My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[rascalnvixen]

Des,

Welcome back!!!! I'm glad to hear that your trip was very worthwhile in a number of aspects. But unfortunately, I don't have time to read your entire report on everything right now but I WILL read every word later this evening when I have time. And don't take this comment as insinuating this latest posting is too long, it is NOT!! It's just me saying that I don't have time to read anything but I am taking time to welcome you back home!!!!

More to follow tonight, I'm sure!

Rascal

[brudan13]

So glad to see you are back home and Gigi had as much fun as she did.

[brudan13]

So glad to see you are back home and Gigi had as much fun as she did.

[anonymister1948]

WOW! What a great write-up. So glad things went well. You're right about Indonesia being a well-developed country. In my travels, I've found many countries which I formerly thought were "third world" to be anything but. Brazil comes to mind. Sure there are slums in Rio and backwater towns in, um, the backwaters of the Amazon, but their developed areas are every bit as nice as ours. Similarly, living in Panamá where there are slums AND areas of insanely well-developed infrastructure.

It's a tribute to Gigi the amount of detail she remembered and conveyed to make her adventures a great time for both of you. She should come by here more often if no other reason than to tell us a joke!

[rascalnvixen]

Speaking of the song by the Hollies, Long Cool Woman ... Released in April 1972. (about 15 years before Gigi was born)

Saturday night I was downtown
Working for the FBI
Sitting in a nest of bad men
Whiskey bottles piling high

Bootlegging boozer on the west side
Full of people who are doing wrong
Just about to call up the D.A. man
When I heard this woman singing a song

A pair of forty fives made me open my eyes
My temperature started to rise

She was a long cool woman in a black dress
Just a 5'9" beautiful 'n' tall
Just one look I was a bad mess
'Cause that long cool woman had it all

I saw her heading to the table
Well, a tall walking big black cat
Charlie said, I hope that you're able, boy
'Cause I'm telling you she knows where it's at

Well, suddenly we hear the sirens
And everybody started to run
Jumping under doors and tables
Well, I heard somebody shooting a gun

Well, the D.A. was pumping my left hand
She was holding my right
Well, I told her, don't get scared
'Cause you're gonna be spared
I've gotta be forgiven if I wanna spend my living

With a long cool woman in a black dress
Just a 5'9" beautiful 'n' tall
Well with just one look I was a bad mess
'Cause that long cool woman had it all
Had it all, had it all, had it all
Had it all, had it all, had it all (she had it all)

See/listen to the song here: (remove 3 spaces in the url)
https:// www. you tube.com/watch?v=I0fcb5T1pcM

More info about the song at: https:// en.wiki pedia.org/wiki/Long_Cool_Wo man_in_a_Black_Dress

Just in case some of you haven't already look it up.

Rascal

[Des 31]

This morning, our ordinary table talk reminded me of questions I occasionally get from some OHW members about what our daily lives and discussions are like. If your wife isn’t a hotwife, it isn’t like yours. It’s like this.

After a few minutes of conversation at breakfast this morning, I grinned and told Gigi, “The nature of our talks has changed a lot since you and I were monogamous.” She chuckled and said, “I don’t think that part of our lives will ever again be the same as then.”

I had been asking some follow-up questions that had later occurred to me about her few days away with Rob. I mentioned to her that I enjoy her insights into other men and women. I often think she recognizes more about others than they know about themselves.

She said, “Our experiences have taught me a lot. Sex is much more complicated than I once thought. Most men don’t realize what they want from it, and it’s almost always different with each man.” Over the past six and a half years, Gigi has learned to detect what most men want in sex and gives it to them. That isn’t some sort of effort. She enjoys it just as much as they and it’s even better if the men are fully into fucking her. What turns on her young friend Beau is different from that of her boss; and like others she has known, Rob’s personality and needs are different from either.

I had questioned if going without a shower for three days and two nights when camping with Rob was a problem. She reminded me of those old Tarzan and Jane reruns she once watched on local TV when living at home. Their baths were in the river alongside their jungle hut. I think I have only ever seen one Tarzan movie, but she told me of a couple of the old films’ plots. Tarzan and Jane had a son. He came into the family when a plane flying a family to Cape Town crashed in the jungle. Only the couple’s son survived. Tarzan and Jane adopted him as their son.

