Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[CuriousUK]

SW says, "Oh, Mr. G gets more than enough from me, you can be sure of that."

What exactly does this mean?

...or what reaction is she attempting to invoke??

[slenderfish]

SW says, "Oh, Mr. G gets more than enough from me, you can be sure of that."

What exactly does this mean?

...or what reaction is she attempting to invoke??

Her statement is intriguing, of course, also to me. It can be interpreted in so many ways. She is not super clever with her words, so she just means what she says.

I think it means that he gets to see her different outfits, with no cover-up. Also that he is her spotter on the weightlifting, and that he touches her when assisting her in stretching.

It could mean much more, if that's what's happening. But I'm quite confident it's not. There would be other clues around, and there are none.

Ultimately I believe she is investing into it a bit, the flirting with Mr. G, the wearing sexier outfits, etc. for me and at the same time enjoying it herself. Or, more accurately, now for herself and sharing/teasing a bit with me knowing I like it. I look at it as a positive development.

[slenderfish]

Speaking of Mr. G, through a connection I have access to VIP area of a major nationally-televised sporting event that's coming up. I can get the two passes for SW and myself, and one or two additional ones.

I asked SW if there's anyone she might want to invite and she initially went down the list of her girlfriends, then suddenly exclaimed "Mr G"! I said she should ask him.

[Tryn]

My guess with Mr. G is that SW is wanting him to make the first moves, to pursue her. Additionally, Mr. G being a professional with a jealous wife, enjoys the tease and the idea but isn’t willing to risk his business and his marriage. So round and round they go. Where it stops, nobody knows. My instinct says it continues like this without moving beyond it because I doubt Mr. G will ever be willing to risk his business and marriage. Perhaps if he knew you were onboard with it, but I don’t see that happening either. It’s good, fun energy nonetheless!

[slenderfish]

My guess with Mr. G is that SW is wanting him to make the first moves, to pursue her. Additionally, Mr. G being a professional with a jealous wife, enjoys the tease and the idea but isn’t willing to risk his business and his marriage. So round and round they go. Where it stops, nobody knows. My instinct says it continues like this without moving beyond it because I doubt Mr. G will ever be willing to risk his business and marriage. Perhaps if he knew you were onboard with it, but I don’t see that happening either. It’s good, fun energy nonetheless!

I fully agree.

BTW it seems Mr. G and his wife have replied "yes" to the tickets for this sports event. Not sure if they will be going as our +2 or if they will attend on their own.

I'd love the opportunity to become more friendly with Mr. G and somehow assist with an energy that SW is more available than he knows. You know "Hey, you haven't dropped by on your motorcycle lately" or "SW talks about you all the time, it's like you are family and you are of course always welcome here" or similar.

But that's a dicey landscape to say the least.

[slenderfish]

Just to close the loop on the Mr. G invitation over the weekend, we did pull the strings and got him and his wife on the VIP list. On Sunday afternoon, SW and I were having drinks at the open bar and she asked if I'd seen any sign of Mr. G, Saturday or Sunday. I had not.

She went ahead and texted him a message inquiring and the reply was that they would not ultimately make it over, because of his wife's cramps.

SW said it's more than just the cramps, that the wife is resisting becoming social, etc.

[solstice]

SF writes: the wife is resisting becoming social,

Could it be she regards SW, quite realistically, a threat, if your wife was unattractive her attitude would likely be different.

[CuriousUK]

SF writes: the wife is resisting becoming social,

Could it be she regards SW, quite realistically, a threat, if your wife was unattractive her attitude would likely be different.

100%, that’s exactly the conclusion i came to when I thought about it. She’s definitely threatened by SW, and rightly so , I’d imagine Mr G got the sharp end of that conversation about joining you guys on a night out

[slenderfish]

SF writes: the wife is resisting becoming social,

Could it be she regards SW, quite realistically, a threat, if your wife was unattractive her attitude would likely be different.

