Steel/Daphne Sex Journal

[36DDwife]

I'll give this profile a couple more days but so far not even one hit.

I signed up for Our Time but for some reason it will not take my debit card info and I can't do much on the site until I pay up.

My interest in this is dwindling quickly. I'm not sure how guys even meet women as I've never been good at it. Once the initial jitters are off I seem pretty good company. I thought maybe the websites would help out but apparently not. We'll see what happens with Our Time.

I’m telling ya....do the “I’m an ex-con on parole” routine. Women are always hooking up with bad boys because they think they can change them.

[SteelRidge]

I'll give this profile a couple more days but so far not even one hit.

I signed up for Our Time but for some reason it will not take my debit card info and I can't do much on the site until I pay up.

My interest in this is dwindling quickly. I'm not sure how guys even meet women as I've never been good at it. Once the initial jitters are off I seem pretty good company. I thought maybe the websites would help out but apparently not. We'll see what happens with Our Time.

I’m telling ya....do the “I’m an ex-con on parole” routine. Women are always hooking up with bad boys because they think they can change them.

I think I have my next profile.

I'm finally out of the big house and back on the market. I've been somebody's prison bitch for five years and now it's time for you to be my bitch.

[afagehi7]

I'll give this profile a couple more days but so far not even one hit.

I signed up for Our Time but for some reason it will not take my debit card info and I can't do much on the site until I pay up.

My interest in this is dwindling quickly. I'm not sure how guys even meet women as I've never been good at it. Once the initial jitters are off I seem pretty good company. I thought maybe the websites would help out but apparently not. We'll see what happens with Our Time.

I think if you were single and looking for a potential relationship you would have better success. Women looking for a fling have their pick of dick. They can certainly screw guys way out of their league for a fling.

[SteelRidge]

I'll give this profile a couple more days but so far not even one hit.

I signed up for Our Time but for some reason it will not take my debit card info and I can't do much on the site until I pay up.

My interest in this is dwindling quickly. I'm not sure how guys even meet women as I've never been good at it. Once the initial jitters are off I seem pretty good company. I thought maybe the websites would help out but apparently not. We'll see what happens with Our Time.

I think if you were single and looking for a potential relationship you would have better success. Women looking for a fling have their pick of dick. They can certainly screw guys way out of their league for a fling.

I don't think so. I'm not saying I'm married. At least on Tinder no success even when they should think I'm single. I think most women would risk a pump and dump with a good looking guy rather than pick somebody not so good looking but maybe a good provider. If I'm average looking probably only 1 in 10 women would even look at me.

[afagehi7]

I'll give this profile a couple more days but so far not even one hit.

I signed up for Our Time but for some reason it will not take my debit card info and I can't do much on the site until I pay up.

My interest in this is dwindling quickly. I'm not sure how guys even meet women as I've never been good at it. Once the initial jitters are off I seem pretty good company. I thought maybe the websites would help out but apparently not. We'll see what happens with Our Time.

I think if you were single and looking for a potential relationship you would have better success. Women looking for a fling have their pick of dick. They can certainly screw guys way out of their league for a fling.

I don't think so. I'm not saying I'm married. At least on Tinder no success even when they should think I'm single. I think most women would risk a pump and dump with a good looking guy rather than pick somebody not so good looking but maybe a good provider. If I'm average looking probably only 1 in 10 women would even look at me.

You're selling yourself short. If you were looking for a relationship you'd do better. You'd write your profile different.

Lots of single women are interested in a decent guy for a relationship

[SteelRidge]

I'll give this profile a couple more days but so far not even one hit.

I signed up for Our Time but for some reason it will not take my debit card info and I can't do much on the site until I pay up.

My interest in this is dwindling quickly. I'm not sure how guys even meet women as I've never been good at it. Once the initial jitters are off I seem pretty good company. I thought maybe the websites would help out but apparently not. We'll see what happens with Our Time.

I think if you were single and looking for a potential relationship you would have better success. Women looking for a fling have their pick of dick. They can certainly screw guys way out of their league for a fling.

