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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue Nov 30, 2021 2:24 pm

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Tue Nov 30, 2021 10:46 am
This morning, I reorganized what was built as an intended bedroom but serves as our home office to make room for this afternoon's delivery and installation of her B-day present.
Interesting comment..... unfortunately, I can't resist making a couple of guesses as to what that present might be.

Guess 1. An in home sauna to help keep her skin smooth and sexy for everyone!!! :D

Guess 2. A gun safe!! They can be very difficult to deliver due to the weight and often requires extra floor support. I don't know how many guns she has but I've had the thought for a while now that she has several handguns and probably a few long guns.(rifles/shotguns)

I would give my chances of being correct on either of those guesses at only 25%, if even that much. I don't know why I thought of the sauna it was something that just jumped up in my mind. The gun safe because it is something she/you should have at the house. It is often called a gun safe but a lot of people use them for other valuables as well as the guns.

These were just a few thoughts that popped up in my head as I was sitting back after a very busy day with a nice single malt scotch!!!
CHEERS!!!!! :mrgreen:

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Unread post by Des 31 » Tue Nov 30, 2021 3:06 pm

rascalnvixen wrote:
Tue Nov 30, 2021 2:24 pm
Des 31 wrote:
Tue Nov 30, 2021 10:46 am
This morning, I reorganized what was built as an intended bedroom but serves as our home office to make room for this afternoon's delivery and installation of her B-day present.
Guess 1. An in home sauna to help keep her skin smooth and sexy for everyone!!! :D

Guess 2. A gun safe!!

I would give my chances of being correct on either of those guesses at only 25%, if even that much. I don't know why I thought of the sauna it was something that just jumped up in my mind. The gun safe because it is something she/you should have at the house. It is often called a gun safe but a lot of people use them for other valuables as well as the guns.

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Good guesses - but she already has a small gun safe that was hidden into a wall when our house was remodeled - but quickly and cleverly accessible for anyone who knows where it is - She calls it her ninja safe (or "ninja-like-hidden" safe). So far, no requests for a sauna but we have patio room for that if the desire comes about.

She's off work tomorrow but she spotted the new stationary exercise bike in our office - and the artificial bonsai tree in the living room - a few minutes after arriving home this afternoon. I think I got the right things.

I rearranged my home office this morning, making room by moving the file cabinets into the wide closet behind the louvered doors. Two delivery guys set the bike up facing the window and helped me move the treadmill to set alongside it with both facing the window looking out onto the front lawn. She said she was thrilled and, "With all that, maybe I can keep my shape a few more years."

She said she's using it as soon as she's out of bed in the morning. I'll be on the treadmill alongside her. When she's ready, which I think is about ten minutes away, we're going out to dinner.

~ Des
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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue Nov 30, 2021 5:12 pm

Oh well!!! So much for SWAGs.... Scientific Wild Assed Guesses!!!! :lol:

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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Dec 01, 2021 5:15 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Tue Nov 30, 2021 5:12 pm
Oh well!!! So much for SWAGs.... Scientific Wild Assed Guesses!!!! :lol:

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Actually, I wish now I had thought of a sauna. :D
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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Dec 02, 2021 6:47 am

My wife's friend Derrick phoned her last night to set up a date some night during the next to weeks. Just which night is yet to be determined, but they were on the phone about a half-hour. He mentioned having read research he found online concerning a study neither of us had encountered. It's popularly known in psychology as "attachment theory." I searched online and found several references and read two published topics.

One of those websites covered what members here call hotwives or cuckolds and explains in academic jargon how and why those who are married are comfortable with a wife having multiple lovers; the depth of love that develops between them is similar to what they feel for the spouses. The site I read that it commonly doesn't interfere with the marriage and those affairs do not necessarily result in divorce; "cheating" in particular is common, but most affairs do not create problems among married couples.

The data fits our way of life and that of many OHW members. It occurred to me some here may wish to check that out.

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Unread post by Kept-man6275 » Thu Dec 02, 2021 7:15 am

Familiar with "attachment styles" and theories. Never seen articles (glamour or scientific) that speak to hotwifing/cuckoldry specifically. Perhaps you could be more specific as to which articles/websites you read that in? Love to know more!

