Dating a BBC only girl?

[mf2hd82]

Well, I think I have nothing to lose in the short term. We're planning to go to dinner Friday night before she meets up with one of her guys. We've been talking a lot. She likes having a guy she can talk to and confide in.

I myself would really enjoy this aspect of it. Even more so if she would tease me about going home to jack off thinking about her out with a black guy.

As far as sex between you two is concerned I wonder if she would be into watching you masturbate to her before she goes out. That's something I would also enjoy and feel like it was a little bit of sexual bonding between both of you.

[maxbud]

I met a girl on blacktowhite.net. She was there to find black guys to hookup with. She said that she'd never really considered a "cuck" relationship before, but after reading some stuff there from "cuck" guys she started thinking about it. She and I started corresponding, we chatted and stuff for a while. Basically, she said that she is BBC only and wants to stay that way. If she were to have an LTR with a white guy, he would have to accept that they would never have sex. But we live close enough to each other and, knowing this, we both agreed to go out on a date last weekend.

Neither one of us has ever done anything like this before, in terms of having this kind of relationship. We are both in our mid-20s. I'm an attractive guy, but I've been out of any kind of long-term relationship for about a year. She is very hot, and said she'd only been with black guys for about the past 3 years. She's been in some LTRs, but her last LTR ended about 6 months ago. She said she still considers the possibility of marrying a black guy, but wanted to explore this as well.

Our "date" went really good. She's awesome and we have a lot in common. We've talked a few times since our date and she wants to see me again. I'm not really sure what to do about this. I mean, we got into this knowing what was up, but like, do I really want to do this? I mean I do and I don't.

I'm also not really sure how to proceed if I do want to. Most girls I've dated we had sex within the first month or so of getting serious with each other. I guess I've had like 3 serious girlfriends in my life, 1 in high school and 2 in college. And then a few others where we dated a little but it wasn't exclusive and others where we hooked up and it was mostly sexual but not really anything else, etc. But sex was always a big part of getting serious.

So, like how would I get serious with a girl without having sex with her? I think I should at least kiss her. We have talked about her sex life and guys she's been with. She does like to brag about stuff she's done, which I enjoy.

I think I'm going to see her again and see how things go.

If you would like to try cuckolding:

Many men on this site would absolutely relish being in your shoes... to be in a chaste sub-male femdom type relationship, where they provide all the adoration and support, and she has se with the studs (black studs in this case) that she likes. Its like a cuckolding situation from the get go.
If you are curious to try that lifestyle, perhaps you can let her know straight away, that you would like that. You wont mind being her cuck.
Maybe she can peg you anally, or you can eat her creampies while masturbating or things like that. She might probably get a ego trip and thrill from the experience... thereby enjoying the best of both worlds.

However,... if on the other hand, you want a normal relationship....
Then you would need to eventually "seduce" her into accepting to have a sexual relationship with you. In which case, in my experience... you would best stay away from anything suggesting cuckolding or femdom (she will likely not be turned on by this stuff). And instead, approach her like an alpha male.

[Latido]

Sounds like you two have great fun together. Enjoy!

[cukgrl69]

We had dinner Friday night for a couple of hours. I didn't want to just be in the friend zone, so I was flirting a lot more. I walked her to her car and we kissed. After, she invited me to go out clubbing with her the next night. I said sure and said I'd text her the next day. I met her around 11:00 the next night outside the club and we went in together. It wasn't my scene, but she knew people there. She introduced me to a few people, always just by name, not as a friend or boyfriend, etc. She danced a little on her own and with some girl friends, and then I went out and started dancing with her, which got really hot very fast. I was in party mode. I honestly hadn't been clubbing in a couple years, but did a lot in college.

At one point she saw a guy she knew and he came up to her and the three of us danced together. She kissed him and said some stuff to him in his ear. She turned around after a bit and kissed me while he was grinding up on her. After a bit she turned back around and they said some things and then he left. We went and got drinks and hung for a bit and she talked to a few more guys, then she went out dancing with another guy and gave me a look. I just let them dance for a while, and then she came back to me with him and introduced me to him. He was getting all over her, but she reached over and grabbed my hand. She said she wanted to dance again and she pulled me with her this time, so I went with them. We were both grinding on her and I think she could tell I had a hardon at one point. Various other stuff happened, and by around 2 she was ready to go. She actually ended up hooking up with the first guy we danced with. She left with him, but she gave me a kiss on the cheek and squeezed my hand when she left and told me to call her the next day.

