Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[slenderfish]

We just got a reminder of the 4th of July party on Mr. E's boat, on Monday. Gonna have about five boats tied together and hire a deejay, etc.

I sent a text message to SW to remind her that she owes Mr. B a make-good for the last time she (I) got him invited, but ultimately none of us went, because of illness. I suggested she invite Mr. B and tell him to bring a date. I have a feeling that he will conveniently have a date lined up but the date will cancel at the last minute. Let's just see.

[CuriousUK]

Other than you and your therapist, does she have anyone she can talk to about this?

I believe she does have a girlfriend to whom she has confided. She has not said anything about it, but it's my feeling at this point.

That can’t be a bad thing (for both of you)

[afagehi7]

Other than you and your therapist, does she have anyone she can talk to about this?

I believe she does have a girlfriend to whom she has confided. She has not said anything about it, but it's my feeling at this point.

That can’t be a bad thing (for both of you)

Wondering how this girlfriend acts around fish... That would be an interesting conversation whilst hottie was "holding court" at the pub.

[rickyg]

We just got a reminder of the 4th of July party on Mr. E's boat, on Monday. Gonna have about five boats tied together and hire a deejay, etc.

I sent a text message to SW to remind her that she owes Mr. B a make-good for the last time she (I) got him invited, but ultimately none of us went, because of illness. I suggested she invite Mr. B and tell him to bring a date. I have a feeling that he will conveniently have a date lined up but the date will cancel at the last minute. Let's just see.

Or maybe he shouldn't bring a date so he can give his undivided attention to SW.

Only a matter of time before Mr B and Mr J are both invited to the same social gathering and competing for SW.

[Tryn]

Could the pause mainly be from guys not pursuing SW hard enough? She clearly likes attention, but there’s a difference between doing things to get attention and communicating to someone that you want them to bang your brains out. Mr. B likely had the balls to pursue her hard enough to some action from her. Maybe the other 2 guys did too. She certainly wasn’t happy when they didn’t chase her after they had had her. Most guys aren’t going to chase hard after a married lady, especially if she plays a little tough to get. So, SW could have the best intentions in the world to take many lovers, but zero confidence to communicate she’s ready, willing, and able, and therefore the guys she gets numbers from give up early thinking she’s a drunk tease and not interested in possibly running into angry husband issues. Random guys won’t know your travel schedule like Mr. B does and did. So maybe she became disgruntled at Mr. Jay (and others) not chasing her and that led to cleaning the house.

Single, good looking guys, have zero issues with finding a sexual partner at any given time, thanks to Tinder and the like. VERY different than when us 40+ guys were chasing tail back in the day. “The chase” just doesn’t really happen with casual hookups in this day and age. It does exist with actual dating, but no guy is going to see SW as actual dating material given her marital status.

[slenderfish]

Could the pause mainly be from guys not pursuing SW hard enough? She clearly likes attention, but there’s a difference between doing things to get attention and communicating to someone that you want them to bang your brains out. Mr. B likely had the balls to pursue her hard enough to some action from her. Maybe the other 2 guys did too. She certainly wasn’t happy when they didn’t chase her after they had had her. Most guys aren’t going to chase hard after a married lady, especially if she plays a little tough to get. So, SW could have the best intentions in the world to take many lovers, but zero confidence to communicate she’s ready, willing, and able, and therefore the guys she gets numbers from give up early thinking she’s a drunk tease and not interested in possibly running into angry husband issues. Random guys won’t know your travel schedule like Mr. B does and did. So maybe she became disgruntled at Mr. Jay (and others) not chasing her and that led to cleaning the house.

Single, good looking guys, have zero issues with finding a sexual partner at any given time, thanks to Tinder and the like. VERY different than when us 40+ guys were chasing tail back in the day. “The chase” just doesn’t really happen with casual hookups in this day and age. It does exist with actual dating, but no guy is going to see SW as actual dating material given her marital status.

Good points here, all.

Mr. B has a unique position in that he does have an ongoing communication withe SW via text messaging.

Mr. Jay did follow up from the meeting and exchange of phone numbers, asked SW for a pic "for his contacts list" but SW didn't provide one. Just what you said.