I think you are spot on. SW was sugar-coating it.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Just to close the loop on the Mr. G invitation over the weekend, we did pull the strings and got him and his wife on the VIP list. On Sunday afternoon, SW and I were having drinks at the open bar and she asked if I'd seen any sign of Mr. G, Saturday or Sunday. I had not.

She went ahead and texted him a message inquiring and the reply was that they would not ultimately make it over, because of his wife's cramps.

SW said it's more than just the cramps, that the wife is resisting becoming social, etc.

Is Mr. G’s wife into SW?
Have you ever asked Mr. G if she has ever a g-g ecperience?

I’m thinking what Mr. G (and maybe his wife) reaction would be if you mentioned that she doesn’t wear panties?

[solstice]

Have you ever thought of giving up trying to persuade SW to becoming a hotwife she knows how much you crave it and your effort of encouragement cannot be faulted, Of course if you did capitulate, it would grieve all of us who find your efforts tantalizing and risque. I find your dedication to what could be a lost cause admirable.
I commend you to the Peter Gabriel-Kate Bush song:

In this proud land we grew up strong
We were wanted all along
I was taught to fight, taught to win
I never thought I could fail
No fight left or so it seems
I am a man whose dreams have all deserted
I've changed my name, I've changed my face
But no one wants you when you lose
Don't give up
'Cause you have friends
Don't give up
You're not beaten yet
Don't give up
I know you can make it good

[superb101]

Im curious as to how the workouts have gone this week and if you have noticed anything new?

[CuriousUK]

Have you ever thought of giving up trying to persuade SW to becoming a hotwife she knows how much you crave it and your effort of encouragement cannot be faulted, Of course if you did capitulate, it would grieve all of us who find your efforts tantalizing and risque. I find your dedication to what could be a lost cause admirable.
I commend you to the Peter Gabriel-Kate Bush song:

In this proud land we grew up strong
We were wanted all along
I was taught to fight, taught to win
I never thought I could fail
No fight left or so it seems
I am a man whose dreams have all deserted
I've changed my name, I've changed my face
But no one wants you when you lose
Don't give up
'Cause you have friends
Don't give up
You're not beaten yet
Don't give up
I know you can make it good

Absolutely epic song

[slenderfish]

Just to close the loop on the Mr. G invitation over the weekend, we did pull the strings and got him and his wife on the VIP list. On Sunday afternoon, SW and I were having drinks at the open bar and she asked if I'd seen any sign of Mr. G, Saturday or Sunday. I had not.

She went ahead and texted him a message inquiring and the reply was that they would not ultimately make it over, because of his wife's cramps.

SW said it's more than just the cramps, that the wife is resisting becoming social, etc.

Is Mr. G’s wife into SW?
Have you ever asked Mr. G if she has ever a g-g ecperience?

I’m thinking what Mr. G (and maybe his wife) reaction would be if you mentioned that she doesn’t wear panties?

I haven't have a chance to be in any private conversation with Mr. G. Would love to have that opportunity but can't really envision how to make it happen, other than encouraging SW to invite Mr. G to social events, etc. She has started to do this but apparently his wife keeps it from happening.

I now think back to the time he unexpectedly stopped by our house on a Sunday afternoon. I am now thinking that he "snuck" this flyby visit (e.g. did it without his wife's knowledge. If that's the case, then the precedent has been set for him and SW to be sneaking.

Finally, it's clear that SW doesn't wear underwear when working out with Mr. G. No panty lines, certainly clear nipples poking, and also periodically a pretty obvious camel toe. I believe his wife has been there in the past during some or SW's private workout sessions with Mr. G, and it's been implied to me by SW that they intentionally moved the workout schedule to times when Mr. G's wife will not be around.

[slenderfish]

Have you ever thought of giving up trying to persuade SW to becoming a hotwife she knows how much you crave it and your effort of encouragement cannot be faulted, Of course if you did capitulate, it would grieve all of us who find your efforts tantalizing and risque. I find your dedication to what could be a lost cause admirable.

