The thrill of the Hotwife dating in public

[Long Lurker 34]

SheLikes

Might I suggest, the next time your Wife and her BF go for pho', they make a point of some very PDA. That ought to crank up the staff!

Also do your Wife and BF do public dating in other locations? How do they behave?

[Butler]

Public dating was really easy for my HF for 7 years Pre pandemic as she traveled frequently for work. She has quite a few BF those days and WNT out publicly without fear of being seen and with lowered inhibitions. So with the pandemic travel of course stopped and me not being able to satisfy here she found some guy friends locally who could fulfill her sexual needs. One night she got dressed for a date and was looking amazing she left to meet her BF at a pub in a nearby town. She felt the pub was far enough away from our home town she didn't have to worry about being caught. Well as an orient cuck I was home drinking a few beers watching porn while edging and wondering what whe was up to. Until I go a text... It was from a huy I know, not a bust bud, but a guy I played in the softball league with. He sails" hey dude Is everything ok with you and your wife?" I said yes why " well okay but I hate to be the one to tell you this but she's out at the pub and she's hanging all of this guy" I got treat nervous and said to him" no she's just out at a work meeting" he sais" ok if you say so but they are kissing a lot and his hand is on her butt and she is rubbing his inner thigh so no so sure it's a work meeting, hate to say" I got so aroused but was shaking nervously at the same time, as I knew we had been outed. I didn't respond as my head was swimming, I finally said" well yes we are going thru this trial separation thing" he said " sorry to hear that hope it all works out" there wer no more texts for about an hour as I sat with my cock throbbing and my heart pounding. Then he sent a text" hey I've been thinking, since your in this trial thing, and she looks so fucking hot do you mind if I reach out to her" I almost came and threw up at the same time I said " yeah sure I guess so it's up to her" well he did reach out to her and he been having his way with her for about a year and a half now!

[Whosbeensleeping]

Public dating was really easy for my HF for 7 years Pre pandemic as she traveled frequently for work. She has quite a few BF those days and WNT out publicly without fear of being seen and with lowered inhibitions. So with the pandemic travel of course stopped and me not being able to satisfy here she found some guy friends locally who could fulfill her sexual needs. One night she got dressed for a date and was looking amazing she left to meet her BF at a pub in a nearby town. She felt the pub was far enough away from our home town she didn't have to worry about being caught. Well as an orient cuck I was home drinking a few beers watching porn while edging and wondering what whe was up to. Until I go a text... It was from a huy I know, not a bust bud, but a guy I played in the softball league with. He sails" hey dude Is everything ok with you and your wife?" I said yes why " well okay but I hate to be the one to tell you this but she's out at the pub and she's hanging all of this guy" I got treat nervous and said to him" no she's just out at a work meeting" he sais" ok if you say so but they are kissing a lot and his hand is on her butt and she is rubbing his inner thigh so no so sure it's a work meeting, hate to say" I got so aroused but was shaking nervously at the same time, as I knew we had been outed. I didn't respond as my head was swimming, I finally said" well yes we are going thru this trial separation thing" he said " sorry to hear that hope it all works out" there wer no more texts for about an hour as I sat with my cock throbbing and my heart pounding. Then he sent a text" hey I've been thinking, since your in this trial thing, and she looks so fucking hot do you mind if I reach out to her" I almost came and threw up at the same time I said " yeah sure I guess so it's up to her" well he did reach out to her and he been having his way with her for about a year and a half now!

Hot stuff!

[funcpl477]

Couldn't quite vote.

We have had times when she was able and encouraged to date openly - her mother even figuring out she was indeed fucking someone else - while I was away. (We talked it over and told her mom the truth that I wanted her happy and have a good sex life while I was gon, so I had arranged a trusted friend to be her side lover - her mom thought I was the coolest husband ever!) - well, ok that was a partial but effective truth. he wasn't the only guy she was fucking and she was almost as eager to fuck other guys as I was for her to fuck them.

