Tom, Jasmine & My Step Dad (Has a Bully/Rival ever fucked your wife) Update

[john jasson]

there will be no new story because Jass has left Tom. The end was obvious

Never assume the obvious in this lifestyle.

[funcpl477]

Lol... because she just might wake up and find what a foul old pile of shit she lost a good guy over.

No telling what drugs and stuff he has her hooked on by now... maybe part of the drug is getting off on what she did to Tom (which is exactly what he asked for).

The question now is really whether Tom is going to learn anything from the train wreck (that so many here were reaching in the frilly panties and wanking their little dicklets while cheering on the obviously happening train wreck). Their right too.

Btw Tom, you are one heckuva good writer. Had a huge bunch of us, including me trying to not look at the train wreck happening - but your words kept us glued to it - even when we knew the end was likely disastrous.

So Tom - a bit of sorta advice (you certainly have the right to go on to other train wrecks) or you can man up a bit.

Maybe quietly pack her stuff, send it to storage, change the locks and ignore her. Maybe a wake up call? Maybe insures the finality of the casualties or maybe regain a small measure of self respect. IF she wakes up, you might figure out that you can, with reasonable mutual respect and lines not quite crossed - have it all. I once suggested talking to Farmwife. She has the balance figured out and an incredibly happy marriage while she is at it. Of course, I thought Ares did too - and maybe she still does? Did she disappear again?

But if she comes back - you two take a good break - get her on here and to the hotwife forum where she can get good sound advice. You get on an airplane and head to Arkansas to get some proper training from Farmwife.

There is lots of good ruble that can be used to build a good loving fun and hot marriage with - unfortunately - you cannot and should not attempt it by yourself.


Not going to (not quite) suggest this - but sorta...

My first wife was the daughter of a severe and abusive alcoholic. He was a big man, used to intimidating people - he used to come home and beat her mom. Her mom was a smart wonderful woman about 5'5" and maybe 125-130 - that he sure as hell did not deserve.

One night after him coming home drunk and slapping her around as usual... she was submissive - gave him more booze - got him off and asleep in a drunken post sex stupor.

She had laid aside some pretty heavy duty switches and branches from a tree in their yard.

Quietly, she brought the oversized bed sheet around him - firmly tied the corners together where he could no get out of them.

She then proceeded to use the branches and switches to repay the beatings he had given her.

Before she freed him from the bondage she had him wrapped in - she told him quite firmly that she knew he could overcome and beat her anytime he wanted - But he couldn't stay awake forever...

They like for you to suck his cock - do it really really well - be submissive to him - her - make sure he/she gets into a post sex drunken stupor. Some duct tape would work quite well.

Wouldn't permanently injure him - oh a broken nose, black eyes, swollen balls and hands - and him knowing he can return the beating he received - but that he could never again, not watch his back if he ever bothers you, yours or...

Not that I would recommend violence in anyway -

Wonder how many times he abused your mom? - and maybe, just maybe the little twist of kink and low self-worth you seem to have - wonder where that could have come from.

If she stays, she deserves him - if she comes home - well... not sure how you would want her...

[mick_flow]

Hey Tom, did she reach out to you? Pop over for any of her stuff? Did you get the chance to chat?

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Okay...

Let's recap the week just gone.

Jas worked from Monday to Thursday this week and after work & Dance, would go back to Leons flat. She texts me about normal things all day everyday and speaks as if we're still a normal couple. She rings me from his place and tells me she loves me etc but I just sort of take it all with a pinch of salt at the moment. I have asked her for pics of them fucking but she hates the thought of pics getting out one day etc so wont risk it.

Friday (yesterday)

Whatsapp:

M: Jas we need to talk about us.
J: Oh that sounds serious
M: Come home after you get back from your mums
J: Okay il be home at 6ish x

IN PERSON:

We sit down on the sofa and im abit of amotional wreck at the moment. Im trying to fight my sexual desires so hard now and trying to think and speak with a mature head on. Jas sat next to me on the sofa, looking worried, she knew this was serious.