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Dec 02, 2021 7:58 am

Can you give us a hint as to where we could find that article??

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Unread post by solstice » Thu Dec 02, 2021 10:46 am

Attachment theory
The article(s) were easily found on googling, but as far a it applied to infants , It was stating the obvious, because of their complete dependency, as soon as their source of food and comfort disappears from their immediate sight there must be a feeling of abandonment.
Carrying it through to adults, which they do is a different thing, there is a whole progression of different reaction, from detachment to clinging behaviour that can be observed with a few grownups.
In the latter years of our 53 year marriage, my wife and I became closer and more loving, In the final year of her life I was her sole carer: before that she made friends much easier than I .
I may have drifted considerably from the main tenant of the theory, my apologies.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Dec 02, 2021 12:13 pm

rascalnvixen wrote:
Thu Dec 02, 2021 7:58 am
Can you give us a hint as to where we could find that article??
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solstice wrote:
Thu Dec 02, 2021 10:46 am
the article(s) were easily found on googling, but as far a it applied to infants , It was stating the obvious, because of their complete dependency, as soon as their source of food and comfort disappears from their immediate sight there must be a feeling of abandonment.
Carrying it through to adults, which they do is a different thing, there is a whole progression of different reaction, from detachment to clinging behaviour that can be observed with a few grownups.
In the latter years of our 53 year marriage, my wife and I became closer and more loving, In the final year of her life I was her sole carer: before that she made friends much easier than I .
I may have drifted considerably from the main tenant of the theory, my apologies.
Because so many articles about attachment theory are online, I was unable to again find those two specific websites, but here are some options to enter into your search engine that I used a moment ago that will cover that:

1. A Closer Look at Attachment, Sexuality, and Couple Relationships
2. Attachment theory & non-monogamy
3. The benefits of having many lovers.
4. What polyamory can teach us about secure attachment.

Solstice's search concerning infants is also a part of attachment theory, but the above words, typed exactly as shown, entered into Google or another search engine should be sufficient to cover what I originally found. (I couldn't have put the exact website address here anyway if I had again found it. After having done that ignorantly about a year ago, I received a moderator's notice that entering other website addresses at this board reduces OHW's standing in search engines.)

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Unread post by Tracey52 » Fri Dec 03, 2021 10:31 pm

I hope Des gets a chance over the weekend to give us an update of the week past.🙏🏻

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Unread post by Des 31 » Mon Dec 06, 2021 11:09 am

Gigi arrived home from Peter’s place later than anticipated last Tuesday morning, just in time to shower, dress, have breakfast with me, and leave for the office. And later, I didn’t get around to asking about every detail of that Monday night with him; but her brief recount seemed as if it was a total blowout of fucking for the two of them.

She narrated only a few minutes of their time together as she and I were having sex. He has two Echo devices similar to our Alexa but with larger screens. Each hangs on the wall and one is in his bedroom alongside his bed. As his dick was entering her cunt, she asked the Echo device to play one of her favorite songs, “Highway Patrol” by Junior Brown. She hasn’t before done that with me but reported the rhythm was great for fucking. He slammed into her and both were laughing along with their moans and sighs.

I asked our Alexa to play the same song as my dick was in her and it had the same effect for the two of us. Recalling their sexual pairing, she cried out, “Ohhh my gawwwd! He fucked me so good.” She thinks their first time that night lasted about twenty minutes. I was cumming into her tunnel in five. I dismounted and laid alongside her.

She said the same singer has a good song to fit me after another guy has fucked her. She asked our device to play “Gotta Get Up Every Morning,” by the same singer. I chuckled at the lyrics. She propped herself up on her elbows, looked down at me, and said, “Do those words reflect your feelings when I get home after a date?” Well, not exactly, but it was funny and I agreed it befits the life of a lot of cuckolds. She said, “I’m glad you like our way of life.” I guess one would need to hear the words of that song to understand her meaning; the lyrics imply the guy doesn’t like it as much as I do. She no longer reminds me this was originally my idea. I think her once saying that was a defensive gesture; now, her attitude about dating others has become an ingrained part of our marital accord. And she owns it as her preference.

