Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[afagehi7]

we limit ourselves to what we "know" or what we define within our belief systems."

The older we get the more this seems to hold true in most aspects of our lives.

I agree, SW was positioning to say that she doesn't want to be a hotwife. Perhaps being an active hotwife is not her jam, they can't all be farmgirl. With that said, would you be happy with say a couple adventures per year? In your mind, how do you want it to end up? Do you want her to have a boyfriend, go on dates, sleep over etc? A fuck buddy? Fuck buddies? Would you want her to hotwife weekly? Multiple times per week? Monthly? A few times per year?

If you could have what you want, what would that be?

Would SW be against swinging? Could that be a better fit?

What's the ideal end goal and what would you settle for? You may have to settle for nothing but if not nothing, then what?

Personally, I had envisioned a few times per year, 2-3 maybe... Weekly or monthly would have likely been a bit much for me to handle. If you've followed 2hot, this was how I envisioned it as my ideal situation

[william70]

I like the new avatar!

[Triggershy]

I love the new avatar!!

I was looking forward to your party more then my own Memorial Day party.

Hope you two are feeling better. All the best

[slenderfish]

I love the new avatar!!

I was looking forward to your party more then my own Memorial Day party.

Hope you two are feeling better. All the best

I haven't had any symptoms since Saturday afternoon, but SW seems to be a day or two behind me. She is starting to feel better today, but it's still dogging her energy. Yet I just tested, hoping it would come back negative but no such luck. Oh well, time to cancel plans for the next couple of days.

I did get some initial video from yesterday's boat party and it was probably a bit too raunchy for SW. Well, as expected, and she would have been out of there by that time anyway.

I'll get the full scoopage from Mr. E when I speak to him midweek.

[superb101]

Is there any way to post the video in the hotties section?

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Sitting here with nothing to do but rest and daydream and hope this challenge is slight and short.

In the meantime, I was reflecting and realized that the therapist this past week said something significant to SW.

SW had, as I noted above, made reference to her initial efforts at establishing herself as a hotwife, including that she'd slept with two men, etc. Her attitude during this description was kind of that she'd done me this favor. The therapist sensed this negative direction and kind of cut her off. Then asked her if a) she enjoyed herself and b) if I (SF) had adequately expressed my appreciation and gratitude. SW said yes to both. She then said that she really never envisioned herself in this lifestyle, that perhaps it is just "not really who I am" etc.

As an aside, I'm really glad I'd previously laid the groundwork regarding SW's aversion to seeming like any kind of "slut" or similar. I believe SW was positioning for the therapist but the therapist also saw it coming.

The therapist's reply was on point and right out of the book.

"SW, don't sell yourself short. I firmly believe that two people select each other for reasons deeper than our awareness, and that your proclivities almost certainly balance and match up with SF's. Our work here has a good chance of bringing you to a place where you open up sexually in a way you never could fathom. The universe of sexuality is unlimited and so many of us miss out on the bountiful offerings because we limit ourselves to what we "know" or what we define within our belief systems."

Thank you for sharing above.
We were curious about therapist way of working with cuckold couple, where one person (like SW) is not quite into it.

I’m thinking how much SW is into is.
I think in general 3% for stranger.
Maybe 30% for Mr. G.
And much more into Mr. E.

Have you talked with terapist that you hope to hear from SW more about her sex dates and details what she did.
For example a handjob make by SW with a hot story what she did with Mr. XXX and details about blow job (if she swalowed, how did it tasted) about anal and all foreplay - if Mr. XXX has rimmed her and has put his tongue inside her anus or jus put his finger inside her butt hole.

Such dirty talk It is part of cuckold game.

[slenderfish]

Is there any way to post the video in the hotties section?

I thought about that but a) it's not my video and b) there are people in it who are not SW and who have not given permission. Both of those are outside of OHW posting policies, and to be honest outside of my own ethics for posting.

When I say "raunchy" I mean more like a Girls Gone Wild flair.

As an example, at last year's party there was a lot of eye candy and I was a bit self-conscious about one young woman who seemed super wholesome and was there with a date, but didn't seem to be that into him. She was dancing on a boat that was across from our (Mr. E's) and I pointed her out to him, that she has the look and is almost certainly from the Midwest and has a lot of SW's features. That she seems to be having a great time in all ways except for her date.

