As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

A place for "wannabes" to compare notes. Talk about how close they are but not yet. Complain. Hopefully smile and enjoy.

What type of husband to wannabes want to become?

Hotwife Husband
77
32%
Cuckold Husband
71
29%
Poly Husband
6
2%
Stag Husband
69
29%
I'm one of the above and here to visit wannabes
11
5%
I don't truly want my wife having sex with other men.
7
3%
 
Total votes: 241

Johor
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As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Johor » Thu Sep 16, 2021 8:24 am

This forum breaks down into four generally different types of husbands who have unconventional marital lives. As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Comment on which forum you read the most if it is different from your choice.
A hotwife husband wannabe. Hoping one day my wife will spread her legs for me and let another man come in her.
Living the dream vicariously through the loving hotwives on this forum and their generous husbands.
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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Johor » Thu Sep 16, 2021 8:27 am

I voted hotwife husband but I read the cuck forum the most. While I enjoy and appreciate the sub desire to give up control that are prevalent in the cuck forum, my pride tends to not let me actually take a sub role.
A hotwife husband wannabe. Hoping one day my wife will spread her legs for me and let another man come in her.
Living the dream vicariously through the loving hotwives on this forum and their generous husbands.
Kik jozyxt

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by CTim » Thu Sep 16, 2021 8:49 am

I read in the Library forum the most. We are a very traditional couple and will never be in any kind of alternative lifestyle. However, I do get enjoyment out of reading the dramatic, interesting, or entertaining story lines found in the library and throughout the other forums. In the unfortunate event anything ever happened to my wife I might consider being a friend to Hotwife or cuckold couples, but that's it.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Cosmic » Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:12 pm

Voted Stag, but read Cuck and Fetish most. I like the full-on stories about humiliated husbands, but don't see myself in that role.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Johor » Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:51 pm

Cosmic wrote:
Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:12 pm
Voted Stag, but read Cuck and Fetish most. I like the full-on stories about humiliated husbands, but don't see myself in that role.
Funny about that. I actually sometimes see myself as stag too. And when I do, I read the cuck forum as the type of husbands whose wife I would like to fuck. It would be great to have some cucks wife as an always ready GF with whom I didn't need to nurture a GF relationship to fuck. Let him do the setup work and all I do is sexualy please the wife.
A hotwife husband wannabe. Hoping one day my wife will spread her legs for me and let another man come in her.
Living the dream vicariously through the loving hotwives on this forum and their generous husbands.
Kik jozyxt

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Stempor18 » Thu Sep 16, 2021 7:24 pm

Stag, but I'd still like the other male to be dominant.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by wulfenus » Fri Sep 17, 2021 4:25 am

Areal hot role for you Johor.
Johor wrote:
Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:51 pm
Cosmic wrote:
Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:12 pm
Voted Stag, but read Cuck and Fetish most. I like the full-on stories about humiliated husbands, but don't see myself in that role.
Funny about that. I actually sometimes see myself as stag too. And when I do, I read the cuck forum as the type of husbands whose wife I would like to fuck. It would be great to have some cucks wife as an always ready GF with whom I didn't need to nurture a GF relationship to fuck. Let him do the setup work and all I do is sexualy please the wife.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by jc6morw » Mon Sep 20, 2021 12:34 pm

Johor wrote:
Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:51 pm
Cosmic wrote:
Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:12 pm
Voted Stag, but read Cuck and Fetish most. I like the full-on stories about humiliated husbands, but don't see myself in that role.
Funny about that. I actually sometimes see myself as stag too. And when I do, I read the cuck forum as the type of husbands whose wife I would like to fuck. It would be great to have some cucks wife as an always ready GF with whom I didn't need to nurture a GF relationship to fuck. Let him do the setup work and all I do is sexualy please the wife.
So glad to know of guys ready to take advantage of the situation and who know that there are guys like me gladly to obey gratefully. And guys ready to ask for more menial from the cuck.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Cuckedbydildo » Tue Sep 21, 2021 6:29 pm

I selected hotwife but actually read more fetish and cuckold. Fetish is more freaky and I like that 😂 and the posts in Cuckold are more interesting than the ones in Hotwife

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by cleenwheels69 » Fri Sep 24, 2021 12:59 am

Pretty even results. Shows a wide range of the fantasy.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Bent_n_Twisted » Fri Sep 24, 2021 6:43 am

I'm a kinky bastard, I always go to the fetish forum first. Cuckold/'sex-slave' works for me.
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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by BBCfan » Sat Oct 02, 2021 2:24 pm

Cosmic wrote:
Thu Sep 16, 2021 2:12 pm
Voted Stag, but read Cuck and Fetish most. I like the full-on stories about humiliated husbands, but don't see myself in that role.
Yeah, same hear. For my usually rather alpha personality in reality Stag would be the way I would prefer it to unfold.

The stories and video where wife tells husband how much bigger bulls cock is and other more cuck stuff, it a major turn on but not the hardcore humiliation. I think it's just seeing wife honest and unfiltered without pandering to husbands ego is so crazy hot.
Our hotwife journey story so far
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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by MarshaA » Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:12 pm

What's the difference between a hotwife husband and a stag?

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Spice213 » Tue Oct 19, 2021 9:35 pm

Cuck husband for me, love being humiliated by my wife, or any lady for that matter!

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by hidemydesires » Tue Oct 19, 2021 10:24 pm

Voted Stag as I think that best suits what would most likely happen. Although most paths (except cuckold) are open for discussion.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by PANTIES » Wed Oct 20, 2021 1:44 pm

I’m a cuckold husband, it started when one night I asked her since we have been married have you meet anyone who you would let get into your panties. When she said yes, I told her to go for it and three months later I was watching him take her lacey black panties off and he fucked her in our bed.

