My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[Des 31]

Gigi!! I don't want to sound like a broken record to the other's comments, but your story was great to read. It sounds like you all had a great time and made many memories that will be remembered for a long long time!!! As far as believability goes, I found it quite believable!!! Vixen and I have traveled to many parts of the country with several couples for snow skiing and there was always a good mood for some drink and dinner apres' ski and that often led to us sitting in one of the suites recalling the day's experiences with some nice drinks and as will happen when an adventuresome group gets together, the talk turns to sex and what if and who would do what. On more than one occasion we found ourselves in a group sex arrangement that led to some swapping partners and playing late into the evening. So, I for one, didn't really see your story as unbelievable, hehehe.... Been there, done that, got the T-shirt and wore it out!!!!

One thing you mentioned was that you all were in your room and were hitting the room bar/beverage supplies. You said yourself you were a very frugal person, so I found it odd that you would be hitting the room beverages because they are typically very expensive. But then again if everything began sort of organically, I can see not wanting to spoil the mood by taking a trip to get the booze. In that situation, I think I would have paid the premium price if it meant that we were all going to be having sex.

Thanks for writing that story for us!! I kinda thought something like that would happen. I also had in the back of my mind the possibility that Jon and Marianne might have been joined by you, Sherry and Beau on the wedding night to make it a real HOT wedding night for them. But that is just how I am wired sometimes. I am actually glad that didn't happen because that is an important evening for them as a couple.

I'm glad you had a chance to get yer Yaya's out on both sides of your sexuality while on the trip!!! I know you must have had a great time and a lot of fun. So, tonight you and Des are hosting Sherry and Beau at your house and I'm sure as I'm writing this at 0145 that Beau has probably woken you up for a little more fun!! What really speaks to me is that you and Des are only in your mid 30s and living such a great lifestyle with much grace and confidence in each other. It often takes a couple well into their late 40s or even their 50s before the couple can be comfortable having sex with others. You seem to enjoy it now and I'm glad you and Des are getting to do this when you can enjoy the sex with others in your youthful years where you can really go for it and take all that is there to enjoy!!!!

Now you have to tell us how the foursome party went tonight!!! Please don't let Des disappear from this thread, we all love to hear your comments but he is important to most of us as well!!

Rascal

Hi, Rascal. You caught me early this morning after leaving Mary's place. Gigi hasn't yet read your remarks. I'm sure she will be glad to see your message. Your good comments allow me to mention a few things I haven't before and probably will never again.

You're right, she's tight-fisted about money in most ways. We're each frugal. We don't talk about that to others, but if any knew how our habits, they might think we must be living on the edge of financial disaster. She spends only for what she considers important. In her way of thinking, entertaining those five was important. Although what we have is "ours," I consider her (not me) somewhat rich, an opinion she doesn't share. 11% of her income goes to charity each month (half to church, the other to whatever charity she feels important at any time). She has a habit of sending a check to her parents four times a year and doesn't spend a cent for anything else unless something particularly unusual comes about. Gigi is a complicated person. Because of my three jobs during my adult life, I have met and known a lot of people but only know four to whom I can reasonably compare to her. What drives her and made her that way would take a while to explain and wouldn't fit in these pages. Aside from all that, I haven't mentioned here before about her volunteer work for various good causes. That alone is probably more than most here care to know. The way I see it, she's too good for me.

Beau and Sherry were fun to host that night. To me and Gigi, they don't seem that young and in some ways come across more like a more mature couple. We're 12 and 13 years older but think we do too for that matter. We're not rave-club and rock-concert people like many acquaintances around our age and younger.

I agree with your opinion about sex. Life is short and we know this can't last forever. When we talk about aging, Gigi expresses her philosophy that whenever we reach ages we're too old to do this, we should at least have some good memories.

And about that last remark, I don't plan to disappear from these pages. Since my return, I've had much to do and am glad she could fill in so our friends like you here who won't think I died. Good to hear from you as always.

(I'm going into the office for a while today.)

