Figuring it out
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dorsetben
Re: Figuring it out
What a fantastic Easter treat! Wonderful story. Will we get to see any pics?
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Lookingforadventure
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
For Superb101 and the others who asked about me and Tess. Here is an update from last weekend.
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We had made a plan with Charlie and Tess to meet them on a Sunday for lunch and a hotel date afterwards. As I mentioned earlier, Tess and Adventurer had much more of a connection than Charlie and I. They had a plan to have sex for the first time at that hotel. For Charlie and I, it was a bit less clear.
Charlie is a very nice guy, and quite attractive, but inexperienced when it comes to sex. I think he genuinely wants to be open to new partners and new experiences, but he’s also intimidated at the idea. If it were just he and I, I would be taking things much slower than the pace things have been going.
In the days leading up to our play date, I texted with Charlie to remind him that there were no expectations. Just because Adventurer and Tess did things, didn’t mean that he and I had to do things. We could play it by our own rules and see what felt comfortable. I asked what it was that he wanted from our time together. He said that he wanted to kiss me again like we had done on his couch. He was hoping to remove some clothing this time. He also said that he’d like to lick my pussy if I was up for it.
I said that sounded great. If he was open to it, I’d love to give him a blow job. He was worried that he’d cum right away given the over stimulation going on. I reminded him that there were no issues with that. There were plenty of other things we could do while his cock recovered. I also told him that he could just be very honest with me about how he was feeling. If he wanted me to stop or slow down, he could just say so.
The day approached and I found myself feeling nervous. I had no real expectations or desires for myself, so it wasn’t nerves like I’d get from other play dates. Instead, I was focusing on the fact that this was Tess and Charlie’s first time having sex with other people. I wasn’t sure how Charlie would feel watching Tess and Adventurer. It would also be Charlie’s first time being with another woman ever. I just wanted everything to go smoothly.
I had booked a hotel near the airport and we agreed to meet for lunch close by. Adventurer and I arrived first. We checked into the hotel and then walked to the restaurant. We sat on opposite sides of a booth. When Tess and Charlie arrived, Tess sat next to Adventurer and Charlie sat next to me.
I think there were some nerves all around. Both Adventurer and Charlie were kind of quiet, so Tess and I kept the conversation going. Eventually, Adventurer got more comfortable. I noticed some under the table shenanigans going on…I think he was stroking her leg on the upper part of her thigh. They may also have held hands at points. It was cute to observe.
We paid the bill and walked over to the hotel. When we got in the room, I thought I’d break the ice. I went over to Tess and asked if I could kiss her. I figured that guys enjoy seeing girls make out and it might get the ball rolling for everyone. Tess agreed and we shared a very lovely kiss. Her lips are soft and her hands explored my body a bit.
After we broke our kiss, Adventurer came over. He said I was sexy and that he loved me. He kissed me for a while and then went over to Tess. I took two more steps over to Charlie.
“I’ve kissed everyone else, I guess it is your turn now.” I said.
He smiled and kissed me back. He’s a good kisser and I liked stroking his beard with my hand. I asked if he wanted to sit on the bed with me. He did, and we moved over there to kiss more.
At the foot of the bed, Adventurer and Tess were standing and kissing. Her dress was around her waist and I could see Adventurer’s hands groping her ass in her blue, lacy panties. She was moaning.
“Our spouses seem to be having a lot of fun,” I joked to Charlie.
“So am I,” he said with a smile as he pulled me in to kiss him more.
Charlie and I were sitting next to each other on the bed and I thought that maybe it was time for another position. I stood up and pulled my dress over my head revealing the black, lace bodysuit I was wearing underneath. He let out a, “wow.” Then I straddled his lap to kiss him some more.
His hands were cool against my skin and I enjoyed the feel of him groping and exploring me. He kissed my neck and chest. I unbuttoned a couple of his shirt buttons and stroked his skin. I could feel him getting hard as I ground against his pants.
He suggested that we lay down on the bed. I thought that sounded like a great idea. We continued to kiss as his hands groped my breasts and played with my nipples. Sometimes his hands also slipped under my body suit and played with my clit. I was very wet. His finger slipped inside me as he kissed the side of my neck. I shuddered in orgasm.
Beside us, Tess was completely naked and Adventurer was between her legs licking her pussy. After she came, he stood up and asked if she wanted him to fuck her. She said yes.
Over on my side of the room I stopped kissing Charlie and asked if he wanted to watch his wife. “I’d rather just keep kissing you,” he responded with a smile.
I had completely unbuttoned his shirt and ran my hands over his chest. I also got up on one arm so that I could kiss and suck his nipple as one hand dipped a bit lower to trace along the waistband of his pants.
He unbuckled his belt and undid his pants. I got on my knees and kissed his stomach. I traced my tongue along the waistband of his boxers. I stroked him a bit with my hand. He was semi hard and I figured my mouth could get him the rest of the way.
He asked if he could taste me instead. I said that sounded great.
As I shifted positions, I noticed Tess and Adventurer beside me. He was kissing her passionately and his hand was fingering her. I told Charlie that I’d be right back. I turned to Tess and took one of her nipples in my mouth. She moaned. Her hand caressed my hair. Adventurer took her other nipple in his mouth as he continued to finger her. Soon she was coming.
I smiled at her and then got up off the bed. I removed my body suit to give Charlie better access and lay back down. He got between my legs and used his tongue. His beard felt interesting against the delicate skin between my legs. He also added a finger or two. Tess reached over and groped my breast as her husband ate me. I came quite hard.