Although the jungle family’s bathing together wasn’t in any movie, Tarzan swam for baths in the river alongside their hut. It occurred to Gigi the three of them would have been swimming naked and added, “Sort of like when Beau still lived at home. He and his parents swam naked in the lake behind their home.” Gigi had joined them naked when visiting her parents. She grinned and said, “So Rob and I swam in the river to clean up after sex.”

I asked if she thought Beau’s family’s home nudism might have something to do with his desire to imagine my wife as his second mother. The implication I imagined was Beau's potentially hidden incestuous desire. Gigi looked at me curiously that had even occurred to me. She said there’s no way anyone in his family would consider sex with another but thinks that desire isn’t uncommon. When she was in her old high school’s FLAG club, one of the girls admitted a sexual attraction to her father. And, she said, it’s well known that many women are attracted to, and marry, men who remind them of their fathers.

“So,” she went on, “your assumption could be true. But my impression is that it’s more of an occasional submissive nature that comes about in his mind at times. He likes strong women like his fiancée Sherry. It’s clear he also looks at me that way, and most men are submissive to their moms.” She smiled and said, “But I like that too. I give him what he wants whenever he wants it.”

I had a few more questions about her and Rob’s trip, but we needed to get dressed and leave for church. Her adult Sunday school class’ moderator is out of town this week and she was asked to fill in for him at the morning’s class.

She told a bit more as we were on our way home. When she and Rob were having heated sex in their tent the previous Sunday morning, she cried out his dick was so hot it could light their morning campfire. He was fucking her hard and his eyes were opened wide. Her comment enhanced his excitation and he was cumming way too quickly. “But that’s okay,” she said. “He made up for it later that day.” I laughed at that and responded that I’m sure I will never get every single detail, no matter how elaborately she crafts her sexual experiences. She giggled and said, “Like I told you, sex is complicated. A lot happens when people are fucking. No one can remember ever single thing said or done.”

I told her I like these talks and have no desire to return to the sorts of conversations from the days when it was just the two of us. She smiled and said, “I have long recognized that about you.”

It’s times like these when I most realize she and I live in an entirely different reality from others we know. What my wife calls the “normal married people” cannot imagine, aside from the sex, what our daily lives are like.

She said, “Enough talking already,” and pulled from her purse a DVD Rob had given her. She inserted it into my car’s player. On the rest of our way home, we listened to Willie Nelson singing, “Roll me up and smoke me when I die.” I can’t be sure but suspect a songwriter must have smoked at least a few joints to come up with lyrics like that.

* * * * *

Couple of updates: Gigi’s boss didn’t have sex with her while I was away. He said he would feel guilty if he fucked her while I was out of town. As an alternative, Gigi gave him oral sex in her office on one afternoon after the bank closed. He and his wife Mary phoned us last night and reminded us his and my wife’s “fourth anniversary” is coming up July 1; that date was the first time they had sex back then. Mary had suggested what we thought if her husband and my wife took a couple of days together somewhere to celebrate. He said Gigi could pick the hotel. His wife and I will stay together those days at their home. The bank and my office will be closed Monday for the July 4 holiday, which works for the four of us. We agreed and he asked if he could come over to our home this Friday night while I drove to their home to stay overnight with Mary. The two of us were in an agreeable mood, so that’s set for next weekend.

Tuesday night, Beau and Sherry are coming over to our home for a few hours. Beau and I will be watching our women having sex for a while; but I assume he will end up with my wife and me with his fiancée later. I know neither of those scenarios are hotwifing, but I’m flexible.

I hope none complain here about that. Our lives are different in some ways from most others and my wife sees reason to change her rules at times. She really does set the rules; I don't have any for her. We live the way we think is right for us - or at least the way Gigi thinks is right.

~ Des

[Tracey52]

You continue to live life the way you want Des. Ignore the nah sayers.

[afagehi7]

Why would anyone complain about des getting some pussy?

[Des 31]

Speaking of the song by the Hollies, Long Cool Woman ... Released in April 1972. (about 15 years before Gigi was born)

Saturday night I was downtown
Working for the FBI
Sitting in a nest of bad men
Whiskey bottles piling high

She was a long cool woman in a black dress
Just a 5'9" beautiful 'n' tall
Just one look I was a bad mess
'Cause that long cool woman had it all

. . . . .