I texted her around noon and she said I could come over to her place, but she wasn't getting out of bed. Her apartment is like an hour from mine, but I went over. I'd never been there before. She came to the door in PJs, no makeup, I could tell she had showered. Said she was getting back in bed. She said she didn't get home until 5 am. I got on her bed with her, on top of the covers in my clothes, and we talked a bit. I didn't ask her anything about what she did after she left. She said she had a great time at the club with me and liked my dancing. I started touching her and we started kissing. It got really intense. I took my shirt off and we started making out more and then she started pulling back. We just looked at each other for a bit and then I started kissing down her chest and pulled her covers back and went down on her. I was practically cumming in my pants. It took a while, but I made her cum with just my mouth.

After, we made out a little and then she said "what about you?" She was rubbing my dick through my pants. I wasn't sure if she was going to suck me or what. I got out of bed and took my pants off, but when I started to get back in bed she shook her head and smiled. So I started rubbing myself and she looked interested, so I keep going and started asking about what she did the prior night. I'd ask her stuff and she'd just say yes or no. I quickly came on her pillow.

We threw the pillow on the floor and I got into bed with her and we were having a good time. She said she'd never watched a guy jackoff before. We cuddled and then she actually fell asleep for a bit. I just laid in bed with her until she woke up. We got out of bed and hung out and watched tv for a while. I helped her put some dinner together. We ate and made plans to go to Six Flags in a couple of weeks and then I had to go. We made out as I was going and she said she was glad I came by.

So much for keeping it casual!

Sounds very promising. I have no experience with Atlanta, but I assume there are sex clubs there. You may want to check into the sex clubs in the area and see if she'll go with you. Mya be a good way for you to have some sexual experiences together. From the sounds of it, it seems like something she would be into. Would be a way that you could participate with her while she's getting the BBCs she needs.

I have no experience doing this while "dating", but my wife and I enjoy it. I've definitely seen singles and unmarried couples at the club we go to.

[galactic]

Things are still going good. We texted a lot last week. I texted her pics of BBCs a few times asking her what she thought of them. She liked that. She came over to my place Sat evening. I made a stir-fry dinner for her. We talked more directly about cuckolding and the types of things she would like to do while we watched some interracial porn together. I went down on her again and this time she gave me a hand job. We watched Licorice Pizza after that, since neither of us had seen it.

We hadn't discussed spending the night, so I wasn't sure if she was going to, but I asked her after the movie and she said she would. She slept in my bed and we made out and fooled around to the point that we both had to masturbate again. I talked about how much I wanted her, but I knew she was for black cocks only. She asked if I wanted to worship her black cock loving pussy and I said yes, which she said was so hot. I asked her to sit on my face, and she did. She talked about how good BBCs make her pussy feel while she was on my face. After she came she said it was so hot doing that. I didn't cum, we just cuddled and went to sleep.

We had coffee in the morning and discussed our plans to go to Six Flags and seeing each other more. She said she had a good time and left pretty early. I had to jackoff as soon as she left.

Good idea about the sex clubs. I'll have to look into that.

I'm not really into the feminization stuff or pegging, at least for now. She does want me to watch her with other guys, but she's not ready for that yet (actually she said that I'm not ready for that yet). She does like the idea of me cleaning her up after she's been with someone.

[realcucklife]

Fantastic escalation!

[Bent_n_Twisted]

...I talked about how much I wanted her, but I knew she was for black cocks only. She asked if I wanted to worship her black cock loving pussy and I said yes, which she said was so hot. I asked her to sit on my face, and she did. She talked about how good BBCs make her pussy feel while she was on my face. After she came she said it was so hot doing that. I didn't cum, we just cuddled and went to sleep...She does want me to watch her with other guys, but she's not ready for that yet (actually she said that I'm not ready for that yet). She does like the idea of me cleaning her up after she's been with someone.

Sounds like a fantastic arrangement, almost perfect. She gets plenty of fucking and pussy-licking, you get plenty of pussy-licking but no fucking and, maybe, a steady diet of creampie. If it were me, a step closer to perfection would be a caged cock with limited opportunities to be allowed to cum...maybe based on time and/or number of 'clean-ups' performed, and/or perhaps even some other activities not currently accustomed to performing.

[Latido]

Very hot!

[canberraguy4fun]

You are living the dream of MANY of us Cuck Wannabe's. ENJOY IT!

[Bscott766]

Awesome update would love to hear more about what she did with the bbc. How often is she seeing them? You are doing the right thing, I think you will be her clean up boy real soon

[Aynsley]

Galactic.
I’m 64. I told my 2 kids (30’s now), your 20’s are
meant for exploring. Don’t think about your GF
as ‘the one’; just learn, have fun, and enjoy
the adventure.
I guarantee when you’re 40+ you’ll be glad
you did. Thanks for sharing.