One takeaway from what you said, above, is that SW either needs to be more clear as to her intentions more early with these "vanilla" guys, or (and probably even better) she/we should fish from the pool of proven and ready hotwife bulls. From online sites/sources with ratings, etc.

[slenderfish]

Or maybe he shouldn't bring a date so he can give his undivided attention to SW.

Yes, that's what I was alluding to in my posting above. She needs to ask him to bring a date, so that it's a good cover story "for me" and everyone else, but for some reason his date cancels or falls through, and he ends up doting on SW the whole time. It's my preferred version.

I suppose we will find out!

BTW the date he is bringing is Ms. R (the one who he jumped her bones right after he moved on from SW).

And as a side note, Mr. E asked me to invite someone. He specifically said I should reach out to Mr. Italian, with whom I had dinner last night (boys' night). Mr. Italian was there last year at the party on Mr. E's boat, and he was also part of the after-party shenanigans. He said he is interested in attending, but that he will bring Ms. K (pantygate). When I mentioned this morning to SW, she said she would rather not have to deal with Ms. K in this social group. So I'll tell Mr. Italian to pass on this party.

[Long Lurker 34]

Could the pause mainly be from guys not pursuing SW hard enough? She clearly likes attention, but there’s a difference between doing things to get attention and communicating to someone that you want them to bang your brains out. Mr. B likely had the balls to pursue her hard enough to some action from her. Maybe the other 2 guys did too. She certainly wasn’t happy when they didn’t chase her after they had had her. Most guys aren’t going to chase hard after a married lady, especially if she plays a little tough to get. So, SW could have the best intentions in the world to take many lovers, but zero confidence to communicate she’s ready, willing, and able, and therefore the guys she gets numbers from give up early thinking she’s a drunk tease and not interested in possibly running into angry husband issues. Random guys won’t know your travel schedule like Mr. B does and did. So maybe she became disgruntled at Mr. Jay (and others) not chasing her and that led to cleaning the house.

Single, good looking guys, have zero issues with finding a sexual partner at any given time, thanks to Tinder and the like. VERY different than when us 40+ guys were chasing tail back in the day. “The chase” just doesn’t really happen with casual hookups in this day and age. It does exist with actual dating, but no guy is going to see SW as actual dating material given her marital status.

Good points here, all.

Mr. B has a unique position in that he does have an ongoing communication withe SW via text messaging.

Mr. Jay did follow up from the meeting and exchange of phone numbers, asked SW for a pic "for his contacts list" but SW didn't provide one. Just what you said.

One takeaway from what you said, above, is that SW either needs to be more clear as to her intentions more early with these "vanilla" guys, or (and probably even better) she/we should fish from the pool of proven and ready hotwife bulls. From online sites/sources with ratings, etc.

SF - Perhaps part of it is SW loves the challenge of attracting a specific guy in that setting and getting his info and for the most part, that's it.
Hmmm, thinking about it, when the two of you are out doing normal stuff, have there ever been times when a guy catches her eye? How does she react?

[afagehi7]

Or maybe he shouldn't bring a date so he can give his undivided attention to SW.

Yes, that's what I was alluding to in my posting above. She needs to ask him to bring a date, so that it's a good cover story "for me" and everyone else, but for some reason his date cancels or falls through, and he ends up doting on SW the whole time. It's my preferred version.

I suppose we will find out!

BTW the date he is bringing is Ms. R (the one who he jumped her bones right after he moved on from SW).

And as a side note, Mr. E asked me to invite someone. He specifically said I should reach out to Mr. Italian, with whom I had dinner last night (boys' night). Mr. Italian was there last year at the party on Mr. E's boat, and he was also part of the after-party shenanigans. He said he is interested in attending, but that he will bring Ms. K (pantygate). When I mentioned this morning to SW, she said she would rather not have to deal with Ms. K in this social group. So I'll tell Mr. Italian to pass on this party.

So I guess your birthday present of reconciliation was temporary?

Mr B is a cocksmith... If he thinks he's got a shot he'll show solo, no shot then he'll have a date. Guess it's in how SW asks him?

Perhaps you should get a SLS account and look at the stock of local bills and see if there's inventory of her style? Kinda like doing some homework...if hotwifing candidates come into the convo you would be prepared. I did this but nothing local and I never got that far ..

