Sex restrictions for cuckold husbands

[boogienight69]

Coming on for 2.5 years now since we had intercourse last. It is just part of our makeup now, isnt a big deal, though both agree it is off the tabe for good. She has a new BF and he is more than up to the task of taking care of her needs.

[Lockedsub]

My wife has made it clear that I am blowjob free, pussy free, handjob free and breast free. Ironically she did give me a blow job, which was the first one in 2 years, two weeks ago. I have to admit that it felt weird and I couldn’t fully enjoy it. She said she wanted to practice some, and suggested that we both practice on her dildos so I could give her some pointers on what guys like.

The last time we had PIV intercourse was probably 4 months ago. I say we have “Sex” 3 times a year on average, though once we went 16 months. Currently (last 4 months) I have not seen her naked. She says I am not allowed to see her breasts and that these are reserved for real men and women only.

About once a week I am allowed to hump her hand, but this rarely ends in me having what she instructs that I call a “sissygasm.”

She says that I have a sissy clit and that she has no interest in this at all.

[DJE]

I can go down on her and she gives me a hand job about once a month. She must initiate in both cases; I am not to ask. We sleep in the same bed when she's home. That's it. It's been that way since fall 2018 when she met her current boyfriend.

She's denied me in some way or another since we started in the lifestyle. It ranged from a condom requirement from when she started dating her first boyfriend to full-on friendzoning when her second boyfriend was living with us. She's on her third long-term BF now, and before she found him we both agreed that I needed a *little* more intimacy than I had in the last arrangement, hot as that was being their "roommate". It's working for both of us, and him.

We have what I would call "normal" relations for a middle aged couple when she's not with a BF.

[BirdMan]

We have experimented with denial and our situation kind of evolved so that now I only get sex after she has seen her boyfriend, missionary only, no oral, and I get told every time “ you got 2 minutes, hurry up”.

[subguy80]

I wanted to bump this survey back up to the top because we've had some pretty good discussions recently about denial, caging and other sex restrictions for cuckold husbands/boyfriends. I put this survey up several years ago and there have been 670 responses, which is a large sample and therefore probably pretty accurate (assuming most responders were truthful, that is). What this survey shows is that 60% of cuckold husbands have some form of sexual restriction and 40% do not. That's about what I would have guessed. I'm also assuming that most, if not all, of that 60% are happy and probably even "approving" of their situation. I'm in the 60% and we have evolved there, which, I'm guessing, is what most of the 60% has done.

I think it's also fascinating that 40% of cuckold husbands continue to have regular, fully sex with their wives while the wives are getting regular sex from another man, as well, in many cases.

[elina]

Thanks Subguy,

Another aspect of this is that I think a large fraction of the cuckold husbands who are now somehow restricted may not have started out that way.
Looking at the typical contents of threads in the cuckold section, many couples starts out more on the Hotwife side where the husband is at first not restricted. Then as the Wife's confidence grows She may transfer in the direction of Cuckoldress and agree with/ push Her cuckold to accept restrictions.

This makes me wonder how many of the cucks who ticked off for "No restrictions" when they responded to this survey one or two or three years ago have since transitioned into a situation where they are currently restricted by their Hotwife or now cuckoldress....

Sincerely
elina

[Loserpaul]

I am restricted to solo masturbation these days. Only my other half's bulls are allowed to have intercourse with her. I may occasionally watch & very rarely I might be required to suck the bull's cock to warm him up and demonstrate my submission to him as the alpha male. But aside from that it's strictly beta-sex with my hand for me. I accept it now as just the way things should be.

[maxbud]

I am restricted to solo masturbation these days. Only my other half's bulls are allowed to have intercourse with her. I may occasionally watch & very rarely I might be required to suck the bull's cock to warm him up and demonstrate my submission to him as the alpha male. But aside from that it's strictly beta-sex with my hand for me. I accept it now as just the way things should be.

Does your wife's bull have other women? I would love to imagine your sexy wife loving to spread her legs for her alpha bull, whose dick she knows was in another sexy woman's pussy recently ; and your wife does not mind at all (or she even enjoys knowing that he so successful with hot women; so she admires him even more for his conquests). Happy to share his macho dick and alpha aura with other sexy women, who she knows wont ever allow you (her beta husband) touch them in any way. Perhaps he gets FMF threesomes alll the time. And all the parties : you, your wife, the bull , and the other women.. all understand and accept that you the cuck wont and not get pussy.. and at least permit you to watch , lust in vain , and masturbate...

[Tom_Fetch]

My wife and I have an active sex life without any limits. But once she has set a date with her FB, she likes to deny my orgasms until after her sex date. She enjoys to tease me when we have sex or when she plays with me by telling me that I am only allowed to orgasm again after she has made her FB cum.
A couple of days before her date she usually has a wax appointment. From that moment on she will not allow me to penetrate her anymore. He is the one to enjoy her smooth pussy before I can. It turns her on to deny me and tease me. Basically she is teasing herself too, as she enjoys penetrative sex a lot. So by the time she has her date, she is hungry for cock like hell.
They usually fuck for hours. When she comes back home, most of the times she is sore and tired. It can take one or two days before we have penetrative sex again after her date.

[GoddessJ]

Certainly before seeing a lover I deny my cuck sex. It is all part of the preparation ritual. It motivates cuck, as it puts him in the desired mindset, and gives him a pleasure that is beyond sexual intercourse. With denial though, there needs to be attention and connection, be it placing cuck in chastity or having cuck produce near cums prior to seeing a lover.