As she was leaving Peter’s home the following morning, he asked if they could again get together Saturday night at his home or ours. Unsure of what might come up, she told him it would be best to wait until following their bowling night on the seventh with his sister and her boyfriend. When telling me her response, she went on, “But he knows I like him fucking me.” I grinned and said I was pleased to hear that. My wife loves sex, but she has her limits.

On Friday, her bosses’ wife had an engagement with two women in her book club and was to be out until nine that night. So that day, he walked through his and my wife’s inter-connecting office door and told her how and why he changed his mind about his wife and me having sex; I interpreted her explanation as meaning guilt on his part had begun to set in. Like me, his wife is pleased he and my wife have relented in their restrictions.

Because his wife was out that night,he asked Gigi if she could come over to their home after work. She suggested our place instead. She phoned me at work to let me know. I told her, “Sure. To me, love means giving you the freedom to fuck anyone you want.” She chuckled and said, “I know.” I was to leave my office about the same time as she was to leave the bank, so I would be at home while he was there. I had no problem with their taking our bedroom for a few hours.

He arrived soon after she drove up around 4:35. The three of us talked a few minutes about workaday matters. My wife had once told him she never considered any career except banking and that was her reason for her college courses in fiance. He asked my wife what caused her to consider banking at a young age. I had been told in the past she didn’t remember what first gave her that notion.

Whenever Gigi doesn’t have a known answer to a question, she responds with a joke. She said, ”I almost took a different path. As I was getting older, I lost a lot of people along the way. So I decided my first choice as a tour guide wasn’t a good idea.”

He laughed, turned to me, and said, “Where does she get all these comebacks?” I most often don’t know either.

I asked if they cared to sit in out enclosed patio’s hot tub a few minutes. I turned on the tub’s bubbler and heater, grabbed three beach-size towels from the bath, and set them on the table alongside the hot tub. We stripped down in our living room and left our clothes on the couch. My wife was the first to crawl in. He sat alongside her and I sat at the far side.

His arm lay on the rim behind her neck. Within a minute or two, I noticed Gigi’s shoulder jiggle somewhat and realized she was stroking his dick beneath the waters. He turned his head aside and kissed her fully on the lips. She responded by encircling her arms about his neck. By that time, my cock was fully erect.

She shifted to sit atop his lap. From experience I know that inserting my penis into my wife’s opening isn’t easy in the hot tub, so I’m reasonably sure his shaft wasn’t inside her but more likely between her thighs. She turned about, pressing her bare breasts to his chest, and whispered in his ear.

She announced to me they were going to the bedroom and that I’m welcomed to follow if I wished. Normally, I would tell them they might prefer to be alone but instead now nodded affirmatively and responded , “Sounds good to me. I’ll be a quiet watcher.” He flashed a smile and facial expression that could be taken as he would make sure I wasn’t disappointed, but I could have been mistaken in my assumption.

We dried off and I followed them down our hallway to the bedroom.

Evidently, she knew his initial preference. She knelt onto the bed on all fours, bracing her body onto the mattress with her hands. I sat in the corner chair five feet from our bed and he mounted her from behind. The sight of his bare cock parting her opening took my breath away. I grasped my dick but felt as if I was about to cum immediately and held off stroking.

She squealed in terror as his massive cock entered her but within seconds yelped excitedly and wailed, “Ohhh! Mr. B!” His hands gripped her hips, his fingers pressing tightly into her firm flesh. He thrust into her like a prize stallion on a mare. Her eyes rolled up so far in their sockets I could see only the whites of her eyeballs. My wife was immediately turned on like someone had flipped a light switch. She wailed, “Fuck! Fuck! Yes! Like that!

He muttered, “Is this better than fucking just one man your whole life?” She howled, “Ahh! Ohh! Fuck, yes! I love your big schlong!” I couldn’t recall her before having mentioned loving his long, broad cock, but her cries stimulated me as I jerked my dick. I doubted Gigi knew the origin of the term, “schlong,” but would later tell her. It’s Middle High German - “slange,” meaning "snake." With his impressive size, there’s a resemblance there.