[slenderfish]

Well, the next 4th of July party is just a couple of days away. Recounting the previous two Independence Day shenanigans:

July 4, 2020. We hosted a very small "isolation" party at our house. The dance pole was not yet installed. Ms. M ordered SW to give lap dances to some of the men. Mr. B was first (and best). Mr. E was second. Also Mr. B's friend. Ms. M taught SW how to do it, and ordered her to do it right. It was after that night that Ms. M and Mr. E collaborated to cajole SW and I to get a dance pole and install it, and we did.

July 4, 2021. Harbor party on the dock and the house with the dock, where Mr. E's boat stays. The boat was off limits to the partygoers. There were about 100 guests, a deejay, and lots of food and alcohol. The boat was just for Mr. E and his closest friends. Mr. E kept going to the boat and had Mr. Handsome stand guard, in a subtle but effective way. SW and I had full access to the boat, but when we went over there Mr. Handsome gave us the indication that we should not go below because Mr. E was down there and was "busy". Turns out that Mr. E said he had five blow jobs that day from five separate women. One of the bj women was (is) SW's now newest partner in crime, Ms. J (the one who danced on the bar with SW at the after party of my birthday three weeks ago). Also at this 2021 party, there was the after-party on the boat, for about 12 of us, wherein Mr. E encouraged one of the hotties (this one later became his girlfriend) to hit on SW to see if it would go anywhere.

July 4, 2022. SW evidently is expecting to go big again, as we are doing another party but this time on Mr. E's boat and out in the harbor. She asked me to book a hotel room on the harbor, not wanting to drive home after the event. She also invited Mr. B (as noted above in the string).

So last night we were watching television and drinking some of the Bordeaux wine we'd recently received as a gift. We had two bottles open. Earlier than usual, SW suggested we move to the bedroom, as she was in the mood for some lovemaking. I supported her inclination and joined her.

She undressed to fully naked, slipped into bed and asked for her old favorite, missionary position. She had turned all the lights off, etc. Her way. I said I'm happy to oblige, but of course I'm a man and a bit more visually stimulated. She said that I should use my imagination, to run some film reels in my head. That was the opening I was waiting for. I said I have an active imagination, as she knows, and that if she will play along we will have a good result!

She and I manually stimulated her to her first orgasm, and then she was ready for me to enter her. I did so, and as we got into the rhythm, she noted that she was not quite wet enough, should I consider getting some lubrication? I said I know how to make it happen, we know her body, etc. I started telling her how tight and delicious her pussy is, how much it just calls out for a cock, how her rock-hard ass is so sweet that all the men love to look at it and want to fuck it. She immediately became very wet.

I then whispered to her that with our house remodel finished, it's time to resume our summer house parties. That I'd acquired additional parts to be able to reinstall the dance pole (it was on Mr. E's boat and got damaged late last summer). And that she should start with resuming lap dances for the men.

I suggested we invite over a couple of guys with the premise that SW needs models to practice her lap dancing. That of course they will come without hesitation. That she put them in two chairs, I'll handle the music and lighting, and she will get going. That this time she will wear her new blue bikini, and do her teasing of the men. Back and forth to each guy, and that one of the guys would be very tall (subtle suggestion of Mr. B). That she will be moving just far away enough from the tall guy so as to not touch his lap with her writing backside; however, suddenly she will become aware that the space is no longer empty but that his area has risen to meet her ass cheeks. Of course he has a raging hard-on! That he is following protocol by keeping his hands down, under his legs on the chair. And that she is on fire with desire.

I asked her to continue the fantasy story.

She said that she feels his cock through his pants and reaches her hand back to unbuckle, unbutton and unzip his pants. That she quickly frees his cock and rubs it on her ass cheeks, feeling the pre-cum smearing on her skin. That she looks over at me with an inquiring smile, and I nod my encouragement. With that, she said she pulls her bikini bottoms to the side and slides her ass down onto his waiting cock, which stretches her. Rides it but he is so turned on he comes inside her before she has had a chance to reach her orgasm.

That she then stands up, walks over and takes my hand, and leads me to our bedroom just adjacent to where we are all sitting.

And implores me to fuck her, to reclaim her. That I owe her that in reward for bringing me another man's cum in her pussy.

I said that she is so wet I can easily imagine another man's cum in her.

