We're starting very very slowly

[Rogueuser1]

Amazing update - glad to hear you are all having such wild adventures!

[crystal]

Thanksgiving
We went to visit Bill's parents for Thanksgiving. Good for me, no cooking

Ok, it might be in my imagination but Bill's father has thoughts of bedding me. Not joking at all. While Bill was with his Mom in the kitchen, I played with the kids in the den. I sat on the carpet and my dress had risen up to my thighs and he was ogling my legs and trying to get a peek of my dress. I was shocked as I observed him reach down to rearrange the crotch of his pants.

At the dinner table, he was sitting in front of me, I swallowed deeply when I felt his foot brush back and forth across the bottom of my leg. I thought it was accidental contact. Following the dinner, we sat for dessert and coffee.

As we were leaving the next day I gave Bill's mom a hug for goodbye and was approaching his Dad to bid him farewell. Just then Bill asked his mom to help him with the luggage just as I was to hug him goodbye. He gave me a kiss on the cheek, hug me goodbye I felt him put his hands almost on my ass, almost. It might be in my spoiled imagination but I believe he wants to bed me if he could.

Saturday night

We met Ann and Brian for drinks. We brought the wine and ourselves. Ann served a nice dinner especially accompanied by the expensive red wine. With the alcohol flowing, we talked about last week. Bill was too nervous about what was going after the dinner was over and Brian observed it, relaxed him so we could enjoy. Bill’s face was bright red. With Ann we cleared the dessert dishes and went to the bedroom, talking loud enough so the guys could hear us.

We’re naked on the bed, Ann between my widespread legs while guys watched the show. I was so turned on I could barely catch my breath. I’d always loved having Ann eating my pussy but perform all of this in front of our husbands. Both guys watching naked, cocks in the hands, Brian’s much bigger. The cocks hard enough so they stopped stroking them and shuffled right up next to the bed. I wanted to suck them while Ann eating me. It felt so good to have Ann’s tongue in my pussy and Brian’s dick in my mouth at the same time. I was taking turns on them, that’s fair, right? I sucked them both off. It was a night made for pure kink.

My turn to take care of Ann’s pussy hoping one of the men would recover and fuck me while I ate Ann. I didn’t care which one of them. Bill had to be first as Brian cum in my mouth first, it’s like a competition between two of them. Brian encouraged him to fuck me good and he was done in minutes and Brian took his “seat”, felt so fantastic to get fucked like this by both of them. I have to admit I just love this sort of nasty sex.

We had a great time at our party, and we promised each other we’ll do it again soon. We're going with Ann for a girls' night out aka cock-hunting next Friday

[crystal]

Thunders in the Paradise

Bill had a fight with Jack yesterday. Jack came to pick me up but all ended very badly. He threw a disrespectful comment to Bill. And they went almost to physical confrontation. Me upstairs preparing for my date with Jack when I heard loud voices.
Bill just doesn't like any form of humiliation or disrespect.

[crystalhusband]

Here's my point, to all followers of our adventure and to all wannabe husbands of hotwives. I don't say cucks because I'm not seeing myself in this role.

I enjoy a wide variety of situations, kink but that's it. I'm in control, we're in control of our lives. We don't live 24/7 in the lifestyle. Bulls/Lovers are expected to follow our rules. We do this from the perspective of the kink. That's it.

Sometimes I may want some light humiliation and in those situations, I'd tell the bull/lover what I want and what's right to say to me or my wife. When this doesn't happen, when the bull decides on his own to act like a douchebag just tell him to get fuck out of your house. Step up and Stand up. We brought a lover for Crystal for our pleasure. If we're not both happy, it ends.

Let's be honest, Crystal is very good-looking, very sexy and most bulls would be happy to be part of our dynamics and fuck the shit out of my sexy wife.

What we learned for the past months, always put us first.

My last advice to all of you guys is, don't get into a lifestyle if you're not strong enough to control and maintain your wife respect. The heat can burn you very badly.

[snooper56]

I'm guessing Jack left without you...

[afagehi7]

Jack should have backed down and apologized for offending. If he overstepped... Well it happens especially with new people, but once told he overstepped he should have apologized and stepped back.

I don't know the whole story but I'm assuming this should have been handled by Jack better.

We'd all like to know more but I'm assuming you would have told us if you wanted.

