Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[afagehi7]

Was there not a dinner occasion with Ms I present where SW promised your greatest fantasy fulfilled before your next birthday?
Or was she just blowing smoke? Seems Ms I overheard that and made a mental note of it ... So, done deal?

Birthday is in June. Time is counting down!

BTW she is, of course, training with Mr. G today.

Any idea what the gift will be? I mean it's right around the corner, I'd think if she was going to fuck a guy you'd be seeing some signs. She doesn't strike me as a random in a bar girl

If she has a plan then yes, she will soon be in preparation mode. The only hint so far is that she has been more sexually randy over the past few weeks.

For example, on Sunday evening we were watching television in our new great room, and the window coverings are not yet installed. People on the street could easily get to a viewing angle to see right inside, us on the love seat. After the program was over, around 10:00 p.m., SW literally jumped my bones. I did not hesitate to take her lead, and took off all her clothes while she gave me a bj and then she climbed up and mounted me, riding with not a care in the world. She did observe that someone could see her/us but said she didn't care.

Perhaps she's enjoying the possibility of being watched. Maybe your berf-day would be a trip to a club where you could be watched?

It's a stretch but if she is going to do something pinky-esque for your birthday she'd running out of time. A trip to the club would be a possibility???

[slenderfish]

I got a message yesterday from Ms. I asking for a conversation in order to prepare for her trip to the USA and also offering an update on her communication with SW about the "birthday gift" promise.

I will speak with Ms. I in a few hours.

[rooster444]

Sounds like Ms. I knows what's up and it also sounds like she is excited to help out.

Maybe a M/F/F private party?

[CuriousUK]

Hmm, intriguing

[slenderfish]

Sounds like Ms. I knows what's up and it also sounds like she is excited to help out.

Maybe a M/F/F private party?

Ms. I would go for it with me but we are keeping off limits, and have done so for many years. But she is more open as a European woman, and is intrigued by SW as well. Intrigued as to what SW may have in her intentions.

[slenderfish]

Hmm, intriguing

So I did speak with Ms. I and the intel is that she has reached out to SW via text and also inquired "among us girls" as to whether SW remembers the pledge back in October 2021 and if she is pulling something together in that regard.

Has not heard back from SW from her texts.

SW last night asked me to provide her the exact dates of Ms. I's travel to stay with us, so I do know she is preparing to reply to Ms. I's text inquiries.

That's where this stands as of now.

[Tryn]

It’ll be interesting to see what she tells Ms. I. Of course, SW may just not respond to the inquiry on the “pledge.” Hopefully she does reply and with a plan and details!

[slenderfish]

It’ll be interesting to see what she tells Ms. I. Of course, SW may just not respond to the inquiry on the “pledge.” Hopefully she does reply and with a plan and details!

Yes, let's hope.

[slenderfish]

Today is Friday, SW's regular day for private workout with her trainer Mr. G.

Speaking of this, the other night we were watching some streaming program (Barry on HBO Max) and there was this plot line about the wife of the organized crime boss who had been getting in on with her hunky young private trainer. Barry was hired to put a hit on the trainer guy.

As the plot played out and kind of came to its conclusion, I remarked "Isn't it funny how the expected response for a man when encountering a situation with a randy wife is violence or similar against the poor schmuck, rather than confronting and dealing with his wife. Even more funny that in my/our case, I would celebrate and love if you had ongoing encounters with your trainer."

I'd used this as an opportunity to make my point, and to gauge her reaction. I was slightly surprised that she didn't recoil but rather, in an even tone, replied "No, you wouldn't like that." I restated that "I would like it, from a hotwife husband standpoint, and why do you think I would not like it?"

She then continued "He is married and committed to his wife, so you and I would be condoning his cheating." Good point.

I then retreated and said "I wasn't referring specifically to Mr. G but rather a conceptual hunky young personal trainer who is not married and who would be fully into it with no strings attached." And she accepted it with no further pushback.

We then returned our attention to the program.

[william70]

You're getting bolder with your discussions with SW. Give yourself a Pat on the back.

[william70]

Gee. I give him a little praise and everyone disappears.

[slenderfish]

Still here.

I did pat myself on the back, but not literally.

Thank you.

[rooster444]

Time for SW to make a move or it will all continue to slowly disappear. . . this is the summer for action. If not, it will all be a nice 'close but not quite' for all of us only to fade away.

[slenderfish]

Time for SW to make a move or it will all continue to slowly disappear. . . this is the summer for action. If not, it will all be a nice 'close but not quite' for all of us only to fade away.

Definitely one legitimately possible path.

[william70]

I see a little back tracking going on. SF, what's going on in your head?

[slenderfish]

Update on Sexuality and Intimacy therapist sessions.

Last Wednesday SW went out with her girlfriend for birthday dinner of the friend (Ms. T, the pilot). SW drove, so they ended up coming home not too late, and were surprised I was home ahead of them. I guess they were going to continue with wine, etc. but I kind of cut that short.

But SW was a bit amped up from the dinner and conversation, so she went downstairs to watch some of her programs and have a nightcap. She ended up binge watching and came up to bed around 5:30 a.m. She woke me up and asked me to take the therapy session as a solo session, so she could sleep. And I did.