~ Des

[Hot Wife Lois and Me]

You apparently have made some good online friends while sharing the story of you and Gigi here. I understand why so many follow your lives. I envy your situation. My 36 year old wife and I have been at this just over two years now. We have been following your story the past two months since I first came across this website. I think our marriage has many similarities to yours and want it to be as successful. We are still learning.

I don't date other women but she is usually on a date about once a month. It's very early here in the city so she hasn't returned yet but it was very exciting to me when her date picked her up at our apartment for their second date last night. I hope to take them to breakfast when they return this morning around ten. I helped her get ready last night before the guy arrived at our place. That was the first time I have done that for her and both seemed very turned on at getting together again. Helping her prepare may now become a regular routine for me. I walked with them downstairs to the parking garage and watched them drive away. I very well know the excitement you feel at times like that.

[solstice]

On another thread Des writes: Before realizing I didn't seem upset at hearing it, she said it was all my fault for encouraging her to have sex with someone else;
Was Gigi's remarks just the games couples play, or is teasing not part of your generally upfront wife's tool box?

[Des 31]

On another thread Des writes: Before realizing I didn't seem upset at hearing it, she said it was all my fault for encouraging her to have sex with someone else;
Was Gigi's remarks just the games couples play, or is teasing not part of your generally upfront wife's tool box?

That remark was a defensive comment as a result of the strained circumstance at the time. She's known for her jokes, but here's an example that not all her jokes get a laugh.

Beau emailed the following to me. He happened to be at the bank's downstairs offices at the same time as my wife.

While a loan officer was preparing a letter to a company in Montreal, she looked up to see my wife walking past her desk and asked what measurement system is used in Canada. Gigi said, “Ours is known as Imperial, they use metric.” Then she added with a grin, “Or you can do this as an example: 6 feet of social distancing is different in Canada. 6 feet is one-moose-length – or 4.5 beavers.” The loan officer thought she was serious. Beau and two other men standing nearby thought that was hilarious.

~ Des

[solstice]

“Or you can do this as an example: 6 feet of social distancing is different in Canada. 6 feet is one-moose-length – or 4.5 beavers.” The loan officer thought she was serious.

That was hysterical, Can you picture me on my back and kicking my legs helplessly in the air: Of course I imagine that Gigi is a stranger to beavers as I am sure you have written that you do the honours of shaving her bald.

[solstice]

Coronna restrictions have been relaxed today in the UK, hugging is now permitted, I thought I would put it into practice today, but I kept on getting my face slapped

[Des 31]

Times, they are a’changin’.

I’m often out of touch with popular culture and always learning something new. Here’s something that could actually fit in these pages. I had to think about this one for a few days before deciding to post it.

The head of the bank’s HR department phoned my wife to drop by their office for a consultation when she could find the time. She took the elevator down to the second floor to meet with the woman. She was handed a six-page document listing 112 genders received in email that morning.The woman asked Gigi’s opinion about what parts could be added to the employee manual now under revision.

Gigi and the two department employees had never heard of almost all listed. She told them all needed on that issue is written on page 8 in the existing manual, “Treat every customer, visitor, and employee with courtesy and respect.” The department may keep the document in their files if they wish but no part is to appear in any personnel publication. In response to a related question, she said the dress code will not change anytime soon - and, if some male employee comes to work in a woman’s dress, she will personally send him home and fire him if he returns to work like that. HR people worry obcessively about litigation. “Let’em sue us if they want,” she added, “We have good lawyers.”

As she was about to leave their office, the assistant said she heard Gigi was from the South and asked why she had no Southern accent. Because so many from other regions move southward for better weather, friendlier regulations, and lower taxes, fewer Southerners retain the traditional accent. But she sometimes uses it to get a laugh and responded with a drawn-out Southern drawl, “Why, Honey, I’m so Southern, my horoscope is fried chicken.”

She brought home a copy for me as a curiosity. I cannot understand how some can identify with any of these alleged genders. An example is “juxera,” meaning something similar to “female,” but separate from any of the other 111; another is “hydrogender,” which shares qualities with water; and another is “intergender,” but means partly female or male but actually is whatever gender a person wants to feel at any moment - How does someone sense sexually as water?