I don't think so. I'm not saying I'm married. At least on Tinder no success even when they should think I'm single. I think most women would risk a pump and dump with a good looking guy rather than pick somebody not so good looking but maybe a good provider. If I'm average looking probably only 1 in 10 women would even look at me.

You're selling yourself short. If you were looking for a relationship you'd do better. You'd write your profile different.

Lots of single women are interested in a decent guy for a relationship

I did put the profile up where I said I was interested in a LTR. I got about 8 likes in a week with three text "conversations". Out of the three only one agreed to meet before standing me up at a restaurant.

You gave me a link to that TikTok guy and I'm sure his numbers are right. The bottom 50% of guys only have access for 4% of the women. This is all on Tinder so maybe Our Time will be different.

[afagehi7]

I think if you were single and looking for a potential relationship you would have better success. Women looking for a fling have their pick of dick. They can certainly screw guys way out of their league for a fling.

I don't think so. I'm not saying I'm married. At least on Tinder no success even when they should think I'm single. I think most women would risk a pump and dump with a good looking guy rather than pick somebody not so good looking but maybe a good provider. If I'm average looking probably only 1 in 10 women would even look at me.

You're selling yourself short. If you were looking for a relationship you'd do better. You'd write your profile different.

Lots of single women are interested in a decent guy for a relationship

I did put the profile up where I said I was interested in a LTR. I got about 8 likes in a week with three text "conversations". Out of the three only one agreed to meet before standing me up at a restaurant.

You gave me a link to that TikTok guy and I'm sure his numbers are right. The bottom 50% of guys only have access for 4% of the women. This is all on Tinder so maybe Our Time will be different.

I don't think tinder is for our age. It doesn't make sense. You're not a bad looking guy so it's all about finding the right market.

[SteelRidge]

I don't think so. I'm not saying I'm married. At least on Tinder no success even when they should think I'm single. I think most women would risk a pump and dump with a good looking guy rather than pick somebody not so good looking but maybe a good provider. If I'm average looking probably only 1 in 10 women would even look at me.

You're selling yourself short. If you were looking for a relationship you'd do better. You'd write your profile different.

Lots of single women are interested in a decent guy for a relationship

I did put the profile up where I said I was interested in a LTR. I got about 8 likes in a week with three text "conversations". Out of the three only one agreed to meet before standing me up at a restaurant.

You gave me a link to that TikTok guy and I'm sure his numbers are right. The bottom 50% of guys only have access for 4% of the women. This is all on Tinder so maybe Our Time will be different.

I don't think tinder is for our age. It doesn't make sense. You're not a bad looking guy so it's all about finding the right market.

I'm going to try the Our Time site. Unfortunately I'm getting far afield from a hook up.

Regarding the looks side of it. Literally the majority of women only go for the 10s. If your a woman who is a 5 and can get a date with a 10, you'll do that. You get hit with 20 or 30 likes a day so you can afford to be extremely picky. You know most guys regardless of looks are wanting pussy so your know your rolling the dice on finding a decent guy no matter who you pick.

It's not a complaint so much as an observation.

[afagehi7]

You're selling yourself short. If you were looking for a relationship you'd do better. You'd write your profile different.

Lots of single women are interested in a decent guy for a relationship

I did put the profile up where I said I was interested in a LTR. I got about 8 likes in a week with three text "conversations". Out of the three only one agreed to meet before standing me up at a restaurant.

You gave me a link to that TikTok guy and I'm sure his numbers are right. The bottom 50% of guys only have access for 4% of the women. This is all on Tinder so maybe Our Time will be different.

I don't think tinder is for our age. It doesn't make sense. You're not a bad looking guy so it's all about finding the right market.

I'm going to try the Our Time site. Unfortunately I'm getting far afield from a hook up.

Regarding the looks side of it. Literally the majority of women only go for the 10s. If your a woman who is a 5 and can get a date with a 10, you'll do that. You get hit with 20 or 30 likes a day so you can afford to be extremely picky. You know most guys regardless of looks are wanting pussy so your know your rolling the dice on finding a decent guy no matter who you pick.

It's not a complaint so much as an observation.