[ResponsibullCummings]

I am glad you showed Jack his place. I think he already overstepped by bringing in 3 strangers while Crystal was blindfolded. Although she enjoyed it in the moment it was probably something she wouldn't have agreed to if asked up front. It really wasn't much different than the asshole that tried to force her to have sex with his older business associate. The next step might have been actually whirling her out since he admitted he regularly had sex with prostitutes. Good riddance to him. Like you said Crystal is hot enough to get almost any man. Better to find one that understands his place.

[R_H_NC]

I came for the first time in 3 months

Sorry for missing this earlier. Just saw the post about the fight with Jack and went back a bit to get backstory on Jack.

Sorry, if I missed the answer to this but..............why no orgasm in three months?

[JeffBingham]

I came for the first time in 3 months

Sorry for missing this earlier. Just saw the post about the fight with Jack and went back a bit to get backstory on Jack.

Sorry, if I missed the answer to this but..............why no orgasm in three months?

I assumed it was because Bill was hospitalized with Covid, fighting for his life, as described by Crystal a page or two back

[R_H_NC]

I came for the first time in 3 months

Sorry for missing this earlier. Just saw the post about the fight with Jack and went back a bit to get backstory on Jack.

Sorry, if I missed the answer to this but..............why no orgasm in three months?

I assumed it was because Bill was hospitalized with Covid, fighting for his life, as described by Crystal a page or two back

Ok, as I said, sorry if missed the answer to that.

[crystal]

The next step might have been actually whirling her out since he admitted he regularly had sex with prostitutes.

There is no world where that would happen. Jack is no more in our life. Unanimous decision. He was a great fuck, he's incredible in the bed, he knew how to push my buttons and made me feel how much fun this can be but he crossed the line, being disrespectful. Obviously, he wanted to play the dominant one to the point of being an asshole. Yeah boy, we're not that kind of couple. I told him we're not into humiliation and cuck-bull dynamics.

With Bill, we talked and we agreed to stick with our swinger activities. It seems it works fine for us at this moment.

[JeffBingham]

Good for you guys. Happy you came together as a couple to protect your commitment to each other first.

[WatchinginNJ]

Thunders in the Paradise

Bill had a fight with Jack yesterday. Jack came to pick me up but all ended very badly. He threw a disrespectful comment to Bill. And they went almost to physical confrontation. Me upstairs preparing for my date with Jack when I heard loud voices.
Bill just doesn't like any form of humiliation or disrespect.

All hotwives aren't cuckoldresses....

I'm always amazed at how people assume things and then when it explodes in their face its a surprise.

[Logan]

Here's my point, to all followers of our adventure and to all wannabe husbands of hotwives. I don't say cucks because I'm not seeing myself in this role.

I enjoy a wide variety of situations, kink but that's it. I'm in control, we're in control of our lives. We don't live 24/7 in the lifestyle. Bulls/Lovers are expected to follow our rules. We do this from the perspective of the kink. That's it.

Sometimes I may want some light humiliation and in those situations, I'd tell the bull/lover what I want and what's right to say to me or my wife. When this doesn't happen, when the bull decides on his own to act like a douchebag just tell him to get fuck out of your house. Step up and Stand up. We brought a lover for Crystal for our pleasure. If we're not both happy, it ends.

Let's be honest, Crystal is very good-looking, very sexy and most bulls would be happy to be part of our dynamics and fuck the shit out of my sexy wife.

What we learned for the past months, always put us first.

My last advice to all of you guys is, don't get into a lifestyle if you're not strong enough to control and maintain your wife respect. The heat can burn you very badly.

Could not agree more with you! While we are not currently "in the lifestyle" we are certainly talking about it and I know that if I ever had someone make a smart ass comment about fucking my wife that would be the end of that and his ass would be out of the house immediately. I don't consider myself a "cuck" as that does carry some perceptions in my mind that don't fit my attitude. I guess stag is a more accurate term.

If you are into the humiliation, more power to you - I'm not saying it's a bad thing - just that it seems Crystal's husband and I are cut from very similar cloths.

[crystalhusband]

It's a girls night out today.
I'm joining Brian in his pussy-hunting event. We're going to hit a swinger club where he knows some of the women from past encounters.

It's gonna be fun

[crystal]

I had fun, a lot of fun Friday night. We went clubbing with Ann, arm in arm.