M: Jas this cant go on
J: What cant?
M: You, you literally leaving me for him
J: You wanted this
M: I know but i fucked up bad. I cant explain how fucking hot it is and how much it turns me on but its also killing me. I cant lose you emotionally
J: You havent lost me
M: Jas you havent stayed in our bed for 2 weeks.
J: So you're asking me stop seeing him?
M: I dont know what I want. I just know I want some normality back and my girlfriend back.
J: Tom you cant just switch these feelings on and off when you feel like it. Im not a toy. You got us into this, you asked me to fuck other guys and flirt. You're the one that caused this.
M: I know. Im sorry. Ive loved it so much but why do you have to live with him?
J: I dont know, its just happened.
M: Do you love him?
J: Not in the way I love you. I cant explain it
M: He just gives you things that I cant?
J: Yh (CRYING)
M: So you never just want me sexually again?
J: Its not like that. I thought you wanted this? I just never really experienced this because weve been locked down for 10 years. Im catching up with it all and learning things about myself
M: What about Steve?
J: I still like Steve but Leon is just new and ive had a crush on him forever. Hes just a typical bad boy and I dont know, theres a chemistry there
M: You mean you're falling in love with him
J: No I just love the sex and the way he is with me
M: I cant do it anymore Jas, you cant just leave me here alone
J: I know
M: You need to decide what you want and so do I. I know this is all my thought and im sorry. I fucked this up for us but I didnt realise how intense it was going to get and didnt know how much you actually liked him
J: I want you but I want him too
M: You cant have both Jas, not forever. We need some sort of relationship this end
J: What do you need me to do?
M: Stay here. Dont see him. Lets have a break from all of this. Can we please?
J: Tom this is so unfair. Its not a game or story where you can just turn it off when you want. Emotions are attached to it. I cant just say oi Leon I dont want to see you anymore
M: You can, you're my girlfriend
J: I know but I just want you to be clear. what the fuck do you actually want?
M: I want just you and me time for a while. See where it goes.
J: Ok
M: Ok? as in you agree ok?
J: Yh but you can tell Leon
M: I will.
J: Do it then, ring him and tell him


I RING LEON

M: Leon me and Jas are having a break from this thing.
L: A break? She wont want that you fool
M: She does. We need to have some alone time for a bit and work things out
L: Listen mate, you dont decide that, let me speak to her

Pass Jas the phone (LOUDSPEAKER)

J: Hey
L: You alright darling?
J: Yeah we just need to cool it down, its all unfair on Tom
L: So you're ending this?
J: I dont know. I just have to do whats right for my relationship
L: What about me?
J: You know its just sex Leon, Im with Tom
L: Fucking slut. How can you just fuck other geezers then go back to that prick. Pair of creeps the both of ya. You deserve eachother
J: Well fuck you you dick. Thought youd be abit more understanding than that. Guess it shows what you thought of me really.
M: Leon come on, no need to speak to her like that. We just need time to think
L: Get on with ya lives you weirdos. Il get on with mine. Fuck off.

He hung up.

I cuddled Jas and shes crying.

M: Its the right thing to do. We have to make us work. If it doesnt, you obviously want more than me and I have to accept that becasue I brought this on.
J: This is all a blur and confusing. We cant just play with eachother like toys Tom
M: I know im sorry
J: I do love you, you do know that right?
M: Yh I do now but the last few weeks have put things into perspective for me
J: I did miss you
M: Did you?
J: Yes you dick. You are my boyfriend of 10 years you fool.
M: Can we just be us again, maybe book a break?
J: Yh but you need to be clear on what you want
M: I just want you. I miss having sex with you, I miss everything.
J: Lets book a break somewhere, im off this whole week
M: Okay. Il need to work though
J: Yh bring your work stuff

We proceeded to just talk things over and almost feel like we fell back in love. It was so strange and surreal. Im in the wrong fully. I played with fire and got burnt. Jas is deffo going to be heartbroken and love sick but we will get through it. A break is just what the doctors ordered too so im happy at the thought. We've booked 5 days this week in Cornwall in a cottage. Just me & Jas, we leave on Monday and il be able to work from the cottage still.

