Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[slenderfish]

We had our first session with the sex-positive therapist today. I think it went well. She kind of rushed us through the whole analyze part and went straight to the physical intimacy. Was especially attentive to body language, etc.

She suggested SW should consider an individual session to begin releasing the stress that the therapist discerned exists between her image of herself versus her actual beautiful and sexy self. To include some physical contact and release exercises. She appears to be interested in helping SW embrace her sexuality.

Also gave us some homework which includes SW to spend time alone with herself, touching her body and feeling its pleasure, but no vibrators allowed. Just her hands and herself.

I'm not going to get in the way of this!

[slenderfish]

SW is kind of in the doldrums this week because Mr. G cancelled at the last minute yesterday, and also at the time cancelled for Friday. Too much to do to get the new club going, the one his wife will be operating.

[BallSpanking]

Interesting that SW sets so much store on her workouts, but by your description, it is the workouts she is missing, and not Mr G.
Regarding her self knowledge exercises, as a gentleman, your first impulse, of course, would be to lend a hand ...

[Parsifal]

We had our first session with the sex-positive therapist today. I think it went well. She kind of rushed us through the whole analyze part and went straight to the physical intimacy. Was especially attentive to body language, etc.

She suggested SW should consider an individual session to begin releasing the stress that the therapist discerned exists between her image of herself versus her actual beautiful and sexy self. To include some physical contact and release exercises. She appears to be interested in helping SW embrace her sexuality.

Also gave us some homework which includes SW to spend time alone with herself, touching her body and feeling its pleasure, but no vibrators allowed. Just her hands and herself.

I'm not going to get in the way of this!

I'm very interested in how your therapist designs the protocols to help your wife bridge that gap.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

We had our first session with the sex-positive therapist today. I think it went well. She kind of rushed us through the whole analyze part and went straight to the physical intimacy. Was especially attentive to body language, etc.

She suggested SW should consider an individual session to begin releasing the stress that the therapist discerned exists between her image of herself versus her actual beautiful and sexy self. To include some physical contact and release exercises. She appears to be interested in helping SW embrace her sexuality.

Also gave us some homework which includes SW to spend time alone with herself, touching her body and feeling its pleasure, but no vibrators allowed. Just her hands and herself.

I'm not going to get in the way of this!

I think you told therapist that SW is hotwife and you want to support her.
What she told you?

[slenderfish]

I think you told therapist that SW is hotwife and you want to support her.
What she told you?

Nope, not yet. The first session was just getting to know each other. SW said "We have a lot to unpack on the personal fantasy subjects" and the therapist said "That's for future sessions."

[Mr Mrs Cream]

I think you told therapist that SW is hotwife and you want to support her.
What she told you?

Nope, not yet. The first session was just getting to know each other. SW said "We have a lot to unpack on the personal fantasy subjects" and the therapist said "That's for future sessions."

I think she has heard a lot, but when she finds out that you want for such a glamorous woman as SW - black big cock, she will lose her slippers.

[bubbajack]

Based solely on my impressions of what you have said and shown us, I think the therapist is right on the money about your beautiful, conflicted wife.

With all best wishes,

B.

[slenderfish]

Happy New Year!

We had a Friday night late dinner rez at SWs favorite place (where she took Mr. B the night I was going skiing a couple of years ago and they disappeared for 45 min after closing the place down and going to his car instead of hers). The rez was for four people and she was planning that we introduce her friend (let's call her Ms. W) to my friend Mr. C. Ms. W became single earlier in 2021 and is now looking to date.

(I introduced Ms. W about a month ago, she was with SW at the second wine event, the one when I sent SW ahead of me for about 90 min and afterward we took Ms. W to the bar/restaurant, the one where on a different night SW went alone and met the black guys; when we took Ms. W there she had said she wanted to date and SW mentioned we should introduce to Mr. C but I said Ms. C was too near his divorce and not ready for anything serious, to which Ms. W said "I'm not 18 years old, I can fuck a guy and not get attached.)

We'd tried to get these two together a couple of weeks ago when we went out with Mr. R (the birthday boy from this past June when SW jumped into the pool at the end of the party). Mr. R was, as expected, smitten with Ms. W and wants to see her again. But we weren't trying to set them up and Mr. R is not appealing to Ms. W (or to SW for that matter) except for his personality and his financial condition (both are exceptional).

I'd mentioned that Ms. W was very flirtatious when I arrived at the wine event some weeks ago. Was also very friendly at the next time (with Mr. R) but nothing stood out in my mind.

Finally, Mr. C has been trying to date Ms. K (of pantygate fame) because she is super hot and sexy and all that. He knows her from our get-togethers over the years. But she is really a bigger-better-deal woman and it's apparent to SW and me that Ms. K is keeping Mr. C low in her rotation of guys. As such, she (predictably) would not commit to spending New Year's Eve with Mr. C. So SW took advantage of this and asked me to invite Mr. C to her dinner reservation, in order for him to finally meet Ms. W.