Like I was saying, for sex women can trade up. She is a 4 and she can easily find an 8 to fuck her... But that 8 won't be interested in anything more than her pussy. If she wants someone to care about her and be with her she'll have to date in her league. So, you could get the woman looking to be more than a pussy.

You must be in the wrong venue. Also, this fictional woman to whom we refer, well she may have to fuck a few 8s before she figures it out. By then maybe she gives up at the online dating thinking that all men are pigs instead of dating in her league. A woman who wanted a good relationship would be wise to skip over the hot guys, ignore them, and go for someone in their league. But, that would be difficult to come to terms with your actual attractiveness level and resist the hot guy who is saying all the right things. Same for men, a beautiful woman is interested in us and telling us how she loves our type and thinks we are super hot would be hard to resist. Then, she asks us for money. How many guys think strippers actually like them.

It's all a hard pill to swallow. It's just based on my general observation and sketchy understanding of human nature.

[SteelRidge]

I did put the profile up where I said I was interested in a LTR. I got about 8 likes in a week with three text "conversations". Out of the three only one agreed to meet before standing me up at a restaurant.

You gave me a link to that TikTok guy and I'm sure his numbers are right. The bottom 50% of guys only have access for 4% of the women. This is all on Tinder so maybe Our Time will be different.

I don't think tinder is for our age. It doesn't make sense. You're not a bad looking guy so it's all about finding the right market.

I'm going to try the Our Time site. Unfortunately I'm getting far afield from a hook up.

Regarding the looks side of it. Literally the majority of women only go for the 10s. If your a woman who is a 5 and can get a date with a 10, you'll do that. You get hit with 20 or 30 likes a day so you can afford to be extremely picky. You know most guys regardless of looks are wanting pussy so your know your rolling the dice on finding a decent guy no matter who you pick.

It's not a complaint so much as an observation.

Like I was saying, for sex women can trade up. She is a 4 and she can easily find an 8 to fuck her... But that 8 won't be interested in anything more than her pussy. If she wants someone to care about her and be with her she'll have to date in her league. So, you could get the woman looking to be more than a pussy.

You must be in the wrong venue. Also, this fictional woman to whom we refer, well she may have to fuck a few 8s before she figures it out. By then maybe she gives up at the online dating thinking that all men are pigs instead of dating in her league. A woman who wanted a good relationship would be wise to skip over the hot guys, ignore them, and go for someone in their league. But, that would be difficult to come to terms with your actual attractiveness level and resist the hot guy who is saying all the right things. Same for men, a beautiful woman is interested in us and telling us how she loves our type and thinks we are super hot would be hard to resist. Then, she asks us for money. How many guys think strippers actually like them.

It's all a hard pill to swallow. It's just based on my general observation and sketchy understanding of human nature.

All I can tell you is my experience. As a married guy my success has been zero (outside of paying for it). As a single guy my success has been zero. And I've "liked" a large variety of women in the looks department. It looks like I have the attractiveness level to attract up to 5s and maybe 6s for short message conversations and that's about it.

Tinder really seems to be a dumpster so I'm not giving up yet. Seems like Our Time is declining my debit card and I think they are doing that because I'm not picking their six month subscriber option ($120) but rather their one month only option. So it's already starting of scammy like.

[36DDwife]

I did put the profile up where I said I was interested in a LTR. I got about 8 likes in a week with three text "conversations". Out of the three only one agreed to meet before standing me up at a restaurant.

You gave me a link to that TikTok guy and I'm sure his numbers are right. The bottom 50% of guys only have access for 4% of the women. This is all on Tinder so maybe Our Time will be different.

I don't think tinder is for our age. It doesn't make sense. You're not a bad looking guy so it's all about finding the right market.

I'm going to try the Our Time site. Unfortunately I'm getting far afield from a hook up.

Regarding the looks side of it. Literally the majority of women only go for the 10s. If your a woman who is a 5 and can get a date with a 10, you'll do that. You get hit with 20 or 30 likes a day so you can afford to be extremely picky. You know most guys regardless of looks are wanting pussy so your know your rolling the dice on finding a decent guy no matter who you pick.

It's not a complaint so much as an observation.

