, now he did "ask" but why then and more importantly why YOU?????reese wrote:I started giving him oral, and he asked me to get a beer
also, without knowing all the details of how the other guy got there, does he live there? did he arrive with you two? but it appears if this was a classic "set-up" type of situation, where the other guy was there for a purpose, and it appears that purpose was to have sex with you.
hopefully you will step back from and take a deep look at this guy and make sure he is treating you with repsect, not taking advantage of you and your good nature, and (again with limited info), using you as "his" to pass around.
because, if you two hadnt had some discussion about you having sex with his friends or you wanting someone in addition to him, he is either very bold or very cocky, to just invite someone to join you and convince you to go along with it, as it almost sounds as if he may have "control" over you in some way, and who knows what type of situation he may present to you next. (but if this is what you want, then i am sorry i said anything at all), but i do know that it appears that you are a very sweet person and possiblilty may not speak your mind for fear of offending someone, (way to sweet to be mistreated or hurt in anyway) but as long as you and hubby are ok with what has transpired, then you go girl! take care.