I smiled at Charlie and thanked him for the orgasm. I asked if I could taste him. He grinned and said that was an excellent idea. He finished removing his pants, boxers and socks. His cock was soft. I told him to lay back on the bed. I kissed him and ran my hands over his chest. I licked my way down until I reached his cock. I teased it with my tongue and took him in my mouth. He made very sexy sounds.
Beside us, Adventurer was fucking Tess again. He was picking up speed and he told her that he was going to cum soon. I looked up from around Charlie’s cock and watched my husband orgasm inside another woman. It was very sexy.
Charlie’s cock was getting semi-hard in my mouth, but not fully erect. I tried licking and sucking his balls while my hand stroked him. That made him moan even louder. It really sounded like he was enjoying it, but his penis wasn’t cooperating.
As she had recovered from her own orgasm, Tess watched me with Charlie. She came over to kiss him. She licked his nipple and then moved down to help me with his cock. I was prepared to lick and suck it side-by-side with her, but Charlie told her to stop. It would be too much stimulation, he said to her quietly. She said that he could have whatever he wanted. She kissed him again and went back to cuddle with Adventurer for a little while.
I wasn’t sure exactly how to proceed. I didn’t want Charlie to feel badly about his performance issues, but I also wasn’t sure how long to keep trying. Then I had an idea.
I told Charlie that I’d be right back and I gave his cock a kiss. Then I got between Tess’ legs and spread her pussy with my fingers. She and I had talked about wanting to explore girl-on-girl play with each other. I figured it was time to give that a try. And maybe watching would help Charlie get out of his own head.
Tess’ pussy is pink and very pretty. I don’t have a lot of context, I suppose, but I found it fascinating to explore. I traced it very gently with my fingers until I found her clit. I gave that a little rub as Adventurer began to kiss her. I rubbed her clit more as her hips began to buck up and down. Then I leaned forward and added my tongue.
I have to admit that pussy licking is much harder than cock sucking. You are kind of operating blind and hoping that your tongue is making contact with what you want it to make contact with. She seemed to enjoy what I was doing though.
After she came, Adventurer slid his fingers inside her while I went back to Charlie to give him a kiss. He said that watching me with Tess had been very hot. I told him that he was very hot. He laughed and kissed me more.
At some point, Tess got up to go clean up a bit. Charlie excused himself to go talk with her. I heard her ask him if he wanted her to give him a blow job or what she could do. He said he was fine. They kissed a little.
Adventurer and I cuddled on the bed. He asked me how I had enjoyed pussy licking. I said that I thought I needed a little more practice to perfect my skills. LOL
Tess hopped on the foot of the bed and asked if she could have a turn at pussy licking now. The guys were very into that idea. Adventurer kissed me, Charlie played with my breasts and Tess licked and fingered me. It was amazing to be the center of attention of three people.
Afterwards, we spooned with our spouses and talked for a bit. Everyone seemed happy and comfortable and we said we should do it again sometime. The funniest part was that Tess and I were facing each other on the king-sized bed. Our breasts were sort of touching and we commented on how different our nipples were. Her nipples are small and pink and her areolas are larger than mine but very pale. Our fingers explored each other as we described the differences.
It was time to get back to the kids, so I got up to get dressed and everyone else followed suit. In the hotel parking lot, we hugged goodbye.
The next day, Charlie texted me to apologize for his performance issues. I told him that he had nothing to apologize for. I had a good time. Plus, there was a lot going on for him that day, so he can’t be blamed for being a bit in his head. He told me some of his favorite parts of our time together and asked for a do-over in the future.
He also said that he had no jealousy issues about watching Tess and Adventurer, so that was great to hear. As for watching me and Tess, he was eager to see a bit more of that.
Tess and I privately debriefed our playing with each other. We agreed that we’d like a play time in the future without the guys there so that we can truly practice our skills without an audience.
And Tess and Adventurer planned for a solo date in the near future. She’d like to explore some BDSM play and that isn’t Charlie’s thing.
Overall, I’d say it was a successful day. If we were to play again as a foursome, I might suggest separate room play so that Charlie feels more comfortable (or maybe that would be more stressful, I’m not sure).
For now, I think we might put off that kind of play until it seems he’s more ready. Maybe he genuinely finds me attractive, wants to have sex with me, and would be better the second time. Or maybe he’s doing this because his wife wanted to have sex with my husband. I don’t want anyone to feel rushed or obligated to have sex with me because I’m part of a “package deal.”
So we will see what the future holds.
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We had made a plan with Charlie and Tess to meet them on a Sunday for lunch and a hotel date afterwards. As I mentioned earlier, Tess and Adventurer had much more of a connection than Charlie and I. They had a plan to have sex for the first time at that hotel. For Charlie and I, it was a bit less clear.
Charlie is a very nice guy, and quite attractive, but inexperienced when it comes to sex. I think he genuinely wants to be open to new partners and new experiences, but he’s also intimidated at the idea. If it were just he and I, I would be taking things much slower than the pace things have been going.
In the days leading up to our play date, I texted with Charlie to remind him that there were no expectations. Just because Adventurer and Tess did things, didn’t mean that he and I had to do things. We could play it by our own rules and see what felt comfortable. I asked what it was that he wanted from our time together. He said that he wanted to kiss me again like we had done on his couch. He was hoping to remove some clothing this time. He also said that he’d like to lick my pussy if I was up for it.
