Just a Neighbor.

[william70]

Remember. until she tells you different, you may only be a fuck buddy to her. Keep a check on your emotions unless she indicates she wants something different. You don't want to loose a good thing if she thinks your getting too clingy.

[whenwillshe]

I have a feeling that this may be a HW situation but they are playing it as ex wife etc
Just wondering, not calling BS at all.

[Whosbeensleeping]

However it shakes down, I'd love to hear about it. Appreciate you sharing your journey.

[avid fan]

And talking about him I saw him again this morning before I ran but instead of nodding or waving he was all talkative. I felt awkward having a conversation and him possibly knowing I banged his ex-wife already. That’s just the really awkward part for me to deal with.

Could it be that they're actually closer than we assume they are, and your budding relationship is pressing all his cuck buttons? Maybe he's itching to actually talk to you about the very thing you think is the tricky issue?

Are they very touchy feely when together, or at least comfortable together?

[Itman]

If you whisper Italian words in her ear you’ll get lucky! Just playing mate. I’m sure you’ll get lucky for sure! Cheers

Search a playlist of Italian romantic songs to play at home than whisper something like "Tu sei il mio sole" (you are my sun) or "sei bellissima" (you are beautiful).
Don't drink to much wine!

[Chrislydi]

If you whisper Italian words in her ear you’ll get lucky! Just playing mate. I’m sure you’ll get lucky for sure! Cheers

Search a playlist of Italian romantic songs to play at home than whisper something like "Tu sei il mio sole" (you are my sun) or "sei bellissima" (you are beautiful).
Don't drink to much wine!

If you do then it might easily come across as if you've just searched a playlist of Italian romantic songs to play at home than whispered something like "Tu sei il mio sole" to her, worse still if she's relatively at ease in Italian and starts questioning you in it. Thinking on it might work as a great joke when she knows you looked it up. Tbf even I understood without the translation and can't speak a word.

Chris

[mundyman]

Hey all and thanks for all the posts today!

I’m going to be meeting up with some friends tonight for dinner. I didn’t ask her to go but she called me earlier today and we set something up for tomorrow night. I want to surprise her and take her to this nice little Italian restaurant that’s romantic with cozy booths, music and ambience. A romantic night that we can just chill together again and enjoy each other‘s company. So I thought that would be cool.

I really haven’t stopped thinking about kissing and fucking her again. I know that sounds a little cavemannish but I honestly feel like she thinks the same. Yeah we are clicking but i’m amazed how I’ve hooked up with this absolutely hot woman living next-door to me with a live-in ex-husband friend business partner or whatever.

And talking about him I saw him again this morning before I ran but instead of nodding or waving he was all talkative. I felt awkward having a conversation and him possibly knowing I banged his ex-wife already. That’s just the really awkward part for me to deal with.

Well Ciao, hopefully the Italian music and wine Saturday night gets me lucky again, I’m pretty sure it’s going to happen no matter what! lol

Thanks for the update NG!!! What an exciting situation you are in right now. You live in your man cave, yet your FWB lives next door and is available most times, and totally digs your companionship and cock.
You’re funny!
You’re hoping the Italian restaurant will get you lucky tonight! LOL!!!
I’d say buckle up partner, she’s getting ready to ride you hard and put you away wet. I think she’s going to blow your mind tonight. You’ll probably be lucky to get out of the parking lot without her being all over you.
Have fun, enjoy the dinner, more importantly, enjoy the company and here’s hoping for a great night.

One question: when she is laying out tanning, and you see her, why don’t you go outside and engage her in conversation? Of course that conversation could lead to more.

[harmankard]

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One question: when she is laying out tanning, and you see her, why don’t you go outside and engage her in conversation? Of course that conversation could lead to more.

What this guy said! Or even text her that your peeping her. She’s totally think it’s sexy for your school boy crush. You’d totally get something out of it.