I don’t often get to see them fucking but thought, if she is this hot with me in the room with them, how excited she must be when alone with him and free to verbally and physically express her feelings. It’s times like this I again realize it really is better with another guy than with her husband she lives with every day. She has explained those reasons to me, but actually seeing him fuck her makes it crystal clear. I gripped my rigid dick.

She excitedly massaged her clitoris as he shagged her. Her mouth was open and her lips quivered as she whined, “Unh, unh, unh!” with each thrust of his cock. Five minutes into his fucking her, she bit her lower lip and squealed at the sensation in a seconds-long climax. Her body convulsed and shuddered like a woman with high fever.

He withdrew his stalk and rolled her onto her back beneath him. In their missionary position, he knelt between her thighs and maneuvered his tool to her shaven cunt. She positioned her legs atop his shoulders and whimpered as he easily slid into her opening. He leaned in to kiss her deeply and her arms encircled his neck. Bracing his hands at each side of her head, he raised his torso to gaze down upon her. I assumed that in her excitement, she had forgotten I was watching, but I was wrong. She turned her head aside to glance at me jerking off in the chair and, with a wave of her hand, invited me to come closer.

I strode over to the bedside. She grasped the base of my cock and drew my dickhead to within an inch of her mouth. He watched as I inserted my rigid member into her lips. He groaned as he and I fucked her two orifices. The sensation overwhelmed me. None of us said a word, but Gigi emitted repetitive sobs of “Mmphh!” as her mouth clamped onto my cock.

My eyes were glued onto the sight of his dick driving in and out of my wife’s cunt. Her hips gyrated responsively with each thrust but she somehow found the ability to simultaneously bob her head onto my putz. I am unsure whether my moans were in response to his fucking her or the sensations I was feeling in the warmth of her mouth – It was probably both. I said to him, “I love what you do for her.” He muttered, “I love what she does for me.”

He grunted and his body quivered. I realized he was about to ejaculate into my wife’s hot twat. My awareness of his semen jetting into her sent me over the top and I too was cumming hard. Gigi gulped my seed spurting into her throat and increased the tempo of her head movements until draining every last drop of semen. She swallowed and turned to her boss, drew him close, and tongue-kissed him with a stream of my birth juice running down her chin. She rolled her widened eyes aside to look at me as they kissed, but I have no idea what she was then thinking and forgot until this moment as I write this to even ask.

I asked if either wanted a cola, beer, or whatever. Gigi said snacks would be great. I left for the kitchen as they embraced. I returned with a tray topped with pop-chips, dip, peanuts, two wine glasses, and a bottle of Bordeaux and set it on the bedside table. I then picked up their clothes from the living room and left them folded in the bedroom chair. Telling them I was going to the hall bath for a shower and letting them talk for a while, I pulled my robe from the closet and left. For their comfort, I had no intention of returning to the bedroom. After showering, I watched TV in the living room until the two were dressed and walked out to join me around 8 p.m.

Gigi walked him to the door, kissed him goodnight, and said, “Thank you for tonight.” He said he was glad he “came,” then laughed upon realizing his remark had more than one meaning. My wife snickered and said, “I’m glad you ‘came’ too.”

* * * * *

Unless their plans change the coming weekend, my wife’s friend Derrick will be fucking her overnight. He and Gigi’s young fuckbuddy Beau got together at a local Irish pub, and she was told they talked about the possibility of the two again double-teaming my wife. I asked her if she thought that might come about this weekend. She said she’s not yet certain she will be free just for Derrick but added, “I suppose it’s possible. His wife Sherry is putting in a lot of overtime at the airport.” She paused a moment and said, “If I’m later told by Derrick he has invited Beau over the same night, I’ll invite you too.”

I’m told her boss has a meeting with a bank’s new commerical client that night. Dependent upon my workload that day, I may ask his wife if she is free that night to visit with me at our home.

Then, about an hour ago, my wife left a message on my cell phone that she will be an hour or so late getting home tonight. Her boss asked her to stick around after the office closes at four p.m. She didn’t need to tell me why. I know what that means.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Mon Dec 06, 2021 4:39 pm

Update, same day -
When I wrote above that “I know what that means” after my wife said her boss wanted her to stay a while after closing hours, I was wrong. I assumed she would be giving him oral sex,and she told me she thought the same at the time we talked on the phone. That’s rather common for her after-hours meetings with him. She told me when coming home tonight it didn’t turn out that way.

