The thrill of the Hotwife dating in public

[Swanilla]

I have found I love it when my wife goes on dates in public (restaurants, clubs, theater, sports events, etc) with her male friend. Perhaps it's the risk of getting caught or outed by someone from our vanilla life. Maybe it's just the naughtiness of a married woman being out with a male friend. Either way, just curious how many others like this?

[Foxglove]

My ex had a landing area between the living room and the bedroom of her apartment where she kept a 50s style chair by the window. She would not only be seen in the neighborhood on dates but she would bring them home and have them fuck her over the chair with the blinds open so people could watch!
Her moans could be heard throughout the building courtyard so it was no secret when she was knocking boots!

[wifedateshubwaits]

My wife has been “outed” more than once when out on a date, but she acts like there’s nothing unusual about her being out with another man, often introducing them as an “old friend”. I’m sure there has been some raised eyebrows at seeing my wife dressed in one of her sexy date night outfits dining or drinking with one her handsome “old friends”. To the best of her knowledge, however, my wife says nobody has ever seen her locked in a passionate kiss or being fondled by one of her lovers.

[isinlarsa]

We live in a large metropolitan area (Washington, DC) where there are a lot of women in professional positions. It really doesn't raise eyebrows when a woman is out for dinner with a man who is not her husband (or vis-visa). It's the perfect cover for hotwifing in plan sight. Besides, I find it exciting if people who see my wife out with one of the men she dates do wonder if she may be getting fucked by him later in the evening.

[Her number1]

We've found that even in a small town, if you act like it's "normal", people just see it as normal. The quickest way to raise suspicions is to look suspicious. Look normal and people just see it as a normal thing.

A kinda case in point, There is a guy that is well known and well thought of in our community, he has a wife and two girlfriends. There are times you see him with either, the wife or one girlfriend or the other. Then there are times when you see him, his wife, and one girlfriend all together. Only new people to the community think anything about it. Everyone else just takes it as normal for them.
If you're not doing something outlandish, most people care way less than you think. And, one's wife fucking other men just isn't outlandish, after all it's been going on in one form or fashion, well, forever.
When a spouse causes a stir about said fucking, then people take notice about the stir, not about the fucking.

[Very Hot Wife]

Becky was on holiday last year on her own and met up with a guy who was in his early twenties, but was fortunate enough to look much younger. She would have guessed his age at 17-18 if he hadn't shown her his passport...! She was 52 at the time.

They had dinner at a restaurant where guests were looking at the couple who were holding hands and kissing. She found it quite a turn on.

They went back to his hotel where they fucked until the early hours, and once more before going down for breakfast.

So the answer to the question is yes, it's a great for feeling for both of us.

[Minnhotwife]

My wife has been “outed” more than once when out on a date, but she acts like there’s nothing unusual about her being out with another man, often introducing them as an “old friend”. I’m sure there has been some raised eyebrows at seeing my wife dressed in one of her sexy date night outfits dining or drinking with one her handsome “old friends”. To the best of her knowledge, however, my wife says nobody has ever seen her locked in a passionate kiss or being fondled by one of her lovers.

So far, my wife hasn't met any friends or co-workers on her many dates. I'm sure it's only a matter of time before someone she knows sees her out on a date with one of her boyfriends. Or they may have already and haven't said anything to her. Some of her friends already know we are ENM.

I've noticed she's getting bolder about going on dates closer to our house from the bank statements. I'm actually waiting to hear from a friend or in-law she was out with a guy wondering if it's a work or business meeting. My wife can play it off a little due to her career but not if she's seen kissing or getting felt up by another guy.

[iloanmywife]

It's much more fun when my wife can hang out with her dates in public. She doesn't want to have to sneak into a hotel all the time. Sometimes she just wants to enjoy the company of the guy she's fucking.

Dinner and drinks is inherently discreet, since no one thinks twice about seeing a man and woman at dinner. He could be her cousin, for instance. There have been times when she felt conspicuous. One guy took her to an axe throwing place before dinner. That's still relatively low risk, since there aren't many people there and it was in a different town. But if she were to be seen, it was clearly -- clearly -- a date. Another guy took her to an outdoor music festival in his home town, which is a fair distance from our own. When she got there she realized that this particular music festival would appeal to a number of our vanilla friends and it was very possible that someone would make the trip. Instead of spending an evening holding hands and dancing together, she was looking over her shoulder and asked to leave early.

[vmb69]

The hottest was getting a call from my mother that she had seen my wife with our friend, but she knew was out of state. She told me they looked really cute holding hands, and that my wife had not noticed her, and she saw them kissing. She asked me if I was aware of this, and i told her I was, that we had an open marriage and I had set her up with our friend. She told me I was a great husband.

[parklife]

My wife is often in public but I don’t believe she shares any public displays of affection. I doubt there is any hand holding or kissing. They done the driving range, played golf, mostly dinners out.

We were all in the wine business and we’re all foodies to some extent.. so there probably a decent degree of probability that they’d run into someone, but I don’t think anyone would think anything about it.