Back to last night, we went to bed and I made a joke about her not seeing the room for ages which she playfully hit me for.

We were laying in bed and started talking....

J: You sucked dick
M: Shut up
J: You did, youve sucked a cock now (laughing)
M: Please dont remind me
J: What did you think?
M: It werent as bad as I thought it would be.
J: Its nice isnt it
M: I wouldnt say nice
J: Does that make you Bi?
M: No I have zero attraction to men
J: You just done it because we told you to?
M: Yeah
J: Sex really is powerful isnt it
M: Are you going to contact him?
J: No, he just spoke to me like shit. Hes a prick. Thats turned me right off of him.
M: Good. Ive missed you.
J: Ive missed you too.

I roll over to start kissing her and its really intense.There is serious sexual energy in the room and it feels really emotional. We kiss and kiss and kiss. I start working my hands over her tits and massage them while we kiss. Shes moaning softly. I then work my way down her body with kisses and she holds me by the hair, I pull her pyjama bottoms off and kiss her pussy through her though, shes moaning and clamping my head with her thighs. I start licking, sucking, biting and kissing her pussy. It looks different. I dont know what it is, it just looks different. Still beautiful and hairless. I eat away and keep eating. I stop to ask..

M: Will you miss him fucking you?
J: (MOANS) Yh
M: Can I fuck you?
J: Yh

I slide up, pull my dick out and its obviously rock solid. We kiss as I try to guide myself in. She pulls me into her and we start to grind missionary. Shes been stretched. If you arent a cuckold and you havent felt the difference of a pussy before and after big dicks have been inside, its impossible to explain. Its just different. I start to moan after 2 minutes and tell her im going to cum. She tells me to pull out. I do. I cum all over her blly. I say all over but really its about 4 splurts of nothing. She smiles and says that was good. Liar. I dont take offence though. I know she knows im fragile at the moment and shes trying to not hurt me. She cleans herself off and we talk away. It feels so good to have sex again!!!!!!!

Today, Jas is obviously abit love sick and is in bed watcing tv etc. Im catching up on work and sitting in the living room. Im making sure to attend her needs, making her teas, food etc. Treating her like a queen. I dont think il ever satisfy her needs again fully but I can start being the boyfriend that fuckboys cant be. I have to win my girl back and ive made a good start.

Where do I think we will end up? I dont know. Do I want her to stop cucking me? For a while. Will she cheat now? I dont know.

Tomorrow I plan to book a restaurant and take her out all day shopping etc.

Operation get Jas back is in full flow. Even if I have lost a part of her. I still want the rest.

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Please remember that the transcribed convos are rough memory. There will have been sentences, little words, gestures etc that I have forgotten or just not know how to put into words. Its about 75% of the whole experience so think before you judge because I have the benefit of reading body language etc. These things might seem minor but they're major in the art of conversation. Lots of little things happen throughout days that indicate things. Thank you.

Also I had a message on here from a guy that said 'I think im too good for people' because I dont answer PM's or questions. I work all day long at the time of posting. I received around 40 PMs a day during the last thread, I cant reply to some and not others so I just leave it. Its easier for you guys to read updates on here. Im not going to put anything in a PM that doesnt make it onto the thread so do not worry. Also, the positive messages, im so grateful for. I just cant reply to all of them, im sorry about that. One day when work calms down, I will.

[john jasson]

Yeah. Spectacular move, Tom. It's clear from Jas' remarks that you over-interpreted her new relationship energy with Leon. She was obviously shocked when you started talking about losing her because you never did lose her. She thought you were both getting off on this. This is not the end, incidentally, because the urge will return for both of you, and it's powerful. You will need to do it. Thing to remember is always give her her wings and let her drive the agenda, but never push her away and risk losing her by her thinking you don't care enough. Maybe she's impressed by your courage in fighting for her. She will be even more impressed at your courage to let her fly during your lives. Enjoy Cornwall.