With that, I held out no longer. I emptied deep inside of her.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Great scenario.

I was thinking about anoter flows.
1.while sitting with her on the sofa, talking with her in such way touching her in different places and finally putting hand between her legs and test how wet she are.
2. Dirty talking about her being naughty girl (good girls do not should be spanked) about how she would take another cock in her hand and finally put it over your knee and spank her and talk dirty with her in such way - and of course verify her wetness.
3. Arange such scenario in a hotel where you just calling her that she should come to hotel X:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ixffkg64F88
First time striptis for you.
A next time you may come with ms. J or a mr. XXX.

Could you ask therapist if a good idea (to open her sexuality) is to ask SW to masturbate in front of Mr. J or Mr. J while you are next to her.

[superb101]

Very much looking forward to an update very soon!

[mundyman]

Well, the next 4th of July party is just a couple of days away. Recounting the previous two Independence Day shenanigans:

July 4, 2020. We hosted a very small "isolation" party at our house. The dance pole was not yet installed. Ms. M ordered SW to give lap dances to some of the men. Mr. B was first (and best). Mr. E was second. Also Mr. B's friend. Ms. M taught SW how to do it, and ordered her to do it right. It was after that night that Ms. M and Mr. E collaborated to cajole SW and I to get a dance pole and install it, and we did.

July 4, 2021. Harbor party on the dock and the house with the dock, where Mr. E's boat stays. The boat was off limits to the partygoers. There were about 100 guests, a deejay, and lots of food and alcohol. The boat was just for Mr. E and his closest friends. Mr. E kept going to the boat and had Mr. Handsome stand guard, in a subtle but effective way. SW and I had full access to the boat, but when we went over there Mr. Handsome gave us the indication that we should not go below because Mr. E was down there and was "busy". Turns out that Mr. E said he had five blow jobs that day from five separate women. One of the bj women was (is) SW's now newest partner in crime, Ms. J (the one who danced on the bar with SW at the after party of my birthday three weeks ago). Also at this 2021 party, there was the after-party on the boat, for about 12 of us, wherein Mr. E encouraged one of the hotties (this one later became his girlfriend) to hit on SW to see if it would go anywhere.

July 4, 2022. SW evidently is expecting to go big again, as we are doing another party but this time on Mr. E's boat and out in the harbor. She asked me to book a hotel room on the harbor, not wanting to drive home after the event. She also invited Mr. B (as noted above in the string).

So last night we were watching television and drinking some of the Bordeaux wine we'd recently received as a gift. We had two bottles open. Earlier than usual, SW suggested we move to the bedroom, as she was in the mood for some lovemaking. I supported her inclination and joined her.

She undressed to fully naked, slipped into bed and asked for her old favorite, missionary position. She had turned all the lights off, etc. Her way. I said I'm happy to oblige, but of course I'm a man and a bit more visually stimulated. She said that I should use my imagination, to run some film reels in my head. That was the opening I was waiting for. I said I have an active imagination, as she knows, and that if she will play along we will have a good result!

She and I manually stimulated her to her first orgasm, and then she was ready for me to enter her. I did so, and as we got into the rhythm, she noted that she was not quite wet enough, should I consider getting some lubrication? I said I know how to make it happen, we know her body, etc. I started telling her how tight and delicious her pussy is, how much it just calls out for a cock, how her rock-hard ass is so sweet that all the men love to look at it and want to fuck it. She immediately became very wet.

I then whispered to her that with our house remodel finished, it's time to resume our summer house parties. That I'd acquired additional parts to be able to reinstall the dance pole (it was on Mr. E's boat and got damaged late last summer). And that she should start with resuming lap dances for the men.

I suggested we invite over a couple of guys with the premise that SW needs models to practice her lap dancing. That of course they will come without hesitation. That she put them in two chairs, I'll handle the music and lighting, and she will get going. That this time she will wear her new blue bikini, and do her teasing of the men. Back and forth to each guy, and that one of the guys would be very tall (subtle suggestion of Mr. B). That she will be moving just far away enough from the tall guy so as to not touch his lap with her writing backside; however, suddenly she will become aware that the space is no longer empty but that his area has risen to meet her ass cheeks. Of course he has a raging hard-on! That he is following protocol by keeping his hands down, under his legs on the chair. And that she is on fire with desire.

