Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[rmasoni]

Mr Reese is a better man than i, i don't know how many men could withstand that kind of torture

Hubby called, no Mario, its time! I gotta have him tonight, I know he will wild and out of control, just the way I like him.
enough is enough I assume! lol

[BallSpanking]

Mr Reese has balls of steel, but he needs them to keep up with Ms Reese's dalliances...
Not only is she a babe, she's super hot!

[mrs_reese]

I am visiting Michael tonight. FYI! xoxo

[Mrs_sflcpl1]

Wow,no i read the whole blog...Geeeeee....Took me forever...lol
But i am so glad i did...
It helps to understand my situation much better..
I am glad i am not the only one with ups and downs...
Not only with my " TOYS" lol
Also with my hubby...

Well,Mrs Reese...We are in the same boat! And i am so happy to know that i am not alone!
Thank you!

xoxo
Nadine

[mrs_reese]

Nadine,
I am so happy that my post was beneficial to you.
I will always be here for you, I have followed your post as well.

Let's email each other if you have time/ pm
xoxo

[mrs_reese]

I have missed Michael. He has taken a back seat lately to Mario and tonight I plan on giving him my extra attention.
A little about managing my sex with my men:
Obviously, I had to deny hubby last night as I wanted to be very tight for Michael. I am kind of alternating between Mario, Michael and hubby sexually. Of course hubby has more opportunity to cum since he is with me most nights. But I have been limiting his sexual intercourse. It is so nice to know that my butt, or feet or panties is enough for hubby to get off on! I love that about him, super kinky! On Monday, hubby and I were intimate. Of course our entire discussion was about fucking Michael as we made love. Last night we took it easy, no sex for me. Hubby masterbated as his tongue was penetrating my butt and pussy. Tonight, I just want to put this out there, (especially since hubby will probably jack off the moment he is home as I left my sandals on the bed along with my panties that I wore today for him.) I want to devote my attention to loving Michael. He has been patient with me. WE will make love tonight, many times. I cant wait. I want him very much. Mario will wait till next week sometime. Too much on my mind with Michael.
Ya know, I watch the bachelorette and I feel like I am in that role. Managing men, exchanging intimacy with all of them. sharing myself, but also being selfish. So that is my update! 3 men, all 3 are craving me, and I have done a good job so far, managing my lovers!

[BallSpanking]

Ms Reese,

I just wanted to say that I find it truly admirable that you can handle three (semi permanent) lovers in your your life,
and more, that you are definitely enjoying the intimacy with each of them, going areback with eah of them...
and taking so much of their individual cum inside you!

Wow!
You are the sexiest, consummate HotWife!

Cheers, sweetie

[mrs_reese]

Hi,
I am very tired, storms and late night sex kept me awake!
I met with Michael later last night. Hubby was jealous as usual but I went into cuckold mode with him and told him how much I craved Michael's cock over his. How much I love Michael! How much more I Love michael sexually than hubby. I knew that I needed to keep hubby aroused all night, and for an alpha male who loves a challenge, telling hubby all of that kept him UP all night !

It was nice being with Michael, We made love right away, the burning passion was evident last night. After making love, we shared fruit, played a board game and watched the lightening storms.
I was feeling rather wild after that. What girl wouldnt want a man like Michael and his very yummy penis to play with me.
We shared sex slowly with my butt, all the while I was laying on my back with my feet in his face. Michael also loves the scent of my feet. It's so funny how jealous hubby becomes as I tell him Michael orgasmed to my feet.
I came home early this morning. Hubby woke up like usual but I did not have a cream pie for him since Michael made love to my butt last and I rested till morning.

more later.

[BallSpanking]

Wow!

Ms Reese, I am surprised that you can take Michael anally, given his size...
I am glad you are so comfortable with him you can enjoy that.

It says a lot about your relationship with Michael that you can be so easy and carefree with him,
I am sure he appreciates it, and wants more of you.., as much as he can get.

I also get the sense that you are at least partly in love with Michael, for you to be
so quietly happy, and able to see him until you have had your fill...

Nice!

[reese]

I was somewhat suprised and a little jealous that my wife allowed Michael to fuck her too sexy ass.
She is usually reserved with that...and not always willing to give that up.
I have been struggling of late....Mario has taken a lot of her time lately and now that Michael is back, my wife has that infactuation complex happening again.
The bottom line is that she is seriously time restricted now that she has commited to Michael and Mario.
I have been left with a cum filled pussy( I wont complain) and panties and the scent of her delicious feet to masterbate to as she is usually too sore or doesnt have a lot of energy to have sex with me.
When we do...it is unbelievable!
Last night as we talked about her plans for the weekend, (michael) I realized that my wife is giving me exactly what I have been wanting all along.....A wife that I have to chase...A wife that is so desirable to many men....A wife that is being fucked by other men.....A wife that denies me....A wife that comes home to me with a pussy filled with her lovers cum...I can go on and on...but one thing is very sure to me....and that is I can never get enough of my wife...and I know that Mario and Michael feel the same way.
Men crave her.....I feel that power to call her my wife as others know that she fucks other men....SHE is my prize possession...and she wont have it any other way now!