We met 2 guys, they were tall, confident. Sexy and available guys to spend the night with them, dancing and flirting. It’s all about fun and these 2 looked like they could be fun as hell to party with. I suddenly felt years younger, like back in college out of a night of dirty fun with some of my girlfriends. Ok, guys kept buying us drinks, each carrying our empty drinks.

I slow danced with guy 1, he kept grinding his crotch against me as we danced, and I could feel his big dick hard and pulsing right thru my dress and painted. Ann was dancing with other guy - guy 2. She winked at me and I knew we were going to end up in bed with this trio of hot guys right along with Ann.

Ann suggested we take these 2 to her place but she set the rules - swap and swing which meant everyone fucks everyone. We made out quickly in the bathroom until another pair of women entered and one of them suggested we should get a room. Ann drew her tongue out of my mouth and answered newcomers we’re about to do just that.

We drove back to Ann’s place in my car, the boys came with Uber. Ann unzipped the guy 2. I followed and brought out guy 1’s dick. very hard 6in cock. Frankly, never heard their names, what a shame, so guy 1 and 2. The cock was just perfect, not too long, not too thick it just looked pretty. I just looked at this cock when Ann suggested we don’t stare at these cocks. I watched Ann deep throat guy 2, I guess it’s time for me to join the party and began to make slow swirls around his cock. He gave me good strokes fucking me doggie style while another guy fucked Ann’s ass. It’s like an orgy. I saw Ann that Ann was coming like crazy around the cock. My guy took off the condom he had been wearing when he’d fuck me and ask for suck and let him cum in my mouth. Couldn’t wait for it. The shameless slut inside me won.

We took a break, then both guys fucked me at the same time. I was behaving like such a bad girl that night. So much fun and I was cumins so hard.

When all ended, at 4 in the morning we took a long and hot shower, then climbed into bed. Came back home at 11 am.

Bill turn to let you guys know how we spent his free Friday night.

[crystalhusband]

My turn obviously. Let's start from the beginning when Crystal left all dressed for a night out. I was really looking forward to hitting that club with Brian. I had some doubts but at the same time, my mind kept going about what Crystal might be doing on her own.

We went to that club and immediately Brian spotted a gorgeous blonde in his mid-30s wearing an anklet - hotwife. She seemed to be alone. She was attractive in her way, she wasn’t as pretty or nearly as well built as Crystal. Brian stared at another target, she’s at least 5’10”, tall like a fashion model, she was with an equally gorgeous companion. It turned out he knew her very well. Long story short we went these 2 hot birds back to their place.

We had great fun, I fucked both of them in the pussy while Brian did their asses and after that, I fucked them both in the asses as well later on the evening.

Great naughty night for both of us

[crystalhusband]

Wish you a great Christmas. I hope you have the very best of times and spend at least some of it with those that mean the most to you.

Last week Crystal told me that an old friend of hers Franco coming to the town and wanted to greet her. Well, I tell you we had plans for that night - dinner and dancing but instead, I added an extra seat for Franco. We also planned to prepare the guest room so that he can stay and sleep with us, we have a place. We sent kids with her parents to a ski resort so we can enjoy our time together.

Arrived on Sunday Franco knocks at our house and we introduced ourselves, a handsome guy 6'2'' former navy in Afghanistan, our age. Handsome guy and also nice. We had a little talk while I prepare drinks, while Crystal dresses, had a mini-dress with socks and boots, it was really cool. I couldn't help but see that Franco was looking at her, however, at that very moment, I knew I had to make an excuse to leave them alone and played family emergency happened that forced me to leave. They proposed to cancel everything, but no, I said I'll see them soon as I free myself.

I did very late, I went back home in the middle of the night. Imagining they were to sleep I quietly went into the house. I heard noises from the rooms, I took off my shoes and go in silence in the dark. But there was no need, arrived at the door of the room I see her lying open legs, the straps of the dress pulled down, the skirt raised, and Franco licking her pussy, then kissing her nipples while touching it, kissing her in the mouth then moved away and while masturbating she took it and saw it while sucking it big. Under the work of Crystal, it became huge, then he pulled away and came back between her legs, leaning on her pussy, and with a bang, he banged her inside and started to fuck her hard while she moans. They went on a little bit and I kept watching while it had come to me hard, a mixture of jealousy, but also excitement. I left them there and went for fresh air, I waited for about ten minutes, then I opened the door and lock it so that it feels like I had arrived. I come home as if nothing had happened and I went upstairs in silence, he slept in the guest room, Crystal in our bed with pajamas. I put myself in bed and I went to sleep.