I'll point out that she has gone over the line to becoming a hotwife. She's slept multiple times with Mr. S and once with Mr. M, fully acknowledged and shared. And of course I believe she's slept (or perhaps something close to full-on sex) with Mr. B.

The present hope is that she takes up with someone new. She's been in hiatus mode now for all of 2021, but not for lack of trying with her (loser) guys in April, May and July.

At the same time, her psyche has morphed more into that of a hotwife. She is dressing more sexy, provocatively, etc. She openly talks with me, in a matter-of-fact way, about being a hotwife. I talk about her "next" boyfriend. She has shared with a girlfriend, who accepts and encourages.

So I'm really just waiting for the "right" guy to appear, who captures her attention and fancy. Hoping she gets to this on her own. Staying a bit out of the way at this point. Assisting in a very subtle and indirect manner.

[slenderfish]

Have you ever thought of giving up trying to persuade SW to becoming a hotwife she knows how much you crave it and your effort of encouragement cannot be faulted, Of course if you did capitulate, it would grieve all of us who find your efforts tantalizing and risque. I find your dedication to what could be a lost cause admirable.
I commend you to the Peter Gabriel-Kate Bush song:

In this proud land we grew up strong
We were wanted all along
I was taught to fight, taught to win
I never thought I could fail
No fight left or so it seems
I am a man whose dreams have all deserted
I've changed my name, I've changed my face
But no one wants you when you lose
Don't give up
'Cause you have friends
Don't give up
You're not beaten yet
Don't give up
I know you can make it good

Absolutely epic song

I've fallen back on this song in trying times in the past. This is not one of those trying times, but of course I love this song and appreciate your thoughts.

[CuriousUK]

Have you ever thought of giving up trying to persuade SW to becoming a hotwife she knows how much you crave it and your effort of encouragement cannot be faulted, Of course if you did capitulate, it would grieve all of us who find your efforts tantalizing and risque. I find your dedication to what could be a lost cause admirable.
I commend you to the Peter Gabriel-Kate Bush song:

In this proud land we grew up strong
We were wanted all along
I was taught to fight, taught to win
I never thought I could fail
No fight left or so it seems
I am a man whose dreams have all deserted
I've changed my name, I've changed my face
But no one wants you when you lose
Don't give up
'Cause you have friends
Don't give up
You're not beaten yet
Don't give up
I know you can make it good

Absolutely epic song

I've fallen back on this song in trying times in the past. This is not one of those trying times, but of course I love this song and appreciate your thoughts.

Weirdly it always reminds me of an emotional scene in Miami Vice when Crockett got his memory back How 80’s is that memory (but I can’t remember what I did last week )

[solstice]

It can't be too difficult for SW for her looks, class and stylish fashion sense, to have guys eager to meet up with her, she has been surprisingly unfortunate that the suitable candidates have lacked the drive to make things happen repeatedly: even the most reluctant ladies from this forum, once they get laid are not put off with one or two failures. My previous post was generally tongue-in cheek, and not meant to be offensive.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Just to close the loop on the Mr. G invitation over the weekend, we did pull the strings and got him and his wife on the VIP list. On Sunday afternoon, SW and I were having drinks at the open bar and she asked if I'd seen any sign of Mr. G, Saturday or Sunday. I had not.

She went ahead and texted him a message inquiring and the reply was that they would not ultimately make it over, because of his wife's cramps.

SW said it's more than just the cramps, that the wife is resisting becoming social, etc.

Is Mr. G’s wife into SW?
Have you ever asked Mr. G if she has ever a g-g ecperience?

I’m thinking what Mr. G (and maybe his wife) reaction would be if you mentioned that she doesn’t wear panties?

I haven't have a chance to be in any private conversation with Mr. G. Would love to have that opportunity but can't really envision how to make it happen, other than encouraging SW to invite Mr. G to social events, etc. She has started to do this but apparently his wife keeps it from happening.