When the last of the top office floor staff left for the day, she walked into his sound-proof office and turned the lock in the event the evening cleaning staff came earlier than usual. Her bosses’ suit coat was draped over his chair behind his desk. She turned off the light switch alongside the entryway and the room’s only lighting was that of the setting sun streaming through the slits of his window’s closed blinds. Now in his shadowed office, he invited her to sit on his couch. He removed her panties, knelt to part her legs, and his tongue lapped her clitoris. She creamed and climaxed within two minutes. He lifted her up by a hand, led her to his desk, and urged her to bend over, face down onto the desktop. He said, “Now me.”

My wife grinned at her submissive position and didn’t turn to look back at him. Instead, she looked aside at his grandfather clock’s time of 4:20, then to his corner office window at the lights from buildings across the street. He parted her legs, unbuckled his pants, and let them drop to his ankles.

She whimpered and her body shimmied the moment his cockhead parted her cuntal folds. She stammered, His dick slid in easier than usual and he vigorously fucked her as she sobbed, “I love how you care for my needs.” All his actions were behind her and out of her sight, which somehow added to her excitation.

And sooner than usual, he mumbled, “I’m about to cum.” She pleaded, “Stay inside me!” His semen jetted into her and as doubtful as it seems to me, she claims she felt it splatter against her cervix. She pressed her fists onto the desktop and squealed, “I feel it!” The corner grandfather clock dinged at 4:30.He had fucked her ten minutes. As she put on her panties and smoothed out her skirt, she chuckled and mentioned he had ejaculated more quickly than usual. As he buckled his belt, he said his reason might be he had been thinking about her all that day. She didn’t express her first intended comment; she was about to say, “That’s as good an excuse as any.” Instead, she smiled, thanked him for their “after-hours give-and-take,” and said she would leave the building first. When the two are together in the building after work hours, they leave fifteen minutes apart.

I wanted to fuck her after telling me this, but she was bushed and suggested we wait until morning. She showered and went to bed where she’s now sleeping for a while.

~ Des
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Unread post by Tracey52 » Mon Dec 06, 2021 5:24 pm

That update was worth the wait Des. It’s interesting that about a month ago you thought that Gigi and Mr B wouldn’t have much time for sex on the run to Xmas. They obviously made space in their calendar.

I love that you we’re able to join in. Their attitude is certainly changing.

With regards to Peter and the others, Gigi certainly has them wrapped around her fingers and manages them all expertly.

You didn’t mention anything about her birthday. Did she like her present(s)?

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Unread post by Tracey52 » Mon Dec 06, 2021 9:45 pm

Had a listen to those songs Des. It seems Gigi likes to get fucked fast. Both songs had quite a tempo. Needed the flourishing finish though.

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Unread post by Scotch98 » Tue Dec 07, 2021 2:47 am

Wow Awesome update. Loved your description of the threesome w/ Gigi's boss. Very erotic and again I love the detail you provide which make it seem that we are actually there. Love the new Avatar. Is that Gigi? Simply beautiful. Again thanks for sharing these details w/ us. have a great day....Cheers

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What an incredible relationship. The ability to enjoy Gigi's adventures while she is alone with her lovers and being in the same room watching then participating puts Des on a pedestal for me.

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue Dec 07, 2021 8:59 am

Thanks for the update, Des! No time to write much as Vixen & I are visiting in Maine for a cjopkevof weeks. But true to form, I have a question. What did Gigi's boss say were his reasons for changing his mind about you and his wife having sex?
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rascalnvixen wrote:
Tue Dec 07, 2021 8:59 am
Thanks for the update, Des! No time to write much as Vixen & I are visiting in Maine for a cjopkevof weeks. But true to form, I have a question. What did Gigi's boss say were his reasons for changing his mind about you and his wife having sex?
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Hi Rascal. I'm sure it's more complicated than he has expressed. His remarks to my wife were essentially that he felt some guilt after his wife had mentioned she had never complained about the sexual relationship with Gigi all this time and he had no more reason than she to feel insecure about their marriage if she had the same freedom as he. Gigi came to agree. I don't think it's all that simple, but I haven't questioned it.