Like I was saying, for sex women can trade up. She is a 4 and she can easily find an 8 to fuck her... But that 8 won't be interested in anything more than her pussy. If she wants someone to care about her and be with her she'll have to date in her league. So, you could get the woman looking to be more than a pussy.

You must be in the wrong venue. Also, this fictional woman to whom we refer, well she may have to fuck a few 8s before she figures it out. By then maybe she gives up at the online dating thinking that all men are pigs instead of dating in her league. A woman who wanted a good relationship would be wise to skip over the hot guys, ignore them, and go for someone in their league. But, that would be difficult to come to terms with your actual attractiveness level and resist the hot guy who is saying all the right things. Same for men, a beautiful woman is interested in us and telling us how she loves our type and thinks we are super hot would be hard to resist. Then, she asks us for money. How many guys think strippers actually like them.

It's all a hard pill to swallow. It's just based on my general observation and sketchy understanding of human nature.

Ummm. More than you think. Many men think with their dick. And a dick is a dumb thing. It has one eye that can’t see, hangs around with two nuts, and lives around the corner from an asshole.

[afagehi7]

I don't think tinder is for our age. It doesn't make sense. You're not a bad looking guy so it's all about finding the right market.

I'm going to try the Our Time site. Unfortunately I'm getting far afield from a hook up.

Regarding the looks side of it. Literally the majority of women only go for the 10s. If your a woman who is a 5 and can get a date with a 10, you'll do that. You get hit with 20 or 30 likes a day so you can afford to be extremely picky. You know most guys regardless of looks are wanting pussy so your know your rolling the dice on finding a decent guy no matter who you pick.

It's not a complaint so much as an observation.

Like I was saying, for sex women can trade up. She is a 4 and she can easily find an 8 to fuck her... But that 8 won't be interested in anything more than her pussy. If she wants someone to care about her and be with her she'll have to date in her league. So, you could get the woman looking to be more than a pussy.

You must be in the wrong venue. Also, this fictional woman to whom we refer, well she may have to fuck a few 8s before she figures it out. By then maybe she gives up at the online dating thinking that all men are pigs instead of dating in her league. A woman who wanted a good relationship would be wise to skip over the hot guys, ignore them, and go for someone in their league. But, that would be difficult to come to terms with your actual attractiveness level and resist the hot guy who is saying all the right things. Same for men, a beautiful woman is interested in us and telling us how she loves our type and thinks we are super hot would be hard to resist. Then, she asks us for money. How many guys think strippers actually like them.

It's all a hard pill to swallow. It's just based on my general observation and sketchy understanding of human nature.

All I can tell you is my experience. As a married guy my success has been zero (outside of paying for it). As a single guy my success has been zero. And I've "liked" a large variety of women in the looks department. It looks like I have the attractiveness level to attract up to 5s and maybe 6s for short message conversations and that's about it.

Tinder really seems to be a dumpster so I'm not giving up yet. Seems like Our Time is declining my debit card and I think they are doing that because I'm not picking their six month subscriber option ($120) but rather their one month only option. So it's already starting of scammy like.

Just a piece of cyber advice, never use the debit card. Use a credit card.

If it gets stolen sure you'll get your money back but you're account will be drained while they investigate.

[SteelRidge]

I'm going to try the Our Time site. Unfortunately I'm getting far afield from a hook up.

Regarding the looks side of it. Literally the majority of women only go for the 10s. If your a woman who is a 5 and can get a date with a 10, you'll do that. You get hit with 20 or 30 likes a day so you can afford to be extremely picky. You know most guys regardless of looks are wanting pussy so your know your rolling the dice on finding a decent guy no matter who you pick.

It's not a complaint so much as an observation.

Like I was saying, for sex women can trade up. She is a 4 and she can easily find an 8 to fuck her... But that 8 won't be interested in anything more than her pussy. If she wants someone to care about her and be with her she'll have to date in her league. So, you could get the woman looking to be more than a pussy.

