Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[mrs_reese]

Last night, I whispered in my hubby's ear that I was in love with Mike, and that I was craving his penis.
Funny how quickly hubby was aroused. I was just playing with him. Of course he was persistent of cumming.
I manually stroked him to an orgasm all the while whispering to him how much I loved Mike.
Men!
I have noticed that hubby and I engage in other forms of release for him now that I have found a man in Mike that is equal or better sexually than hubby.
Everyone is happy!
Me especially!

[mrs_reese]

Mr.Bear.
First of all, I love when you respond. You are a very nice man, and your compliments have always been appreciated from both of us. I dont want to spoil this for hubby but please read between the lines.
There will never ever be a man who can come close to my husband. I am his slave. I love him more than any man that I have ever loved in my life.
We love to tease, torment and play. I never understood the mind games that hubby thrives on until recently. I have grown as a woman and as a hotwife. I love pushing his buttons as he loves being pushed.
A lot of times, I will do things and say things to push those buttons.
At the end of the day, I can walk away from Mike. Please dont ever think that he will be in control of my heart.
Only hubby has that power.
I will admit though that I feel love for Mike. I love his body and our sex. Hubby is on this mission to feel absolute denial at times, and when we play, whether I am sucking him or jacking him off, I will tease him so badly as he always asks to have sex with me, and I will tell him hold on baby, give it a few more minutes, or baby, I am not sure that Mike will allow me to fuck you! All this sends him over the top! He cannot resist my mind games and I love the feeling of watching him lose control.
If you ever saw my hubby in person and watched him, you would see how alpha he is, how he is admired and loved by a lot of people! So, I love doing this to him, watching him lose control.

Does this help?

[mrs_reese]

Mr.Bear, one more thing. We have evolved as a hotwife couple. Hubby has pushed so many boundaries with me. I was always very reluctant at first, even when we started, I was always pulling back. Then when I realized how much he enjoyed our play, I would act out just for him. I would do things that I wasnt sure about, but it was because I loved watching him enjoy my hotwife play. Slowly over time, I became more comfortable with all of this and I became more assertive with my lovers. But only because hubby wanted me too. And only because we discussed this as partners.
So please dont let our hotwife play discourage both of you. I hope she becomes the hotwife you desire in time.
But heed this warning! DO not think you can be a hotwife couple if you are not on the same page. Trust and communication are very important. And you must understand that rules may be broken and you will have to adapt to that. Rules are only broken when in the heat of the moment, things become very confusing or hazy to a hotwife. IF there is drinking involved it makes matters more difficult. Adapting to this lifestyle is very important. Nothing is set in stone.
I have made a lot of mistakes, I have broken some rules without realizing at times in the heat of the moment.
But one thing that hubby and I have is our golden rule that has never been broken.
We have a code word, a release from the encounter. When we use it, whatever the situation is, the event is over!
Hope this helps.
xoxo

[Aynsley]

OMG... this thread has reached 100pgs. !!

And I can't help but smile when I think that a thread started out by Mr. R.
writing:
"Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?"

...should currently find Mr. R. writing:
"I love this life....god I do..."

...OK...OK...
He also wrote:

"...but the loneliness at times is very difficult to handle."

Still...
you guys have come a LONG way since the initial posts

Glad to hear things are apparently going swimmingly.
You two are inspirations !!

[mrs_reese]

Aynsley
Thanks so much for your kind words and support, we have come a long way, kind of scary but so much fun and excitement.

[mrs_reese]

BTW, 100 pages is crazy to me.

[Randy_S]

Well, a hundred pages later and I still don't get it. It is not the level of non-involvement that would be satisfying to me. I am going to leave it at that, evidently, different strokes for different folks.

[reese]

Jrg, we just write it as we see it! At times we write to tease and torment, or should I say my wife writes to tease me.
All is quiet right now...US time tonight. Looking forward to tapping into her sexy body....very excited actually...she has been out all day..and there is something about her flavor when she is on the go....head to toe.
Talk to you later everyone.

[BallSpanking]

Reese......., FREAK!

lol!