By that evening I noticed she had migrated to our boat and was upstairs trying to surreptitiously hide the fact she was riding her date's cock. I remarked to Mr. E that she apparently had warmed up to her guy.

Mr. E said that he had personally warmed her up and that the guy was getting "sloppy seconds" which is much more than he deserved.

[slenderfish]

We were curious about therapist way of working with cuckold couple, where one person (like SW) is not quite into it.

I’m thinking how much SW is into is.
I think in general 3% for stranger.
Maybe 30% for Mr. G.
And much more into Mr. E.

Have you talked with terapist that you hope to hear from SW more about her sex dates and details what she did.
For example a handjob make by SW with a hot story what she did with Mr. XXX and details about blow job (if she swalowed, how did it tasted) about anal and all foreplay - if Mr. XXX has rimmed her and has put his tongue inside her anus or jus put his finger inside her butt hole.

Such dirty talk It is part of cuckold game.

Excellent points here. I'll pursue with the therapist.

But of course we had to cancel this week's session because of quarantine/isolation. We will continue next week with her.

[rooster444]

Now for a refresher. . . Mr. B is who again?

[Mr Mrs Cream]

We were curious about therapist way of working with cuckold couple, where one person (like SW) is not quite into it.

I’m thinking how much SW is into is.
I think in general 3% for stranger.
Maybe 30% for Mr. G.
And much more into Mr. E.

Have you talked with terapist that you hope to hear from SW more about her sex dates and details what she did.
For example a handjob make by SW with a hot story what she did with Mr. XXX and details about blow job (if she swalowed, how did it tasted) about anal and all foreplay - if Mr. XXX has rimmed her and has put his tongue inside her anus or jus put his finger inside her butt hole.

Such dirty talk It is part of cuckold game.

Excellent points here. I'll pursue with the therapist.

But of course we had to cancel this week's session because of quarantine/isolation. We will continue next week with her.

Fo be fair with SW (first mention to her then talk with therapist) you may tell your wish that you would like to get (handjob) and what you want to hear (detailed story of her anal date with…).
She may needs a wine to relax her tongue before providing you such story.
I think it will be more dificult for her than any kind of sex.
For exapmle if you ask her is she swallowd cum from Mr. XxX.
You may find a video on xhamster or youporn (where hotwife is talking about her experience while doing a hanjob) and send to SW.
It may be a kind of prerequisite to your wish.
On one of the board I have found a whole topic with such videos.

[afagehi7]

Is there any way to post the video in the hotties section?

I thought about that but a) it's not my video and b) there are people in it who are not SW and who have not given permission. Both of those are outside of OHW posting policies, and to be honest outside of my own ethics for posting.

When I say "raunchy" I mean more like a Girls Gone Wild flair.

As an example, at last year's party there was a lot of eye candy and I was a bit self-conscious about one young woman who seemed super wholesome and was there with a date, but didn't seem to be that into him. She was dancing on a boat that was across from our (Mr. E's) and I pointed her out to him, that she has the look and is almost certainly from the Midwest and has a lot of SW's features. That she seems to be having a great time in all ways except for her date.

By that evening I noticed she had migrated to our boat and was upstairs trying to surreptitiously hide the fact she was riding her date's cock. I remarked to Mr. E that she apparently had warmed up to her guy.

Mr. E said that he had personally warmed her up and that the guy was getting "sloppy seconds" which is much more than he deserved.

She wasn't that wholesome after all...

[slenderfish]

Is there any way to post the video in the hotties section?

So I did get the scoop from Mr. E.

My first question, was it for the best that we did not attend (or, more accurately, that SW was not there)? Answer: YES.

I modified. Was I accurate in arranging that SW be off the boat by 2:00 p.m. in order to avoid the raunchier part of the afternoon; that is, would my approach have been okay? Answer: YES

But still probably for the best I was not there and that Mr. E was able to be the eyes and ears (and who knows what else?).

He said that by the mid-afternoon, say 3:30, music was up, dancing was getting sloppy, and the effects of the sun and alcohol and high spirits of the upcoming summer festivities, all led to a sexy time for some of the party goers. He said there were breasts popping out, pulling out, tops off here and there, and even a couple of girls doing a bit kissing of the kitties out in the open. Also that they had to put a lid on that stuff lest the thing get shut down. This was in public, in a very opulent coastal city. Think Bal Harbor outside of Miami.