[nekkedoutdoors]

Congrats on the return of Jas Tom! During this reconnection time, Communicate, communicate and communicate more. Please get her on these boards so she can get guidance from other hotwifes. Both of you need to be completely and totally honest about what you two enjoyed and what you didn't that took place over few weeks.
You know she now has needs you will never be able to fulfill and you two to need figure out how to move forward. Find what she wants. Set guidelines, not rules. Guideline are flexible and can be adjusted to meet both of your needs. Rules will always be broken at some point resulting in someone getting hurt.
*How involved will you be? Do you get be present and watch or particpate with/without the possibility of humiliation playing a part. Can Jas play alone either at home or away?
*Overnights? How much time will she spend away with others. How involved are you? Do you receive occasional updates via text, pics and or video? An open phone so you can listen?
*Humiliation/ servitude/ submission - Set boundaries!!!!! What & how much? Is denial of access to Jas body on the table. (I suggest no or very little)
*You need to be able control your urges and not push her into others arms. Perhaps this thing with Leon has put an end to those desires and I hope has, but only you can figure out where the line is.

Tom you have a second chance here, don't fuck it up. Again, congratulations on getting Jas back, and to standing up to Leon and fighting your love.

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Okay guys, I don't know if im just paranoid and my senses are heightened because of all that's happened but Jas seems kinda off with me, Like a bit distant and shes typing on her phone a lot while we talk which she doesn't usually do. I think she may be resenting me a bit. Is that to be expected? If so, how long do we think that will go on for? Do I confront her and ask who shes talking too?

Is it normal for her to still have her mind on Leon or should I be worried?

[proudhusb217]

Don't ask who she's talking to. It's not a good time to seem overly possessive. But you can ask if she's upset with you.

You need to make it clear that you want her to continue exploring sex with other men, but she needs to set some boundaries with them. You don't want to be missing your companion night after night. You need to feel like you still have a girlfriend & you're still on a marriage track.

[nekkedoutdoors]

Jesus!!! Tom, Communication!!! Talk to her! Find out what she wants! Let her know what you want!! Be honest with one another!! Communicate!!!! If you're going to play adult games, you have to be able to have adult conversations.

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Jesus!!! Tom, Communication!!! Talk to her! Find out what she wants! Let her know what you want!! Be honest with one another!! Communicate!!!! If you're going to play adult games, you have to be able to have adult conversations.

The problem with this is that Im trying to work out in my own head space what I want before I make a rash decision in the heat of the moment. I know If I talk to her about things now, I will end up pushing her back to him tonight because thats what my cock wants. I need time to think about what I want. Trying to have normal convos with her atm and break away from cuck city for a day or two, its just so hard.

[proudhusb217]

How about you both brainstorm scenarios about what you do and don't want. Find out where the lines are.

It seems what you DON'T want is a repeat of the last week. You don't want her to feel free to disappear for days on end. So you need to make that clear to her. I don't see why Jas having a fling with someone has to mean she hardly spends any time with you.

[nekkedoutdoors]

I will end up pushing her back to him tonight because thats what my cock wants. I need time to think about what I want. Trying to have normal convos with her atm and break away from cuck city for a day or two, its just so hard.

You have to fight that urge!! Look at where it got you the 1st time!! If you love her and want to keep her you will have to compromise your wants & needs with hers, and most importantly push down your darkest desires. Frankly, your Desires are very toxic and will result in you losing every relationship you enter in. You must want to be her primary relationship while fulfilling her needs for big dick. She never wanted other boyfriends, she just wanted to fuck big dick. You pushed her away. You guys were on the right track with Steve as the bull and you as submissive cuck in your home. She even said when she spent the night with office guy, "It wasn't the same without you." Yet you kept pushing. Right into Leon. You two have to stop and communicate, talk about expectations of a situation and the possible outcomes before jumping into it. Push that dark shit down.