I said that sounded great. If he was open to it, I’d love to give him a blow job. He was worried that he’d cum right away given the over stimulation going on. I reminded him that there were no issues with that. There were plenty of other things we could do while his cock recovered. I also told him that he could just be very honest with me about how he was feeling. If he wanted me to stop or slow down, he could just say so.
The day approached and I found myself feeling nervous. I had no real expectations or desires for myself, so it wasn’t nerves like I’d get from other play dates. Instead, I was focusing on the fact that this was Tess and Charlie’s first time having sex with other people. I wasn’t sure how Charlie would feel watching Tess and Adventurer. It would also be Charlie’s first time being with another woman ever. I just wanted everything to go smoothly.
I had booked a hotel near the airport and we agreed to meet for lunch close by. Adventurer and I arrived first. We checked into the hotel and then walked to the restaurant. We sat on opposite sides of a booth. When Tess and Charlie arrived, Tess sat next to Adventurer and Charlie sat next to me.
I think there were some nerves all around. Both Adventurer and Charlie were kind of quiet, so Tess and I kept the conversation going. Eventually, Adventurer got more comfortable. I noticed some under the table shenanigans going on…I think he was stroking her leg on the upper part of her thigh. They may also have held hands at points. It was cute to observe.
We paid the bill and walked over to the hotel. When we got in the room, I thought I’d break the ice. I went over to Tess and asked if I could kiss her. I figured that guys enjoy seeing girls make out and it might get the ball rolling for everyone. Tess agreed and we shared a very lovely kiss. Her lips are soft and her hands explored my body a bit.
After we broke our kiss, Adventurer came over. He said I was sexy and that he loved me. He kissed me for a while and then went over to Tess. I took two more steps over to Charlie.
“I’ve kissed everyone else, I guess it is your turn now.” I said.
He smiled and kissed me back. He’s a good kisser and I liked stroking his beard with my hand. I asked if he wanted to sit on the bed with me. He did, and we moved over there to kiss more.
At the foot of the bed, Adventurer and Tess were standing and kissing. Her dress was around her waist and I could see Adventurer’s hands groping her ass in her blue, lacy panties. She was moaning.
“Our spouses seem to be having a lot of fun,” I joked to Charlie.
“So am I,” he said with a smile as he pulled me in to kiss him more.
Charlie and I were sitting next to each other on the bed and I thought that maybe it was time for another position. I stood up and pulled my dress over my head revealing the black, lace bodysuit I was wearing underneath. He let out a, “wow.” Then I straddled his lap to kiss him some more.
His hands were cool against my skin and I enjoyed the feel of him groping and exploring me. He kissed my neck and chest. I unbuttoned a couple of his shirt buttons and stroked his skin. I could feel him getting hard as I ground against his pants.
He suggested that we lay down on the bed. I thought that sounded like a great idea. We continued to kiss as his hands groped my breasts and played with my nipples. Sometimes his hands also slipped under my body suit and played with my clit. I was very wet. His finger slipped inside me as he kissed the side of my neck. I shuddered in orgasm.
Beside us, Tess was completely naked and Adventurer was between her legs licking her pussy. After she came, he stood up and asked if she wanted him to fuck her. She said yes.
Over on my side of the room I stopped kissing Charlie and asked if he wanted to watch his wife. “I’d rather just keep kissing you,” he responded with a smile.
I had completely unbuttoned his shirt and ran my hands over his chest. I also got up on one arm so that I could kiss and suck his nipple as one hand dipped a bit lower to trace along the waistband of his pants.
He unbuckled his belt and undid his pants. I got on my knees and kissed his stomach. I traced my tongue along the waistband of his boxers. I stroked him a bit with my hand. He was semi hard and I figured my mouth could get him the rest of the way.
He asked if he could taste me instead. I said that sounded great.
As I shifted positions, I noticed Tess and Adventurer beside me. He was kissing her passionately and his hand was fingering her. I told Charlie that I’d be right back. I turned to Tess and took one of her nipples in my mouth. She moaned. Her hand caressed my hair. Adventurer took her other nipple in his mouth as he continued to finger her. Soon she was coming.
I smiled at her and then got up off the bed. I removed my body suit to give Charlie better access and lay back down. He got between my legs and used his tongue. His beard felt interesting against the delicate skin between my legs. He also added a finger or two. Tess reached over and groped my breast as her husband ate me. I came quite hard.
I smiled at Charlie and thanked him for the orgasm. I asked if I could taste him. He grinned and said that was an excellent idea. He finished removing his pants, boxers and socks. His cock was soft. I told him to lay back on the bed. I kissed him and ran my hands over his chest. I licked my way down until I reached his cock. I teased it with my tongue and took him in my mouth. He made very sexy sounds.
Beside us, Adventurer was fucking Tess again. He was picking up speed and he told her that he was going to cum soon. I looked up from around Charlie’s cock and watched my husband orgasm inside another woman. It was very sexy.
Charlie’s cock was getting semi-hard in my mouth, but not fully erect. I tried licking and sucking his balls while my hand stroked him. That made him moan even louder. It really sounded like he was enjoying it, but his penis wasn’t cooperating.
As she had recovered from her own orgasm, Tess watched me with Charlie. She came over to kiss him. She licked his nipple and then moved down to help me with his cock. I was prepared to lick and suck it side-by-side with her, but Charlie told her to stop. It would be too much stimulation, he said to her quietly. She said that he could have whatever he wanted. She kissed him again and went back to cuddle with Adventurer for a little while.