[mrs_reese]

Ballspanking! LOL! I just love how you put things in perspective with your style!
Thanks sweetie
xoxo

[mrs_reese]

I was driving home after taking my daughter to school and I had a few moments to reflect.
100 pages, 130,000+ hits! I really write all my feelings and encounters on this thread as if this was my personal diary space. I feel close to the readers.

Thank-you everyone!

Whether you agree with our lifestyle, or are confused as I constantly jump out of fb relationships, I just want all of you to know that I feel safe here and I know hubby feels the same way. So we both hope that our posts are not too outrageous, it is just our way of communicating to each other and to the readers of this site.

Thanks again!
xoxoxo

[gearhead]

RE: "Mr.Bear, First of all, I love when you respond. You are a very nice man, and your compliments have always been appreciated from both of us. I dont want to spoil this for hubby but please read between the lines. There will never ever be a man who can come close to my husband. I am his slave. I love him more than any man that I have ever loved in my life. We love to tease, torment and play. I never understood the mind games that hubby thrives on until recently. I have grown as a woman and as a hotwife. I love pushing his buttons as he loves being pushed.A lot of times, I will do things and say things to push those buttons. At the end of the day, I can walk away from Mike. Please dont ever think that he will be in control of my heart.Only hubby has that power."

To me, this says it all. It may be about her NOW (isn't that what all the husbands say they want?), but "all about" = "using the power and control my husband has lovingly given me". And she's clear that the one rule no husband wants broken, to be replaced, is not on the table, even with Mike. Were I active in the lifestyle, I'd want to be the lover, but I understand and appreciate that without husbands like Mr. Reese, there would be far fewer HW's. So a round of applause to both of them, and a standing ovation for their integrity and honesty. This thread has been searingly uncomfortable at times, highly erotic at others, and everything in between. I think it's that they are both self-knowing and speak the truth as they perceive it. I've learned more about marriage and love then hw'g. (Compliment)

[mrs_reese]

Jrgraham, I understood. And thank-you if you have rubbed one out as you say on my behalf. Maybe I should send you a pair of my panties. xoxoxo

Gearhead, what a wonderful post. Thank-you so much. I am flattered.

[mrs_reese]

Oh, by the way, had hubby and Mike on a 3way conversation early this afternoon as they listened to me using my silver bullet! I love tormenting my men!

[BallSpanking]

Outrageous AND delicious!
That's why I'm hooked to your thread... lol!

Party-on, Garth!

[mrs_reese]

Jr, I may just have to do that for you.
Hubby and I are going to play one day this weekend.
He needs to be cuckolded again.
I have been too nice to him lately!

[BallSpanking]

Mrs reese,

I realize sometimes family obligations determine your leisure time, but are you getting to see Michael during the week, or are you depriving him too...? lol!

[mrs_reese]

Missing Mike!
Cant wait to see him this weekend.

[dinoo]

Missing Mike!
Cant wait to see him this weekend.

How hot!!! Mr. Reese, you must be a lucky man.

Regards, Dinoo

[reese]

Dinoo, I am so damn lucky! To have a very sexy wife who seems to constantly search for another way of teasing me, life doesnt get any better.

I remember the days when my wife would have a few orgasms after great sex...and then she wouldnt be in the mood again for 3 or 4 days..NO mention or suggestion of sex...whenever I would instigate sex...or attempt to become intimate with my wife..she would say that she was too tired...or how about tomorrow.
Those days are gone...now she can not get enough of sex...and when she isnt with her lover or myself, I cant tell you how times she has masterbated with her toys...TOO many times!!

Being reflective, there is something beyond sexual and mental arousal when my wife is finished fucking Mike...the scent of sex....her swollen pussy...the look of satisfaction on her face..watching her cuddled up against Mike as she falls asleep in his arms after sex...with no regard for me...just my wife and her lover... that drives me crazy!!