[mundyman]

Before she beds any other lovers you two need to have a conversation about limits and what you both want.
Reading your story, you both jumped into the deep end without making sure you were both comfortable doing that. As a result you each acted to your own impulses without any COMMUNICATION between you two.being so new to this you both have to communicate to each other what your boundaries are and then live within them. Does she go to Leon’s one night a week and be his arm candy and bar fuck slut one weekend night, then so be it. Does she want more or less than that, do want more or less than that? You can’t leave her free and then be all pissy when she totally goes for it. As she told you, she thought she was doing what you wanted but had no idea what your boundaries were. What did you expect.
Is she mad at you, resenting you, really wanting to hang out with the bad boy Leon but feeling controlled by you? Quite possibly.
Either she is reaching out to Leon because she is craving the big D or he is reaching out to her. I suggest another convo on her feelings and getting her mind off the phone.
Good luck. You two made some big mistakes entering the lifestyle so wantonly. Hopefully you pulled out of the rabbit hole before it was too late.

[john jasson]

Okay guys, I don't know if im just paranoid and my senses are heightened because of all that's happened but Jas seems kinda off with me, Like a bit distant and shes typing on her phone a lot while we talk which she doesn't usually do. I think she may be resenting me a bit. Is that to be expected? If so, how long do we think that will go on for? Do I confront her and ask who shes talking too?

Is it normal for her to still have her mind on Leon or should I be worried?

It's normal for her to have her mind on him. She said she'd gone right off him because you wanted to hear that and she loves you, but she's had the hots for him since she was a teenager and now she's had mindblowing sex with him for a fortnight. How do you expect her to switch off from that? If she wants to see him/fuck him, then if you stop her, having given her the go-ahead and pushed her into it and cheered her on, then she will resent you. It's about the lamest, weakest thing you can do to bottle out on her. Find out what she wants. If she wants him still, let her contact him, but tell her to make him understand it's a privilege to access your beautiful girl and that he certainly isn't the only show in town and he isn't in a position to be ruling the roost. Tell her that whatever she decides, you will support her, be there for her and will always love her.

[mick_flow]

Tom! Awesome man. Well done. Being honest and getting her back at yours. That’s step one. Brilliant getting Cornwall - that’s better again.

Listen, I’ve done the same - too far, too much, too quick. Same mistake.

Let her have her time on the phone, just hang out, ask if she pissed with you, but otherwise just focus on you too. When it comes up, and it will explain why you felt the way you felt. Be honest. Explain that you are working it out at the same time too. Ask for her help. Work it through together

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Okay so last night I got into bed and started talking..