I wasn’t sure exactly how to proceed. I didn’t want Charlie to feel badly about his performance issues, but I also wasn’t sure how long to keep trying. Then I had an idea.
I told Charlie that I’d be right back and I gave his cock a kiss. Then I got between Tess’ legs and spread her pussy with my fingers. She and I had talked about wanting to explore girl-on-girl play with each other. I figured it was time to give that a try. And maybe watching would help Charlie get out of his own head.
Tess’ pussy is pink and very pretty. I don’t have a lot of context, I suppose, but I found it fascinating to explore. I traced it very gently with my fingers until I found her clit. I gave that a little rub as Adventurer began to kiss her. I rubbed her clit more as her hips began to buck up and down. Then I leaned forward and added my tongue.
I have to admit that pussy licking is much harder than cock sucking. You are kind of operating blind and hoping that your tongue is making contact with what you want it to make contact with. She seemed to enjoy what I was doing though.
After she came, Adventurer slid his fingers inside her while I went back to Charlie to give him a kiss. He said that watching me with Tess had been very hot. I told him that he was very hot. He laughed and kissed me more.
At some point, Tess got up to go clean up a bit. Charlie excused himself to go talk with her. I heard her ask him if he wanted her to give him a blow job or what she could do. He said he was fine. They kissed a little.
Adventurer and I cuddled on the bed. He asked me how I had enjoyed pussy licking. I said that I thought I needed a little more practice to perfect my skills. LOL
Tess hopped on the foot of the bed and asked if she could have a turn at pussy licking now. The guys were very into that idea. Adventurer kissed me, Charlie played with my breasts and Tess licked and fingered me. It was amazing to be the center of attention of three people.
Afterwards, we spooned with our spouses and talked for a bit. Everyone seemed happy and comfortable and we said we should do it again sometime. The funniest part was that Tess and I were facing each other on the king-sized bed. Our breasts were sort of touching and we commented on how different our nipples were. Her nipples are small and pink and her areolas are larger than mine but very pale. Our fingers explored each other as we described the differences.
It was time to get back to the kids, so I got up to get dressed and everyone else followed suit. In the hotel parking lot, we hugged goodbye.
The next day, Charlie texted me to apologize for his performance issues. I told him that he had nothing to apologize for. I had a good time. Plus, there was a lot going on for him that day, so he can’t be blamed for being a bit in his head. He told me some of his favorite parts of our time together and asked for a do-over in the future.
He also said that he had no jealousy issues about watching Tess and Adventurer, so that was great to hear. As for watching me and Tess, he was eager to see a bit more of that.
Tess and I privately debriefed our playing with each other. We agreed that we’d like a play time in the future without the guys there so that we can truly practice our skills without an audience.
And Tess and Adventurer planned for a solo date in the near future. She’d like to explore some BDSM play and that isn’t Charlie’s thing.
Overall, I’d say it was a successful day. If we were to play again as a foursome, I might suggest separate room play so that Charlie feels more comfortable (or maybe that would be more stressful, I’m not sure).
For now, I think we might put off that kind of play until it seems he’s more ready. Maybe he genuinely finds me attractive, wants to have sex with me, and would be better the second time. Or maybe he’s doing this because his wife wanted to have sex with my husband. I don’t want anyone to feel rushed or obligated to have sex with me because I’m part of a “package deal.”
So we will see what the future holds.
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Re: Figuring it out
Another wonderful writeup! You're so good at putting us in the room with you it's absolutely amazing.
How did you handle your own jealousy concerns?
Did it effect you at all while Adventurer and Tess played and fucked?
Do you think you're in a better place for their upcoming date?
Inquiring minds want to know!

How did you handle your own jealousy concerns?
Did it effect you at all while Adventurer and Tess played and fucked?
Do you think you're in a better place for their upcoming date?
Inquiring minds want to know!
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
I was really ok with Adventurer and Tess playing. Maybe it sounds weird, but I wasn't jealous at all. It probably helped that Adventurer regularly made eye contact with me, and came over to kiss me and tell me that he loved me.hoping_she_will_1day wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:19 amAnother wonderful writeup! You're so good at putting us in the room with you it's absolutely amazing.
How did you handle your own jealousy concerns?
Did it effect you at all while Adventurer and Tess played and fucked?
Do you think you're in a better place for their upcoming date?
Inquiring minds want to know!
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I'm also feeling good about their upcoming date. I know that she can't replace me as the love of his life, or even as the person he most wants to have sex with. So I'm happy to see him happy and enjoying playing with someone else.
The only negative feelings I had came up the day after our hotel date. It was the second time in a row that we had tried swinging and ended up with the other woman being really into having sex with my husband, and the other guy having trouble getting aroused for me. I had a few moments of self doubt. Maybe I am the common denominator and I'm just not sexy enough. Adventurer and G both helped remind me that I'm smoking hot and sex with me is awesome!
After that, I felt better.
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rascalnvixen
Re: Figuring it out
LFA,
You are such a sweet and considerate lover!!! I'm happy that you took time with Charlie and kept the pressure/expectations low for him. You said, "Maybe he genuinely finds me attractive, wants to have sex with me, and would be better the second time." I shouldn't have to break this to you, BUT, he is a guy!!! YOU are a very pretty and sexy woman!! OF COURSE he wants to have sex with you!!!! What true hetero guy wouldn't. That is why I'm so impressed that you didn't pressure him. I think you understand men quite a bit!!!
