Just a Neighbor.

[eventfire]

I dont know who's more excited about this date, him or me? Lol

[hamadasamada88]

I dont know who's more excited about this date, him or me? Lol

We ALL are lol! I love the camaraderie on this forum

[DoneThat]

My 2 cents -

Neighbor’s husband is a Stag, his wife is a Vixen.

Mrs. Vixen saw you early on and mentioned to Mr. Stag that she thought you were young and handsome. In other words, you were “worthy” of her company.

Mr. Stag and Mrs. Vixen have already enjoyed some hot sex discussing all the ways that she could seduce you.

You are one of Mrs. Vixen’s projects, with the ultimate goal of bringing Mr. Stag a creampie.

They are toying with you.

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[Pufferfish]

My 2 cents -

Neighbor’s husband is a Stag, his wife is a Vixen.

Mrs. Vixen saw you early on and mentioned to Mr. Stag that she thought you were young and handsome. In other words, you were “worthy” of her company.

Mr. Stag and Mrs. Vixen have already enjoyed some hot sex discussing all the ways that she could seduce you.

You are one of Mrs. Vixen’s projects, with the ultimate goal of bringing Mr. Stag a creampie.

They are toying with you.

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And that is certainly a possibility. Maybe even the most likely one. But to blindly tell him and expect him to believe that this is 100% the case, is foolish. We all hope this is the case, but he has to proceed carefully at his own pace, with his eyes open to all of the possibilities.

[wannabecUKold]

But to blindly tell him and expect him to believe that this is 100% the case, is foolish. We all hope this is the case, but he has to proceed carefully at his own pace, with his eyes open to all of the possibilities.

And even if it is exactly that, yet still, as with any seduction, neighborguy has to take it at a pace she is comfortable with, showing her clearly that he is very keen on her, so she can respond knowing she will not be rejected. If he tries to force the pace (eg by saying 'I know you and your husband want me to fuck you') her natural shock and modesty could oblige her to deny it all, which will take him back to zero.
The second date should surely permit some passionate kissing and holding. Fingers crossed.

[Allinfun]

Unless she opens up, there's no way to know what their dynamic is. It SEEMS like she's free to do what she wants. His first contact with them, where they showed a "tell" when he said he's single, point to a couple with some form of open marriage. As we know, they come in many forms. From his friend's wife's observation, her interest is real. I don't think she's seeking a notch for her bedpost.

My GUESS, as I've said, is she likes the manly type and wants to be "taken" (respectfully). She likes bikes and people who ride. She likes being with younger people. I think there is reason to believe that a contuing relationship is ahead.

[Farmgirl]

But to blindly tell him and expect him to believe that this is 100% the case, is foolish. We all hope this is the case, but he has to proceed carefully at his own pace, with his eyes open to all of the possibilities.

And even if it is exactly that, yet still, as with any seduction, neighborguy has to take it at a pace she is comfortable with, showing her clearly that he is very keen on her, so she can respond knowing she will not be rejected. If he tries to force the pace (eg by saying 'I know you and your husband want me to fuck you') her natural shock and modesty could oblige her to deny it all, which will take him back to zero.
The second date should surely permit some passionate kissing and holding. Fingers crossed.

You two are very right. There is a "dance" that needs to be done. Most of us don't just jump out there and fuck someone without the right music and the right steps.

[Jbjhamilton99]

I dont know who's more excited about this date, him or me? Lol

add me to the list mate!

[bubbajack]

There is a "dance" that needs to be done.

Farmgirl is deeply wise -

Listen to her, wannabes, about-to-bes, newbies, and - perhaps especially - any who think they know all they need to know about all this.

She is a treasure.

[gulfcpl]

There is a "dance" that needs to be done.

Farmgirl is deeply wise -

Listen to her, wannabes, about-to-bes, newbies, and - perhaps especially - any who think they know all they need to know about all this.

She is a treasure.

Ditto to that. A lot of advice given. One needs to know the difference between good and bad.

[slenderfish]

Congrats on the progress! Steady pace as a lead-up to whatever the future holds with this one. Yes, "the dance" that she is apparently desiring and you are providing. Well put, Farmgirl.

I agree you should step lightly and carefully on the subject of her husband. I mean, you already know the answer to a great degree in his behavior and her behavior, and in her words. I don't think you need to say anything, but if you do say anything it shouldn't be something that seems you have "figured it out" and therefore it's a done deal.

I suggest something appreciative, like "It's so cool that your husband doesn't seem to be the jealous type, that you have this freedom. It has made me consider that you and I might be able to spend more time together, and I'm finding I so enjoy being with you alone like this."

In this way, you touch on him but are really giving her the compliment. It's not inviting a response from her about him, but it is acknowledging.

[superb101]

Here's hoping for an update soon!