On Monday morning, I got up first. I prep the breakfast for everyone, kids away so we're just alone, three of us. The first go down was Franco, I looked at him and saw him still while licking Crystal's pussy. It was like nothing happened and I asked him how was the evening. He thanked me for the restaurant I booked for us, the food was great and after that, they went dancing and had fun.

Crystal arranged the kitchen from breakfast and began to do usual things. They seemed just two friends. Then while she was making coffee he approached to take the cup and suddenly put a hand on her ass. She turned gave him a kiss on the lips. She went down the stairs and go to the laundry and she fumble to prepare the washing machine, Franco told her something she did not understand and asked him to come down. I saw him coming and going close to asking her something than while she was putting the washing machine behind him she added perfect housewife laughing she said he's very good in the bed. Franco kissed her while he was holding her breasts and from behind he was pressing against the washing machine, hearing him saying she's always a great pussy. He opened his trousers and made them fall to the ground, his cock straight and hard, of course, he pulled her shirt up and licks her on the back as she pulled out a condom and shoved it. Then he bent her a little doggy style with her hands resting on the machine leans it on her pussy, and started to fuck her without pity while she gasps for pleasure. He took it off and made it turn, kissing her in the mouth for a long time.

He left yesterday but he's coming back the first week of Jan and of course, we offered to host him. Crystal already booked an appointment with a hairdresser and beautician just before arrival of her friend.

[BallSpanking]

This is where the use of labels becomes pointless.
Every couple is unique, and many, many, did I say 'many'(?), want NO part in humiliation.
Why is it so tough to understand, that a husband might simply want to see his wife enjoy a superior fuck,
or a wife wishing for nothing more than that?
The assumptions that can occur in HW'ing are stereotypes, not actual models for behavior.
So for those who want to play, set out your rules VERY clearly.
If the dignity of you or your partner is being impaired, if red lines are being crossed ...
Don't allow it to harm your marriage.

[crystal]

Hope y'all are doing great, Merry Christmas and have a great NYE party. We're about to cancel our plans for NYE as most of our friends(vanilla) are testing positive. That's not the purpose of my post to complain about the new Covid variant, it's been 9 months since we started our journey and it's time for an overview.

1. I love my husband
2. I occasionally have sex with other men, usually they're smart and funny. I kiss them, undress them, we fall in bed, he makes me come. It's everything and at the same time is nothing.
3. We're not into any humiliation. Stag/Vixen and swinging suit best for us.

Bad things have happened this year, I never explained and I want to write about this for no-believers in Covid disease. First I tested positive for Covid, then Bill. For the first week, we had mild symptoms like a cold then he got worst. Lying on his back, staring at the ceiling and wearing the same pajamas for days. A couple of days later I had to deal with which emergency room we should head to. Standing next to him while coughs into the covers. What I feared the most happened 2 days later, blood clots occur deep into the veins of his legs. I heard 2 times - " He may not survive the night". I remember the day after 1st surgery the doctors said to me he's showing signs of improvement. The next day they called back with a totally different message " he may not make it overnight". At that point, he was critically ill. Bill looked at his legs and knew something is wrong. We're all prepared to say goodbye to him. Even the odds were against him he made it. We had to make a decision about his legs. It was either amputate his left feet and live or leave on and die. It was a no-brainer.

Back on my overview:
1. Adam, our first experience. Perfect gentleman and a great lover. My number 1, I’m still texting with him from time to time, already turned down 5 invitations to visit him, I just can’t steal a whole weekend.
2. Brian - total waste.
3. Charlie- my personal trainer, nothing happened; bad for me.
4. Damian - great guy, great fuck
5. Eathan - very kinky, very dominant
6. Franco from Caribbean vacation - Great experience
7. Ann and Brian - Hubbies go along so well that I’m scared. Great fun, great guys.
8. Jack - douchebag, crossed the line
9. Franco from High school - I know him for more than 20 years, he’s my ex from HS, my first( first-first), we’re friends and have great memories to share even after 20 years. He's married; We reconnected when Bill have been in the hospital, he was staying in contact with me and has been a great support. He's the only one I'd interact with. That's the plan.