You must be in the wrong venue. Also, this fictional woman to whom we refer, well she may have to fuck a few 8s before she figures it out. By then maybe she gives up at the online dating thinking that all men are pigs instead of dating in her league. A woman who wanted a good relationship would be wise to skip over the hot guys, ignore them, and go for someone in their league. But, that would be difficult to come to terms with your actual attractiveness level and resist the hot guy who is saying all the right things. Same for men, a beautiful woman is interested in us and telling us how she loves our type and thinks we are super hot would be hard to resist. Then, she asks us for money. How many guys think strippers actually like them.

It's all a hard pill to swallow. It's just based on my general observation and sketchy understanding of human nature.

All I can tell you is my experience. As a married guy my success has been zero (outside of paying for it). As a single guy my success has been zero. And I've "liked" a large variety of women in the looks department. It looks like I have the attractiveness level to attract up to 5s and maybe 6s for short message conversations and that's about it.

Tinder really seems to be a dumpster so I'm not giving up yet. Seems like Our Time is declining my debit card and I think they are doing that because I'm not picking their six month subscriber option ($120) but rather their one month only option. So it's already starting of scammy like.

Just a piece of cyber advice, never use the debit card. Use a credit card.

If it gets stolen sure you'll get your money back but you're account will be drained while they investigate.

It didn't take take my credit card either. Oh well, guess I'll never experience the joys of finding desirable women on Our Time.

[afagehi7]

Like I was saying, for sex women can trade up. She is a 4 and she can easily find an 8 to fuck her... But that 8 won't be interested in anything more than her pussy. If she wants someone to care about her and be with her she'll have to date in her league. So, you could get the woman looking to be more than a pussy.

You must be in the wrong venue. Also, this fictional woman to whom we refer, well she may have to fuck a few 8s before she figures it out. By then maybe she gives up at the online dating thinking that all men are pigs instead of dating in her league. A woman who wanted a good relationship would be wise to skip over the hot guys, ignore them, and go for someone in their league. But, that would be difficult to come to terms with your actual attractiveness level and resist the hot guy who is saying all the right things. Same for men, a beautiful woman is interested in us and telling us how she loves our type and thinks we are super hot would be hard to resist. Then, she asks us for money. How many guys think strippers actually like them.

It's all a hard pill to swallow. It's just based on my general observation and sketchy understanding of human nature.

All I can tell you is my experience. As a married guy my success has been zero (outside of paying for it). As a single guy my success has been zero. And I've "liked" a large variety of women in the looks department. It looks like I have the attractiveness level to attract up to 5s and maybe 6s for short message conversations and that's about it.

Tinder really seems to be a dumpster so I'm not giving up yet. Seems like Our Time is declining my debit card and I think they are doing that because I'm not picking their six month subscriber option ($120) but rather their one month only option. So it's already starting of scammy like.

Just a piece of cyber advice, never use the debit card. Use a credit card.

If it gets stolen sure you'll get your money back but you're account will be drained while they investigate.

It didn't take take my credit card either. Oh well, guess I'll never experience the joys of finding desirable women on Our Time.

Very strange. Can't you look around for free? If there even anyone in there? Many sites are more popular in different regions.

I think you'd have a good chance with single moms looking for stability.

Women have confounded men since the dawn of time

[SteelRidge]

Very strange. Can't you look around for free? If there even anyone in there? Many sites are more popular in different regions.

I think you'd have a good chance with single moms looking for stability.

Women have confounded men since the dawn of time

For free I can look and like but I can't see any responses or chat, so it's basically useless. I'm not sure why my cards are being declined.

Single moms? Not interested in raising another kid. M was in the right spot though. 34 and 2 kids in high school.

Probably the absolute best shot at another woman is to go to a big mega church. There are divorced or widowed women there and I'd be new meat. But that's way different then just getting a hook up. Outside of swinging/swapping I have no shot at pussy.

[afagehi7]

Very strange. Can't you look around for free? If there even anyone in there? Many sites are more popular in different regions.

I think you'd have a good chance with single moms looking for stability.

Women have confounded men since the dawn of time

For free I can look and like but I can't see any responses or chat, so it's basically useless. I'm not sure why my cards are being declined.

Single moms? Not interested in raising another kid. M was in the right spot though. 34 and 2 kids in high school.