More info about the song at: https:// en.wiki pedia.org/wiki/Long_Cool_Wo man_in_a_Black_Dress

Just in case some of you haven't already look it up.

Rascal

Yeah, finally heard it on our Alexa device as we were fucking and Gigi was telling me what it's like with her newest guy. At her peak of gasps and moans, I told her to tell me the truth - Was Rob's dick better?. She was about to climax at that moment and wailed, "Well, fuck yeah I needed that man's cock so bad. He was so deep in my cunt and fucking me so good!"

I was immediately cumming hard. She knows comments like that always do it for me. She won't be able to attend his next Saturday's class again but intends to drop by his place one night sometime this week for a catch-up lesson. I told her I'm going to dress her in her short black dress that day. When the class is over, he'll enjoy fucking my tall cool woman in a black dress. She laughed and said, "I think this is as good for you as it is for him." I think she's right.

~ Des

[Freemans892]

You are still following Gigi rules. It is so happens some of her rules has become more inclusive so that you have some action as well. Enjoy.

[rascalnvixen]

I hope none complain here about that. Our lives are different in some ways from most others and my wife sees reason to change her rules at times. She really does set the rules; I don't have any for her. We live the way we think is right for us - or at least the way Gigi thinks is right.
~ Des

I've said it here before and I'll say it again..... Quit worrying what other folks think!!! Write what you want, say what you think!!! You lead the discussions on your thread and others here are like me... Just another pervert who is enjoying reading all that you are living!!! If someone complains, well, my best advice is to simply ignore them. There is nothing compelling them to read your thread. If they don't like it, then they will soon realize this isn't the place for them. No one else should be complaining even if you are fucking other women as well from time to time. It's all a part of the lifestyle!!

Rascal

[Tracey52]

I hope none complain here about that. Our lives are different in some ways from most others and my wife sees reason to change her rules at times. She really does set the rules; I don't have any for her. We live the way we think is right for us - or at least the way Gigi thinks is right.
~ Des

I've said it here before and I'll say it again..... Quit worrying what other folks think!!! Write what you want, say what you think!!! You lead the discussions on your thread and others here are like me... Just another pervert who is enjoying reading all that you are living!!! If someone complains, well, my best advice is to simply ignore them. There is nothing compelling them to read your thread. If they don't like it, then they will soon realize this isn't the place for them. No one else should be complaining even if you are fucking other women as well from time to time. It's all a part of the lifestyle!!

Rascal

Couldn’t agree more Rascal.

[Hot Wife Lois and Me]

I don't write much here but thought you could appreciate this. My wife was at her newest guy’s home Saturday night when she told him about us reading your life story here. He logged in and she read segments to him while in bed. They stopped every once in a while for sex. She said this will be a regular thing for them when they get together. I think you have more readers than you may realize.

The man is one of the advertising clients in the magazine she works for. Both are impressed with your writing skills and that's high praise since she is a very good editor.

[Kays cuck]

Great seeing you back, Des. And I thoroughly enjoyed reading Gigi's updates as well while you were gone. Sounds like you had a great trip and your amazing wife did too. Love following your lives. Thanks as always, for sharing so much here.

[Des 31]

Why would anyone complain about des getting some pussy?

Some would be surprised at some of the PMs I have received at times. The most irritating to me were remarks insulting to my wife. For some reason, those are far less common lately. We think the supportive remarks by others may have chased them away. Gigi started ignoring them before I, but both of us find visiting here is now more pleasant than it once was.

[rascalnvixen]

I think this was writeup has been about a two and a half hour endeavor, with Gigi occasionally looking over my shoulder and telling me, “Tell our people here everything,” as she filled in some details. I asked what she meant by “our” people. She said that’s the way she feels after all the nice messages she received from her short contributions to this thread.
~ Des

I wanted to make comment about this earlier but I was swamped by activity this weekend and just realized I hadn't made that comment. For Gigi, you could have been using the term "our" for a long time here!! After all it is mostly about you, you are the STAR of this show!! I am so glad that you now feel a real part of our group. As for me, I'm happy to have you join in the discussions whenever you wish to do so. Personally, I'd LOVE to hear your thoughts about some of your experiences, not so much as the main telling of the events, that's Des' job, but for you as a "color analyst" to add some of the more memorable thoughts you recall for the event. It would be so cool to have you share YOUR thoughts and feelings about some of your adventures in the realm hotwifery!! Of course you know that having you add your thoughts about this will certainly force some (many?) to reach for the nearest Kleenex box!! It's been said that you like to please your men, then I'm sure you might like to please your many men here at the same time with your comments.