I know I want to have sex with you but that's not likely to happen, but you wouldn't have to be tender with my feelings. I'd be on you in a NYC heartbeat!!!! That is after some playtime to get all our juices going. I'm sure your patience will work for Charlie the next time you play. BTW, you write very well and found myself just cruising right through your stories!!!
Speaking of storieS, I need to tell you that I didn't realize you were such a glorious and wanton slut!!!!
Oh, my!!!! What a fantastic tale you wrote about your time with "Sir". You really like to have your pussy busy, don't you??!!??!! You had a profound effect on my blood pressure as I read that story!!! I enjoyed the visual fantasy of you as if I was there to watch your domination, especially your sucking Sir's cock!!! I don't know how he keeps from fucking you in such a hot scenario. Maybe some day he will! Does Adventurer ever take your pussy while Sir is there to watch you being serviced by hubby??? I was thinking about doing just that when you were locked in stock!! Speaking of GLORIOUS!!!! That would be very HOT!!! I might even have some control issues if I were ever put in that situation with you!!!!
So, I hope I didn't offend you with the "slut" word, it was meant in a most POSITIVE manner. It was the best word I could use to describe my thoughts at the time!! Seriously, I truly would very much enjoy a wonderful experience with you!!! I'm sure we could have some FUN!!!
Rascal
You are such a sweet and considerate lover!!! I'm happy that you took time with Charlie and kept the pressure/expectations low for him. You said, "Maybe he genuinely finds me attractive, wants to have sex with me, and would be better the second time." I shouldn't have to break this to you, BUT, he is a guy!!! YOU are a very pretty and sexy woman!! OF COURSE he wants to have sex with you!!!! What true hetero guy wouldn't. That is why I'm so impressed that you didn't pressure him. I think you understand men quite a bit!!!
Speaking of storieS, I need to tell you that I didn't realize you were such a glorious and wanton slut!!!!
So, I hope I didn't offend you with the "slut" word, it was meant in a most POSITIVE manner. It was the best word I could use to describe my thoughts at the time!! Seriously, I truly would very much enjoy a wonderful experience with you!!! I'm sure we could have some FUN!!!
Rascal
Re: Figuring it out
Could be the other way -- so sexy you're intimidating. I understand that too can cause performance anxiety in some men.Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:35 amThe only negative feelings I had came up the day after our hotel date. It was the second time in a row that we had tried swinging and ended up with the other woman being really into having sex with my husband, and the other guy having trouble getting aroused for me. I had a few moments of self doubt. Maybe I am the common denominator and I'm just not sexy enough. Adventurer and G both helped remind me that I'm smoking hot and sex with me is awesome!
After that, I felt better.
Re: Figuring it out
We were friends with a couple who tried swinging. They met with another couple where it turned out the husband was really only interested in his wife getting fucked by another man. That husband couldn't perform with the wife of our friends, but later fucked his own wife with no problem. Of course, our friends were disappointed. The wife felt a lot like you did, and the husband felt bad because while he had a good time fucking the other wife, his own wife was left "high and dry". The other couple had their own agenda that they didn't share going into the swap.airhorn wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 7:44 amCould be the other way -- so sexy you're intimidating. I understand that too can cause performance anxiety in some men.Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:35 amThe only negative feelings I had came up the day after our hotel date. It was the second time in a row that we had tried swinging and ended up with the other woman being really into having sex with my husband, and the other guy having trouble getting aroused for me. I had a few moments of self doubt. Maybe I am the common denominator and I'm just not sexy enough. Adventurer and G both helped remind me that I'm smoking hot and sex with me is awesome!
After that, I felt better.
Re: Figuring it out
That's another possibility, and on this site not even an unlikely one... but I try to stay positive. (A major element of my day job is looking for things that can go/be wrong, and I try to not let that rub off too much.)isinlarsa wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 7:58 amWe were friends with a couple who tried swinging. They met with another couple where it turned out the husband was really only interested in his wife getting fucked by another man. That husband couldn't perform with the wife of our friends, but later fucked his own wife with no problem. Of course, our friends were disappointed. The wife felt a lot like you did, and the husband felt bad because while he had a good time fucking the other wife, his own wife was left "high and dry". The other couple had their own agenda that they didn't share going into the swap.airhorn wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 7:44 amCould be the other way -- so sexy you're intimidating. I understand that too can cause performance anxiety in some men.Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:35 amThe only negative feelings I had came up the day after our hotel date. It was the second time in a row that we had tried swinging and ended up with the other woman being really into having sex with my husband, and the other guy having trouble getting aroused for me. I had a few moments of self doubt. Maybe I am the common denominator and I'm just not sexy enough. Adventurer and G both helped remind me that I'm smoking hot and sex with me is awesome!
After that, I felt better.
Re: Figuring it out
I think you need some "alone" time with Tess IMHO. Thanks again for sharing your adventures. You are an amazing woman!
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
Oh Rascal. You make me smile...and blush at the same time. Thank you for your kind words and your dirty thoughtsrascalnvixen wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 6:44 am
So, I hope I didn't offend you with the "slut" word, it was meant in a most POSITIVE manner. It was the best word I could use to describe my thoughts at the time!!![]()
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Rascal
Don't worry, I'm not offended by your use of "slut." It is funny, because I really am quite sensitive to demeaning language. If I start to chat with someone new, I let them know early on that I am not ok with the c-word in any way, shape or form, nor do I want to be called a whore or a slut. If they cross the line, I cut them off. It is that easy. I need to feel like they respect me.