My assistant Samantha and I will be out of town Friday through noon Sunday with clients who are unable to meet extensively with us during the work week.

Our insurance agent phoned to apologize he hadn't had time to stop by with a gift before Gigi's birthday on the first but has a gift for her and wished to deliver it to our home Saturday night. I told him I would be out of town that evening but she will be home. I asked Gigi to get on the other line. She invited him to stay overnight if he wished and he's going to do that. He asked if I had a problem with it. I told him he would be doing us both a favor. He liked that.

It would be great if I was home while they're fucking but I'm glad she won't be alone while I'm away. I'll be back early Sunday afternoon and told Gigi I would take him and her to a late lunch if he's still here. She doesn't think he's likely to stay that long but will ask him. His insurance practice has been growing and is close to being one of the largest in our town.

Her newest guy Derrick and she have plans to get together Friday night. From a previous conversation, I thought perhaps it might also be with Beau as a threesome, but Derrick said his ex-wife and her live-in business partner Chase would like to go out to dinner with him and my wife that night. He isn't sure but thinks they want to swing with them and asked Gigi what she thought about that. She said it's up to him, whatever he wants. Either way, since she will be with Derrick that night anyway, this will be a well-dicked weekend for her.

And, of course, I was excited about all of that. So we went to bed early and I fucked her brains out and am up two hours early this morning.

~ Des
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Unread post by Tracey52 » Thu Dec 09, 2021 2:26 am

Up early Des? How about you and Samantha this weekend? What’s good for the goose and all that?

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Dec 09, 2021 2:36 am

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Up early Des? How about you and Samantha this weekend? What’s good for the goose and all that?
Well, when Sam heard the senior partner wanted her to accompany me, she came to my office and told me privately she's looking forward to "another overnight trip" with me. I grinned and didn't argue. I assume I know where that's going this Friday night. She will be a full partner with the firm the first of January, so I'll be looking for another assistant. This trip is in our state, so it's a driving trip and she will be my passenger.

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Unread post by solstice » Thu Dec 09, 2021 7:22 am

Des writes: I'm glad she won't be alone while I'm away.

Not because of her vulnerability on your absence, she is a lady who knows how to look after herself.

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Unread post by solstice » Thu Dec 09, 2021 7:32 am

Sam must be an exceptional employee to have risen so rapidly in your company. I know you have a certain ambivalence in having an ongoing relationship with her, but she would appear to be an entertaining travel companion.
I am sure there must be some reversals in Gigi's and your journey through life, do we only hear of the good times?

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Dec 09, 2021 8:21 am

solstice wrote:
Thu Dec 09, 2021 7:32 am
Sam must be an exceptional employee to have risen so rapidly in your company. I know you have a certain ambivalence in having an ongoing relationship with her, but she would appear to be an entertaining travel companion.
I am sure there must be some reversals in Gigi's and your journey through life, do we only hear of the good times?
Well, unless you consider something like the slip-and-fall I had recently, those are rare with us. Sure, we may disagree on some things, but I never argue with her or with anyone else. I was taught a formula when I was around 12 and still use that for coming to decisions that meet both our preferences. She came to adopt the same method of offering options when we disagreed on whatever one of us doesn't like. We have at times told others how we do that when anyone asks why we don't seem to disagree on anything, but few seem to be able to carry it off. I don't know why that is. It's actually simple.

Sexually, it's been a while since that came about. When we were new at this, she had a series of one-night stands and those were occasionally not satisfying for a variety of reasons. (Or at least she expressed disappointment. I then thought the reason was her hyper-sex drive that I assume came about from having the then-new freedom to fuck other men.)

She is much happier now with her regular guys as she now has. It's mostly good times.