Please do join in on "YOUR" thread, your people want to hear from you as well!!!

Rascal

btw, this is just a suggestion, not a demand by any means. I hope it lets you know that your presence here is much appreciated!!

[JustWantToWatch]

Awesome updates Des!!!

[Farmgirl]

Why would anyone complain about des getting some pussy?

Some would be surprised at some of the PMs I have received at times. The most irritating to me were remarks insulting to my wife. For some reason, those are far less common lately. We think the supportive remarks by others may have chased them away. Gigi started ignoring them before I, but both of us find visiting here is now more pleasant than it once was.

Des is right about the rude behavior of some. Many times rather than ask to understand better, they seemingly can't wait to say something that is hateful or hurtful.
Thankfully this community does an Okay job of stepping in, but there are times the community could do more.
Many of you here want more wives to participate. Step up and run a little interference, you might see more wives join in, instead of being run off or just saying "It's not worth it".

PS, If this is something others want to comment on, I would rather take it to a new thread or to my thread. Unless Des wishes otherwise.

[solstice]

Des writes: The most irritating to me were remarks insulting to my wife.

This is the more hurtful when it is aimed at someone you love dearly, and would give you cause to quit this forum in defense of your wife.
I am loathed to take people to task on negative comments as it is a distraction and may be against the original poster's wishes, when people habitually make hurtful or untrue comments, shouldn't the moderators suspend their membership?

[afagehi7]

Why would anyone complain about des getting some pussy?

Some would be surprised at some of the PMs I have received at times. The most irritating to me were remarks insulting to my wife. For some reason, those are far less common lately. We think the supportive remarks by others may have chased them away. Gigi started ignoring them before I, but both of us find visiting here is now more pleasant than it once was.

Des is right about the rude behavior of some. Many times rather than ask to understand better, they seemingly can't wait to say something that is hateful or hurtful.
Thankfully this community does an Okay job of stepping in, but there are times the community could do more.
Many of you here want more wives to participate. Step up and run a little interference, you might see more wives join in, instead of being run off or just saying "It's not worth it".

PS, If this is something others want to comment on, I would rather take it to a new thread or to my thread. Unless Des wishes otherwise.

I think he said the comments were in PM. If he was to post them on his thread we'd certainly come to his defense.

Des - even if you don't out their identity, you can post the negative comments and we'll jump in.

[Des 31]

I wanted to make comment about this earlier but I was swamped by activity this weekend and just realized I hadn't made that comment. For Gigi, you could have been using the term "our" for a long time here!! After all it is mostly about you, you are the STAR of this show!! I am so glad that you now feel a real part of our group. As for me, I'm happy to have you join in the discussions whenever you wish to do so. Personally, I'd LOVE to hear your thoughts about some of your experiences, not so much as the main telling of the events, that's Des' job, but for you as a "color analyst" to add some of the more memorable thoughts you recall for the event. It would be so cool to have you share YOUR thoughts and feelings about some of your adventures in the realm hotwifery!! Of course you know that having you add your thoughts about this will certainly force some (many?) to reach for the nearest Kleenex box!! It's been said that you like to please your men, then I'm sure you might like to please your many men here at the same time with your comments.

Please do join in on "YOUR" thread, your people want to hear from you as well!!!

Rascal

btw, this is just a suggestion, not a demand by any means. I hope it lets you know that your presence here is much appreciated!!

From G – not Des –

I guess I could do that, Mr. Rascal. I am home before Des today so here are some uninterrupted thoughts. Forgive my style here. I write like most folks but have a secretary who makes my work papers seem brilliant.