I recently read "The Ethical Slut" and I am learning to embrace the word "slut" for myself. I define it as someone (male or female) who loves sex, is comfortable with their own sexuality, and doesn't want to be confined by someone else's standards of what is right and wrong for them to do. I took your use of the words in this way, so it was totally fine with me.
Sir has also been given permission to call me slut. It was only recently granted to him and he uses it sparingly. I kind of like when he does...but he's also very careful with it because he knows how I feel.
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
Thank you both. I agree that it could be any number of things going on. My rational brain understands that. Sometimes reason and feelings don't line up, so I needed a bit of a boost from the men in my life to remind me that this probably had nothing to do with me. I'm all good nowairhorn wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 8:22 amThat's another possibility, and on this site not even an unlikely one... but I try to stay positive. (A major element of my day job is looking for things that can go/be wrong, and I try to not let that rub off too much.)isinlarsa wrote: ↑Mon Apr 18, 2022 7:58 amWe were friends with a couple who tried swinging. They met with another couple where it turned out the husband was really only interested in his wife getting fucked by another man. That husband couldn't perform with the wife of our friends, but later fucked his own wife with no problem. Of course, our friends were disappointed. The wife felt a lot like you did, and the husband felt bad because while he had a good time fucking the other wife, his own wife was left "high and dry". The other couple had their own agenda that they didn't share going into the swap.
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Re: Figuring it out
Very hot read.
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Re: Figuring it out
Another sleep over :-), I can only be so lucky….adventurer and looking for adventure, thank you both for the trust in me and for the amazing journey we are on….Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Fri Apr 08, 2022 6:06 amI’ll try to streamline the story of my weekend a bit so that it doesn’t get too long.
Dinner was really nice. Adventurer had made a reservation for G and I at a British Pub near the hotel. It was a place that Adventurer and I had been to before – upscale casual with good food and good beer. The reservation was in Adventurer’s name, which made G chuckle a bit as we went to sit down.
The food was good, conversation was easy, and we had a really nice time. The server came to ask if we wanted coffee or dessert, but we were both more interested in getting back to the hotel.
G got up to go use the restroom and leaned down to kiss me goodbye before he left. I told him that I’d text Adventurer with an update.
“Tell him thank you for the dinner recommendation, and that you look beautiful tonight,” G said.
I smiled and did just that. Adventurer especially enjoyed the second sentence.
Back at the hotel, G wanted to brush his teeth before any activities began. While he was in the bathroom, I decided to undress. My heels were hurting me, so they came off. I took my dress off and folded it over a chair. Then I decided that maybe I’d just remove everything. It was not my most subtle attempt at communicating that I was ready for more.
When G came out, I was lying on my stomach on the bed chatting with Adventurer on my phone. G had grabbed his i-pad because he wanted to show me something that we had talked about at dinner. As he came around the corner, he said, “Let me show you….oh! Look at you!”
My message had been clearly communicated! At one point, when G was fucking me, I reminded him that he had something he had been planning to show me on his tablet. He laughed and said it could definitely wait.
Later, with G’s cum dripping out of me and our bodies both sweaty and spent, we cuddled under the sheets and finally got around to looking at his tablet. We also had a good conversation about family, his vacation, our work, etc. My hand was stroking his chest hair as I lay in the nook by his shoulder. My hand slipped lower and realized he was hard again. We kissed, and fucked another time before deciding to call it a night.
I picked up my phone to send Adventurer an update and realized I had missed a text from him about an hour earlier. I apologized for the delay and explained that we had been talking (and fucking) and I hadn’t heard the notification. He rather enjoyed that explanation. I wished him sweet dreams and said good night.
G and I cuddled a bit with the lights off. Then I kissed him and turned towards my side of the bed. He fell asleep quickly (I may have worn him out a little). It took me a bit longer. It reminded me of being a kid and sleeping over at a friend’s house for the first time. It just felt unsettling to be in bed with someone new. I’d start to drift off and then find myself awake again. I often have trouble sleeping my first night somewhere new, so this wasn’t entirely about being in bed with another man, but that was part of it. Eventually, though, sleep came and I had pleasant dreams until the morning.
G and I had left the heavy curtains of our hotel room open at night, and I ended up semi-awake with the sun around 6:30. I lay there for a bit not wanting to disturb G’s sleep. Then, I turned towards him. In his semi-conscious state, he pulled me towards him and we slept like that for a little while.
G was on his back and I noticed the sheet tenting up a bit below his waist. I reached my hand down and found him fully erect. I traced a finger over his cock and noticed his breathing changing slightly. I circled my hand around him and stroked him very slowly. Then I ducked under the sheets and took him in my mouth.
G was still half asleep but was making the sexiest sounds. I took my time and savored every inch, slowly bobbing and massaging him into the morning. When I did pop back up from under the sheets to wish him a good morning, he was smiling at me.
We kissed and cuddled for a bit longer, until I had to get up to use the bathroom. When I got back, I grabbed my phone and texted with Adventurer a bit from the bed. I sent him a video of me under the sheets wishing him a naked good morning. I also gave him a few of the details of my time with G.
