Why are you a Hotwife?

[adamgunnauthor]

My wife Mary has been a hotwife for a very long time. Why does she enjoy it so much? Because she loves variety in the bedroom. ('I love fucking other men' is the first and primary answer to this poll.) At the same time there's other reasons. One is that she really enjoys that other men desire her, and that it's not forbidden within our marriage.

Now, she would be the first to tell you that she likes that it turns me on when I watch her screwing someone else, and that we have great sex while we go over the play by play of an encounter or fantasize about how we can find a new lover for her. But, she would never do if the ONLY reason was to turn me on. Nor would I want her to do it for that reason. My excitement is a by-product, not the justification.

[Mgcouplemn]

Because my Husband enjoys watching porn and jerking off. We made a deal I'm the porn from now on he only jerks off watching me fuck other people.

[Long Lurker 34]

Because my Husband enjoys watching porn and jerking off. We made a deal I'm the porn from now on he only jerks off watching me fuck other people.

I am willing to bet you guys have quite the back story. Care to share?

[Hotwife_Haylee]

I think there are several ones that I need to check!

I do not do it "because" it turns my husband on... but that definitely adds to the experience. I certainly would NOT do it if it turned him off (if that make sense).

For me... I love the kink of "new cock". Fucking other men (combined with an insatiable sex drive) plus the added love reward of turning on my husband. My husband's cock is wonderful, and he keeps me happy... but I do LOVE fucking different men all the time!

[schamz]

I'm not a hotwife yet, but if I did become it would have to do with the fact that I've never been with a man other than my husband and I'm a bit curious. Also I miss the "honeymoon phase" of our marriage when things were more exciting and that seems to have faded away.

It says arrangedmarriage. May I ask what your ethnicity is? Just curious.
You were a virgin because of culture and religion?

[GoddessJ]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Goddess3. We would love to hear some of your experiences.

[afagehi7]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

Are you going to be a verified hotwife?

[GoddessJ]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

Are you going to be a verified hotwife?

Yes, that is my intention once I have completed the pre requisite number of posts, then I shall submit the required photographs! Why do you ask?

[afagehi7]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

Are you going to be a verified hotwife?

Yes, that is my intention once I have completed the pre requisite number of posts, then I shall submit the required photographs! Why do you ask?

That's great! It'll be great to have another vhw to talk with. You certainly have an interesting dynamic.

[2inUPMichigan]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

Are you going to be a verified hotwife?

Yes, that is my intention once I have completed the pre requisite number of posts, then I shall submit the required photographs! Why do you ask?

Because he likes to ask all the new women
You sound like a fun addition to our VHW community

[auburnexperience]

You have one option for ‘small penis’ but no option for hubby’s equipment doesn’t work. Doesn’t matter why it doesn’t work but sometimes you just want the real think inside.

[2inUPMichigan]

You have one option for ‘small penis’ but no option for hubby’s equipment doesn’t work. Doesn’t matter why it doesn’t work but sometimes you just want the real think inside.

I completely agree!

[amayzed]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

That's beautiful.

[GoddessJ]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

That's beautiful.

Thank you for your kind comment.

[Hwcouple72]

My wife told me today:

“ The attention and that you will shine more, you feel more beautiful and feminine and your sex life gets a big boost. And
Of cours she can get much big cocks, she laughed.

[Clem99]

I hope that this doesn't come across bad, but I notice that the most response is, it turns my husband on. That is probably true for most of we cuckold husbands and probably why most wives do this to start with, but somehow it bothers me. I know my wife first did it because of me, but I hope that's not why she continues. I just wouldn't want her to keep it up just because she wants to make me happy. I would only want it if she really wants to because it makes her happy and she does it for herself. Otherwise, I want to stop. I've talked to her about this before, but I think we need to talk again. Hotwives you know more than we do and those who have responded clearly do it because you find great self satisfaction as well as pleasing your husband, but do others that you visit with and who don't respond, do it mostly to please their husband?

Agreed. The fun of having your wife fuck another guy is knowing that she enjoys it. If she did it only to please me, I would pull the plug on it.

[Cory87]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

Your husband is blessed to have a wife like you.

[GoddessJ]

Even prior to adopting the label of Hotwife with my husband, throughout my history of different relationships, I have always displayed Hotwife traits and characteristics. From when I started dating, I naturally attracted and/or naturally sought relationships with multiple men. Generally starting with a primary relationship, and eventually evolving to include their friend to form our dynamic. With the inexperience of youth, at times, those dynamics were tumultuous or remained just a flirtation, but the drive was there.

Quite simply, I enjoy the attention of men, and how that attention of another impacts and drives my primary relationship. I recall when I was in my very early 20s, an ex-boyfriend criticised me for enjoying the attention of men. I suppose, at the time, I did not know how to explore that part of my being constructively (and for that matter with someone who understood me), however, thanks to understanding oneself, living life and on meeting my husband, now I do.

I'm truly fortunate that I have a husband who celebrates that component of our relationship. I am a Hotwife because that is who I am intrinsically. I enjoy caging my husband when I am with another, and being in control of his release. I love fucking other men, as equally as I love the torment, pleasure and reconnection it gives my husband and I, as we both live out who we are truthfully.

Your husband is blessed to have a wife like you.

Thank you, I like to think so

[Parsifal]

Because my Husband enjoys watching porn and jerking off. We made a deal I'm the porn from now on he only jerks off watching me fuck other people.

Out of simple curiosity, have to ask if this is really true. You mean it's not something you're doing out of any sexual desire of your own but only to keep your husband's eyes from straying onto other women for sexual stimulation? If in fact that's your reason, you and your situation are intriguing to me.

[CurvyNerdMILF]

I can relate a lot to what GoddessJ says. I have always been someone who has a lot of deep friendships in which I get to share different parts of my personality and interests. I’m naturally very loving and find knowing intimately a variety of people endlessly fascinating. I can do that type of friendship now sexually, as well. I truly have a lot of sexual energy, but it’s not just physical. It’s a mental and spiritual type of of eroticism, as well. My husband calls me a sex goddess. And my husband and I both love the thrill of hearing about and observing our sexual explorations with others.

[Hildasw]

Simply because I and we love it.

Been married for more than 30 years and it brings fun and joy into our life.

I love fun uncomplicated sex and the new experiences.

So glad we were seduced into the lifestyle at an early age.

[vmb69]

My wife entered the answer, I do it because it turns my husband on and he has a small pinus

[Hildasw]

I love being lusted for and knowing that I'm desirable to others; and it sure spices up the marriage, on so many great levels.

Could not have said it better