Aside from all these terms was attached a symbology chart to designate many alleged genders. All here are aware of the hieroglyphs for male and female, but a sizeable number of symbols have now been created to represent many of the 112 listed. This website doesn’t allow for posting documents and photos here in the commentary sections, but I’m sure any can find all of that with an online search.

My wife asked to which gender I identify. What the hell kind of question is that?

I told her, “A refrigerator with blueberries inside.” So I took a couple of minutes to find a public domain image of a refrigerator and used it to create that temporary avatar.

[afagehi7]

Des - accents depend on when leaving. Move young means losing accent, but after 12 one never loses unless they try. That is why Hispanics here after 20 years still have an accent. I don't know where the cut off age is.

Genders - while I agree no one should be persecuted on their status, Male or female or hydrogender but the hydrogender people should realize that they should have the same patience for us as they expect us to have for them.

[solstice]

She was handed a six-page document listing 112 genders received in email that morning.

Does life need to be so complicated? give me the simple life........please

[rascalnvixen]

It's a good damned thing you didn't say "strawberries" or I would have had a compelling urge to rape you!!!!

The sexual identity issues in this country are getting out of hand. Imho, these are people who are demanding attention because they are not getting it any other manner. How many restrooms will a restaurant need to provide if all of these genders are considered??

Rascal

[afagehi7]

Deleted. Kinda political

[Des 31]

It's a good damned thing you didn't say "strawberries" or I would have had a compelling urge to rape you!!!!

The sexual identity issues in this country are getting out of hand. Imho, these are people who are demanding attention because they are not getting it any other manner. How many restrooms will a restaurant need to provide if all of these genders are considered??

Rascal

112 restrooms per gender. Wouldn't be surprised if that is a'coming.

And, for SOLSTICE's question: Enough Southerners still retain that elegant accent that all born and raised in the South can affect it at any time. As with film actors who play those parts, it's tough for me personally to make it sound authentic. I found it fascinating and wish all in the Deep South still used it.

~ Des (who has lived in about every accented region in the U.S. except Valley Girl country, and I'm happy to have missed that one)

[Des 31]

Deleted. Kinda political

Political is okay with me even if I might think otherwise. I'm not getting the criticisms lately I used to get, so troublemakers need something like that here to complain about again. I hear'em all and everybody has an opinion. A recently-deceased radio announcer used as a tongue-in-cheek joke for years that some fake research agency reported his opinions were 99.9% right; his joke in public speeches when not on the radio was, "How can any opinion, mine or anyone else's, be 'right'?" but many in the radio audience never got his on-the-air joke.

[solstice]

The rest room.

I do like the genteel description my American cousins give to this basic functionable room, in the UK it is the bog, the Kazzie, the loo, and the throne, never the rest room, I have left out the names that may offend those with a delicate stomach.
Rather than multiple conveniences, it is likely to Progress?? to one unisex room.

[rascalnvixen]

The rest room.

I do like the genteel description my American cousins give to this basic functionable room, in the UK it is the bog, the Kazzie, the loo, and the throne, never the rest room, I have left out the names that may offend those with a delicate stomach.
Rather than multiple conveniences, it is likely to Progress?? to one unisex room.

Hahaha!!!! I was just trying to be nice in using "restroom". We have many other names for it here on the west side of the Atlantic. Bathroom (even if there is no bathing facilities), water closet, powder room, lavatory, washroom, turd tower, the head, puke parlor and of course the well known "Boom Boom Room"!!!

Rascal

[Des 31]

The rest room.

I do like the genteel description my American cousins give to this basic functionable room, in the UK it is the bog, the Kazzie, the loo, and the throne, never the rest room, I have left out the names that may offend those with a delicate stomach.
Rather than multiple conveniences, it is likely to Progress?? to one unisex room.

