Jane' adventure

[bubbajack]

Hello Jane and JH,

I was out of the country without secure access to a computer for the last twelve days and so I missed the fallout from the Deron/Jane/JH episode until today.

I sincerely hope that you wonderful people can find a way to enjoy your joint adventures (sorry for the bad pun - well maybe not exactly sorry).

You seem to have the makings for success: JH clearly trusts and supports J's judgment, as well as desiring for his own reasons that she have the experiences she seeks.

I think both of you are brave and honest and for that reason I believe that you will find a good balance of mutual feeling on which to go forward.

All the best to you both.

[bubbajack]

Hey Jane and J'sH,

You guys OK?

Best to you both.

[Janes Husband]

We're doing fine, just busy with regular life.

[bubbajack]

Thanks for responding.

[Arctus]

I hope all is well with you two... Take care and enjoy.

[bubbajack]

Hoping all is well with both of you wonderful people ...

[enigma322]

Wow -- My wife and I have just started this game. Her first experience was great. The fellow handled everything and was a real gentleman. Then in the bedroom he took her around the world. She then came home to me and we have been having great sex ever since. By the way, I do not consider myself a cuck. She had another date this past saturday, been communicating with the guy for weeks. He bought her a few drinks, paid for a nice room in the hotel. Was all over her in the room, loved the blowjob she started but when she went for the main event he went limp and said it was not going to happen. They got dressed and he mauled her again. He kept saying how beautiful she was. He said he wanted to cum in her mouth and on her face. She told him that she wanted him to cum deep in her pussy. He just could go there. She did find out that he seperated because wife cheated on him. Right now they were going to therapy.

My wife is beautiful. I am sure everyone thinks that about their wife. However, my wife has done some modeling. She is 44 so has about 10 more pounds then she wants. The problem is that this last experience has her questioning her looks and sex appeal. Does anyone have advice?

[allengt]

Wow -- My wife and I have just started this game. Her first experience was great. The fellow handled everything and was a real gentleman. Then in the bedroom he took her around the world. She then came home to me and we have been having great sex ever since. By the way, I do not consider myself a cuck. She had another date this past saturday, been communicating with the guy for weeks. He bought her a few drinks, paid for a nice room in the hotel. Was all over her in the room, loved the blowjob she started but when she went for the main event he went limp and said it was not going to happen. They got dressed and he mauled her again. He kept saying how beautiful she was. He said he wanted to cum in her mouth and on her face. She told him that she wanted him to cum deep in her pussy. He just could go there. She did find out that he seperated because wife cheated on him. Right now they were going to therapy.

My wife is beautiful. I am sure everyone thinks that about their wife. However, my wife has done some modeling. She is 44 so has about 10 more pounds then she wants. The problem is that this last experience has her questioning her looks and sex appeal. Does anyone have advice?

I think it might have to do with her beauty. Some men want to put beautiful women on a pedestile and the thought of shoving a cock into their body just makes them go soft. They just want to put them up there and worship them. I have a lot of friends that are dateless because men will not even approach them for that same reason. With this guy tell her to not give him that first blowjob either because he cannot recover.

[enigma322]

thanks for the answer allengt. By the way, the blowjob was not to completion. It was just to get him hard. She now feels it is her slight weight gain. I am trying to get her to go on a date this saturday, maybe it will help. Have many women been turned down in bed?

[wifecouple]

We were in a similar situation, as far as going along when the guy wasn't exactly what we were looking for and ending up going along with it. The guy was really nice and all but wasn't physically what she was looking for and was what she called a selfish lover.

We just didn't meet with him again.

I think the difference is that I was with her and kind of took up the slack and he was a really nice guy.

In your case I agree with the person that said he sounded like a married guy, but I also think he was embarrassed at himself for being such a lousy lay.

My wife is generally a bit more assertive, in that she will tell a guy to slow down or whatever. There's not a thing wrong with letting a guy know what you want in some way or telling him directly that things are not going the way you like.
It doesn't have to be direct either... tell him you'd like to have him spend more time on your boobs or whatever. If you're not having fun then what's the point?

We usually spend a lot more time naked and petting, getting her revved up, especially with a new guy. (although she generally pretty horny anyway, it's still fun)

I think you need to go with what you feel. We seem to have more fun with people we meet directly than those online, and we're mere choosy about the ones from online. A lot of those guys will give you clues about their selfishness when they respond to your posts, so that helps.

[panos_yogi]

MMM what a post! I am a late comer and have been through all of it at once.... I have played both sides of the game sharing my gf in the past and fucking others, so have some experience. So, naturally, the sharing experience was the biggest blast for me. But what I have particularly come to appreciate in Jane is her candid presentation of the women's perspective; for me, even though I claim to be experienced, that was a real eye-opener... Thank you Jane!!