[mrs_reese]

MrB.

Your such a nice man. Hubby is crazy! How he allows me to continue through our journey is amazing to me.
I have learned to "let" go over the past year. I feel so comfortable fucking other men now. I feel so much more at ease to feel love with other men. But as I have said many times, I can walk away from all of this at any moment!
I am my husbands slave, I do this to make him go crazy. I do this because it turns him on so much. I do this because it works for our marriage. What girl wouldnt want her husband to treat her like a princess 24 hours a day?
I love hubby more that words can explain.
Thank MrB for your observations and thoughts, you are SO right!

[viking68]

Mr. B,
You and I must have been separated at birth! LOL I have exactly the same reactions to the two posts. I was thinking about writing a long post to Ginny and then decided against it.
However, Mrs. Reese as wild as your adventures seem sometimes, I too never get the feeling that there is going to be a bad outcome. There may be some bumps, but you and your hubby will survive! I know I couldn't handle you! But some how you two continue to make things work. I enjoy looking through the window, admitedly it is a bit dark, at your adventures. Please keep your following informed.
V

[mrs_reese]

thank you viking68, that means a lot to me.

[curious_guy]

Me three. Thank you both for this window into your lives. Even in the "bumps" in your adventures, you provide a wonderful example to other couples - in or outside of this lifestyle - of how to work things out and stay committed to (not to mention hot for ) each other.

Please continue to keep us posted.

CG

[ClassyBoiseCpl]

A real quick few detals about me (us). We started swinging a little over 4 years ago at ages 47 and 48. Ms really enjoyed it with the single guys, much more than she wanted to admit, due to modesty, and a fear of hurting my feelings. She never was comfortable seeing me with another lady. In fact she recently confessed that she was downright jealous. Between that and facing the reality that she has a serious alcohol addiction, we put any and all lifestyle activities on hold. She is actually serving time right now due to some legal consequences related to her addiction. As I am writing this, today is our 33rd wedding anniversary and it is killing me to spend it apart from her, for the first time in that many years. With me having a little extra time on my hands, I found this site, and was totally shocked at how much these beliefs seemed to be in line with our actual needs and desires. I am anxious to discuss this with her, but it must come second to us dealing with her most serious disease of alcohol addiction. I certainly do not want to steal any thunder from the Reese's thread here, so if any of you have comments for me, please send them by PM.

Well I guess its just my Alpha male nature to jump in here. I only discovered this site a little over a week ago. I have only read two multi-page treads from beginning to end. Those coincidentally are the Sexyginny story and the Reese story. I have to totally agree with Mr Bear and Mr Viking. While some of the reported circumstances and feelings are similar, it is the undertone and the things not said that I find so dramatically different. Sadly, It is my opinion that Ginny's "wonderful" hubby does not have much choice right now except to make the best of his situation. I believe if he were to take a stand, and say this is all I can take, you need to choose betweed Donald and I, that most of us agree what would happen. This is the fundamental difference that I read into the two different threads. When Ms Reese says that "she is her husband's slave", the way I interperet that, is that her heart totally belongs to Mr Reese. He freely gives her the liberty to not just fuck, but to actually share feelings of "Love" with other men, and she has learned to really enjoy those relationships, but at the end of the day, she and Mr Reese both know who her heart belongs to. I think Ginny's heart belongs to Donald. Just my opinion, and I felt much more comfortable sharing it here, than I did in her thread.

Ms Reese, Please excuse my french, but I cannot figure out a softer way to express this appreciation of you. YOU ARE SOOOO FUCKING HOT!!!!!!! I really wish I was a contender in your newest quest. 1.) I am probably a little to far over the hill for your liking and 2.) My Ms would never consent, so I will wish you and whomever Mr Reese chooses for you, an extraordinary expereince.

Mr Reese, It has been stated so may different ways here. It is simply incredible what you are able to endure. It is obvious how much you Love your amazing Hotwife. When I was reading through the thread page by page, there were so many times that I wanted to send a PM and say "I don't want to fast forward and spoil the story line, I just need to know that you two are OK". There were so many times that I honestly wondered if any couple could survive the escalation of continual testing, you two subject your Love to. It scares me to think about what else you two might try before you finally start turning down the intensity just a little.

My Fondest Regards to you both. I feel that I have known you both since April 23rd, 2008 (the date that reece started this insane roller coaster ride called "Hotwife going out alone/why is it so difficult for me?" Your Friend, Ron

[Randy_S]

I just read another thread where the wife went to a swinger's club with a BF and they swap and had the times of their lives and I couldn't help but think; why would anyone will like his wife to go through such an experience with someone else? Where is the bonding? Where is the sharing of life as one?

Another guy did the dishes while his wife was fucking her BF and he was very complacent with just "listening to the sounds of passion."