There have been times where in a much smaller city and with an employer that brought a constant flow of customers in and out of the city - and we felt it better to keep her/our outside sexual fun discreet.

As I reach the last of my years with that employer and retire plus kids long well educated and living in other places - I have moved steadily back toward actually liking the idea of her dating and not worrying about (maybe even flaunting) her being seen on dates that have a sexual undertone.

Btw all of my kids know their moms (they are from 2 different moms) were swingers/hotwives and my current of 20 years is too. Her daughter knows a little bit - her son does not. Different subject.

Also the simple fact that I am a decade and half older - like it or not, have slowed down (though I am still a third for another couple and sometimes take advantage of hall passes - though out of town when I do). She is still drop dead gorgeous - I want her to get more active sexually with other guys (a lot of mfm too) and never miss out on any pleasure with others as I (hopefully slowly) age out.

[funcpl477]

Btw, farmwife and her number1 are almost heros to me. Des - you "ain't" too far behind... There are some others too - in the way they handle their lives and wives that are very sexually active and adventuresome with others.

They get the balance about "public dating and need for discretion".

[vmb69]

One of our more controversial to date has been the time my wife finally decided she was tired of hiding the fact that she was in town.

As we progressed in our lifestyle we came to a point where we had moved away, but we also still enjoyed for her to still see our friend. The first 6 months of this she would fly in and spend the weekend with him, and fly back Sunday night. Everything was perfect no one had a clue.

But towards the summer time when most of our birthday parties would happen, and get together, she always had to pretend that she was out of state, when in fact she was miles away from everyone. One weekend she just had enough and decided fuck it, she wanted to go see everyone and party. So her and our friend drove to the party together. People were surprised, but initially she played it off that I had arranged for her to fly in as a surprise and out friend picked her up.

As the day wore on, and the drinks were had, things got a little more intense, and soon it became obvious that her and out friend were a little more than friends, she would seat on his laps, they would always be close to one another. Finally towards the evening they were caught kissing, this when the text started coming in to my cell.

As she had not told she was going to the party and i was home with the kids, and we had been out all day, i was bit surprised, and sent her a text. She confirmed she was at the party and had been caught kissing our friend behind the house. But at that point she said she didn't care anymore and she didn't owe anyone any explanations and that what we did was between us.

I told her, so be it, and the party kept going. Being that her and our friend had gotten a bit drunk, and in group no one drives drunk, they stayed the night, but I stead of her going to one room and him sleeping on sofa, they bit said good night and went to the same bedroom. More text came in at that point, some were "hey is everything ok with you and your wife?" Others were "hey i think your wife is cheating on you?".

Now this was already a lot, but it got better, within 30 to 45 minutes it seems that people could start hearing noises coming from the bedroom, and at some point it became crystal clear what was going on as she was moaning and cumming rather loudly, one of my friend sent me a recording of it, this friend knew we played around as we had had a 3sum with him before, and then texted me "your wife is having the time of her life". Based on reports this went on all night. Based on the pick of the friend she was fucking that she had him send she was getting the fuck of a lifetime. It seems that the mix of alcohol, sex, not hidding and knowing others now knew really turned her loose.

The next morning of course she got all the questions from others and female friends that were there. To wish she told them I was fully aware of everything, and had booked her the flight to spend the weekend with our friend and did so every other week.

As this first night was Friday night, Saturday day and night was a repeat, and including Sunday morning. They would disappear throughout the day and be heard fucking in the guest bedroom.

This was the start of our 2 year thing with our friend and the next year and half of being public.

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

My wife also goes on "dates" in public. They're not real, proper dates, more like screening meetings of potential playmates.

Since her time is limited and she goes through a lot of screening dates in her efforts to identify fuckable males, she never travels too far from home. She has a few places (coffee shop, pub, restaurant) that she cycles through, all within walking distance from home.

Neither of us cares who sees her there, if anyone. It's not necessarily thrilling, we simply don't care and take absolutely no precautions to hide it from anyone... neighbours, friends, co-workers, etc.