I also think she is truly admirable for pursuing her desires in real life; I think that almost all women have such fantasies that they never dare to realise.

Regarding Jane's husband I thin kJane was right to let him in in her world; it is his right to participate in this rewarding experience. But most importantly Jane, I think he should be your first priority of attention, even if you have an exciting lover; I think he was right to be upset last time because, from his description he was ignored - not so much by him, but (far more importantly) you Jane. So, there is a sensitive balance to be struck here. But it would indeed be a totally different thing if he were to join in as a player; I see no reason why he shouldn't and the triangle will balance out. One tip to JH: better to cum last, rather than being drained and watching her being used and abused....

I hope we hear more from Jane and her husband; this is an incredible experience!

Panos

[bubbajack]

I think Jane & her husband are gone. If so I am very sorry. But I also think there was some suffering going on. So if they have left or are on a hiatus until things work out to be enjoyable with less pain, I would understand

[MrBrunetteBeth]

No, no - they'll be back. Chances are real life is getting in the way. Or not much playing lately. Or just don't want to report in for whatever reason. As much as a disappointment it may be to those of us that really enjoy their posts, they are not responsible to any of us. Just cool your jets and let them "return" when they are ready

MrBB

[suzywild]

I think they are away on vacation.

[Janes Husband]

Right you are. We were gone since last friday. No trouble's , anyone.

[bubbajack]

Whew! Thank you. (I am relieved to know I was wrong - not my usual reaction!)

[jane]

For those wondering, not much playing lately. We went on vacation for with both our little ones for the first time.
I did see Deron the day before we left, and twice in the past week. I met another guy a few weeks ago, just by chance, and i met with him for the first time yesterday. He's in his early 30's, fairly successful. Not sure if he's a bit of a player. He doesn't know i'm a hotwife yet, just a wife he wanted to flirt with.

[jrandmustang]

Hooray and Happy Fourth! It's great to hear from you again, Jane, and to know all is well.

And ... if seeing Deron the day before vacation and twice since, plus meeting another new guy, counts as "not playing much lately," then you're responding to the unrealistic expectations of those of us who want to hear from you every day!!!

Enjoy the holiday!

[bubbajack]

Hello Jane,

Great to hear from you again - and I confess that my interest (I am sure that others here share it) in your experiences has not waned. Some no doubt intrusive (but extremely well-meant) questions:

1. Did you continue barebacking Deron in your subsequent encounters?

2. If so, how did J'sH react and (if he did) adjust to it?

3. Does the new guy look like an attractive potentiality for you (i.e., what's he like and are you interested in fucking him?)

4. If you like the new guy, would you continue fucking Deron? Would keep them both?

I greatly admire your adventurous spirit, as you know. Please share some more with us.

Thanks and all the best.

[jane]

1. yes
2. he isn't always happy about it
3. i'm not sure about him yet
4. it might be nice to have different guys available once in a while. i havnt' been seeing deron with total regularity.

[bubbajack]

Thank you, Jane.

[Arctus]

Jane: On a rmasoni's "cuckold" thread he spoke about being trained and encouraged by Mrs. Reese to fully embrace being a cuckold. He spoke about being surprised at how quickly he took to the role and how helpful Mrs. Reese had been with her guidance and encouragement. Your reply suggests that you might like your husband taking some lessons from Mrs. Reese. Do you think you would want him to become a cuckold at the level described by rmasoni? Sounds like he has chosen to become a total cuckold, forfeiting access to his wife. He indicated that she is exclusively available to her FBs and that he helps prepare her for them... and more. Would that level of "cuckold" behavior work in your relationship with your husband or would that be over the top for you?

My partner and I are moving closer and closer to her becoming a HW. Plans are in the making and she is very open to it - as am I.

Thanks in advance for answering my question. Oh... and shall we ever be blessed with a full-sized photo of your lovely body on the Hotties forum? You are soooooo HOT!!!

[jane]

There are moments when the cuckolding stuff sounds kind of hot, but then i think of my husband and i can't see me doing that to him. We've done a little, and we'll just have to take it slow in that regard.

[Arctus]

What aspects of the cuckold role do you find "hot"? And I wonder what aspects of the cuckold role your husband finds hot. He certainly finds some aspects of it "hot" given that he suggested that you try the HW role in the first place and given some of the other encouragement he has given you. Anyway, I'm curious what he finds hot and what you find hot about him playing the cuckold role. It is possible you two may find some common ground when discussing this issue! Who knows? <smile>!!!

[bubbajack]

Hello Jane and J'sH,

Here's hoping for one or more reportable incident(s) in the Adventure this weekend. All the best to you both.