[hwfanatic]

I’m guessing Neighborguy became Luckyguy last night

Refresh. Refresh. Refresh.

[Msn75]

My guess : he fucked her last night, and now they are banging again today!

[NeighborGuy]

Sorry long post and debated on even posting some of it. Have been busy with friends all morning and afternoon and just had time to type this. I had a nice night and I really like how relaxed we are together. I want to talk about early on because I think it made her comfortable to open up. Could’ve been the cosmopolitan drinks we had. Yes I’m a fancy drink guy also, don’t judge

It was forecasted to be a rainy so I decided take my car and change to a place inside and more intimate. She texted asked how should she dress so I told her to “be you, I’m sure you’ll look great, I’ll be over around 7”. When I backed up into her driveway and tooted she came out in a short creme dress with lace up sandals and looked adorable, she even had a little matching purse. I got out and opened the door for her and complemented her how cute she looked. I think she said the dress was Boho or Bolo or something like that but it was cute. We went to a bar/restaurant that has jazz on the weekends and got a booth. I felt relaxed being with her alone and we had so many similarities despite our 10 year age difference. We clicked on so many levels!

As the night went on I came out and told her I think she’s beautiful and got a vibe from her since we met. She told me she was elated when she saw I was living next-door to her and wanted to get my attention. I told her I enjoyed it but the husband deal was really awkward, I’ve never been in a situation like it before. Just as I got the nerve to ask about her husband and if they were swingers or her a hotwife she started talking about their relationship.

Now the deep part …..

When she told me those times he didn’t care what she did it was true. She went on to tell me they had grown apart from each other 3 years ago. He had colon cancer years back that was treated and It reappeared in his prostate that was treated and being monitored. His erectile dysfunction and lack of sex drive then contributed to the fizzling out. They trial separated but stayed together for reasons like friends, the family business, a dozen rentals she takes care of and her being from the west coast with no family here.

He’s encouraged her to meet a guy again but he doesn’t want to be involved or get in the way. But when they moved in and talked to me and I said I was single they were delighted and she said she wanted to flirt and know me. She try’s to be respectful when she goes out and he does his own thing like sports and work but does want to see her happy. She told me pre-Covid she had met a guy that was nice and dated a bunch but they didn’t work out with covid lockdown and him at risk in the house even though they have separate bedrooms. She met another guy post covid that turned out to be a jerk quickly and she doesn’t do dating sites.

I feel good because I’ve been respectful and not pushy. I didn’t want to move in like a vulture but she did take my hand walking out of the place to my car. We also kissed before she got out of the car when I dropped her off home which was amazing. I felt like a teen again and I’m sure her the same.

Well thanks for reading and sorry this isn’t a “I fucked her brains out on a table” post. I’m sure you all understand. I was debating on even posting the second part but I think you’re entitled to know what’s going on if you’ve been following from the beginning.


Have a good weekend,
NeighborGuy

[johnstevens555]

Wow, what an update. So many questions answered. Thank you for sharing.

[gulfcpl]

I appreciate this post. Unfortunately there are those who think they are forecasters and can see into the future. You seem like a gentleman. Keep being a gentleman no matter the outcome.

[john jasson]

sorry this isn’t a “I fucked her brains out on a table” post.

Absolutely not. All the better for it in my view. Well played, Sir!

[ResponsibullCummings]

Great update. It looks like things might work out for all 3 of you. Living next door is really convenient. Looking forward to see how it turns out.

[william70]

I think it's about time to move this thread over to the Hotties section.

[Seekingmore12]

Well done !

Now bring her here and show her this thread. Then decide path forward.

My 2 cents

[harmankard]

Uhhhh wow, that took a turn… thank you for the update. I think you did the right thing there. I’m pretty sure I have no more advice on this one except that meet her current standards.

[Allinfun]

Treat her as you've treated her. She sounds wonderful. There seems to be the beginnings of a wonderful relationship. Take it as it comes.

[Pufferfish]

Well thanks for reading and sorry this isn’t a “I fucked her brains out on a table” post. I’m sure you all understand. I was debating on even posting the second part but I think you’re entitled to know what’s going on if you’ve been following from the beginning.

Truth is always better than fiction. You nailed it even if you haven't nailed her yet. It was a great night spent out together and I'm sure there will be a lot more fun to come. Glad you (we all) got some clarity on the situation and can feel more comfortable moving forward now.

[wannabecUKold]

I feel good because I’ve been respectful and not pushy. I didn’t want to move in like a vulture but she did take my hand walking out of the place to my car. We also kissed before she got out of the car when I dropped her off home which was amazing. I felt like a teen again and I’m sure her the same.


Have a good weekend,
NeighborGuy

What a lovely account. You have played this as a true gentleman. It does sound as though the two of you are really hitting it off together and, indeed, may be falling in love. With her husband's consent.

Thank you for telling us.