Oh well, as I said, all probably worked out for the best.

[slenderfish]

I agree, SW was positioning to say that she doesn't want to be a hotwife. Perhaps being an active hotwife is not her jam, they can't all be farmgirl. With that said, would you be happy with say a couple adventures per year? In your mind, how do you want it to end up? Do you want her to have a boyfriend, go on dates, sleep over etc? A fuck buddy? Fuck buddies? Would you want her to hotwife weekly? Multiple times per week? Monthly? A few times per year?

If you could have what you want, what would that be?

Would SW be against swinging? Could that be a better fit?

What's the ideal end goal and what would you settle for? You may have to settle for nothing but if not nothing, then what?

Personally, I had envisioned a few times per year, 2-3 maybe... Weekly or monthly would have likely been a bit much for me to handle. If you've followed 2hot, this was how I envisioned it as my ideal situation

Been thinking on this.

[afagehi7]

I agree, SW was positioning to say that she doesn't want to be a hotwife. Perhaps being an active hotwife is not her jam, they can't all be farmgirl. With that said, would you be happy with say a couple adventures per year? In your mind, how do you want it to end up? Do you want her to have a boyfriend, go on dates, sleep over etc? A fuck buddy? Fuck buddies? Would you want her to hotwife weekly? Multiple times per week? Monthly? A few times per year?

If you could have what you want, what would that be?

Would SW be against swinging? Could that be a better fit?

What's the ideal end goal and what would you settle for? You may have to settle for nothing but if not nothing, then what?

Personally, I had envisioned a few times per year, 2-3 maybe... Weekly or monthly would have likely been a bit much for me to handle. If you've followed 2hot, this was how I envisioned it as my ideal situation

Been thinking on this.

Glad I actually contributed something of value

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Swinger club?
How about idea to just visit swingers club as a watchers:
There is such scene from Nip Tuck Tv show:
https://www.xvideos.com/video67215617/n ... ton_steele

Or another great part of excelent Kelly Carlson with:

https://xhamster.com/videos/kelly-carls ... -05-441286

Have you talked with SW about it?

[rooster444]

Now for a refresher. . . Mr. B is who again?

[afagehi7]

Now for a refresher. . . Mr. B is who again?

A friend and colleague who we suspect messed around with SW...

[rooster444]

thanks. . . I think I need a listing of the cast members.

[william70]

They keep reminding me that letter designation are soo much better than using a fake name.

[slenderfish]

I'll post cast members soon.

[slenderfish]

Apparently SW decided her recovery is complete and she was ready to go out last night. Our friend Ms. I had arrived late Thursday from abroad, and we gave SW the whole day on Friday to continue resting. SW arranged to meet a fourth (an attractive brunette friend, let's call her Ms. J) out for drinks/dinner/dancing on Saturday night.

But Ms. I was still suffering from jet lag so I ended up driving SW down to meet Ms. J and went back home to wait for Ms. I. Ultimately, Ms. I passed on the night and ended up sleeping through. SW was pestering me to hurry up and get back down there, to join them. And so I did.

By the time I arrived, the two girls had finished the first bottle of wine. So I got a cocktail and ordered a new bottle of wine. We caught up for a time and then had food, etc. and were feeling quite rosy. The dinner/lounge has a sports bar through the back way, and we investigated it at the suggestion of Ms. J. Also as expected by Ms. J, SW was not ultimately enamored with the younger crowd, more of a dive bar. So we got one round of drinks and then migrated with the drinks back to the lounge, and parked at the bar over there. And another round of wine for the ladies.

About an hour later, they closed the dinner/lounge side and we again ended up in the dive bar, by default. A deejay had started playing dance music, and SW and Ms. J were in the mood to dance. And dance, we did.

SW was in a flirtatious mood, and was actively flirting with some of the guys there. Since there were three of us, it was not immediately clear if I was with SW or with Ms. J. So I kind of kept over with Ms. J to allow some space for SW to do her thing.

I took a break for a few minutes, to check my phone for any word from Ms. I and also to use the restroom, etc. Upon my return, Ms. J. was looking with wide eyes at SW who was dirty dancing with a very tall, athletic young black man. I took the opportunity to then do a bit of grinding with Ms. J, who asked me if it was going to be okay with SW, not wanting to incur jealousy etc. I gestured over to SW and said that jealousy is not something that exists with SW and me. And so we danced!