M: You okay?
J: Yh are you?
M: Not really
J: Whats up now
M: I can tell you are pissed off
J: Yh well its hard. To get close to someone then suddenly stop.
M: Do you hate me?
J: If i hated you, I wouldnt be here
M: Are you missing him?
J: Yh
M: You dont want to stop seeing him do you
J: i want whats best for us
M: Tell me what turns you on and what your ultimate fantasy and life is
J: I dont know, I just dont find sex with you great and i dont want to sound horrible but theres no nice way to say this, I just dont find you as hot as him
M: wow. Strong but its honest
J: you are the perfect boyfriend and I love you for you but im young and I get attracted to men, its natural. Hes just really good looking and manly
M: am I manly?
J: babe you know youre not. You sucked a dick and ate cum ffs. How can you be manly? You watched Steve flirt with me for years and then you caught me with him and he just told you to get out and you did. Thats not manly. Its sexy but not manly.
M: So you prefer sex with Leon over me?
J: Yh. You told me to be honest. Thats the only way we get through this.
M: yeah it is. Im fine dont worry. Can you stop seeing him?
J: yeah for us.
M: I just need my own headspace too to figure out what I like and want from this. I rushed in and it got too much for me. It was hot and I wanked eevery night over it but then I miss you too. I want to worship you and spend normal time with you.
J: Yeah I get it
M: What do you want from it?
J: I want to make you happy but I want to feel happy too
M: Are you happy?
J: Im happy but im gutted because I liked him and I obviously like the way he fucks me. I never knew what it felt like because ive been with you and youre not that big or domineering
M: Yeah makes sense. Have you been talking to him?
J: He text me to say sorry
M: is that all?
J: just chit chat.
M: I want to be able to have sex with you eveb if its once a week
J: Of course you can. I just dont feel it like you do but theres things we can do to make it even
M: like what
J: do things for me
M: like what
J: talk about things when youre inside me. Talk to me about you sucking his dick and talk about him
M: I can do that. You really get turned on by me being humiliated?
J: Yh.
M: Is my dick pathetic?
J: Yh
M: Do you prefer his?
J: Yh
M: did you think about him last night when we had sex?
J: Yh
M: Are you going to fuck him again?
J: I dont know Tom. You cant just turn it off and on when you get horny
M: I want you to be able to fuck him but come back to me. Maybe stay with him once a week?
J: I can do that
M: I want you to be as brutally honest and serious about things too with me. If You wake up one morning and you are thinking about him, i want you to tap me and say youre thinking about him.
J: thats easy
M: I want you to fuck him in front of me
J: easy
J: I want to be able to control what happens. If You want this, you need to give me control. Once we start again, we are not going back. You cant just decide to get mad one minute and want it the next. I agree to only staying at his once a week and to fuck in front of you more. But I control the rest. You can fuck me once a week.
M: Okay
J: So we agree?
M: Yh. What about now?
J: This week is for just us.
M: Good
J: Do ya want a crazy story that I never thought would happen?
Last Friday we was in the pub with his 3 friends and its a grotty pub but his gangster friends were there. Anyway we was drunk and it was disco night so the dj was in and stuff and we danced abit then Leon told me to walk into the mens toilets in 2 minutes. He walked in before me. I walked in and he pulled me into the cubicle and fucked me. I fucked your dad in a pub toilet. I couldnt help myself. He made me suck his dick, ride him and fucked me from behind while people walked in and out of the toilets. They heard me moan and didnt even care. He came inside me and we went back to dancing and then left to go to his.
M: Can I wank over that?
J: Yh. Cum on my tummy then clean it with your tongue babe

I proceeded to wank over her belly while she told me she misses him, hes hotter than me, he more of a man than me.

I came on her stomach in seconds and licked it up while she giggled. She said goodnight and rolled over. Today I spoil her and prepare for Cornwall.

[john jasson]

Leon's realised he was hasty in his arrogance in binning off the finest bit of skirt he has any chance of getting his dick into for the rest of his life. Hence the apology. You can bet he will be at her regularly by text hoping to reverse things. It'll be a hot conversation between them.

[irreverent]

Sounds like you found a solution that works for both of you. Honesty and openness working its magic I guess. Together with two, or probably three, horny people who know what they want. And who now get to explore further.

Think you'll be staying in Cornwall for the full five days?

[mundyman]

What a great start of your communication.
I would suggest a continuation of this conversation. More so from your end. Honestly it seems like she is laser focused on what she wants and how she wants this to go. While on the other hand your emotions have you bouncing all over the place.
It is painfully obvious that as in some relationships she seeks, desires, and truly enjoys submitting to a rough bad boy type man for the sex and danger but wants to hold on to you as the cuddly emotional safe harbor.
You might want to get her to clarify why she wants to control the relationship and what type of things she will be doing with you and without you. From the past convos you’ve shared it just doesn’t seem like you deal with the unknown, unexpected nature of her behavior in this lifestyle. Having a better sense of what she’s thinking and planning seems like a good idea.
Also is once a week for you and her going to be enough for you?