I can tell you that quite often Des doesn’t tell everything here I think is interesting. His retelling of that camping trip is a good example. He did not mention anything about Rob’s brown and white Springer Spaniel who was with us. That is one of the sweetest and best trained dogs I have ever seen. He stayed at my side almost constantly at the campsite.

He has trained his dog to do many things but says he didn’t need to train him to flush out birds, that came naturally to him. His dog swam with us but didn’t swim all the way when we raced across the river. He went out about 20 feet before swimming back and waited patiently at the shore until we returned. He went out with us in the boat and sat quietly in the back seat when we were driving to and from the river. That’s an example of things Des leaves out of his writings.

Rob asked if Des and I would be interested in going quail hunting with him when the season starts in November. I like shooting but don’t hunt. I told him I will think about going hunting when quails learn to shoot back and make the sport more even. But he is an ethical hunter. He doesn’t kill anything he or others can’t eat.

Des uses the term Boss when writing here about the bank president. That’s because I call him that when he and I are together and away from others. When around other people I call him Mister B---. He always uses Mrs. W--- when talking with me privately or with others – When introducing me to someone he introduces me by my first and last name. Des used to think this is weird but all that began before my boss and I began having sex. We consider it a matter of respect and good sense. It may seem strange to some but that formality works better for both of us at the workplace and related gatherings we attend together. Our former secretary once told me it makes it less likely others will think there might be too much familiarity between us. She and her former boss had been in similar circumstances up until he retired and my boss was promoted to his position. Everyone who works at the bank except the chief financial officer refers to him as Mister B--- but the CFO is in an elevated position and has known him since he was the executive VP. – Des used to find it hilarious that I call my boss Mister and he calls me Mrs. even when having sex.

Des also has his limits when it comes to writing much about himself. He has said here he enjoys hearing my stories when we are having sex but that’s where he stops. If I tell him about a slow build-up before having intercourse, he gets very excited. When I tell him the guy’s dick finally enters me, he goes wild and roars something like “ohmygod!!” and ejaculates. It’s really funny at times. Sometimes I can’t help but laugh at his reaction but he doesn’t mind that. I would not humiliate him and doubt anybody could do anything to cause him to feel humiliated anyway. He is a very different type of man in a lot of ways.

Someone wrote at this website a comment recently that the anxiety and fretfulness a husband feels when his wife is on a date is the Sweetest of Angst – I’m not sure those are the exact words but it’s about right. That would be a good way to describe Des. When I was recently with my boss at his home he asked what I thought Des was doing right then. He asks that often because he doesn’t want Des to be uncomfortable about us having sex. I told him the usual – that my husband is probably home jacking off crazily and thinking about us having sex. We don’t look down on that but the mental image of him masturbating and thinking about us having sex is hilarious. I don’t know if I’m writing this in a way anyone can understand - but we get a laugh almost every time we imagine Des excitedly beating his dick while we’re fucking. At times when Des and I are out with him and his wife I bring that up and all four of us think it’s funny. His wife says she feels the same way when her husband tells her stories about me and him together. I guess you could say our sex lives work out well for everybody involved.

There’s a lot more I could tell about him that he won’t but it’s all good. Maybe I will add some more in the future.

[afagehi7]

I wanted to make comment about this earlier but I was swamped by activity this weekend and just realized I hadn't made that comment. For Gigi, you could have been using the term "our" for a long time here!! After all it is mostly about you, you are the STAR of this show!! I am so glad that you now feel a real part of our group. As for me, I'm happy to have you join in the discussions whenever you wish to do so. Personally, I'd LOVE to hear your thoughts about some of your experiences, not so much as the main telling of the events, that's Des' job, but for you as a "color analyst" to add some of the more memorable thoughts you recall for the event. It would be so cool to have you share YOUR thoughts and feelings about some of your adventures in the realm hotwifery!! Of course you know that having you add your thoughts about this will certainly force some (many?) to reach for the nearest Kleenex box!! It's been said that you like to please your men, then I'm sure you might like to please your many men here at the same time with your comments.

Please do join in on "YOUR" thread, your people want to hear from you as well!!!

Rascal

btw, this is just a suggestion, not a demand by any means. I hope it lets you know that your presence here is much appreciated!!

