Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[veub]

I do not have any recent communications from them, but I can probably give you a fairly close idea of what has happened.
Mrs Reese became frustrated and disenchanted with HotWifing on account of all the effort it took. Mr Reese is a bit of a kinky guy, and Mrs Reese would do a lot of playing on his request. I think she would have been happier to keep it more in control. This is not to say she didn't have a great time, her stories speak for themselves. But the time and energy it took to keep this going finally wore her out. Added to which some not so gratifying experiences also contributed to her dimming desire to fuck around.

I think Mrs Reese would have been happy to remain in a vanilla marriage, but is also generally alright with having a tryst here or there (in part at least to keep her hubby happy) though this is not to say she didn't have her own enjoyment from it. Ultimately, I think they are a stable couple, living life, and Mrs Reese takes an occasional lover, knowing it is what her husband loves.

So why aren't they posting anymore?

I can answer that. It took too much damned time and effort to keep everyone here informed, responding to PM's, etc. As you have seen, posters here are not shy int expressing their opinions/kinks, and it is the HW who has to respond or deal with all the online fallout. It burned her out, as happens with most long-time posting couples.

Have you heard anything from them?

[BallSpanking]

Nope

[veub]

I hope this last adventure was not a fatal mistake winding up like Ares. Though I just checked and both Ares and & Mr Ares have signed in again - her on 5/4 and him on 5/21 so maybe the speculation has been wrong. Maybe, like a lot of her posts the whole thing was fantasy.

[BallSpanking]

I doubt it. Mrs Reese has a good head on her shoulders and experience enough to know when she is getting too deep. It's a bit of a tightrope, but when it suits her, she manages it just fine. Personally, I think it would be wonderful if she could find one long term lover (if she wants that) and not have to go through the trials and errors of HW dating. I think she would be copacetic to that, but that is like the 'ideal' situation, and not easy to come by.

[mjb0007bond]

What an awesome thread this is. Years in the making. Reese's Rock!

[mjb0007bond]

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[mjb0007bond]

I love this thread. It's been an amazing journey for the Reese's. Reese's, I can't thank you enough for sharing your journey with us. Wish you the best.

[mjb0007bond]

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[veub]

I doubt it. Mrs Reese has a good head on her shoulders and experience enough to know when she is getting too deep. It's a bit of a tightrope, but when it suits her, she manages it just fine. Personally, I think it would be wonderful if she could find one long term lover (if she wants that) and not have to go through the trials and errors of HW dating. I think she would be copacetic to that, but that is like the 'ideal' situation, and not easy to come by.

It's been over a year for her, almost two and a half since he has logged in. Have you heard anything?

[BallSpanking]

No. My guess is they won't return.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

No. My guess is they won't return.

We can always hope.

I would not be surprised to see Ms Reese check in here sometime.

Mr GILF

[afagehi7]

No. My guess is they won't return.

We can always hope.

I would not be surprised to see Ms Reese check in here sometime.

Mr GILF

Wonder if they split up?

[mjb0007bond]

No. My guess is they won't return.

We can always hope.

I would not be surprised to see Ms Reese check in here sometime.

Mr GILF

Wonder if they split up?

I sure hope not.

[54321]

I am confident that the Reeses are very happy. As far as doing and then telling on OHW goes, they have definitely 'been there, done that'!
(And we are so grateful they did. Note to self: I must read through this entire thread again!)

54321

[afagehi7]

I am confident that the Reeses are very happy. As far as doing and then telling on OHW goes, they have definitely 'been there, done that'!
(And we are so grateful they did. Note to self: I must read through this entire thread again!)

54321

Truly epic! The way Ms Reese takes a big cock with ease is incredible.

Did they delete all the pictures? I skipped around and didn't see any

[Mr1SexyGILF]

I am confident that the Reeses are very happy. As far as doing and then telling on OHW goes, they have definitely 'been there, done that'!
(And we are so grateful they did. Note to self: I must read through this entire thread again!)

54321

Truly epic! The way Ms Reese takes a big cock with ease is incredible.

Unfortunately threads drop off after 1 year of inactivity. We keep this one bumped, gut the Hotties thread got away from us.