I now think back to the time he unexpectedly stopped by our house on a Sunday afternoon. I am now thinking that he "snuck" this flyby visit (e.g. did it without his wife's knowledge. If that's the case, then the precedent has been set for him and SW to be sneaking.

Finally, it's clear that SW doesn't wear underwear when working out with Mr. G. No panty lines, certainly clear nipples poking, and also periodically a pretty obvious camel toe. I believe his wife has been there in the past during some or SW's private workout sessions with Mr. G, and it's been implied to me by SW that they intentionally moved the workout schedule to times when Mr. G's wife will not be around.

Has she ever asked him to help her with her car after a training? If she knew that it is his last one?
And then in her car just a blow job or something?
Or go to nearest apartament (booking.com) for fast sex?

[anonymister1948]

Do you think if SW started/is fucking Mr. G that she'd tell you?

[slenderfish]

My previous post was generally tongue-in cheek, and not meant to be offensive.

No offense taken.

This is a l-o-o-o-n-g g-a-a-a-m-e.

[slenderfish]

Do you think if SW started/is fucking Mr. G that she'd tell you?

You know, this is a very good question. Kind of an "elephant in the room" question.

Looking at the big picture, and looking at probabilities, etc., my bet would be that she starts on her own and then tells me, before long, once she is feeling confident in the sexual situation with Mr. G.

I actually got a strong feeling just a few weeks ago that perhaps she had started up with him, to the point where I made some effort to ascertain if I was correct. I concluded it was just a feeling (a "hope" if you will), and that there was/is nothing at this point except a very close and comfortable long-term mutual-flirting relationship, that seems to be getting closer over time.

It has all the foundations in place for starting the cliche affair with the trainer:

- Very comfortable together

- Physical touching during the workout, and stretching elements

- Increasingly flirtatious actions and attitude

- She refers to him in many conversations and defers to him on certain subjects, even above me on subjects she deems him to be the expert; e.g. "Mr. G says we should extend the lease on my car rather than turning it in or buying it out" (which, by the way, was precisely what I'd concluded some weeks earlier and had told SW). But of course she forgot and Mr. G is the authority on this.

- Increasingly sexy sporty workout attire

- Stopped wearing underwear to training sessions

- Gets super dolled up prior to departing for training sessions

- Training sessions are the "major" thing in her schedule on those days; she does not walk or feed the dog, preferring instead to primp and prepare

- She and he do send text messages to each other, as far as I know

- When she is able, she drops by on Mondays during his personal lunch time to say hi and run on the treadmill

- On occasion he requests her to bring lunch for him and she drops everything to comply

- She receives some emotional and personal satisfaction from him that she apparently does not receive from me

I've also indulged my fantasy by reading stuff on the internet about women and their affairs with their hunky workout trainers; the rationales, the landscape around when/why they started, etc. It's been fertile ground for me, if you know what I mean.

[slenderfish]

Has she ever asked him to help her with her car after a training? If she knew that it is his last one?
And then in her car just a blow job or something?
Or go to nearest apartament (booking.com) for fast sex?

The car element. That's a possibility. Apparently she considers him an authority on anything that has to do with cars. She even asked him to drive with her to drop off (or pick up?) her car from a service appointment, earlier this summer, either before or following a workout appointment. He begrudgingly assisted.

[Nycadmanx]

I love the thought of her being deeply penetrated by her muscular black trainer. The contrast of skin tones must be magnificent. Maybe buy her a new Hermes bag and ask for pix of them together as a reward.

[slenderfish]

I love the thought of her being deeply penetrated by her muscular black trainer. The contrast of skin tones must be magnificent. Maybe buy her a new Hermes bag and ask for pix of them together as a reward.

Yes, it's quite an image.

Ha! I did buy her a Kate Spade bag a few years back, not long after she started training with Mr. G. She didn't appreciate the point and would not wear the bag.

I realized later that the Kate Spade brand is targeted to a different demographic. So the bag went to SW's niece. And Kate Spade, well, that's another matter.