[Allinfun]

Good that you didn't ask her to go out with your friends. New couples can sometimes neglect their friends.

[NeighborGuy]

Not an update I want to make. Went out with my friends Friday night and had fun. Saturday morning around noon my forearms, shoulders, lats and thighs started hurting and I had a little shakes like I was cold. So I took some ibuprofen and around dinner took DayQuil and the NyQuil. I was worried it was Covid but I just think I might’ve got a little food poisoning. I had told her earlier that I wasn’t going to be able to make it and she wasn’t upset, she understood. So I slept pretty good last night. Went to bed around 9pm and woke up 8am this morning feeling better but still like I was in a brawl.

I’m pretty bummed but better safe than sorry.

Good news is she’s making chicken soup and is going to drop it off around 3 today. That’s good because I’m starting to get hungry. I haven’t ate since breakfast Saturday morning

[NeighborGuy]

Remember. until she tells you different, you may only be a fuck buddy to her. Keep a check on your emotions unless she indicates she wants something different. You don't want to loose a good thing if she thinks your getting too clingy.

Totally understand and I’m fine with that . Just got divorced over two years ago so I don’t want another relationship unless he’s totally out of the picture.

[NeighborGuy]

One question: when she is laying out tanning, and you see her, why don’t you go outside and engage her in conversation? Of course that conversation could lead to more.

From the beginning I enjoyed seeing her in the driveway and outback until they had the pool built. Then I was enjoying it from my side windows when she was working outback and then tanning. Usually when I catch her during the afternoon I’m on calls or zoom meetings so I just can’t take off.

Now with how we’re communicating and hooking up I’m sure I can tell her I’ll be over to rub the lotion on her.

[mundyman]

One question: when she is laying out tanning, and you see her, why don’t you go outside and engage her in conversation? Of course that conversation could lead to more.

From the beginning I enjoyed seeing her in the driveway and outback until they had the pool built. Then I was enjoying it from my side windows when she was working outback and then tanning. Usually when I catch her during the afternoon I’m on calls or zoom meetings so I just can’t take off.

Now with how we’re communicating and hooking up I’m sure I can tell her I’ll be over to rub the lotion on her.

NICE!!

[harmankard]

Not at all the update we were looking for! Yeah

[Jbjhamilton99]

Not an update I want to make. Went out with my friends Friday night and had fun. Saturday morning around noon my forearms, shoulders, lats and thighs started hurting and I had a little shakes like I was cold. So I took some ibuprofen and around dinner took DayQuil and the NyQuil. I was worried it was Covid but I just think I might’ve got a little food poisoning. I had told her earlier that I wasn’t going to be able to make it and she wasn’t upset, she understood. So I slept pretty good last night. Went to bed around 9pm and woke up 8am this morning feeling better but still like I was in a brawl.

I’m pretty bummed but better safe than sorry.

Good news is she’s making chicken soup and is going to drop it off around 3 today. That’s good because I’m starting to get hungry. I haven’t ate since breakfast Saturday morning

that stinks mate! Hope you get well and get another round with her.

[whenwillshe]

Good idea to test anyway.
Friend on vent with latest variant.

[Topnotch]

i wonder how the soup was

[Allinfun]

I hope you're feeling better.

[NeighborGuy]

I did get covid. I got the test and was positive. I’ve been feeling shitty like a cold so I’ve been staying home. I’ve texted friends, family and her but it’s been a boring week.

And her chicken soup was incredible. She tested and is fine but a few of my friends got it.

Hopefully this passes soon so I can get back to normal.

[slenderfish]

I did get covid. I got the test and was positive. I’ve been feeling shitty like a cold so I’ve been staying home. I’ve texted friends, family and her but it’s been a boring week.

And her chicken soup was incredible. She tested and is fine but a few of my friends got it.

Hopefully this passes soon so I can get back to normal.