Back to the 31st. Because of the late rez and that Mr. C lives about 45 minutes to the north of us, we invited him to come early and have a cocktail at our house. We casually invited all our local friends who were in town; Ms. V came along with her newest date, and SW's other girlfriend Ms. T dropped by. Ms. V and Ms. T were with SW during the times when she had "girls' night" when I was away and both were along when SW secretly invited Mr. B. Finally, Ms. V remains in close contact with Ms. K and will certainly let her know that Mr. C was at our house and was introduced to Ms. W. Methinks SW is trying to do a bit of a power play on Ms. K (e.g. introducing Ms. W to Mr. C).

We organized cheese plates, wine, champagne, and two bottles of high-end tequila. These got the party started. I was in charge of the music. SW was getting ready and asked me to go pick up Ms. W so she would not have to drive. I ran over there and she came out. Stunning! I complimented her on the dress, it was short and showed off her legs that I had not realized are so fabulous. Got home in less than five minutes. Mr. C was just arriving at that time and I made the introductions out in front of the house and we then went inside. Served Champagne and SW came out and joined us, then the other guests arrived.

The five women were all hot. I of course think SW is the hottest but these other four are right up there. Ms. W is the new girl and got along well.

The dinner rez was for 4 people and we were assuming it would be possible to squeeze in a fifth (Ms. T) but with Ms. V and her guy it was not practicable, so we ordered pick-up from a nice local restaurant and Mr. C and I retrieved it and brought it home. While gone for 15 minutes SW pulled out and served one of my wines I'd been keeping for years, for aging, a 2012 Sassicaia which is not available to purchase and if it was, would be at least $300. I'm still pissed that she did it, especially that they drank it all and she never even mentioned it. I was unaware until I went to clean up after the final the guests went home and we closed down the party just before 2:00 a.m. At this point SW was blasted and had a really fun night, etc.

SW had prepared the downstairs guest room, washed the sheets and got it all ready. Told Mr. C he could and should stay over, to avoid driving. I then realized why she had offered me to drive Ms. W. She was hoping Mr. C and Ms. W would retire to the guest room and have the full encounter.

SW was really pushing Mr. C and Ms. W. She was taking each of them aside and telling whey they are a "perfect" match, etc. I thought it was too much, but everyone was drinking, etc. so nobody got offended. After midnight and the celebratory hugs and kisses, the four of us were the last ones and Mr. C and Ms. W were in the love seat (the one with Mr. B and SW from the security tape!) and SW was sitting in a chair leaning toward them while I was changing the music; she'd instructed me to put on a sexy love song. She then exclaimed "you two need to kiss" and just sat there watching them as if she were in the first row of seats at a movie. Mr. C said that we (SW and I) should kiss and give him a chance to do the same with Ms. W. So that's exactly what we did! We made out, and they made out, and SW was watching out of the side of her eyes and getting worked up with the watching.

But Ms. W had taken too much tequila and wine. SW overdid it. She started feeling queasy and SW took her away for a half hour and got her some water, etc. By the time Ms. W was back, she was no longer in the kissing mood and did a bit of dancing with me, etc. She was being nice but trying to downplay with Mr. C a bit.

By 1:30 a.m. she pulled SW aside and said she is ready to go home. SW of course offered me to drive her. I'd been keeping myself limited in the alcohol intake just for this very possibility. Also so that I could make sure the party didn't go downhill, etc. And of course so that I would be ready for some late-night raunchy sex, if that was in the cards.

I helped Ms. W down the stairs. She was really drunk. SW told me to carry her down. I started to pick up Ms. W and she said she can walk. I held her hand and her shoulders and she was fine. She stopped and asked SW "Are you okay with your husband driving me home?" and she asked me the same thing. I caught a bit of extra energy in the asking, but ignored it. I said "In my world you go home with the one who brung ya" and that I'd been keeping myself able to drive, etc.

In the car, drove her home, tried to be the gentleman to make sure she got in okay, but i definitely did not want to walk her to her front door, etc. She said she was okay with the walk up and key to get into her place, and I said that I would stay in the car until she sent me a text message that she was inside and safe, then drive home.

She looked at me and said "So we're good?" and I of course said yes. She said it again, "We're good, you and me?" and I again said yes. Then she exited the car.

I waited and waited but no text message. So I gave up waiting and called her.

She answered and acknowledged she'd not sent the text message. I confirmed she'd made it inside, was safe, etc. She confirmed.she was okay and then said "You are such the gentleman, a lovely man, the only thing left is for you to come up and tuck me into bed."

