I brought up the notion of sharing at the end of the first year just in passing. By the end of the second year I introduced her to the idea of a hotwife and how it was a turn-on/kink that I would be open to exploring. At the end of the third year it’s something that she is now aware of but has yet to embrace.
So far she’s just been open to baby steps like texting with a married former coworker of hers who tells her that he wants to fuck her and showing me the text exchanges, being on tinder (for women only right now), and sometimes discussing more of what it would look like for our relationship if she did agree to it.
Baby steps but from what I gather on this forum any progress is worth celebrating as the progression can be slow but worth the wait if approached correctly as a couple.
How many years did you & your talk about it?
Re: How many years did you & your talk about it?
I clicked 20+ cuz I started fantasizing about it over 20 years ago and she began making up stories during sex at that time but we didn’t start seriously discussing actual doing till about a year ago.
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Nearnorth4livin
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Re: How many years did you & your talk about it?
Been just over 2yrs since i brought it up to the wife..slow road but shes been talking to a guy for a few months..he really wants to fuck her...she told him all she wants is to fuck n nothing more..just letting her move along at her own pace...
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Re: How many years did you & your talk about it?
I didn't vote, because it seems the questions are for those who have made the "LifeStyle" a reality. And, we have not yet made it a reality.
We HAVE BEEN evolving the "lifestyle fantasy" for five to ten years; gradually building intensity and excitement; all while exploring and absorbing new specific sexual fantasies with which to experiment.
For several months we've been into a "fantasy training curriculum" that has the very real objective of training me to become sexually Submissive and her to become sexually Domme through the use of lessons that we can execute in bed with just the two of us.
Though there is no specific plan or schedule to transition, the several "lessons" teach us tolerance for and enjoyment of activities that stretch our sexual boundaries and expose us to new sexual and social concepts, that we have read are fundamental to the objective of preparing us for a transition into "REAL LIFE DOM-SUB CUCKOLDING."
Anyway, it's fun.......................
We HAVE BEEN evolving the "lifestyle fantasy" for five to ten years; gradually building intensity and excitement; all while exploring and absorbing new specific sexual fantasies with which to experiment.
For several months we've been into a "fantasy training curriculum" that has the very real objective of training me to become sexually Submissive and her to become sexually Domme through the use of lessons that we can execute in bed with just the two of us.
Though there is no specific plan or schedule to transition, the several "lessons" teach us tolerance for and enjoyment of activities that stretch our sexual boundaries and expose us to new sexual and social concepts, that we have read are fundamental to the objective of preparing us for a transition into "REAL LIFE DOM-SUB CUCKOLDING."
Anyway, it's fun.......................