Maybe I’ll leave the story there, except for two things. First, G and I ordered room service for breakfast. When it arrived, we were still naked. G hopped out of bed to put some clothes on and answer the door. I pulled the sheets up over my chest. The staff member smiled and wished me a good morning. He also called G “Mr.” again and said that he hoped we enjoyed the rest of our stay. “If there is anything else we can do, Mr. Smith, please let us know.”
After breakfast, when I decided to ride G’s cock, I couldn’t help but refer to him that way as well. “Are you enjoying this Mr. Smith?” I asked as I pinned his hands down above his head and slowly ground against him. “I want you to be completely satisfied Mr. Smith” You get the idea. It was strangely very satisfying
The second thing that I will end with is that I did send Adventurer a few very sexy videos and photos. In one, G was fucking me as I was trying to describe to Adventurer all the things G had done to me the night before. I was not the most articulate!
Despite my nerves, I think it was a good experience all around. I might be up for a sleepover again sometime![]()
I will say that I have never had a return from vacation like this one…..everything else pales in comparison !!!
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Re: Figuring it out
You are one lucky man.Seekingmore12 wrote: ↑Thu Apr 21, 2022 10:14 amAnother sleep over :-), I can only be so lucky….adventurer and looking for adventure, thank you both for the trust in me and for the amazing journey we are on….Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Fri Apr 08, 2022 6:06 amI’ll try to streamline the story of my weekend a bit so that it doesn’t get too long.
Dinner was really nice. Adventurer had made a reservation for G and I at a British Pub near the hotel. It was a place that Adventurer and I had been to before – upscale casual with good food and good beer. The reservation was in Adventurer’s name, which made G chuckle a bit as we went to sit down.
The food was good, conversation was easy, and we had a really nice time. The server came to ask if we wanted coffee or dessert, but we were both more interested in getting back to the hotel.
G got up to go use the restroom and leaned down to kiss me goodbye before he left. I told him that I’d text Adventurer with an update.
“Tell him thank you for the dinner recommendation, and that you look beautiful tonight,” G said.
I smiled and did just that. Adventurer especially enjoyed the second sentence.
Back at the hotel, G wanted to brush his teeth before any activities began. While he was in the bathroom, I decided to undress. My heels were hurting me, so they came off. I took my dress off and folded it over a chair. Then I decided that maybe I’d just remove everything. It was not my most subtle attempt at communicating that I was ready for more.
When G came out, I was lying on my stomach on the bed chatting with Adventurer on my phone. G had grabbed his i-pad because he wanted to show me something that we had talked about at dinner. As he came around the corner, he said, “Let me show you….oh! Look at you!”
My message had been clearly communicated! At one point, when G was fucking me, I reminded him that he had something he had been planning to show me on his tablet. He laughed and said it could definitely wait.
Later, with G’s cum dripping out of me and our bodies both sweaty and spent, we cuddled under the sheets and finally got around to looking at his tablet. We also had a good conversation about family, his vacation, our work, etc. My hand was stroking his chest hair as I lay in the nook by his shoulder. My hand slipped lower and realized he was hard again. We kissed, and fucked another time before deciding to call it a night.
I picked up my phone to send Adventurer an update and realized I had missed a text from him about an hour earlier. I apologized for the delay and explained that we had been talking (and fucking) and I hadn’t heard the notification. He rather enjoyed that explanation. I wished him sweet dreams and said good night.
G and I cuddled a bit with the lights off. Then I kissed him and turned towards my side of the bed. He fell asleep quickly (I may have worn him out a little). It took me a bit longer. It reminded me of being a kid and sleeping over at a friend’s house for the first time. It just felt unsettling to be in bed with someone new. I’d start to drift off and then find myself awake again. I often have trouble sleeping my first night somewhere new, so this wasn’t entirely about being in bed with another man, but that was part of it. Eventually, though, sleep came and I had pleasant dreams until the morning.
G and I had left the heavy curtains of our hotel room open at night, and I ended up semi-awake with the sun around 6:30. I lay there for a bit not wanting to disturb G’s sleep. Then, I turned towards him. In his semi-conscious state, he pulled me towards him and we slept like that for a little while.
G was on his back and I noticed the sheet tenting up a bit below his waist. I reached my hand down and found him fully erect. I traced a finger over his cock and noticed his breathing changing slightly. I circled my hand around him and stroked him very slowly. Then I ducked under the sheets and took him in my mouth.
G was still half asleep but was making the sexiest sounds. I took my time and savored every inch, slowly bobbing and massaging him into the morning. When I did pop back up from under the sheets to wish him a good morning, he was smiling at me.
We kissed and cuddled for a bit longer, until I had to get up to use the bathroom. When I got back, I grabbed my phone and texted with Adventurer a bit from the bed. I sent him a video of me under the sheets wishing him a naked good morning. I also gave him a few of the details of my time with G.
Maybe I’ll leave the story there, except for two things. First, G and I ordered room service for breakfast. When it arrived, we were still naked. G hopped out of bed to put some clothes on and answer the door. I pulled the sheets up over my chest. The staff member smiled and wished me a good morning. He also called G “Mr.” again and said that he hoped we enjoyed the rest of our stay. “If there is anything else we can do, Mr. Smith, please let us know.”
After breakfast, when I decided to ride G’s cock, I couldn’t help but refer to him that way as well. “Are you enjoying this Mr. Smith?” I asked as I pinned his hands down above his head and slowly ground against him. “I want you to be completely satisfied Mr. Smith” You get the idea. It was strangely very satisfying
The second thing that I will end with is that I did send Adventurer a few very sexy videos and photos. In one, G was fucking me as I was trying to describe to Adventurer all the things G had done to me the night before. I was not the most articulate!