Probably the absolute best shot at another woman is to go to a big mega church. There are divorced or widowed women there and I'd be new meat. But that's way different then just getting a hook up. Outside of swinging/swapping I have no shot at pussy.

I'm guessing that you are doing something wrong. Maybe there's a button or something you're missing. It's probably a poor design on their part.

I think swinging is a great avenue for you and Daphne. I think it fits y'all well... Unless she doesn't want you with another woman

[SteelRidge]

Very strange. Can't you look around for free? If there even anyone in there? Many sites are more popular in different regions.

I think you'd have a good chance with single moms looking for stability.

Women have confounded men since the dawn of time

For free I can look and like but I can't see any responses or chat, so it's basically useless. I'm not sure why my cards are being declined.

Single moms? Not interested in raising another kid. M was in the right spot though. 34 and 2 kids in high school.

Probably the absolute best shot at another woman is to go to a big mega church. There are divorced or widowed women there and I'd be new meat. But that's way different then just getting a hook up. Outside of swinging/swapping I have no shot at pussy.

I'm guessing that you are doing something wrong. Maybe there's a button or something you're missing. It's probably a poor design on their part.

I think swinging is a great avenue for you and Daphne. I think it fits y'all well... Unless she doesn't want you with another woman

I kinda think she wants me to get a woman. She says stuff about finding me one.

[SteelRidge]

Match seems a more active than Tinder. But it's truly a dating/relationship site and I'm not willing to string along some woman looking for a mate just to get some pussy.

Hopefully I can find one more into a casual/friendly deal but I doubt it.

[afagehi7]

Match seems a more active than Tinder. But it's truly a dating/relationship site and I'm not willing to string along some woman looking for a mate just to get some pussy.

Hopefully I can find one more into a casual/friendly deal but I doubt it.

Some of us have morals and know it's not fair to use her for her pussy. Unfortunately it's likely another guy will. Can't compete with a smooth operator who will say anything and lie and not feel bad about it.

[SteelRidge]

Match seems a more active than Tinder. But it's truly a dating/relationship site and I'm not willing to string along some woman looking for a mate just to get some pussy.

Hopefully I can find one more into a casual/friendly deal but I doubt it.

Some of us have morals and know it's not fair to use her for her pussy. Unfortunately it's likely another guy will. Can't compete with a smooth operator who will say anything and lie and not feel bad about it.

I'm not all virtuous, I'd probably lie if it could get me some on the first date. Just don't think that will happen.

[afagehi7]

Match seems a more active than Tinder. But it's truly a dating/relationship site and I'm not willing to string along some woman looking for a mate just to get some pussy.

Hopefully I can find one more into a casual/friendly deal but I doubt it.

Some of us have morals and know it's not fair to use her for her pussy. Unfortunately it's likely another guy will. Can't compete with a smooth operator who will say anything and lie and not feel bad about it.

I'm not all virtuous, I'd probably lie if it could get me some on the first date. Just don't think that will happen.

We're not the kind of guys that would get pussy on the first date.

[SteelRidge]

At this point I'm completely over the desire to have sex with another woman. Not that I wouldn't do it if some chick threw herself at me, but that will never happen and I don't have any desire to go looking.

MGTOW

[Gerrymander321]

Would love to hear how things with your wife are going? Has she gone cock crazy?
Does she have a regular boyfriend

[SteelRidge]

Would love to hear how things with your wife are going? Has she gone cock crazy?
Does she have a regular boyfriend

Not cock crazy and no regular boyfriend. So far it's been a one shot deal though she wants a repeat.

I don't get much out of it and my efforts to find a woman for me have been disastrous to my ego. Our little adventure here is coming to an end unless she is really insistent on fucking other guys.

[afagehi7]

Would love to hear how things with your wife are going? Has she gone cock crazy?
Does she have a regular boyfriend

Not cock crazy and no regular boyfriend. So far it's been a one shot deal though she wants a repeat.

I don't get much out of it and my efforts to find a woman for me have been disastrous to my ego. Our little adventure here is coming to an end unless she is really insistent on fucking other guys.

Become swingers!