Did sexual dysfunction play a role in turning you cuckold ?

[Msn75]

Tough to know how to answer this…

I know I don’t fully satisfy my wife. I think at my best I’m good for fucking her 3-4 times a week and she needs it 6 times a week, or 7. She can have multiple orgasms and squirt and can go and go for an hour plus and while I have done that with her there are times that I’ve shot my load after 15-20 minutes and she’s just getting revved up

She reminds me that all of this is my fault as I was the one who “sent her out there” to meet up with studs who can truly fuck her brains out.

So is it dysfunction for a 56 year old to “only” be a hot fuck 3-4 times a week? I suppose that is relative. Compared to some of these studs who can fuck her silly for 45-60 minutes, shoot a load, take a break and get rock hard again 15-20 minutes later? Maybe so!

[4herpleasure89]

No. My desire to see her with another man was the motivation. My sexual function was excellent when we started the lifestyle.

[dinoo]

No, we wanted to fulfill our fantasies.

[Christinebitg]

It was not a simple matter to choose yes or no.

She told me when we started dating that she didn't believe humans are naturally mongamous. Which I certainly agreed with.

But it's not that simple. Part of the problem is: What's your definition of cuckold?

Fast forward a few years in our relationship. Now I can't remember the last time I had a usable erection. I'm cut off from penetration.

But she still says I give the best oral she's ever had.

And her sex drive has plummeted due mostly to menopause. So the next question is: **Whose** sexual dysfunction does the question refer to?

And: Does "turning you cuckold" require her active participation? She goes months in between sexual encounters with her friends who have "benefits." Again, it's back to one's definition of "cuckold."

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Nah, I'm just a kinky bastard.

[CuckTimothy]

Yes, I had the same difficulties with conventional sex, I too have a small soft penis, plus I am submissive and not masculine, a beta, cuckolding has given my wife and me a completely satisfying sex life, thank heavens for bull men!

[PANTIES]

Yes,, not being able to perform to the extent she was satisfied. It started when I asked her one night after being premature, I asked her since we have been married have you meet anyone you would let them get into your panties. She said, yes. Told me who it was and I told her to go for it. It took her three months and he fucked her for two years when and where he wanted. She would drop her panties at the sight of him.

Pauline

[Cuckmartha]

Yes, I am very small and very quick more than one woman has said that. A past girlfriend often just looked at it and laughed. My wife calls it a little princess. When I married my Mistress I agreed to a licking role in the marriage. Mistress says she is not cuckolding me. I do believe her but she reminds me she is free to do so if the right guy came along. She has recently said she really misses a nice big dick.

[slowsteady]

The poll is at a steady 50% yes to 50% no. I guess it depends on the 'glass is half full vs glass is half empty' viewpoint.

The reality of being cuckolded can surely cause or exacerbate a sexual dysfunction.

A sexual dysfunction can certainly cause or exacerbate a cuckolding.

It seems to work well for/from either viewpoint.

[Chewbacca1]

Yeah, I'll admit I'm not as "strong" as I used to be, so this has played into our hotwife/cuckolding exploration.
My vanilla wife was a definite no go when I brought up the idea a few years ago, but I've been persistent - almost to a bad point, but found out she is really into the roleplay aspect of hotwifing after I shared this book with her i found on Amazon called "The Faithful Hotwife ".
She saw that she wasn't alone or strange and is taking her first cuckoldress steps.... I'd say "Eating it up" but now she's learned that is my task for her to make me do. It must be working because the night stand drawer is overflowing with her new dildos and toys.

[GingerAnn]

It became apparent that I was no longer satisfying My Cuckoldress Goddess Hotwife with my now smaller, softer and with some premature ejaculation. This was one of our first stepping stones into the lifestyle. As we continued it became apparent I was never going to be able to give Her what She truly needed. On the afternoon of our vacation when I watched Her absolutely devour and revel in the biggest cock She ever had I was caged and then accepted my new role. She knew and accepted my femme and bi feelings and has actually embraced them and is Sexually aroused by them. I consider myself to be an incredibly loved, cuckolded and submissive hubby. I Thank My Cuckoldress Goddess Hotwife for Her decision to make this Fantasy a Reality

[rspanked]

To a certain extent, my answer is "yes". I've been kinky since the moment I started having sex and was always going to have some element of kink in my sex life. I've been on the other side and had MFF threesomes and even dabbled in cuckquean activities, but I've also always had some deep down sexual insecurities. Erect I'm quite average and always had great control over my orgasms, but flaccid I'm definitely below average and that caused me anxiety both in the locker room and the first time I'd be with a new women. To the point where sometimes I'd struggle to get hard, because I was stressed that if I didn't, she'd just assume I had a small dick.

That didn't exactly have me driven towards being the super masculine bull type, but rather embracing my insecurities and the relative safety of the "denied cuckold" end of the kink pool. If I were not so kinky, a long-term, monogamous, vanilla relationship also would have worked fine for my average size and good performance (when confident).

[tempus_fugit36]

Yes and No, but I voted for YES thinking of my current situation. I am married to a lovely and beautiful wife and we have no kids; I live my life basically to my wife, I work A LOT and have many responsibilities, lots of travels and lots of stress. We had a splendid sex life together but stress in excess caused me erectile disfunction, so for a number of years I wasn’t able to have an erection; from the other hand, my wife was very fertile and in need for sex all the time; my oral skills was it good enough and after a few years living like a sissy with a flaccid penis y wife was in the edge to ask for a divorce. To make the long story short, it was me who proposed her to find sexual partners elsewhere during the time I was being handled tomate cured fro my erectile problem. Well, she started to date and even more, her beauty and sexy body made her to find regular men to fuck her, and men with better tools than i have. Well, it took me another pair of years to get cured from ED and now I have normal erections but no more pussy for me ever since. Yes I become a Pussyfree cuckold but I enjoy it to keep on masturbation only while my wife is well served. On top of that, our marriage is safe.

But I was a cuckold many times in the past when I was younger and had other girlfriends, at the time I had a vigorous cock and my girlfriends could easily come when we fucked, but they cheated me, I knew and I was okay, so okay that I told them I knew and I was ok.

[tractorman2]

No, my lack of experience and her desires to explore and expand her sexuality turned me into a cuck husband.