[BigJim]

Galactic.
I’m 64. I told my 2 kids (30’s now), your 20’s are
meant for exploring. Don’t think about your GF
as ‘the one’; just learn, have fun, and enjoy
the adventure.
I guarantee when you’re 40+ you’ll be glad
you did. Thanks for sharing.

I agree 100 %. You are young, enjoy life to the fullest.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

A fetish is a poor foundation for a long term relationship imo.

So true.

[desertsub]

Sounds like a fantastic arrangement, almost perfect. She gets plenty of fucking and pussy-licking, you get plenty of pussy-licking but no fucking and, maybe, a steady diet of creampie. If it were me, a step closer to perfection would be a caged cock with limited opportunities to be allowed to cum...maybe based on time and/or number of 'clean-ups' performed, and/or perhaps even some other activities not currently accustomed to performing.

I agree! Once she takes control of your dick and locks it in a chastity cage you are definitely her cuckold!

[galactic]

We are postponing going to Six Flags because of the hurricane and I'm going to her place tomorrow night instead. Hurricane may not come here, but it will still be a mess from the evacuations and we'll probably have bad weather.

I'm trying to just keep it cool, nothing too crazy right now.

[desertsub]

We are postponing going to Six Flags because of the hurricane and I'm going to her place tomorrow night instead. Hurricane may not come here, but it will still be a mess from the evacuations and we'll probably have bad weather.

I'm trying to just keep it cool, nothing too crazy right now.

Probably a wise decision, Six Flags will be there for another day. Enjoy your time together!

[Aynsley]

I’d call it a plus that she’s basically saying that
she didn’t want to miss a chance spending time
With You, despite the 6Flags cancellation.

[galactic]

We had a great weekend. We're really seeing each other now. We did go to Six Flags last weekend. She's definitely a thrill seeker. We did lots of coasters and even the Pandemonium, which I hated. We stayed in a hotel after, even though we don't live that far away. We almost had sex that night, but I actually stopped it (sort of). When we went to bed we were cuddling and talking and things were getting intense and she was rubbing me. She said, "You can put it in if you want." I told her I wanted to so bad, but that she deserved only big black cocks so I licked and fingered her instead.

She's said that she' going to tell everyone we are going out now. She'll tell any guys she's with that she has a white boyfriend. I haven't brought up the sex club idea yet, but I still want to suggest that.

We haven't done anything together with anyone else yet, and she hasn't been with many other guys in the past few weeks. I actually work from home a lot now, so we're talking about me moving in with her. I'd have to bring some of my office stuff over. We're not sure about that yet. Since she doesn't work from home, I would be in her place alone, which would be weird, but she can't commute from my place, since its too far. But we're trying to figure something out.

She said that she has a guy in mind that she wants to introduce me too. She's going to see him this weekend and see how things go and maybe we'll do something together after that.

[michael8401]

hey man, I think this is great for you. I think you will probably have sex soon though. I think it will feel good for her still, but you both have it all out there from day 1.

[mf2hd82]

Could you imagine this girl falls in love with you, finally gets you to have sex with her, and then decides she only wants you and doesn't even want to cuckold you or have bbc anymore!? This could be tragic.

[Aynsley]

Thank you for the update, galactic, and I'm truly happy that the two of you had (what sounded like), a Very Fun 'away weekend'.

As a geezer (64), I can't help but throw in my $0.02 and caution against moving too fast (ie-moving in with each other). There's something
to be said for getting to know someone 'at a distance' as well as when you two are on dates. You both seem quite sharp, and while
ANY relationship has it's difficulties, this relationship has (obviously) some extra challenges to figure out.

Take your time, be true to yourself and your instincts...but also, enjoy the adventure.
As I said, previously, your 20's is meant for you guys to explore.

Good luck.
-Aynsley

[galactic]

I shouldn't have said "moving in together". More like, I would be staying at her place during the week some times, but still keeping my place. We'll see, but anyway not this week. She's spending time with a guy she's been with for a while. She hasn't told me much about him, just that she's known him for a long time and that she wants to introduce us. She said she'll tell me more if he's into it.

[Latido]

Great new developments! Why not have sex with her if she let's you. It will make the frustration even more intense, once she denies you! And it gives her more options, like fucking you once in a while. But well, it is all up to you guys.

[Londonbondage]

Hopefully you do enjoy the time you got together

[dmbny41]

Glad it’s working out for you! Hope to hear how it grows