem really new to this type of lifestyle so maybe look at the dinner as just a flirty “interview” with no plan or desire for a solo hotwife outing. If you find yourself attracted to him, and you can tell he’s trying to sexually approach you, Maybe as you are finishing your after dinner aperitif or dessert you can broach the topic of the arrangement you and your husband have and tell him to think about it and contact you if he would consider being a third. Gather your things, thank him for a lovely evening and out you go. Let him come back to you if interested.

I don’t know your husband or his comfort level yet with hotwifing, but again my guess would be not a good idea to go solo this early for most people.

Remember though, opinions are like assholes, everyone has one!

Good luck.

[respectabullinma]

Going slow is always, ALWAYS the best option as you're starting out. The goal of first experiences is to learn what you like and how you handle this all, together. And part of first experiences are learning how to do a coffee/drinks date. If your husband is game, suggest the two of you go and have a drink with your client to "get to know him". It could be instructive to see how your husband deals with your being flirted with openly in front of him. It's also an opportunity for you to practice the arts of screening, for asking all the questions you want out of a potential partner, and generally getting some practice in. The thing about this lifestyle in reality is that it isn't porn. You're not going to fuck the guy on the restaurant table, you're not going to start doing bareback gangbangs on your first night. So be open to taking a tiny step and keep exploring together! good luck...

[RetiredSnowbird]

Having been freelance myself for quite a number of years, the personal dynamics involved aren't generally the same as if you were officially employed by him. So I say go for it if you want. But the question is...are you interested in fucking him?

[54321]

What do you think should I go or not?

Do you find him attractive? If so, go! If not, no.

54321

[crystal]

Wow thank you so much, 5 yes + 1 from hubby, I think I want to go

@Her number1: Why I'm not surprised

@54321 and @RetiredSnowbird - yes I find him attractive but that doesn't mean anything; I'm not that easy to jump into his bed just because he wants to fuck me pardon, take me out.

@respectabullinma - fucking a guy on a restaurant table, lol, it didn't even cross my mind

[afagehi7]

Wow thank you so much, 5 yes + 1 from hubby, I think I want to go

@Her number1: Why I'm not surprised

@54321 and @RetiredSnowbird - yes I find him attractive but that doesn't mean anything; I'm not that easy to jump into his bed just because he wants to fuck me pardon, take me out.

@respectabullinma - fucking a guy on a restaurant table, lol, it didn't even cross my mind

He seems like a good candidate. Actually, seems nearly perfect. Hopefully he says and does the right things to give you the type of connection you want. I'm envious of your hubby

[crystal]

Wanna hear about our date with Adam, he evolved from Mr.Bar guy to Adam.

[Guhunkadorn]

Do bears shit in the woods?

[rickh57]

Wanna hear about our date with Adam, he evolved from Mr.Bar guy to Adam.

I want to hear how it went!

[crystal]

Do bears shit in the woods?

Bill watched me trying outfit after outfit not able to choose what to wear and said he's not going to care what I'm wearing. But I did. It felt strange getting ready to go on date with my husband and another guy. But when he said I'm hot I was confident enough to go out on that date.

We met him for drinks, grilled him like he's on a job interview. He's for 2 weeks in the town, running the branch operations for the company he works for. More about him: my age, super cute and super fit, never married, he had some experience with hotwife couples but way more experienced than us. Not looking for emotional involvement that's why he's not dating single girls. Only sex, pure and simple.

Ok, following me. After Adam went to the restroom, we had our conversation and decided we're good to go with him. I kissed him in the elevator, I could see lust and jealousy in hubby's eyes - that's good.

By the way, Adam lives in a nice condo with a spectacular view of the city; On the couch, Adam and Bill kissed my neck, I was on fire and said to Adam to take me to his bedroom. Me in front of them, Adam's hand on my ass guiding me to his bedroom. Adam in front of me and Bill behind me. Adam reached down and pulled my dress off, left me in only my black lace thong and push-up bra. Adam was so hard I could feel when he pressed his hips against mine, Bill getting undressed. We're kissing again. When Adam stepped back to get undressed I sat down and took hubby's cock, all the way down(never did that before). Adam came closer and I went back and forth between them, stroking and sucking for a while. It felt so natural, Adam pushed on the bed and went down for me and Bill watched us while he's licking and fingering me - first O. Then the words just came out from my mouth " I NEED TO GET FUCKED", never said that the other man including hubby. Bill could see everything. I pushed Adam on his back, I love to ride and it gave perfect POV for hubby. Bill came close so I could suck him while fucking Adam. He fucked me hard and I came again, Bill did the same in my mouth.

Adam flipped me on my back, spread my legs; Bill lay down to my side and kissed me until Adam cummed into the condom. We laid down

It was amazing, the most intense and satisfying sexual experience I'd ever had. It felt more like I had used them. I feel so powerful

[rickh57]

It was amazing, the most intense and satisfying sexual experience I'd ever had. It felt more like I had used them. I feel so powerful

Sounds like such a great encounter!

[crystal]

It was amazing, the most intense and satisfying sexual experience I'd ever had. It felt more like I had used them. I feel so powerful

Sounds like such a great encounter!

Thanks, rickh57

I'd never experienced anything quite like that in my life. It's amazing but also it raised questions, thoughts, and feelings. Even with the husband's permission, sexual infidelity is sexual infidelity. Shame and guilt, feel like something had died.

Sorry guys, it wasn't my intention to overflow you with my feelings

Thank god hubby has been so supportive telling me I shouldn't feel that way and something really did die that night, the lie we wanted a monogamous relationship and the longer you tried the more unhappy you became.

What I'm gonna do without you Bill, Love you!