~ Des
Our hotwife history from its beginning at viewtopic.php?f=5&t=50057

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by afagehi7 » Thu Dec 09, 2021 11:38 am

Des 31 wrote:
Thu Dec 09, 2021 8:21 am
solstice wrote:
Thu Dec 09, 2021 7:32 am
Sam must be an exceptional employee to have risen so rapidly in your company. I know you have a certain ambivalence in having an ongoing relationship with her, but she would appear to be an entertaining travel companion.
I am sure there must be some reversals in Gigi's and your journey through life, do we only hear of the good times?
Well, unless you consider something like the slip-and-fall I had recently, those are rare with us. Sure, we may disagree on some things, but I never argue with her or with anyone else. I was taught a formula when I was around 12 and still use that for coming to decisions that meet both our preferences. She came to adopt the same method of offering options when we disagreed on whatever one of us doesn't like. We have at times told others how we do that when anyone asks why we don't seem to disagree on anything, but few seem to be able to carry it off. I don't know why that is. It's actually simple.

Sexually, it's been a while since that came about. When we were new at this, she had a series of one-night stands and those were occasionally not satisfying for a variety of reasons. (Or at least she expressed disappointment. I then thought the reason was her hyper-sex drive that I assume came about from having the then-new freedom to fuck other men.)

She is much happier now with her regular guys as she now has. It's mostly good times.

~ Des
What is this formula? Maybe I can adopt it.

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Dec 09, 2021 3:05 pm

afagehi7 wrote:
Thu Dec 09, 2021 11:38 am
Des 31 wrote:
Thu Dec 09, 2021 8:21 am
solstice wrote:
Thu Dec 09, 2021 7:32 am
Sam must be an exceptional employee to have risen so rapidly in your company. I know you have a certain ambivalence in having an ongoing relationship with her, but she would appear to be an entertaining travel companion.
I am sure there must be some reversals in Gigi's and your journey through life, do we only hear of the good times?
Well, unless you consider something like the slip-and-fall I had recently, those are rare with us. Sure, we may disagree on some things, but I never argue with her or with anyone else. I was taught a formula when I was around 12 and still use that for coming to decisions that meet both our preferences. She came to adopt the same method of offering options when we disagreed on whatever one of us doesn't like. We have at times told others how we do that when anyone asks why we don't seem to disagree on anything, but few seem to be able to carry it off. I don't know why that is. It's actually simple.

Sexually, it's been a while since that came about. When we were new at this, she had a series of one-night stands and those were occasionally not satisfying for a variety of reasons. (Or at least she expressed disappointment. I then thought the reason was her hyper-sex drive that I assume came about from having the then-new freedom to fuck other men.)

She is much happier now with her regular guys as she now has. It's mostly good times.

~ Des
What is this formula? Maybe I can adopt it.
First, remember that some people just want attention and just enjoy arguing. I get this with clients when presenting our advertising products. Never give negative attention by engaging in their way when they say anything negative. Don’t give them the gratification but instead offer other options and ask for their opinion of each option. Once you allow someone to make you respond in anger, you have just turned over the power to that person.

Second, remember that your body releases chemicals in your brain when you feel anger. Avoid your natural reaction. This is easy to control if you understand what your body is trying to make you do. Don’t be a slave to those body chemicals.

If it’s your spouse, girlfriend, or a member of your family,
anger comes about more quickly for the reason they can hurt you more than those you care less about.

Expressing anger to a loved one threatens your relationship with that person, and whatever you may want to say in response puts the other in a fight-or-flight mode. The potential pay-off is loss and depression.

The most important part of the formula is to never raise your voice. If the other person expresses anger, answer in a whisper and they almost always calm down. And when you answer, do what I do at work – offer an option and ask their opinion of what they think about that.

The point is to stop yourself before it goes too far. If you get to the point you start shouting, want to go around slamming doors or throwing something against the wall, you have already gone too far. If I did any of that, I would have just become a slave to my emotions – to those chemicals in my body that I allowed to control me.

Whatever you do, don’t ever allow anyone to goad you into arguing. That gives them the power to control your behavior. And, frankly, I’m the only one I want to control my behavior. Otherwise, I just come off like an idiot puppet of the other person.

That’s the formula taught me by my super-salesman father (who worked his entire career for a major defense contractor) when I was about 12 and I learned it well. If I argued with my wife like some couples I have known, our marriage probably wouldn’t have survived.

~ Des
Our hotwife history from its beginning at viewtopic.php?f=5&t=50057

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