Mr GILF

Did they delete all the pictures? I skipped around and didn't see any

[Mr1SexyGILF]

I am confident that the Reeses are very happy. As far as doing and then telling on OHW goes, they have definitely 'been there, done that'!
(And we are so grateful they did. Note to self: I must read through this entire thread again!)

54321

Truly epic! The way Ms Reese takes a big cock with ease is incredible.

Did they delete all the pictures? I skipped around and didn't see any

Unfortunately threads drop off after 1 year of inactivity. We keep this one bumped, gut the Hotties thread got away from us.

Mr GILF

[afagehi7]

I am confident that the Reeses are very happy. As far as doing and then telling on OHW goes, they have definitely 'been there, done that'!
(And we are so grateful they did. Note to self: I must read through this entire thread again!)

54321

Truly epic! The way Ms Reese takes a big cock with ease is incredible.

Did they delete all the pictures? I skipped around and didn't see any

Unfortunately threads drop off after 1 year of inactivity. We keep this one bumped, gut the Hotties thread got away from us.

Mr GILF

Oh no! I wish threads like that would be flagged for non deletion. The short ones with only a few pictures yeah but these long multi-year threads should remain. I guess we could ask to be moved to the library

[54321]

I agree but of course, some people want their thread to drop off.

Dear Allengt and other moderators, might you ask the Reeses if they would mind being immortalised in an OHW 'Hall of Fame' with the proviso that, if they changed their minds in the future, their thread could be deleted?

They and Jane have produced the longest, hottest and most enlightening threads currently active. It would be a shame to see either of them just randomly lost.

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[james2011]

I do miss Mrs Reese....

[BallSpanking]

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[mjb0007bond]

Bumpity Bump Bump Bump

[lkh96]

If not for the bump I would have not recollect the legendary Reese's. It's been a long while.
Long live the Reese's.

As I re-read the last few pages regarding Mr.B I can't help but wonder if Mr.B and Mrs.Reese are together. I have argued with myself imagining (un)likely scenarios.
They had been on for a while with hubby's non oral consent. Mrs.reese on more than one occasion had written about her frustration with the rituals of dating and parting with a lover as a hotwife. She had fallen hard for few men, and had stopped playing to come back slowly months later. She had on more than one occasion wrote her wish for a vanilla marriage. Her sparse writing of her encounters with mr. B gave me the impression of sensual and stability rather than sexual and chasing the high with hubby (). It left me wondering if Mr.B was the man Mrs.reese wants in her life at this stage of her life.Also, Mr. B is 21 years her senior, so mrs. Reese might be practical yet again love knows no number.

Also, mrs.reese had always tease her husband with her posts and that could be just it, playing up hubby's kink and by extension all of us. She is a pro at this.

Again they had been very kind and understanding to us. They always kept us informed and were honest and forthcoming about their feelings for one another and their marriage, occasionally writing about the fights they hd.. To left us in a lurch was unlike of them.
With the onset of covid, something unforseen could have happen ....(that was fucking dark).
My imagination is playing detective lol.
Miss them and hope they are doin fine.

[BallSpanking]

I cannot speak from current facts, as I have heard nothing from them, but I can tell you Mrs Reese was burned out from having to respond to the thread, both as an administrator and content creator. In conjunction with her home family life, it left her little time for enjoyment as a HW.

She also shared with me her thread created pressure of expectation on her dates and outings, that had no real correspondence to her own emotions. All of these would be valid reasons to curtail posting, if not curtail the HW activities. It seems that Mrs Reese, like many HW's of long standing eventually settled for having one occasional outside BF, and the odd fling (which sounds quite healthy, and keeps the sexual energy in a marriage charged), but she felt it required an excessive discretion that was wearing. After a while she found she wasn't enjoying as she felt she should, and mostly stopped HW'ing. I believe she remains philosophically open to having a lover if an attractive man checked all her boxes, but she was perfectly happy being vanilla with Mr Reese.

Mr Reese, for his part, was all for her HW activities, and loved them. I think, as happens in many HW couples, he eventually stepped back and let her take the reins and direction of what she wanted as a HW. It was her decision, I believe, to largely withdraw. She remains a terrifically sexy woman, with a great head on her shoulders, good intuition, and a great deal of experience with men. She is beautiful. We should all be so lucky.

[Breakerhymen]

Why torture yourself this clearly isn’t healthy!