From G – not Des –

I guess I could do that, Mr. Rascal. I am home before Des today so here are some uninterrupted thoughts. Forgive my style here. I write like most folks but have a secretary who makes my work papers seem brilliant.

I can tell you that quite often Des doesn’t tell everything here I think is interesting. His retelling of that camping trip is a good example. He did not mention anything about Rob’s brown and white Springer Spaniel who was with us. That is one of the sweetest and best trained dogs I have ever seen. He stayed at my side almost constantly at the campsite.

He has trained his dog to do many things but says he didn’t need to train him to flush out birds, that came naturally to him. His dog swam with us but didn’t swim all the way when we raced across the river. He went out about 20 feet before swimming back and waited patiently at the shore until we returned. He went out with us in the boat and sat quietly in the back seat when we were driving to and from the river. That’s an example of things Des leaves out of his writings.

Rob asked if Des and I would be interested in going quail hunting with him when the season starts in November. I like shooting but don’t hunt. I told him I will think about going hunting when quails learn to shoot back and make the sport more even. But he is an ethical hunter. He doesn’t kill anything he or others can’t eat.

Des uses the term Boss when writing here about the bank president. That’s because I call him that when he and I are together and away from others. When around other people I call him Mister B---. He always uses Mrs. W--- when talking with me privately or with others – When introducing me to someone he introduces me by my first and last name. Des used to think this is weird but all that began before my boss and I began having sex. We consider it a matter of respect and good sense. It may seem strange to some but that formality works better for both of us at the workplace and related gatherings we attend together. Our former secretary once told me it makes it less likely others will think there might be too much familiarity between us. She and her former boss had been in similar circumstances up until he retired and my boss was promoted to his position. Everyone who works at the bank except the chief financial officer refers to him as Mister B--- but the CFO is in an elevated position and has known him since he was the executive VP. – Des used to find it hilarious that I call my boss Mister and he calls me Mrs. even when having sex.

Des also has his limits when it comes to writing much about himself. He has said here he enjoys hearing my stories when we are having sex but that’s where he stops. If I tell him about a slow build-up before having intercourse, he gets very excited. When I tell him the guy’s dick finally enters me, he goes wild and roars something like “ohmygod!!” and ejaculates. It’s really funny at times. Sometimes I can’t help but laugh at his reaction but he doesn’t mind that. I would not humiliate him and doubt anybody could do anything to cause him to feel humiliated anyway. He is a very different type of man in a lot of ways.

Someone wrote at this website a comment recently that the anxiety and fretfulness a husband feels when his wife is on a date is the Sweetest of Angst – I’m not sure those are the exact words but it’s about right. That would be a good way to describe Des. When I was recently with my boss at his home he asked what I thought Des was doing right then. He asks that often because he doesn’t want Des to be uncomfortable about us having sex. I told him the usual – that my husband is probably home jacking off crazily and thinking about us having sex. We don’t look down on that but the mental image of him masturbating and thinking about us having sex is hilarious. I don’t know if I’m writing this in a way anyone can understand - but we get a laugh almost every time we imagine Des excitedly beating his dick while we’re fucking. At times when Des and I are out with him and his wife I bring that up and all four of us think it’s funny. His wife says she feels the same way when her husband tells her stories about me and him together. I guess you could say our sex lives work out well for everybody involved.

There’s a lot more I could tell about him that he won’t but it’s all good. Maybe I will add some more in the future.

Perhaps our newest verified hotwife shall emerge?

[Tracey52]

Thanks for joining us again Gigi. Your thoughts add another element to this thread. Your writing is excellent and obviously from the heart. Join us any time. It’s your and Des’s thread after all.

Tell Des to get back here. We want to here about the wedding and the following week.

[Her number1]

I wanted to make comment about this earlier but I was swamped by activity this weekend and just realized I hadn't made that comment. For Gigi, you could have been using the term "our" for a long time here!! After all it is mostly about you, you are the STAR of this show!! I am so glad that you now feel a real part of our group. As for me, I'm happy to have you join in the discussions whenever you wish to do so. Personally, I'd LOVE to hear your thoughts about some of your experiences, not so much as the main telling of the events, that's Des' job, but for you as a "color analyst" to add some of the more memorable thoughts you recall for the event. It would be so cool to have you share YOUR thoughts and feelings about some of your adventures in the realm hotwifery!! Of course you know that having you add your thoughts about this will certainly force some (many?) to reach for the nearest Kleenex box!! It's been said that you like to please your men, then I'm sure you might like to please your many men here at the same time with your comments.