I smiled to myself and realized this is an unusual situation and suddenly wondered if SW had shared some of our secrets with Ms. W.?

I answered something nice and clever and asked her to drink lots of water and that we'd all circle back around in the morning. And drove home with a smile on my face. Well, well. Sorry Mr. C (not sorry).

When I got home, I surveyed the damage. Mr. C was fast asleep downstairs. SW was ready for bed and waiting for me. I discovered the empty bottle of my collectible wine. I was not angry but did mention it to SW and that I was more hurt that she'd hidden it from me and not even shared any with me. I figured if nothing else she would be apologetic and more in the mood for my hard on that sprung up extra hard after my surprising conversation with Ms. W.

SW said I should not be angry or sad, that it was just a really fun party and so what if a bottle of nicer wine contributed to the fun? Said that I should come into the bed and we could do some of our "homework" from the therapist. I smiled, got naked, and slipped into bed. I helped her take off her pajamas and underwear, but she kept her shirt on. I moved to enter her from behind but she said we were going to "cuddle" as per the homework. I pointed out that it was supposed to be fully naked and that having sex was a permissible outcome of the cuddling homework. She basically said no.

I had a fitful sleep and woke up early (7:00 a.m.) and went out to start addressing the day and a bit of cleanup from the party. SW appeared about a half hour later and asked me to come back to bed, for naked snuggling etc. She said she was ready for sex and I realized she was now aware enough that she realized how the night transpired and ended, and she wanted to kind of make it right. So we kind of "made it right" at that point but I wasn't that into it after all the ups and downs of overnight, I mean, it was good for me and I'm sure for her, not complaining, but I'd had a short and rough night.

SW slept until noon. Mr. C and I went to a late breakfast. Back at the house after, he helped me clean up from the night before, then said his goodbyes and greeted SW as she emerged from her sleep. He commented that he never did get Ms. W's number.

SW ran out for her coffee and I texted Ms. W to see if she was okay and recovering from the night before, and passed along the request for her number from Mr. C, that I wanted her permission before supplying it.

She replied "Ever the gentleman, yes, and I have a headache and no recollection of how I got home and upstairs into my bed." I reminded her that I'd made sure she got home safely, etc. She sent kiss emoji's.

[MichaelW]

I love your narrative, but find all the letters instead of names difficult to follow. Would it be to much to request you make up names instead of letters for us slow folks?

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like Ms W would love to roll you SF ... Not sure how readily you roll ...

[slenderfish]

I love your narrative, but find all the letters instead of names difficult to follow. Would it be to much to request you make up names instead of letters for us slow folks?

Hmmm I tried to move in this direction before. I'll see what I can do. I understand the issue; it's even sometimes difficult for me to keep track.

[slenderfish]

Sounds like Ms W would love to roll you SF ... Not sure how readily you roll ...

I fully get that vibe. I stay true to SF and as I've noted here, have no problem meeting new attractive women for my friends, etc. but never take their phone numbers or follow up myself. This one is a much different situation.

If SW gives the green light, then that's a completely different thing and I'd go for it without delay. But I would never even make the suggestion.

Though if I had open pass (SW blessing) with no possible ramifications from SW or anybody else, I'd first go for Ms. K and then the estranged wife of Mr. C. These two are on the scale with SW with respect to sexy beauty, but I believe these two are off the scale in the crazy/sexy chart. I used to like to date these crazy/sexy ones from time to time (I had three memorable relationships with 10/10 women like this that each lasted for a bit of time) but knew better than to try and make any real long-term relationship.

Ms. W is attractive, more of a girl next door type (I like this type) and super well adjusted as a person. Not a blonde hottie, not a 10, but her energy and personality push her up there.

The only possible avenues I can imagine are a) Ms. W is privy to our lifestyle and gets closer into the conversation and makes a request of SW to let me take care of her once in a while (this is extreme imagination) and b) in our therapy sessions we have open conversations about relaxing the boundaries of marriage and if SW insists I have to have lovers from time to time, to reduce hotwife guilt (again, extreme imagination).

But I do have an active and satisfying imagination!

[BallSpanking]

But I do have an active and satisfying imagination!

Don't we all?
A mixture of imagination, hope, and intuition, that can spontaneously combust into a HotWife!

Remember, once you have a HW, she is in the driver's seat.
Happy New Year, SF!

[TheHammer]

I love your narrative, but find all the letters instead of names difficult to follow. Would it be to much to request you make up names instead of letters for us slow folks?

Hmmm I tried to move in this direction before. I'll see what I can do. I understand the issue; it's even sometimes difficult for me to keep track.

I 2nd this. Would be easier to read and keep track if they were “Whitney” and “Charles” instead of Ms W and Mr C. Certainly not a compliant though, appreciate your detail in relaying your adventures.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Though if I had open pass (SW blessing) with no possible ramifications from SW or anybody else, I'd first go for Ms. K and then the estranged wife of Mr. C.