Best wishes for a fast recovery. Not fun, but not likely to be a big deal, ultimately, for a healthy young guy like you. Just remember it's not like other viruses where you can jump right back into working out, etc. and "powering through" as they say. I found that out, and prolonged the matter. Also, they say that getting extra rest, during your bout with it, may be a factor in avoiding the ongoing longer-term stuff.

Once you are non-communicable (which is pretty fast), you should take advantage of your woman who is in such close proximity, and let her care for you!

[ncalcur]

I did get covid. I got the test and was positive. I’ve been feeling shitty like a cold so I’ve been staying home. I’ve texted friends, family and her but it’s been a boring week.

And her chicken soup was incredible. She tested and is fine but a few of my friends got it.

Hopefully this passes soon so I can get back to normal.

Rest and fluids hope you get through this quickly and successfully!!!

And the "get well" meeting is incredible with your neighbor!

[gulfcpl]

I was afraid you did since we haven’t heard from you lately. My wife and I both had it a couple weeks ago. We’re fine now. Hope you’re well soon.

[johnstevens555]

I did get covid. I got the test and was positive. I’ve been feeling shitty like a cold so I’ve been staying home. I’ve texted friends, family and her but it’s been a boring week.

And her chicken soup was incredible. She tested and is fine but a few of my friends got it.

Hopefully this passes soon so I can get back to normal.

Best wishes for a fast recovery. Not fun, but not likely to be a big deal, ultimately, for a healthy young guy like you. Just remember it's not like other viruses where you can jump right back into working out, etc. and "powering through" as they say. I found that out, and prolonged the matter. Also, they say that getting extra rest, during your bout with it, may be a factor in avoiding the ongoing longer-term stuff.

Once you are non-communicable (which is pretty fast), you should take advantage of your woman who is in such close proximity, and let her care for you!

Interestingly, i felt like getting back into the gym as fast as possible helped me recover from covid faster both times I have had it. My wife, who also a fitness fanatic took longer to get back to working out and the fatigue seemed to linger. It lingered both times until she got back to the gym.

[DaveS]

Hi Neighborguy - First, best wishes for a quick recovery!

Your adventure has sure stirred up quite a discussion - and it is an interesting situation. It does sort of fall into a gray area in the hot wife arena, but then so does a lot of what is discussed here - labels just don't always fit. (My wife and I actually identify as poly - but clearly poly with a hot wife accent).

Someone along the way suggested that there might be more of the hotwife dynamic in their relationship than they are admitting. And that crossed my mind as well. I thought this quote in your original post might possibly be suggestive of that -

While chatting to them both in the yard they asked where I was from and if I was married. When I told them I was single they looked at each other and raised their eyebrows to each other which was strange. And then a month ago when I was heading out to meet friends they were leaving for dinner and we had a quick chat at our cars. They said they’d be having drinks when they got back so stop over.

Has this crossed your mind at all - that although they are now nonsexual together, that he might still be experiencing some excitement (psychological if nothing else) from her relationships with other men? Just a thought....

[johnstevens555]

Hi Neighborguy - First, best wishes for a quick recovery!

Your adventure has sure stirred up quite a discussion - and it is an interesting situation. It does sort of fall into a gray area in the hot wife arena, but then so does a lot of what is discussed here - labels just don't always fit. (My wife and I actually identify as poly - but clearly poly with a hot wife accent).

Someone along the way suggested that there might be more of the hotwife dynamic in their relationship than they are admitting. And that crossed my mind as well. I thought this quote in your original post might possibly be suggestive of that -

While chatting to them both in the yard they asked where I was from and if I was married. When I told them I was single they looked at each other and raised their eyebrows to each other which was strange. And then a month ago when I was heading out to meet friends they were leaving for dinner and we had a quick chat at our cars. They said they’d be having drinks when they got back so stop over.

Has this crossed your mind at all - that although they are now nonsexual together, that he might still be experiencing some excitement (psychological if nothing else) from her relationships with other men? Just a thought....

I have wondered this as well.