I asked her to continue the fantasy story.

She said that she feels his cock through his pants and reaches her hand back to unbuckle, unbutton and unzip his pants. That she quickly frees his cock and rubs it on her ass cheeks, feeling the pre-cum smearing on her skin. That she looks over at me with an inquiring smile, and I nod my encouragement. With that, she said she pulls her bikini bottoms to the side and slides her ass down onto his waiting cock, which stretches her. Rides it but he is so turned on he comes inside her before she has had a chance to reach her orgasm.

That she then stands up, walks over and takes my hand, and leads me to our bedroom just adjacent to where we are all sitting.

And implores me to fuck her, to reclaim her. That I owe her that in reward for bringing me another man's cum in her pussy.

I said that she is so wet I can easily imagine another man's cum in her.

With that, I held out no longer. I emptied deep inside of her.

Wow, what a great way to bring up your desires, AND HERS, in a safe and fun way.

[Uncharted]

SF,

I wanted to thank you for your accounting of your life experiences in this lifestyle the last few years. What a commitment! Your story and a few others on OHW have inspired me to finally join the forum as a registered member.

For starters, your wife is beautiful. Thank you for sharing her with us. I did not look the pictures you posted in the other Hotties thread until I became a registered member. Now I see, there is actually much more to read over there too, lol!

I connected greatly with your words and thoughts on your wife being your muse. I feel the same way in my marriage and my feelings for my wife as my muse and partner keep me pushing my income to the next level. You truly have a way with your words and sharing your story in a way that we can live with you through your joys and frustrations. I admire the way you have dealt with criticisms and antagonists at times, viewing even some of the sharpest comments as points to consider and grow from without losing your cool. I also want to thank your long term followers and contributors, as their comments have also given me that push and security, seeing their thoughtful support, to become part of the forum. Please keep us informed on how you and SW are doing. I will continue to follow and now contribute, with my limited view, as I see something that might be worthy of considering.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Uncharted.

[slenderfish]

I also want to thank your long term followers and contributors, as their comments have also given me that push and security, seeing their thoughtful support, to become part of the forum. Please keep us informed on how you and SW are doing. I will continue to follow and now contribute, with my limited view, as I see something that might be worthy of considering.

Thanks for your kind words. Reinforces what I am doing here, for myself and I hope for others. And yes, the comments from others are much of what keeps me going, so I may learn and gain perspective.

I've been a little sidetracked and irritated by how things turned out this long weekend, with SW.

Update to follow soon.

[CuriousUK]

Many of us are hooked on your story, and find it extremely addictive (with parallels to our own on going stories). I, for one, am looking forward to the next instalment, and your continuing thoughts and musings. What did, or didn’t, happen at the weekend??!

[afagehi7]

I also want to thank your long term followers and contributors, as their comments have also given me that push and security, seeing their thoughtful support, to become part of the forum. Please keep us informed on how you and SW are doing. I will continue to follow and now contribute, with my limited view, as I see something that might be worthy of considering.

Thanks for your kind words. Reinforces what I am doing here, for myself and I hope for others. And yes, the comments from others are much of what keeps me going, so I may learn and gain perspective.

I've been a little sidetracked and irritated by how things turned out this long weekend, with SW.

Update to follow soon.

Uh oh... Can't wait to hear about it...

[rooster444]

Remember I was in the - 'I'm getting cold feet on your little obsession' camp for the past couple weeks.

[slenderfish]

Okay, so I'm presently sitting in a hotel room by myself, the same hotel (the same room?) in the Midwest where SW got together those times with Mr. S.

I visited the hotel bar where they first met up, after she asked him out.

I walked over to the restrooms where she went that first night, after getting kicked out of the hotel bar, while he waited for her. And where he kissed her, as she made it clear she wanted to be kissed, just in front of the elevators. Where he started fumbling with the buttons to her jeans while they were kissing, trying to touch her womanhood right then and there. Where she recoiled and pushed him away, and sent him home for being too aggressive.

Of course, they were subsequently able to communicate (with my assistance) and get back on track. The had other, more successful encounters here at this hotel, after that initial stumble.