The therapist and I talked about my perspective. Let's remember this is a sex-positive person, very open and progressive. We went into some of my experiences with SW and her attitude toward men and sex in general.

I observed that SW essentially "demands" attention from men and women when she enters a room, based on how she dresses, looks, etc. And achieves it. At the same time, she does not outwardly acknowledge the attention from men. When she has had some wine, etc. she will drift over to the man/men. The most specific example I had was when we were at a grand wine tasting event, a big and well-known hotel ballroom in the bit city that is close to where we live. After the event, our social group transitioned to the upscale bar. There was a piano man, etc. Our group (10-12 people, couples and singles) settled into the lounge. But SW migrated to the bar, and ended up holding court there with a couple of men at the end of the bar, for at least an hour. The one guy was staying at the hotel, and is in hotel development and construction. About 15 years older than SW, and he had his construction manager with him. SW was performing for them, laying on the charm, without any consideration or concern for me and the group. One or two of the friends gestured over to SW and asked if I could see what is going on. Of course, I was okay with it but had to act concerned. I walked her direction but in a way she could not see me, then circled back to the group and indicated all is okay.

She ended up trading phone numbers with the alpha guy, and said to me that "he wants to hire her to pre-sell luxury suites" in his hotel developments. Yeah, right.

The therapist observed "no wonder you are kind of drifting toward a cuckold mindset" and said that SW is leading or otherwise pushing the concept.

Then the hour was up, so we closed the conversation and I went on my way.

[slenderfish]

I see a little back tracking going on. SF, what's going on in your head?

No backtrack, just observing that SW could well be on a completely different path. We will find out.

[afagehi7]

Update on Sexuality and Intimacy therapist sessions.

The therapist observed "no wonder you are kind of drifting toward a cuckold mindset" and said that SW is leading or otherwise pushing the concept.

Then the hour was up, so we closed the conversation and I went on my way.

Not sure what to say or think about that one. Once you digest and process I'll be interested to hear

[solstice]

One of your attributes is an abundance of patience, Why not just fuck the therapist and get some added value?

[slenderfish]

One of your attributes is an abundance of patience, Why not just fuck the therapist and get some added value?

Yes, I am patient. Yes, the therapist is very attractive and in her late 30's.

But of course that's off the table (pun intended).

[FLHD_GottaHottie]

But of course that's off the table (pun intended).

Therapists still have couches?

[johnstevens555]

Can you imagine how much easier the therapist’s job would be if SF could give her the link to this thread so she can read the whole story for herself?

[anonymister1948]

I'm still wondering what the therapist thinks of SW's affair with Mr. B.

[afagehi7]

I'm still wondering what the therapist thinks of SW's affair with Mr. B.

Good question but I doubt it will come up anytime soon. I don't think anything good can come of it until SW is ready... Plus, fish wants Mr B in the running for candidate for future adventures. Best to just keep a lid on that for now and maybe forever.

[slenderfish]

I'm still wondering what the therapist thinks of SW's affair with Mr. B.

Good question but I doubt it will come up anytime soon. I don't think anything good can come of it until SW is ready... Plus, fish wants Mr B in the running for candidate for future adventures. Best to just keep a lid on that for now and maybe forever.

Speaking of Mr. B....

Last night (Wed) SW went to her (new?) streaming binge habit. You may recall that last Wednesday she binge-watched until 5:30 a.m. Well, last night she watched until 12:30 a.m. and came to bed but couldn't get to sleep so when I woke up at 1:30 I heard the television downstairs, with no sign of SW in our bedroom.

But I digress. When she did start retiring at 12:30 she said that she had been texting with Mr. B and that she insists I work it out to get Mr. B invited to Mr. E's Memorial Weekend yacht party. She said "she has her personal reasons that Mr. E should never know about" and that I should make it happen.

I reminded her that Mr. E is not fond of Mr. B. That Mr. E's then-girlfriend (when we met Mr. E about four years ago) complained that Mr. B was aggressively hitting on her despite that she was there in the South of France on vacation as Mr. E's girlfriend. And for other reasons.

I'll also note that this is essentially the party that is the kick-off for the summer yachting season, and this party gets pretty raunchy as the afternoon goes along. Last year, SW did not attend and I went solo. Mr. B made good use of the Master Stateroom (below deck) that day. He is in the initial states, this year, of what I believe is going to be a break up with what I am now realizing is his "off-season" girlfriend. She will not be in attendance at the party on Sunday.

Of course, SW observed that Mr. E is presently the biggest pussy hound we know, and that he has no position to get after Mr. B for being the same. I said she is taking this from the position of a woman; that is, Mr. E is the alpha on his boat and he can invite and exclude who he wishes, and that the last thing he might want is some competition or other alpha male energy.

So I agreed to contact Mr. E and probe whether there may be any avenue for Mr. B to join the party on Sunday.

I also know that when Mr. B is around, SW does get more randy. That will be fun for all of us. Perhaps that's the angle I'll use to tempt Mr. E to allow SW to bring Mr. B as her invited guest?

SW has some rocking new bikinis. I hope we will see one or more of them on Sunday. I believe if Mr. B will attend, the likelihood increases.