My wife, in general, has more guy friends than females and it’s not out of place for friends of opposite sex to be out. One of the benefits to living in the CA Bay Area is that people pretty much let people do their thing.

That or we just don’t care about gossipers anymore. At least I don’t and my wife got out of the alcohol business so she doesn’t run in those circles anymore. But even if anyone we know saw them, they’d just assume it was friends catching up.

[p_jimi]

We lived in a big city, so there wasn't much chance to meet any member of the family. Her coworker, my friends, her friends sooner or late got to know she is a hot wife. Actually most of them fucked my wife. After a while it became completely natural for everyone that she is an easy woman, as did later the fact that she no longer fucked me. We often went to have fun in the evenings. My wife was always in a challenging outfit, a short skirt, a deep-cut blouse to draw attention to herself. I let other men ask her to dance or just have someone sit next to my wife at the table. During the conversation, my wife let them touch her thighs and reach under her skirt. It soon turned out they could fuck my wife. When it became known at a nightclub, more and more people wanted to fuck my wife.

[il2sw]

My wife and her boyfriend had dates (even no sex dates) in restaurants in the area where we and several of our friends live. I know they made out in the parking lot some times, and I bet they have kissed our touched when it was relatively safe.

The hottest thing was one time when after having sex in a hotel, they went out for dinner to a restaurant very close to it (also in our area). If anyone who saw her would have known that she still had his cum in her pussy! Mind blowing hot!

[MichaelW]

My wife has only recently starting going out in public with her long time black lover, with part of the rush being the risk of being seen. She has accepted that she no longer cares if anyone we know sees her out with her boyfriend/lover. It is clear she wants others to notice that she has a black lover. Like another poster here, she does get off going out with him for dinner with her pussy full of his cum and knowing another load is coming when they get back to the hotel after dinner.

I am usually there for the sexual part, watching, but hanging back as she flaunts her black lover in public. I have come in late to join them at times. It is a totally different vibe to walk into a bar and see your wife with her black lover at a table, their chairs pushed together, her paying rapt attention to his every word, her low cut top blousing open to give him views of her breasts and her not tugging but encouraging his peeking, his hand resting on the inside of her thigh or holding her hand, even though I am sitting across the table from them, making it is clear that she is with him this night.

[Des 31]

I would enjoy my wife dating another in public, but her professional position is such that isn't usually an option unless we are out of town. Because she often has lunches and sometimes late dinners with clients, they can go out without concerns if they don't act romantically in public.

But I can certainly understand why others like their wives to go out as a couple. I would like it too.

~ Des

[iloanmywife]

I would enjoy my wife dating another in public, but her professional position is such that isn't usually an option unless we are out of town. Because she often has lunches and sometimes late dinners with clients, they can go out without concerns if they don't act romantically in public.

But I can certainly understand why others like their wives to go out as a couple. I would like it too.

~ Des

Des - I'm not following your logic. You state that she cannot date in public, but then you state that she regularly has lunches and dinners with clients without arousing suspicion. I think most people simply avoid public displays of affection unless they're out of town. The thrill, at least for us, is hiding in plain sight.

[SRKnight]

My HW has a regular group that meets up for karaoke. She is always wearing something that shows off cleavage (as you can tell in the picture) and always flirting. They all know her as a cheating wife and know she’ll leave with someone before the night is over.

They all think I have no clue

[SilverStag]

My HW, Cecil, insists that her BF's take her out in public. She enjoys the other dimensions of the guys and their interests and insists on having the "Boyfriend Experience". However, aside from a short kisses or some handsy play under the table, she insists that, in public, they behave in such a way that if she were to run into someone who knows her, the details of the date would be indiscernible to the public. Once they adjourn to a hotel room though...all bets are off.

[Des 31]

I would enjoy my wife dating another in public, but her professional position is such that isn't usually an option unless we are out of town. Because she often has lunches and sometimes late dinners with clients, they can go out without concerns if they don't act romantically in public.

But I can certainly understand why others like their wives to go out as a couple. I would like it too.

~ Des

Des - I'm not following your logic. You state that she cannot date in public, but then you state that she regularly has lunches and dinners with clients without arousing suspicion. I think most people simply avoid public displays of affection unless they're out of town. The thrill, at least for us, is hiding in plain sight.

Okay, you're right in that way. I didn't state it well... I just meant that those luncheons she attends with other men and women aren't actually dates. But she avoids going out locally in public with guys she has sex with for the reason if she were to meet someone she knows, it could be difficult to explain if the other person knows what she does for a living. When she is out of town, as she occasionally is when visiting a branch office, she will go out with anyone who is or has been fucking. She has also traveled with her boss; any who follow our thread know that story.

Des

[CoupleFun555]

She routinely goes on dates with her bfs in public. Most of the time, those dates are in another city than our home but I still love the idea of my wife publicly dating another man. Super hot.

[natasnaikul]

Definitely a big turn-on for both of us.Especially when they run into someone we both know

[stag611]

My gf used to go on dates with her lover all the time, in fact that was her favorite part. So naturally this involved a lot of PDA, which she didn't use to like showing with me but her lover changed her mind about that...