What drives my cuck is that I am presented perfectly to a lover, and that includes no traces of him on me, I become his. And honestly, from a practical standpoint, my cuck does have an "exceedingly rare" sized penis (See thread: The Reality of Penis Lengths), and I want to be able to meet the demands of my lover without being sore.

[Loserpaul]

Does your wife's bull have other women? I would love to imagine your sexy wife loving to spread her legs for her alpha bull, whose dick she knows was in another sexy woman's pussy recently ; and your wife does not mind at all (or she even enjoys knowing that he so successful with hot women; so she admires him even more for his conquests). Happy to share his macho dick and alpha aura with other sexy women, who she knows wont ever allow you (her beta husband) touch them in any way. Perhaps he gets FMF threesomes alll the time. And all the parties : you, your wife, the bull , and the other women.. all understand and accept that you the cuck wont and not get pussy.. and at least permit you to watch , lust in vain , and masturbate...

She has had a few different bulls over the years. Some of them, for certain, were also seeing other women. She did not mind as she is promiscuous herself. She only has sex with one guy at a time (as far as I know) on any particular night. In general, if she sees someone who takes her fancy she goes for it. When she was younger she had sex with a man she picked up in a nightclub, in the nightclub toilets.

She has had sex with another woman but I have never been involved when that happens.

I occasionally get to watch her with a bull. As the cuck I understand I will never get any pussy but she does enjoy it if I watch, lust in vain and engage in frustrated beta masturbation.

[Thisismyusername123]

Been pussy free for more than five years now. I had a chance to earn it back recently but I failed, so now I will literally never have any kind of sex (with my cock) again, including touching or oral.

[Mlody111]

My wife and I have an active sex life without any limits.

however, you have limitations and big ones

[curiouscouple1978]

We have vaginal sex about once a month otherwise i fuck her with dildos to get her off then she fingers my ass and makes me cum. Once in a while she will tell me to put it in then afyer a frw stroked she tells me to pull it out and jack off since she cant feel me.

[curiouscouple1978]

We have vaginal sex about once a month otherwise i fuck her with dildos to get her off then she fingers my ass and makes me cum. Once in a while she will tell me to put it in then afyer a frw stroked she tells me to pull it out and jack off since she cant feel me.

[Mlody111]

what is this sex life without fucking?

[slowsteady]

what is this sex life without fucking?

Three fifths of the respondents to the poll on this thread enjoy a fuck free existence. Sexual restrictions and cuckolding are more common than you think! I mean, other men are fucking your wife! That in itself is one major sex restriction for a cuckold. Read the posts on this site and learn of the many paths that
copious restrictions can find their way into the lives of cucks!

So yeah, sex for many cuckolds has many obstacles to their sex lives. The one point or fact you may want to consider is: A large number of cuckolds desire and ask for their own sex denial and restrictions!

[Mlody111]

I understand the idea of ​​the cuckold and the denial. My question was about 1 question in this survey

[Christinebitg]

I understand the idea of ​​the cuckold and the denial. My question was about 1 question in this survey

I think I can see where your confusion is coming from. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

I think you believe that sex equates to fucking. But there are lots of other aspects to sex. Oral sex, for example. Or other forms of affection that don't include the genitals.

[lookingiansa]

Been pussy free for more than five years now. I had a chance to earn it back recently but I failed, so now I will literally never have any kind of sex (with my cock) again, including touching or oral.

How did you have a chance to win it back?? Some challenge not capable of to humiliate you more??

[Thisismyusername123]

How did you have a chance to win it back?? Some challenge not capable of to humiliate you more??

Our bull would fuck my asshole, and all I had to do was make him cum before I did. Suffice to say I didn't manage it even once.

[elina]

I understand the idea of ​​the cuckold and the denial. My question was about 1 question in this survey

I think I can see where your confusion is coming from. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

I think you believe that sex equates to fucking. But there are lots of other aspects to sex. Oral sex, for example. Or other forms of affection that don't include the genitals.

Fully agree Christinebitg.
Not to mention that there are claims that 90% of good sexual experiences actually takes place in the brain; for the cuckolds the great experiences can sometimes be 100% in the brain with no physical contact just knowing what their belowed wonderful Wife is doing and how She is enjoying it can sometimes tip some cuckolds right over the edge.....

So maybe cuckolds are just more brainy intelligent people than those who just don't understand what they are getting out of it?

(For those who don't get it and now feel ready to attack this statement above; please first look up what LOL means? Or maybe the double LOLs means that this is not a joke anyway? )

Sincerely
Elina

[Mlody111]

I agree that sex is in the brain. And this is where we get the greatest pleasure, which is why I don't understand wives who refuse to have sex with their husband. After all, penis size should matter less than fucking your loved one. Do you want to eat a juicy steak yourself or a regular hot dog but share this moment with your loved one?

[slowsteady]

I agree that sex is in the brain. And this is where we get the greatest pleasure, which is why I don't understand wives who refuse to have sex with their husband. After all, penis size should matter less than fucking your loved one. Do you want to eat a juicy steak yourself or a regular hot dog but share this moment with your loved one?

The answer is extremely simple. Different strokes for different folks. Some prefer chicken. Others rather eat fish. It doesn't matter what type of music you love, you have to agree that hell is other peoples' music! Same with sex. For any infinite number of reasons, some love oral others hate it. Some love penis in vagina sex where others rather give or take it in the ass. Yet others would prefer jerking off on a lady's feet. Some love chastity where others lust for a good spanking...

Get it now?

[Mlody111]

hot wife who likes penetration sex with her lover why suddenly she doesn't like with her beloved husband?