It went on for a couple of hours. Ms. J ended up kind of enamored with the deejay. SW was getting totally hit on by the guys, and at one point she actually went over to the group of guys (black guys) and hung out with them as they were all acting cool for each other.

By the end of the night, as the place closed down, I took SW's phone out of her handbag and put it into her hands. She immediately went over and got one of the guys' phone numbers "for future use" and asked him if he might be free next weekend to get together again for dancing, etc. at a different (more upscale) place.

I saw Ms. J off via a Lyft. Then SW and I went home. SW was ruined with too much wine, but had a great time. Also me.

It's my birthday month and it seems that SW is picking up her hotwife energy. At least, this was a very impressive start.

[afagehi7]

Apparently SW decided her recovery is complete and she was ready to go out last night. Our friend Ms. I had arrived late Thursday from abroad, and we gave SW the whole day on Friday to continue resting. SW arranged to meet a fourth (an attractive brunette friend, let's call her Ms. J) out for drinks/dinner/dancing on Saturday night.

But Ms. I was still suffering from jet lag so I ended up driving SW down to meet Ms. J and went back home to wait for Ms. I. Ultimately, Ms. I passed on the night and ended up sleeping through. SW was pestering me to hurry up and get back down there, to join them. And so I did.

By the time I arrived, the two girls had finished the first bottle of wine. So I got a cocktail and ordered a new bottle of wine. We caught up for a time and then had food, etc. and were feeling quite rosy. The dinner/lounge has a sports bar through the back way, and we investigated it at the suggestion of Ms. J. Also as expected by Ms. J, SW was not ultimately enamored with the younger crowd, more of a dive bar. So we got one round of drinks and then migrated with the drinks back to the lounge, and parked at the bar over there. And another round of wine for the ladies.

About an hour later, they closed the dinner/lounge side and we again ended up in the dive bar, by default. A deejay had started playing dance music, and SW and Ms. J were in the mood to dance. And dance, we did.

SW was in a flirtatious mood, and was actively flirting with some of the guys there. Since there were three of us, it was not immediately clear if I was with SW or with Ms. J. So I kind of kept over with Ms. J to allow some space for SW to do her thing.

I took a break for a few minutes, to check my phone for any word from Ms. I and also to use the restroom, etc. Upon my return, Ms. J. was looking with wide eyes at SW who was dirty dancing with a very tall, athletic young black man. I took the opportunity to then do a bit of grinding with Ms. J, who asked me if it was going to be okay with SW, not wanting to incur jealousy etc. I gestured over to SW and said that jealousy is not something that exists with SW and me. And so we danced!

It went on for a couple of hours. Ms. J ended up kind of enamored with the deejay. SW was getting totally hit on by the guys, and at one point she actually went over to the group of guys (black guys) and hung out with them as they were all acting cool for each other.

By the end of the night, as the place closed down, I took SW's phone out of her handbag and put it into her hands. She immediately went over and got one of the guys' phone numbers "for future use" and asked him if he might be free next weekend to get together again for dancing, etc. at a different (more upscale) place.

I saw Ms. J off via a Lyft. Then SW and I went home. SW was ruined with too much wine, but had a great time. Also me.

It's my birthday month and it seems that SW is picking up her hotwife energy. At least, this was a very impressive start.

Holy F Catwoman!!! She might actually do a BBC for your birthday present! Do you play with toys? Will her little married pussy be able to accommodate a BBC?

I wonder what the odds of him being BBC are? 25%? They say that black guys are average like white guys but I'm not buying it... Just look how many BBC in porn vs bwc! Never see big Asian cock so are stereotype true or just selection because that's what sells?

A BBC deep in her would be the best present she could give you...

I say maybe a 5% chance she goes through with it but it's infinitely more than zero...

[superb101]

Im interested to know if you observed from a distance anything else she was doing (kissing, whispering, touching, etc.)?

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Sounds great.
But I’m not sure about her.
Are there a discrapencies between her in normal mood and a drunk mood in case what she do and how she rate the men?
You know she has the phone number of this guy, but she may not go out with him in a next day.
Maybe she will call him but this is a stranger and she saw him while drunk.
I think the best time was just after the dance.
Just take them to car/uber and go to hotel.

[afagehi7]

Fish - when is the birthday?