Maybe it would be good possibility to have fun in four (as full swap) and see SW with someone else.
I don't think she would agree for threesome mmf or ffm.
But maybe you can ask her about which of her girlfriend or another woman makes her courious.
Sometimes I heard from girls I dated that the only girl she can touch is someone sister etc.

[Long Lurker 34]

SF

slenderfish wrote: ↑
Mon Jan 03, 2022 2:06 am

MichaelW wrote: ↑
Sun Jan 02, 2022 11:07 pm
I love your narrative, but find all the letters instead of names difficult to follow. Would it be to much to request you make up names instead of letters for us slow folks?

Hmmm I tried to move in this direction before. I'll see what I can do. I understand the issue; it's even sometimes difficult for me to keep track.

I 2nd this. Would be easier to read and keep track if they were “Whitney” and “Charles” instead of Ms W and Mr C. Certainly not a compliant though, appreciate your detail in relaying your adventures.




A thought on this.

Ever watch cop shows where they show a "murder board" where they lay out all the clues and suspects photos with names? I could see where this technique might come in handy, for you, where you set up something like this where you have the persons real name in one colour and their "posting alias" in a second colour. This way it makes it easier for readers to follow and for you to keep track also. Probably best to keep this photo list of "all the usual suspects" , in a locked directory.

[slenderfish]

Ever watch cop shows where they show a "murder board" where they lay out all the clues and suspects photos with names? I could see where this technique might come in handy, for you, where you set up something like this where you have the persons real name in one colour and their "posting alias" in a second colour. This way it makes it easier for readers to follow and for you to keep track also. Probably best to keep this photo list of "all the usual suspects" , in a locked directory.

By happenstance I started this very direction yesterday. It'll take a bit of time to accumulate. My approach did not previously include images but upon your suggestion I'll add these for my private version.

[afagehi7]

Ever watch cop shows where they show a "murder board" where they lay out all the clues and suspects photos with names? I could see where this technique might come in handy, for you, where you set up something like this where you have the persons real name in one colour and their "posting alias" in a second colour. This way it makes it easier for readers to follow and for you to keep track also. Probably best to keep this photo list of "all the usual suspects" , in a locked directory.

By happenstance I started this very direction yesterday. It'll take a bit of time to accumulate. My approach did not previously include images but upon your suggestion I'll add these for my private version.

Russell Crowe in A Beautiful Mind

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Based on the story looks like you were very close... but the wine won.

My idea for next meeting also with them is - dance evening.
Dance lessons for them if they are not familiar with it.
So you will be a teacher for her and SW for him.
To avoid driving in the nigh, you can prepare a sleeping room for them, under the ’slogan’ - ’this night you will be spleeping in our house or with us’

Do do not move the dance evening in wine drinking, I think if SW will mention to him that she has no panties and she will show him in the sleeping room, will be enough for him to be ready.
I think you will be into take pictures of SW dancing with another man, hope with his hand on her ass
Or lap dance lessons, so SW will be able to show Ms. W. how to do it, and she should dance in front of you to let you correct her- you are also experienced in this are (as a watcher).
I think the most excited for him (and also for us) would be SW dance with Ms. W.
How about to ask them (SW and Ms. W.) about short dance for you two?
You can talk about it wiht SW before date.

[Long Lurker 34]

Ever watch cop shows where they show a "murder board" where they lay out all the clues and suspects photos with names? I could see where this technique might come in handy, for you, where you set up something like this where you have the persons real name in one colour and their "posting alias" in a second colour. This way it makes it easier for readers to follow and for you to keep track also. Probably best to keep this photo list of "all the usual suspects" , in a locked directory.

By happenstance I started this very direction yesterday. It'll take a bit of time to accumulate. My approach did not previously include images but upon your suggestion I'll add these for my private version.

I watch far too many cop shows.

[solstice]

I love your narrative, but find all the letters instead of names difficult to follow.

A chart following the example of the TV show "Who do you think you are?" plotting the connections to all the hopefuls and basic history.

[BallSpanking]

Suggestion, Vain for V, Handsome for H, Sizzling for S, etc.
The letter can capture that salient feature of the individual.
And it is easier to visualize and remember.

[afagehi7]

Suggestion, Vain for V, Handsome for H, Sizzling for S, etc.
The letter can capture that salient feature of the individual.
And it is easier to visualize and remember.

This one is the best yet. Better than Mr Smith is Mr. HorseHung, Mr. Trainer, Ms. Pantygate, Ms. BoatBi etc...

Gives context to help us remember

[slenderfish]

Yes I started down this path a few months ago with Mr Handsome and Ms Norse but didn't convert over at the time.

I like it.