SW insisted on this hotel. We are visiting her family, a summer visit with some outdoors activities including grilling outdoors, wakeboarding/water skiing/wave runners, etc. She came out yesterday and I'm joining her today. She asked me, in advance, how she should handle it if she or I run into Mr. S while here. I was a bit surprised by the question, and said that it should be no big deal. I will greet him in a friendly manner, etc. She said that she's still feeling hurt from how things ended with them, in that she ended up cutting off contact after he didn't follow through on his promise to get together with her for their mutual birthdays (they have the same birthday) in early 2021. She said he has texted her from time to time since then, but she hasn't answered. So there may still be some feelings there...

In the meantime, I'm also wondering if she will reach out to Mr. M. It has been a standard thing for her to see him when in town, going back many years, but she is uncertain these days because of how he responded after she seduced him in late 2020. I wonder if time has made that encounter less dramatic for him?

I have some business here on Tuesday, so we will return home on Wednesday.

[slenderfish]

Closing the loop on the big 4th of July party on Mr. E's boat. SW does challenge....

Our dog is getting along in years. SW said she didn't want to leave the dog for more than six hours so insisted at the last minute that I get a room for us at a dog-friendly hotel, on the water. Of course it was impossibly expensive, last minute, big weekend, etc. But I arranged it. Reminded her that it would be nonrefundable.

She had invited Mr. B and we both really expected him to attend by himself. He ended up confirming with Ms. R, the same woman from our summer '20 parties, the one who disappeared with Mr. B up to the rooftop deck and came down looking all tussled and wiping her mouth, etc. This was after Mr. B and SW had their overnight (whatever it was) and, if you recall, after SW saw Mr. B giving so much attention to Ms. R she kind of was pissy with him for some time.

So on Sunday night, SW picked a fight with me and ended up binge watching some Netflix program and staying up until around 4:00 a.m. drinking wine, etc. This was a bad sign.

On Monday morning, she said that I should attend by myself, that she was tired and still unhappy from our fight, etc. So I did.

I checked into the hotel, incredulous that this great hotel room is going to waste, and went out to the waterside bar for a drink. I also called my daughter and her husband to join us on the boat party. They know Mr. B and also Ms. R. from our social events. The five of us (me, my daughter and her husband, and Mr. B and Ms. R) hung out on the waterfront bar for about an hour. It was a beautiful afternoon and Mr. E eventually brought his boat to the guest dock and we were welcomed aboard. There were about 30 people in total on his boat. We then tied up with another boat in the middle of the harbor, and celebrated the day with music, tequila, dancing, etc.

At about 7:00 p.m. SW called me and I picked up. She was in a much more solicitous mood, and apologized for the trouble. She then insisted I come home after the party, because there was no reason for me to stay in the hotel by myself overnight. I agreed, and transitioned to drinking water as the night ended.

She said that I should make a gift of the hotel room to Mr. B and Mr. R, so that they may enjoy themselves. And so I did.

It was just a bit awkward, showing the lovebirds the hotel room, grabbing my stuff, and handing over the room keys. Mr. B chuckled and said:

"It's too bad SW isn't here, we could then take advantage of the room and have a foursome."

Ms. R didn't object or say anything.

I said that it is not out of the question for me, and that the limiting factor would be SW. I also added that SW may just enjoy it, in that time has shown she does prefer unusually tall men.

And left it at that. Grabbed my stuff and gave them their privacy.

[superb101]

Wow! No wonder you were pissed. She ruined things on so many levels!

[william70]

Did you repeat this convo you had with Mr.B & MsR with SW? Did you get a response from her?

[afagehi7]

Oh man, I'd be furious with SW... Absolutely furious... and then wanting you to come home... Even more furious. There would have been a fight in the A7 house that's for sure.

Is this all because Mr B brought MsR? Too bad you don't have a play card as MsR would have likely took both you and MrB on...

if SW wants his attention, she's going to have to give up some pussy or at least mouth. MsR was a sure thing, SW isn't... No choice on MrB part... 100% guarantee of pussy versus a 1-2% chance of SW. Had she told him to come alone so she could F him he would have come alone but he doesn't want to cum alone after the party.

[Triggershy]

Sorry beyond disappointing. Was the fight just a ruse because Mr. B was bringing Ms R and she gets anxious or jealous around her.

UGH beyond frustrating your a saint on so many levels. Hopefully the Midwest will bring you a nice surprise.