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Okay so today we've been shopping, got Jas some new clothes and had lunch etc, all boring but lovey dovey and healing time. We decided to come to our local pub because its quiz night and we got here about 2 hours ago...

Heres the part that you guys will like.. Guess whos here with some of our friends?... STEVE

So the group here that weve joined consists of Jas's friends, Tara & Louise and of course, Steve. He looked happy to see us walk in and we joined them at the table. The wines are now flowing and Jas has her drunk eyes on show which are very sexy btw and seductive. At first we were sat together then after a few pisses amongst the group, the seating has changed around and im now sat opposite Jas & Steve who are getting along as usual and laughing at everything. Our 2 female companions are oblivious as always and are in and out of their own convos with everyone and anyone they meet. Im on the shitter right now pretending to be going toilet.

[afagehi7]

Okay so today we've been shopping, got Jas some new clothes and had lunch etc, all boring but lovey dovey and healing time. We decided to come to our local pub because its quiz night and we got here about 2 hours ago...

Heres the part that you guys will like.. Guess whos here with some of our friends?... STEVE

So the group here that weve joined consists of Jas's friends, Tara & Louise and of course, Steve. He looked happy to see us walk in and we joined them at the table. The wines are now flowing and Jas has her drunk eyes on show which are very sexy btw and seductive. At first we were sat together then after a few pisses amongst the group, the seating has changed around and im now sat opposite Jas & Steve who are getting along as usual and laughing at everything. Our 2 female companions are oblivious as always and are in and out of their own convos with everyone and anyone they meet. Im on the shitter right now pretending to be going toilet.

There you go thinking with the wrong head.

[mick_flow]

It is getting late in the UK now, as I write this. Coming up to 11pm, so not sure how the evening has panned out Tom?

If it hasn't gone too far already I would suggest sticking to the plan, I know the little head doesn't want too.. (been there too many times myself). Remember, "this week is just for us" ? - Wasn't it? - It'll take a brass neck, but you could try sitting between Steve and Jas... try "budge up there, lad, this one is mine". Or the like.

I know its hot to let her go with Steve again, but if you can manage it, and it works out, the extra week of space for you guys to reconnect will do you both wonders in the longer run.

Keep us posted on how it all goes, and good luck Tom! - Loving all the updates.

[john jasson]

Yeah. I like the week of space idea for a loving break for Tom and Jas, but there's no reason why there shouldn't be some hot texts flying between there and home. Tom and Jas can just love her doing that while they are together and get hot on it. Jas seems very inventive when she's thinking of ways to torment Tom. I love that she's asked for control over what happens. One thing I do think Tom should do is try to steer her to Steve as her next fuck before she goes to stay with Leon again. It will get Leon out of her head as her one and only sex god. She says she wants Tom as her constant, and I think she has lived up to that promise by coming home to him. Best thing is to have him in that privileged position and her with alternative lovers rather than just one who deep down is intent on stealing her.

[nekkedoutdoors]

Okay so today we've been shopping, got Jas some new clothes and had lunch etc, all boring but lovey dovey and healing time. We decided to come to our local pub because its quiz night and we got here about 2 hours ago...

Heres the part that you guys will like.. Guess whos here with some of our friends?... STEVE

So the group here that weve joined consists of Jas's friends, Tara & Louise and of course, Steve. He looked happy to see us walk in and we joined them at the table. The wines are now flowing and Jas has her drunk eyes on show which are very sexy btw and seductive. At first we were sat together then after a few pisses amongst the group, the seating has changed around and im now sat opposite Jas & Steve who are getting along as usual and laughing at everything. Our 2 female companions are oblivious as always and are in and out of their own convos with everyone and anyone they meet. Im on the shitter right now pretending to be going toilet.

It's like he didn't listen to thing she said to him. She has an issue with not be able to man up when needed and is losing respect for him. I hope he was able to let her and more importantly Steve know that they are taking the week for just themselves.