Lately she's been going to a coffee shop, sometimes as often as twice a week, each time with a different guy. So far she's never run into anyone we know. But one day, as she was meeting yet another guy, as she approached the counter to order her drink, the girl behind the counter smiled, winked at her, and said "Your usual?" and then she confirmed her favourite drink.

[silkyhw]

My wife has very recently started doing this with an old boyfriend. The risk of being seen by someone we know is a huge turn-on - for all of us. I sometimes drop her off at a local bar, have a drink with them and then leave them to have fun. She is not looking to be spotted - but the risk adds another dimension to their meetings.

[gnt4fun]

We have a sort of unique twist to the public issue. We are swingers, first and foremost. All of our swinger friends are, how do I say, very conventional. They are couples only for full swap, either at larger parties or smaller groups. As far as we know, none has ventured into the HW arena…except us very recently.

We started as many swingers do with MFM and only started swinging with coupes some months after our first several encounters. We’ve since been “lifestyle” for over 5 years. But we recently had an occasion to meet a couple at a holiday party, the man of which rocked her world. In fact, my wife was so taken with him that we started to wonder whether he could become a “boyfriend”, a discussion that we hadn’t really had before, but which I found very hot.

Fast forward a few weeks and many email exchanges with the couple later, and we had arranged for my wife to fly to spend a two night weekend alone with him at his second home. His second home is really a work apartment outside Seattle where he commutes for weekdays, so it is not the classic second home retreat. In fact, it is very close to another couple that we mutually know and have played with as couples, as have they.

Hence, the issue arose. How would I feel about my wife and her developing boyfriend spending one of the weekend nights with the other couple? So, this is not public per se but in some ways even more intimate and vulnerable. We are not paranoid about some very close friends knowing about our lifestyle, but interestingly, the idea that one of our swinging couple friends would not only be made aware of my wife’s new deal, but would be sexually involved with them was quite emotionally complicated.

My gut reaction, which ultimately was the final answer, was to say no. I didn’t want to feel completely cast aside, which this felt like, or at least it felt like it could be perceived that way. I am not a cuck (each to his own), but this felt cuckish and not for me. Fortunately, my wife also didn’t want to share. As she put it, ”I want him all to myself for the weekend.”

So it worked out. But I know that this will present itself as an option again. I’m not sure what my reaction will be the next time. We continue to see both couples as couples and will likely see them before this issue comes up again.. It’s just that one couple doesn’t know about this little kink that has developed.

I’m wondering if it will feel different over time.

[KBZ69]

My ex had a landing area between the living room and the bedroom of her apartment where she kept a 50s style chair by the window. She would not only be seen in the neighborhood on dates but she would bring them home and have them fuck her over the chair with the blinds open so people could watch!
Her moans could be heard throughout the building courtyard so it was no secret when she was knocking boots!

[KBZ69]

The hottest was getting a call from my mother that she had seen my wife with our friend, but she knew was out of state. She told me they looked really cute holding hands, and that my wife had not noticed her, and she saw them kissing. She asked me if I was aware of this, and i told her I was, that we had an open marriage and I had set her up with our friend. She told me I was a great husband.

[KBZ69]

Awesome

[LongTermHubby]

Just before the pandemic, my wife's current lover took her to Aruba for two weeks. She loved being openly affectionate with him while they were there.

[Warrenismcge]

My wife goes on dates and loves the being out in public as a couple with her lover. She keeps them a little discreet …quiet venues for a drink, not too close to home, but loves telling me about the pda’s they are able to enjoy, kisses, touches etc. Being obviously on a date - dressed up and sitting close - and not a business dinner. We like others here live in a fairly large metro …so not too much of a risk of running into someone close ….but its always a thrill to imagine that happening …..knowing that I may need one day to explain our situation.