She gave me those panties and I keep them in my glove box in my car to remind me what I am.

I’m a feminine cuckold husband.

Pauline
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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Stempor18 » Wed Oct 20, 2021 6:21 pm

MarshaA wrote:
Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:12 pm
What's the difference between a hotwife husband and a stag?
A hotwife husband enjoys his wife sleeping with other men. He may want to hear about the details and may even want to watch, but doesn't actively join in during sex between the hotwife and her bull.

A stag may jump in and participate, so instead of it being just the hotwife and bull the husband joins. Basically it means you like having threesomes (straight or bi) or gang bangs with your wife.

As a wannabe I must say both sound fun to me, but I'd prefer stag.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by MarshaA » Fri Oct 22, 2021 3:05 pm

This is the first time I've ever heard of this distinction.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Bent_n_Twisted » Sat Oct 23, 2021 6:59 am

Stempor18 wrote:
Wed Oct 20, 2021 6:21 pm

A stag may jump in and participate, so instead of it being just the hotwife and bull the husband joins. Basically it means you like having threesomes (straight or bi) or gang bangs with your wife.
I think you're off the mark here. I was always under the impression that a 'stag' was one who had other women on the side, the term having been derived from the fact that in the deer species one buck typically services a number of females.

Here where I live, we have a rather large deer population and at this time of year driving can be hazardous at certain times of day because it is rutting season. Often several does will suddenly appear out of the woods and run across the road, followed by a buck that is chasing them. I have twice hit does suddenly appearing in the road directly in front of me, once totaling my car (the cost to repair the damage was more than what I paid for it, and more than what it would cost to just buy another one). I now carry a special insurance rider for this type of event.
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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by Stempor18 » Sun Oct 24, 2021 6:53 am

Bent_n_Twisted wrote:
Sat Oct 23, 2021 6:59 am
Stempor18 wrote:
Wed Oct 20, 2021 6:21 pm

A stag may jump in and participate, so instead of it being just the hotwife and bull the husband joins. Basically it means you like having threesomes (straight or bi) or gang bangs with your wife.
I think you're off the mark here. I was always under the impression that a 'stag' was one who had other women on the side, the term having been derived from the fact that in the deer species one buck typically services a number of females.

Here where I live, we have a rather large deer population and at this time of year driving can be hazardous at certain times of day because it is rutting season. Often several does will suddenly appear out of the woods and run across the road, followed by a buck that is chasing them. I have twice hit does suddenly appearing in the road directly in front of me, once totaling my car (the cost to repair the damage was more than what I paid for it, and more than what it would cost to just buy another one). I now carry a special insurance rider for this type of event.

It's possible I'm wrong, but this is what I got online

Stag - A Stag is the other half to a Vixen and was born out of the necessity to differentiate hotwife husbands who enjoy sharing their partner but are not submissive or into humiliation like a cuckold. To the hot wife, the Stag is always her main priority and the number one man in her life that no outsider will live up to. For the Stag he enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching his sexy wife perform and impress others. Knowing that other men find his wife desirable is a common motivation for many Stags. Some Stags prefer a more dominant role, as they direct the action and maybe even joins in for a threesome.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by anneshubby2 » Sat Feb 18, 2023 4:46 am

I am definitely wanting to be a hotwife husband. The thought of her being out with someone and getting to reclaim her after is exactly my goal for my beautiful wife.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by flyonthewall » Sat Feb 18, 2023 11:17 pm

I have no interest in being mocked or humiliated to the extent it’s being discussed in the Cuckoos forum. I do like my wife telling me her bf fucks her better than I do. We’ve discussed that he can get right of first fuck but I always get to reclaim.

I’d like her to have feelings for her bf and have them date. I’d want to be on friendly terms with him. I told my wife I’d like to help her potential bf seduce her and give him hints on how to make her explore her sexuality. Help him talk her into being shared with his friends or doing things she never wanted to do with me like anal.

The only cucky thing I said is if he is to be her bf then she has to commit to regular sex with him to keep him honest. That means late night booty calls at his place or ours. I get turned on by answering the door to let her bf in to fuck her unexpectedly. A big fantasy of mine to see my wife who would wake out of a deep sleep because her bf came over to fuck her and find she’s soaking wet.

Also slightly poly in enjoying her going on weekends away with him. Relish that new energy relationship. It makes my wife wet when I discuss being the peacemaker if she and her bf had a fight and convincing her to have makeup.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by nakedsa77 » Mon Feb 20, 2023 2:30 am

As a wannabe stag/cuck, I Have voted for a Hotwife Husband, that said I also read the cuckold forum and love some of it. I do like part of the humiliation as even a stag is getting humiliated seeing his wife getting fucked by another cock. I do like SPH, not that I'm small at all. I would like to hear that the other guys is bigger and better than me! (The purpose of the lifestyle?) The thought of me getting sloppy seconds will be the ultimate humiliation, fucking your married wife with another man's seed inside her will drive me nuts. I do not like the word "reclaiming" as I'm dedicated to my wife's pussy and have no desire to fuck another woman. However her pussy does not belong to me her pussy belongs to her and she can decide who to share it with. I have no claim to her pussy, hence re-connecting sounds more relevant to me. Just my thoughts and 2c worth.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by curioushubby1965 » Wed Feb 22, 2023 12:55 pm

I voted hotwife husband but it can be a pretty fine line between each in my opinion. I do have some mild cuck desires though as well.

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Re: As a wannabe, which type would you prefer to be?

Unread post by MartynandMary82 » Wed Feb 22, 2023 1:53 pm

I went with stag… I think. Happy to watch her, film, share her. Not into any humiliation etc. just want to see her having a good time and blokes appreciating her.

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