I find the premise of being completely passive, less than an spectator in the sex life of the person you love, very unfulfilling. It is like someone being content with picking the crumbs that accidentally fall from the table at a grand banquet.

I don't want to offend anyone, what I find unsatisfying is not "she going out alone" but the whole concept of living only vicariously through the life of a sexual being. I want to be an active participant in the whole thing, it is Ok to give someone space to experience, but for my absence to become the constant and principal main course of hotwifying is just to much of "Lady Chaterley's Lover," unlike the Lord, I am not disabled.

Could someone please explain what is wrong with my point?

[BallSpanking]

I was somewhat suprised and a little jealous that my wife allowed Michael to fuck her too sexy ass.
She is usually reserved with that...and not always willing to give that up.
I have been struggling of late....Mario has taken a lot of her time lately and now that Michael is back, my wife has that infatuation complex happening again.
The bottom line is that she is seriously time restricted now that she has committed to Michael and Mario.
I have been left with a cum filled pussy( I wont complain) and panties and the scent of her delicious feet to masturbate to as she is usually too sore or doesn't have a lot of energy to have sex with me.
When we do...it is unbelievable!
Last night as we talked about her plans for the weekend, (michael) I realized that my wife is giving me exactly what I have been wanting all along.....A wife that I have to chase...A wife that is so desirable to many men....A wife that is being fucked by other men.....A wife that denies me....A wife that comes home to me with a pussy filled with her lovers cum...I can go on and on...but one thing is very sure to me....and that is I can never get enough of my wife...and I know that Mario and Michael feel the same way.
Men crave her.....I feel that power to call her my wife as others know that she fucks other men....SHE is my prize possession...and she wont have it any other way now!

Very intense, Reese, very cool!

You are correct that she has learned to enjoy cocks and men the way guys love women.
She feels free to act on her desires if and when she wants to...
and she does VERY often (lol).
So, I agree you are extremely lucky, and she is happy and busy fucking other guys (and loving it!)

Cheers!

[reese]

Thanks Ballspanking.
We are settling into a comfortable role.
I dont get enough of her..but there are many moments that I DO have her sexually..in one way or another.

[BallSpanking]

So is Ms Reese spending the weekend with Michael then?
All weekend?
Maybe she is falling for him..., and for Mario....

How does it feel Mr Reese?

[mrs_reese]

Hubby and I read a few interesting messages from a few men who are eager to meet with us.
My future cuckold has been amazing, he performed some special requests to hopefully earn his spot on this special weekend encounter.
We will see with that.
Hubby and I shared a very nice weekend. Parties, sleeping in late, a lot of NON hotwife sex.
From time to time, I need that more than you know.
Just normal husband and wife sex.
When hubby and I are in our zone, I dont usually talk to Michael and now Mario.
I simply tell both men that I am spending one on one time with my husband and that I will be in touch soon.
This is very important for my marriage.
I have been very caught up in this moment in my life. Other men, sex, independence and a lot of sex.
But on this weekend, I am a wife. NO hotwife play.
I will update soon.
xoxo

[ClassyBoiseCpl]

So glad to hear that you two had a nice weekend. I was worried about you.

[BallSpanking]

[mrs_reese]

Time to meet Mario for LUNCH today.
Hubby doesnt know yet and I wont tell him.
We are planning takeout later tonight.
He will be bringing home PF Changs.
I will be in bed, wet from Mario's sex and hopefully hubby will want to come and clean me up.
Clean ups! I never thought I would ever want my husband to lick the cum from another lover out of me, but this act of love and re-claiming is my favorite part of hotwife play.
I am never sure what will happen with hubby. At times he licks me and he jacks off so hard and fast.
Other times he licks me to many orgasms right away, other times he licks me for a few seconds and I pull him into me and want him to fuck me so wildly, other times we make passionate love.
Very unpredictable. This is the best way of expressing my love to hubby.
To offer up my wet pussy, HIS pussy, the one that he gave up to my lover.
AND reclaiming me!!

[BandJswing]

very hot mrs_reese, gets me hot just reading this!!

[mrs_reese]

I posted in my other thread of finding a lover, but I will update here as well.

I was with mario for a short time, he was very very horny, and I was too, suprisingly( go figure)

NO romance, he told me that he couldnt take the wait any longer. I have been getting that same comment from Michael and hubby lately as well (go figure)

Mario rented what is now becoming our hotel hotspot.
WE undressed as soon as we walked into the room.
Neither of us were free with our time so we didnt make love.
HE fucked me!
HE fucked me!
He has only made love to me, but on this day HE fuxcked me!

My husband has given me up to a gorgeous Italian whom knows that hubby is ok with him FUCkING ME.
I didnt know Mario was like that.
HE fucked me!
And I loved every minute of it.
I kept most of his yumminess in me.
And now I am laying in my bed, hubby is 10 min away.

My baby is going have to lick me clean.
xoxo