Hahaha!!!! I was just trying to be nice in using "restroom". We have many other names for it here on the west side of the Atlantic. Bathroom (even if there is no bathing facilities), water closet, powder room, lavatory, washroom, turd tower, the head, puke parlor and of course the well known "Boom Boom Room"!!!

Rascal

Funny. A Brit once told me things have gone to hell here in the Colonies.

[rascalnvixen]

The rest room.

I do like the genteel description my American cousins give to this basic functionable room, in the UK it is the bog, the Kazzie, the loo, and the throne, never the rest room, I have left out the names that may offend those with a delicate stomach.
Rather than multiple conveniences, it is likely to Progress?? to one unisex room.

Hahaha!!!! I was just trying to be nice in using "restroom". We have many other names for it here on the west side of the Atlantic. Bathroom (even if there is no bathing facilities), water closet, powder room, lavatory, washroom, turd tower, the head, puke parlor and of course the well known "Boom Boom Room"!!!

Rascal

Funny. A Brit once told me things have gone to hell here in the Colonies.

What are you doing up at this late hour??? You should have been in bed over an hour ago!!!! Or is someone else in your bed with your hottie???

Rascal

[Asterix42]

“Or you can do this as an example: 6 feet of social distancing is different in Canada. 6 feet is one-moose-length – or 4.5 beavers.” The loan officer thought she was serious.

That was hysterical, Can you picture me on my back and kicking my legs helplessly in the air: Of course I imagine that Gigi is a stranger to beavers as I am sure you have written that you do the honours of shaving her bald.

Most people in this part of the world find nothing funny in jokes that make fun of people from a different country or race.

Different folks, different strokes, I guess.

[rascalnvixen]

Asterix42,

You may be right about the different strokes, but I didn't see anyone making fun of a particular group or country. If you are speaking of Canada and Gigi's remarks, I don't see that as making fun of Canadians at all. That comment was simply a humorous quip that reflects the nature of what was a critical aspect of Canada's growth in previous centuries. It wasn't derogatory at all in my view, just a comment meant to give her coworker a different frame of reference using a well known tool of humor by employing the absurd.

Rascal

[Her number1]

“Or you can do this as an example: 6 feet of social distancing is different in Canada. 6 feet is one-moose-length – or 4.5 beavers.” The loan officer thought she was serious.

That was hysterical, Can you picture me on my back and kicking my legs helplessly in the air: Of course I imagine that Gigi is a stranger to beavers as I am sure you have written that you do the honours of shaving her bald.

Most people in this part of the world find nothing funny in jokes that make fun of people from a different country or race.

Different folks, different strokes, I guess.

Most people have a sense of humor ,and don't go around looking for fake things to stir up.

[solstice]

It seems to me that Gigi has a wonderful sense of humour and is quick witted, or has an immeasurable vault of jokes with an instant recall, a welcome addition to this forum, as he quoted my name in his post, I thought Asterix's criticism was aimed at me.

[rascalnvixen]

Solstice,

Don't worry about it at all. His message was a bit ambiguous so it's hard to say what his point actually was, so we can only take our own meaning of his words. Either way, you have the right to say what is on your mind, just like him, within limits.

Rascal

[Asterix42]

It seems to me that Gigi has a wonderful sense of humour and is quick witted, or has an immeasurable vault of jokes with an instant recall, a welcome addition to this forum, as he quoted my name in his post, I thought Asterix's criticism was aimed at me.

I apologize unreservedly to anyone who has taken my comment personally. That was not my intent. The point I wanted to make is that humor is different for different people, and jokes regarded as funny in some countries are not regarded as funny in other parts of the world.
Vive la difference.

[Tracey52]

On another note and to change the tone “lone cool women” is my favourite song at the moment.
Secondly, I’ve been reading older posts. Does everybody remember the weekend on the boat with the boat couple, the Indian girl, Beau, Jack, Gigi and Des? How could Des think we wouldn’t believe what happened at the wedding? I would have been surprised if it didn’t!

[solstice]

My imagination of what transpired at the wedding is probably much more succulent than than the actual, I am quite content with the morsels Des throws in our direction, nobody does it better!