[dinoo]

Mr. Reese wrote:
Being reflective, there is something beyond sexual and mental arousal when my wife is finished fucking Mike...the scent of sex....her swollen pussy...the look of satisfaction on her face..watching her cuddled up against Mike as she falls asleep in his arms after sex...with no regard for me...just my wife and her lover... that drives me crazy!! I agree, I agree. I have the same experiences and feelings. (Till now, my wife just didn't fall asleep in her lovers arms. How I would love this!!!)

But the reason why I wrote a post reply was HER desire for him. Her words "Missing Mike! Cant wait to see him this weekend" gave some extra dimension which touched me. I could imagine how her words could have touched YOU!!!.
Mrs. Reese knows how to arouse you (and us ). That mental arousal....
You are so very right: "with no regard for me...just my wife and her lover... that drives me crazy!""
"With no regard for me" is the most emotional thing I ever experienced.
The most beautiful present my wife could give me.

Keep us in touch.
Regards, Dinoo

[mrs_reese]

Thanks Dinoo, you are too kind! Hubby is showering, we are going to dinner as planned, Mike plans on showing up around 8pm. It should be a very interesting night, I really want to cuck my husband tonight. I want a lot of people to see me eating with hubby and then when Mike shows up, move into his arms while hubby is left to sit around with his sexy hardon!
xoxo

[mrs_reese]

Last night was so much fun! Hubby and I went to our restaurant as planned. It was nice to sit there with him, having dinner then have Mike walk in at the bar near our table. He was making eye contact with me. Playing the role perfect to seduce me. I excused myself from hubby and walked to the restroom looking at Mike as I walked past him. After the restroom, I walked up to the bar near Mike and asked for a cigarette. I will sometimes smoke to attract attention like I just did with Mike. Funny thing was a few men were reaching for their cigarettes when I asked. But I took one from Mike. He introduced himself as Mike and we chit chatted for a few minutes. I told Mike that I was at the table (pointing in hubbys direction) near the bar with my husband, thanked him for the cigarette and walked back to my table. I noticed a few men looking over to our table, which I liked! I told hubby that I think it was time for me to walk over to Mike in a few minutes, he asked about what he should do, I told him to just play along. Soon, I walked over to Mike as hubby went to the restroom. Mike bought me a drink and soon we were talking and laughing. We both acted like we just met each other. Hubby came over to us soon afterward, I introduced hubby to Mike. But, Mike and I continued our conversation.
After a few drinks, I noticed hubby in a conversation with a few other men standing around watching the hockey game.
I would purposely grab Mike's hand a few times laughing in conversation. I felt that everyone was noticing me and confused. A few times hubby would come over to me and whisper something in my ear( sweet talk). At 10, the music started to play with a DJ in control. I grabbed Mike's hand, walked to hubby and asked him in front of the 2 men he was talking to if it was ok if I danced with Mike. Yes! He had no choice! I danced with Mike and as I started feeling more comfortable, we were moved closer to each other depending on the song being played.

[Open2it]

Sounds like the start of a perfect cuckold evening
O2

[mrs_reese]

After a while, Mike and I walked to our seats at the bar. It was nice that hubby kept others from sitting at our seats while we danced Hubby walked over to me and told me that everyone was watching Mike and I. I asked him if he thought that people knew that we were married, and he just smiled at me. In a little while, I walked over to hubby and asked if he would like to dance with his wife! Of course he wanted to! So we danced for a few songs, I purposely made a point of kissing him and dancing very close to him. HE was hard! What else is new! LOL! IN a bit, I walked back to Mike and sat next to him, with hubby back in his spot watching the hockey game. I was wondering what the other men next to hubby was thinking.

I hope I am not boring all of you with this detailed account!

Anyway, I felt that it was time to make heads turn so after another drink, I asked Mike to dance with me again. Grinding on his penis like I love to do, I grabbed Mike's hands and placed them on my hips, leaning back we kissed forever! I knew that everyone was watching now. I looked so cute in my outfit anyway!

Once we finished dancing, we walked over to hubby and I told him in front of the other men that I wanted to spend a few hours with Mike. Oh my god, if you all could have seen the looks on everyones face at that moment!

I will leave the rest to hubby to write about. I did leave with Mike, and I have to let him explain what happened at the restaurant!