I like a sex partner who is a partner in crime so to speak. I'm definitely a voyeur at heart. So I'm with you that I don't find the whole cuck aspect appealing the way some do.veub wrote: ↑Wed Apr 20, 2022 11:00 amThey're going to have her get breast implants? For all but the most gentle physical activity - you have to wait about 6 or 7 weeks after surgery and I don't think her normal activities are going to be gentle. And she is going to be in this long enough for her hair to reach her navel? I guess hooking is now her long term career goal.
This story illustrates one of the things I don't understand about cuckolding. They really don't have a marriage under any normal definition. She spends no real time with him. They share nothing except stories about her sexual encounters. They have nothing "together" that is private between them. At best their life is like long distance friends. She is certainly more "together" with Wade than with him. All they really have in common is his craving for humiliation and her eagerness to satisfy it.
My personal arm-chair psychologist opinion is that cucks are fundamentally masochists. The stories like Ky's here, and Xleglovers are about the protagonists voyage down that path. It's about how much "pain" can they endure while still getting their erotic needs met.
After getting divorced I started to really open up with being ethically monogamous. I met a cuckold couple and at first it was really hard for me to participate in the humiliation aspect. Like genuinely near nauseous at saying some really derogatory shit to this dude who just invited me into his house to fuck his wife. But then later after a few sessions and a few post care debriefs, it made sense. It's what he needed. It was his thing. We were all consenting. His wife didn't think any less of him, and in a lot of ways admired him way more than typical married couples.
I know a lot of people who are conventional and have way less contact than this. I have one friend who lives in Tokyo and his wife lives in NJ (they have a don't ask don't tell policy). They see each other a few times a year. I have a relative who lived in three different states, while the wife stayed home and he came home on weekends. Not every marriage is the same I guess.