Despite my nerves, I think it was a good experience all around. I might be up for a sleepover again sometime![]()
I will say that I have never had a return from vacation like this one…..everything else pales in comparison !!!
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
Thank you for being willing to be my first for so many adventures. XOXOSeekingmore12 wrote: ↑Thu Apr 21, 2022 10:14 am
Another sleep over :-), I can only be so lucky….adventurer and looking for adventure, thank you both for the trust in me and for the amazing journey we are on….
I will say that I have never had a return from vacation like this one…..everything else pales in comparison !!!
And any time you need a "welcome home" you just let me know
Re: Figuring it out
Hi, just read your thread from beginning to end over the past 2 days and I think it's the best I've read on this site so far!Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Sun Apr 17, 2022 4:40 amSince you mention BDSM, maybe I'll share a story in a post below. It happened several weeks ago now. I am not always sure that people on this forum are into BDSM play so I wasn't sure about posting it, but you've convinced me. And maybe, Adventurer will share a pic or two as well. He took severalrascalnvixen wrote: ↑Sat Apr 16, 2022 12:20 pmI can be pretty raunchy when a woman gets me really HOT!!! Maybe more naughty than sweet!!!I think you could make me pretty raunchy/naughty, especially when I read you like a bit of BDSM!!!! I would never mark you but I would love to turn your world inside/out!!!
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One thing though don't ever, ever, ever think we are not interested in your BDSM interludes! I'm sure I'm not the only one to be both amazed by your talents and willingness to let your limits be tested and unbelievably turned on by them.
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
Thank you so much. I appreciate that. I haven't had much hot wifing play recently. There have been some things going on in our household (first COVID and then a death in the family) but I think we are ready to get back in the swing of things. Maybe there will be some new posts soon.Johng1953 wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 2:43 am
Hi, just read your thread from beginning to end over the past 2 days and I think it's the best I've read on this site so far!
One thing though don't ever, ever, ever think we are not interested in your BDSM interludes! I'm sure I'm not the only one to be both amazed by your talents and willingness to let your limits be tested and unbelievably turned on by them.
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rascalnvixen
Re: Figuring it out
Speaking of swings!! Have you ever had the pleasure of using a swing for sex??? Have you ever enjoyed BDSM in a swing where the swinging motion was a part of your treatment???Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 6:59 amThank you so much. I appreciate that. I haven't had much hot wifing play recently. There have been some things going on in our household (first COVID and then a death in the family) but I think we are ready to get back in the swing of things. Maybe there will be some new posts soon.
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Re: Figuring it out
Very sorry for your loss.Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 6:59 amThere have been some things going on in our household (first COVID and then a death in the family)
Our story: viewtopic.php?f=48&t=65850#p1284434
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Married to Mrs Curious
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
LOL. Rascal, you make me chuckle. I have not, in fact, had the pleasure of using a sex swing. With that said, there is one at a sex club in Toronto and we are thinking about going back there sometime in the next month or so. So perhaps I will add this to my "to do" list and report back after I've checked it offrascalnvixen wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 11:18 am
Speaking of swings!! Have you ever had the pleasure of using a swing for sex??? Have you ever enjoyed BDSM in a swing where the swinging motion was a part of your treatment???![]()
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
Thank you so much. It was somewhat expected, but a lot earlier than we had anticipated. We've had a lot of exhausting and emotional days.hoping_she_will_1day wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 11:36 amVery sorry for your loss.Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 6:59 amThere have been some things going on in our household (first COVID and then a death in the family)
Re: Figuring it out
Have you and Tess talked about getting alone together?
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rascalnvixen
Re: Figuring it out
That sure sounds like fun!!!! If you do, be sure Adventurer takes some pics to share, if he is allowed!!! I can just imagine you in a sex swing with guys lining up and backing up around the room!!!!Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 11:48 amLOL. Rascal, you make me chuckle. I have not, in fact, had the pleasure of using a sex swing. With that said, there is one at a sex club in Toronto and we are thinking about going back there sometime in the next month or so. So perhaps I will add this to my "to do" list and report back after I've checked it offrascalnvixen wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 11:18 am
Speaking of swings!! Have you ever had the pleasure of using a swing for sex??? Have you ever enjoyed BDSM in a swing where the swinging motion was a part of your treatment???![]()
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Lookingforadventure
Re: Figuring it out
Maybe I should mention that when we go to the sex club, I don't actually have sex with other men! I enjoy seeing all the naked people, and I have an exhibitionist side, so I like being watched as Adventurer and I play. I just don't think I could have sex with a random stranger.rascalnvixen wrote: ↑Mon May 09, 2022 7:26 pm
That sure sounds like fun!!!! If you do, be sure Adventurer takes some pics to share, if he is allowed!!! I can just imagine you in a sex swing with guys lining up and backing up around the room!!!!
Rascal
Adventurer and I have talked about inviting a couple or play partner that we've already developed a relationship with to join us at the sex club. I think that would work. He also likes to tease me about pre-arranging a gangbang (maybe with several OHW friends flying in for the occasion!) but I'm pretty sure that I enjoy the idea of a gangbang more than I would like the actual thing. I need to have some level of control of the situation and some connection with the people that I'm fucking.
All of which is to say that the sex swing will be reserved for my husband or someone else that I'm close to. No long lineups