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by Des 31 » Wed Oct 20, 2021 5:47 am
My 34-year-old wife gets more into it and enjoyment when I'm not in the same room. I agree to her preferences and, if home, I sleep in our guest bedroom those nights. She also goes to two of her three current guys' homes at times, sometimes after work for a few hours, and mostly on a night some weekends will stay overnight with one of them.
She doesn't text or call me when fucking. In the seven years we have been at this, she has found that to be a distraction. She commonly phones me when she arrives and again when on her way home. She's prompt for sure - If she tells me she will be home around nine the next morning or nine-thirty for one-nighters, she is always within an hour of those times. A couple of times in the past, she fell asleep at two different mens' homes while anticipating she was going to be there only a few hours those nights. Each time, she awoke in a panic in the early morning with frantic apologies of "Ohmygoddd! I fell asleep. I'm so sorry," etc. I found that hilarious and she got over it.
In all this time, she has learned these extramarital affairs have an expiration date like warranties on kitchen appliances. They move away, marry or become engaged to marry, transfer in their jobs, or she finds it becomes routine or boring as time goes on - sort of like the sex between many married couples. The longest any have lasted have been about three years as with two of her current boyfriends and one of her earliest younger 19-year guys who was then a student; in his last year of college, he transferred out of state and that was the end of that one. Most short-term hookups haven't lasted beyond a day, days, weeks, or a few months.
Our typical way is that I'm fucking her upon her return home as she tells me about her date and I'm happy with that. We had indoor and outdoor surveillance cams installed that I can access anywhere away from home or from my laptop or desktop in another room. Whenever her guys are told about our cams, I can watch remotely. She wasn't able to bring herself to tell that to a few so she turned off the indoor spy cams at those times. (And on one occasion, she forgot to turn them on while I was out of town. I knew though the guy's dick was to be inside her, so I jerked off madly in my hotel room just happily knowing that.)
I have laid alongside her and another man a few times in the years she has been fucking other guys, but that doesn't come about often. We have learned her men also like it better when the two of them are having sex alone. Her three most current men are fully aware she has my permission and encouragement. I don't tell her who, when, where, or how she fucks. Those choices are all theirs. It's all good as far as I'm concerned and I don't recall having been disappointed with the outcomes.