Please do join in on "YOUR" thread, your people want to hear from you as well!!!

Rascal

btw, this is just a suggestion, not a demand by any means. I hope it lets you know that your presence here is much appreciated!!

From G – not Des –

I guess I could do that, Mr. Rascal. I am home before Des today so here are some uninterrupted thoughts. Forgive my style here. I write like most folks but have a secretary who makes my work papers seem brilliant.

I can tell you that quite often Des doesn’t tell everything here I think is interesting. His retelling of that camping trip is a good example. He did not mention anything about Rob’s brown and white Springer Spaniel who was with us. That is one of the sweetest and best trained dogs I have ever seen. He stayed at my side almost constantly at the campsite.

He has trained his dog to do many things but says he didn’t need to train him to flush out birds, that came naturally to him. His dog swam with us but didn’t swim all the way when we raced across the river. He went out about 20 feet before swimming back and waited patiently at the shore until we returned. He went out with us in the boat and sat quietly in the back seat when we were driving to and from the river. That’s an example of things Des leaves out of his writings.

Rob asked if Des and I would be interested in going quail hunting with him when the season starts in November. I like shooting but don’t hunt. I told him I will think about going hunting when quails learn to shoot back and make the sport more even. But he is an ethical hunter. He doesn’t kill anything he or others can’t eat.

Des uses the term Boss when writing here about the bank president. That’s because I call him that when he and I are together and away from others. When around other people I call him Mister B---. He always uses Mrs. W--- when talking with me privately or with others – When introducing me to someone he introduces me by my first and last name. Des used to think this is weird but all that began before my boss and I began having sex. We consider it a matter of respect and good sense. It may seem strange to some but that formality works better for both of us at the workplace and related gatherings we attend together. Our former secretary once told me it makes it less likely others will think there might be too much familiarity between us. She and her former boss had been in similar circumstances up until he retired and my boss was promoted to his position. Everyone who works at the bank except the chief financial officer refers to him as Mister B--- but the CFO is in an elevated position and has known him since he was the executive VP. – Des used to find it hilarious that I call my boss Mister and he calls me Mrs. even when having sex.

Des also has his limits when it comes to writing much about himself. He has said here he enjoys hearing my stories when we are having sex but that’s where he stops. If I tell him about a slow build-up before having intercourse, he gets very excited. When I tell him the guy’s dick finally enters me, he goes wild and roars something like “ohmygod!!” and ejaculates. It’s really funny at times. Sometimes I can’t help but laugh at his reaction but he doesn’t mind that. I would not humiliate him and doubt anybody could do anything to cause him to feel humiliated anyway. He is a very different type of man in a lot of ways.

Someone wrote at this website a comment recently that the anxiety and fretfulness a husband feels when his wife is on a date is the Sweetest of Angst – I’m not sure those are the exact words but it’s about right. That would be a good way to describe Des. When I was recently with my boss at his home he asked what I thought Des was doing right then. He asks that often because he doesn’t want Des to be uncomfortable about us having sex. I told him the usual – that my husband is probably home jacking off crazily and thinking about us having sex. We don’t look down on that but the mental image of him masturbating and thinking about us having sex is hilarious. I don’t know if I’m writing this in a way anyone can understand - but we get a laugh almost every time we imagine Des excitedly beating his dick while we’re fucking. At times when Des and I are out with him and his wife I bring that up and all four of us think it’s funny. His wife says she feels the same way when her husband tells her stories about me and him together. I guess you could say our sex lives work out well for everybody involved.

There’s a lot more I could tell about him that he won’t but it’s all good. Maybe I will add some more in the future.

Thanks, Gigi, for posting.
I'm Farmgirl's husband and I undedstand completely what you're saying.

[Scotch98]

What a great update Gigi. I just love you guys and think you are perfect together. It is a shame that everyone doesn’t have the love and understanding you guys do.. I hope you will post more often and fill the gaps sometimes Des leaves out. All the best to you guys. Cheers.