We're back on track to explore our fantasies. Still have my own issues around my sexuality. Am I normal? I don't love them, we're using them to feed our sex life. I just really like sex, Bill already fulfilled my emotional needs. One of the things he loves about me how strong I am. We're not perfect but we're perfect for each other.

I have peaks in my libido which I need to control better. I'm seeing a counselor, she helped me examine some of the mistakes I'd made. She's exactly what I need.

Another VHW gave me advice about my ultimate fantasy, but I don't believe I'd do anything before all this Covid pandemic goes away.

Like my new avatar

[tampajym]

Love the new Avatar. You are gorgeous. Sorry about Bill's problems. Hope the new year treats you better.

[BallSpanking]

Congratulations on overcoming the health issues.
Happy New Year ahead!

[crystal]

Congratulations on overcoming the health issues.
Happy New Year ahead!

Thanks, BallSpanking, you're always so nice

[afagehi7]

Sorry for your husband. That's crazy! I've not heard of covid losing a foot. Did he lose both or just one?

Very terrible news. A friend's father is double vaxxed and boostered and he landed in the hospital.

Is hubs ok now? Back home?

It's no joke. Those who have complications have serious ones.

Could you reveal this #1 fantasy? We'd love to hear about it.

[R_H_NC]

Hope y'all are doing great, Merry Christmas and have a great NYE party. We're about to cancel our plans for NYE as most of our friends(vanilla) are testing positive. That's not the purpose of my post to complain about the new Covid variant, it's been 9 months since we started our journey and it's time for an overview.

1. I love my husband
2. I occasionally have sex with other men, usually they're smart and funny. I kiss them, undress them, we fall in bed, he makes me come. It's everything and at the same time is nothing.
3. We're not into any humiliation. Stag/Vixen and swinging suit best for us.

Bad things have happened this year, I never explained and I want to write about this for no-believers in Covid disease. First I tested positive for Covid, then Bill. For the first week, we had mild symptoms like a cold then he got worst. Lying on his back, staring at the ceiling and wearing the same pajamas for days. A couple of days later I had to deal with which emergency room we should head to. Standing next to him while coughs into the covers. What I feared the most happened 2 days later, blood clots occur deep into the veins of his legs. I heard 2 times - " He may not survive the night". I remember the day after 1st surgery the doctors said to me he's showing signs of improvement. The next day they called back with a totally different message " he may not make it overnight". At that point, he was critically ill. Bill looked at his legs and knew something is wrong. We're all prepared to say goodbye to him. Even the odds were against him he made it. We had to make a decision about his legs. It was either amputate his left feet and live or leave on and die. It was a no-brainer.

Back on my overview:
1. Adam, our first experience. Perfect gentleman and a great lover. My number 1, I’m still texting with him from time to time, already turned down 5 invitations to visit him, I just can’t steal a whole weekend.
2. Brian - total waste.
3. Charlie- my personal trainer, nothing happened; bad for me.
4. Damian - great guy, great fuck
5. Eathan - very kinky, very dominant
6. Franco from Caribbean vacation - Great experience
7. Ann and Brian - Hubbies go along so well that I’m scared. Great fun, great guys.
8. Jack - douchebag, crossed the line
9. Franco from High school - I know him for more than 20 years, he’s my ex from HS, my first( first-first), we’re friends and have great memories to share even after 20 years. He's married; We reconnected when Bill have been in the hospital, he was staying in contact with me and has been a great support. He's the only one I'd interact with. That's the plan.

We're back on track to explore our fantasies. Still have my own issues around my sexuality. Am I normal? I don't love them, we're using them to feed our sex life. I just really like sex, Bill already fulfilled my emotional needs. One of the things he loves about me how strong I am. We're not perfect but we're perfect for each other.

I have peaks in my libido which I need to control better. I'm seeing a counselor, she helped me examine some of the mistakes I'd made. She's exactly what I need.

Another VHW gave me advice about my ultimate fantasy, but I don't believe I'd do anything before all this Covid pandemic goes away.

Like my new avatar

I am so very sorry about Bill's health issues and at the same time very glad he is still around.

Good luck to both of you.