[54321]

Post by MichaelW » Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:12 pm

My wife has only recently starting going out in public with her long time black lover, with part of the rush being the risk of being seen. She has accepted that she no longer cares if anyone we know sees her out with her boyfriend/lover. It is clear she wants others to notice that she has a black lover. Like another poster here, she does get off going out with him for dinner with her pussy full of his cum and knowing another load is coming when they get back to the hotel after dinner.

I am usually there for the sexual part, watching, but hanging back as she flaunts her black lover in public. I have come in late to join them at times. It is a totally different vibe to walk into a bar and see your wife with her black lover at a table, their chairs pushed together, her paying rapt attention to his every word, her low cut top blousing open to give him views of her breasts and her not tugging but encouraging his peeking, his hand resting on the inside of her thigh or holding her hand, even though I am sitting across the table from them, making it is clear that she is with him this night.

Maybe your wife and her lover could go dancing. She could wear her most daring dress and heels. He could show her off on the dancefloor and they could sex each other up and french kiss in full view, making it absolutely clear to everyone there that they will be passionately making love together later.

54321

[weluvtoodoit]

This is something that I have posted here some years ago, but for the newer members I will retell it. Spring planting had dragged on and it had been a while since my wife and I were able to get away from the farm. I was trying to finish soybean planting and suggested to my wife she should go to the local casino with our friend S. She was hesitant, but I said I will call S and see if he was up for it. I called him and he said, "you are not coming"? I told him that I was busy. He and my wife had been intimate and had even spent an overnight together on a motorcycle trip. They did go and when they got to the casino, they ended up sitting with 5 friends who were there to listen to the music, dance and drink. The fact that they were out in public and among friends was exhilarating for me to think about, even though I could not witness it. S was divorced at the time and is now married to a lovely woman. We still consider him a very good friend, but there is no sexual interaction between them any more. It does make for good memories!

[MarknSusan]

We've found that even in a small town, if you act like it's "normal", people just see it as normal. The quickest way to raise suspicions is to look suspicious. Look normal and people just see it as a normal thing.

[MarknSusan]

This is true regardless what size town. I’ve been out with other women and my wife has been out with other men…no adverse issues whatsoever for either of us.

However, when three of us have traveled together it has caught the attention of a few people (all women in particular) and my wife really enjoys that attention. We have in fact had them ask about the three of us and Susan’s response was “he is my first love, and he is my last love”. She also refers to us as her “bookends”. It has always brought a smile to the face of the person that inquired.

[PANTIES]

When the three of have been out together we have been asked basically the same question. We have responded, I’m husband number one, he’s husband number 1A. Then we’re asked, how does that work. My wife will answer, anyway we want.

Now several years later the roles have reversed


Pauline

[zorro]

The hottest was getting a call from my mother that she had seen my wife with our friend, but she knew was out of state. She told me they looked really cute holding hands, and that my wife had not noticed her, and she saw them kissing. She asked me if I was aware of this, and i told her I was, that we had an open marriage and I had set her up with our friend. She told me I was a great husband.

Your mother is right.

[hotfreaks]

We live in a small town and my wife has been seeing a BBC bull. They often go out to dinner about 45 minutes away to various restaurants. They act out in public as if they are a couple, showing public displays of affection. And although it's 45 minutes away, it is a thrill that she could be seen. We both love and get off on it. She always wears her rings, although anyone that sees them would think they are his.

[Johnann2227]

For us it is normal for my wife to date boyfriends in public. Weekly she out to dinner, clubs, movies etc. She dresses hot (often what they have bought her to wear) and they hold hands, kiss etc. I have even run into them by accident in a bar when on a boys night. It was so hot seeing them touching each other and him resting his hand on her arse while chatting with others. My friends expressions were funny even though they know we swing and hotwife.
We have been caught out a few times by parents of kids our kids know and that is awkward. But I wouldn't change a thing.

[runaway]

I’d have no problem with my wife dating in public but would prefer it be in another town or city at least an hour away and not too much public display of affection. That way it’s not immediately obvious that it’s about sex. She’s young looking but would hopefully feel like a kid again with the right attention.