The hottest part was that she got caught by our friend and her colleagues in public too! Our friend saw her at the mall, walking out of Ann Summers with her lover, hugging his hand, and as usual with her lover she dressed very slutty, showing as much cleavage as possible and not wearing a bra with a thin top. Our friend was shocked, she knew we were 'opening up' our relationship but didn't know my gf would have been changed so much! This was a hot exchange I had with our friend as I explained things (while trying not to out myself as a cuck).

Another time she was leaving work, her lover picked her up. Her work friends saw through the windows as she made out with him in his car and did her lipstick. They asked her about it and she told them it was her bf! Since "lover" would be hard to explain. They have since part ways but their relationship was incredibly hot in many ways.

[dinoo]

It depends in which environment and then how they behave.
With a good friend of ours or a know person, it didn't matter me at all.
Even I knew she liked to take risks like being caught. And she took sometimes rather big risks.

[wildrollercoaster]

I'm happy to see that I'm far from alone in embracing the intriguing sexiness of a woman unafraid to be seen in public with an extracurricular admirer. As others here have evidently learned, a woman can get away with plenty of public visibility if she doesn't feel or act guilty or nervous. My fiancée has been in countless such circumstances, several of which I'm specifically aware of.

The first happened just months into our relationship, when she invited me to meet for an after-work drink with her and a male co-worker, D*****, whom I'd never met but knew she shared a degree of attraction with. The two of them arrived at our restaurant-lounge destination before I did. Once she and I were alone much later that night, she told me that just before I arrived to meet her and D*****, he'd assertively kissed her, deeply, within plain view of many other guests and staff. Once I arrived, oblivious that D***** and my gorgeous new girlfriend had just been locked in a tongue-intertwining embrace, it would have been obvious to anyone who'd witnessed that to realize that she and I were in fact a couple.

My most unforgettable of such recollections, during our first year or so together, happened one night when she and a very hot young admirer went out for dinner. She'd met him through her marketing contract with a company he worked for, but avoided dating him until her contract was concluded, several months later. On the night of their date, he treated her to a memorable dinner at a great restaurant, and afterward walked her home. Upon arriving, they briefly took her dog outside, and happened to meet one of her neighbours with whom she and I were both very friendly -- a very sweet, very conservative woman in her early 20s. Although unspoken, she was obviously intrigued to see my girlfriend with her striking companion -- both of them dressed elegantly for their date -- instead of with me. I could only imagine what my girlfriend's neighbour was thinking whenever I happened to cross her path during the ensuing months. For the record, my girlfriend got devoured and fucked out of her mind that night.

The most intense public-visibility event of all, however, happened a few summers ago when she, my fiancée by then, spent about a week away at a wind-sports event hosted at a windy lakeside campsite. I won't go into detail, because I've thoroughly shared the story in another thread, other than to say that my fiancée slept in her own tent for only the first two nights of her trip, after which she and a captivating admirer became serendipitous lovers. She was his de facto girlfriend for the rest of the trip, sharing his tent, making love every night and day, without any effort to conceal their incendiary fling from everyone else at the lakeside camp -- some of whom I'm undoubtedly acquainted with (although I've never heard a word about it from anyone but her).

[SammySigns]

My wife was out with friends and ending up meeting a couple. They partied with a bunch of people and everyone knew she was going to go home and have a threeway with that couple, which was pretty hot.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

My wife and her BF regularly go out for pho at a nearby restaurant. They have been going there for years and they've gotten to know the staff quite well. Likewise, the staff has gotten to know them well, too. (I've never been fond of pho, so I've never bothered going. I just hang back at his place and watch TV or something.)

Imagine how surprised the staff was a few weeks ago when, on a movie night with our two kids...and at the wife's urging, we decided to get pho before the movie.

The wife casually introduced me as her husband, and the two young boys with us as our children.

Our server, Daniel, was having a hard time picking his chin off the floor at that point. He asked me a couple of times how long we've been married. I told him. The way he was asking, he was obviously wondering if I knew my wife was...maybe...seeing another man. He had been speaking with some of the other workers over near the cash register. In addition to me, of course, the wife was also very aware of the splash she was making. Every now and then, I'd glance up and catch one of them looking at us while Daniel spoke in hushed tones to the girls at the register...in Vietnamese...only to see them quickly look away. The wife later said she saw the same behavior. While we were all waiting for our food, I quietly dismissed myself from the table and managed to find Daniel alone. I mentioned to him that, while my wife and her boyfriend were quite fond of the pho, I just never had a taste for it and that it's an acquired taste. I ended on a positive note, that I'd give it my best.

That moment relieved a lot. He was on notice that I was VERY aware that my wife has a boyfriend and that I seem to be okay with it. Suddenly, he was back at the register gossiping again.

It was a thrilling moment for me. I'd been outted! (Their imaginations ran wild, I imagine.)

The wife and her boyfriend both say they have every intention of going back in the near-future. (The workers' imaginations will be on overdrive that day!)