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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by AmieLee » Tue Sep 27, 2022 5:19 pm

Hi-)

Ty edwardbare :-)

Was with hubby and showed him what I did with Tom today! It feels so good too with hubby and he seems to really love it! After we finished hubby mentioned that he has seen how one of his friends looks at me and we we laughed about it but he said maybe I should think about it. I don't know but it did make me feel nice to know that another guy thinks I'm pretty!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by superb101 » Tue Sep 27, 2022 5:29 pm

Maybe your husband should introduce you!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by mike999 » Tue Sep 27, 2022 7:25 pm

Amie enjoy the wonderful lifestyle.
You are handling everything so well!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by Supa Scoopa » Wed Sep 28, 2022 7:14 am

AmieLee wrote:
Tue Sep 27, 2022 5:19 pm
Hi-)

Ty edwardbare :-)

Was with hubby and showed him what I did with Tom today! It feels so good too with hubby and he seems to really love it! After we finished hubby mentioned that he has seen how one of his friends looks at me and we we laughed about it but he said maybe I should think about it. I don't know but it did make me feel nice to know that another guy thinks I'm pretty!
Your hubby should invite his friend over some weekend, for you 3 to chill in the house. Get some beers and food.....and you can change into just a big t-shirt, cute white panties and some white socks. Just to see how he looks at you. See how things go. If it goes well, you've already had Tom inside you, what difference would another guy make?

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by dadah » Wed Sep 28, 2022 12:35 pm

i figured it would be just a matter of time until your husband would want you to let somebody in addition to tom fuck you !! and it will probably increase even more as time passes and you become even more active, i expect !!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by AmieLee » Wed Sep 28, 2022 3:59 pm

Hi:-)

"Just to see how he looks at you. See how things go. If it goes well, you've already had Tom inside you, what difference would another guy make?"

I don't know Supa Scoopa it seems like does make a difference to me I mean. I'm really having fun with Tom and hubby and while the idea that another guy is attracted to me is kind of exciting I'm just not sure if maybe would be to much maybe. Thinking about it is kind of a turn on but I don't know. What do people think?

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by snooper56 » Wed Sep 28, 2022 4:13 pm

Whatever you and your hubby are comfortable with.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by leggysman » Wed Sep 28, 2022 4:25 pm

I'm sure many here will urge you to fuck 'em all and post pictures ;-)

But I don't think there's any reason to rush into that just yet, especially if you're unsure. If and when the Tom thing starts to feel a little bit less novel and exciting, then maybe that's a better time to consider branching out. Sounds like you'll have your husband's support if that day comes.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by mfmseeker1969 » Wed Sep 28, 2022 4:31 pm

This dance is Always ladies choice. You decide who you play with.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by superb101 » Wed Sep 28, 2022 5:35 pm

If you are curious, you might agree to at least go out to dinner if hubby wants to set something up. Sex doesnt have to be involved.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by armyguyot1 » Wed Sep 28, 2022 5:49 pm

Welcome to the forum dadah.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by AmieLee » Wed Sep 28, 2022 5:57 pm

Hi :-)

Ty for advice everyone! I talked to hubby more about it and he said its always up to me and he is glad I like seeing Tom but that it might make him feel better if I wasn't spending to much time with just one guy since like he said before he doesn't want to feel like I'm "dating" someone. I could see what he meant and asked if he really thought that "Will" was attracted to me. He said he could tell he is and I thought that was nice. I told hubby I think we should think about it more but I do think he made a good point and it might be a good thing too. I am feeling a little uncertain still but do kind of like the idea.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by Supa Scoopa » Thu Sep 29, 2022 3:31 am

AmieLee wrote:
Wed Sep 28, 2022 5:57 pm
it might make him feel better if I wasn't spending to much time with just one guy since like he said before he doesn't want to feel like I'm "dating" someone.
That is a common way of thinking in this situation, and makes sense. You probably still want to make sure you have enough time for your husband though!

Alternatively, with the friend, if you do have sex with him and then change your mind after, it doesn't need to be anything more than a 1 nighter. You can all just laugh it off as a drunken escapade.

Definitely don't mention Tom to him though!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by WatchinginNJ » Thu Sep 29, 2022 4:13 am

AmieLee wrote:
Wed Sep 28, 2022 5:57 pm
Hi :-)

Ty for advice everyone! I talked to hubby more about it and he said its always up to me and he is glad I like seeing Tom but that it might make him feel better if I wasn't spending to much time with just one guy since like he said before he doesn't want to feel like I'm "dating" someone. I could see what he meant and asked if he really thought that "Will" was attracted to me. He said he could tell he is and I thought that was nice. I told hubby I think we should think about it more but I do think he made a good point and it might be a good thing too. I am feeling a little uncertain still but do kind of like the idea.
Try the ladies board. These horn dogs will have you in gangbangs and porn shoots if you ask them their feelings. It's ladies only and you'll get a hotwife perspective.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by mfmseeker1969 » Thu Sep 29, 2022 5:29 am

Truer words have seldom been shared here

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by Topnotch » Thu Sep 29, 2022 10:27 am

What's wrong with gangbangs and trains🤪

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by dadah » Thu Sep 29, 2022 10:34 am

amie baby - your husband's reasoning makes perfect sense!! you should let will fuck you !!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by AmieLee » Thu Sep 29, 2022 4:54 pm

hi
Ok this getting a little weird. I was looking for advice and stuff but yeah some people are getting strange. I wanted to be able to share and get real advice but now people are suggesting I do kind of crazy stuff that I don't think would be healthy for my marriage. That's not what I'm looking for and its making me feel sad. Anyway maybe will check back later.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by Breakerhymen » Thu Sep 29, 2022 5:16 pm

Amie…..stick with what makes YOU comfortable….not your husband and certainly not the more extreme cuck nonsense proliferating this website!!! Take it slow communicate with hubby and let things move slowly and as they flow enjoy! If it makes you uncomfortable feel free to express that. Too many guys here think it’s all about their own fantasies and lose sight of the woman’s perspective!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by dadah » Thu Sep 29, 2022 8:42 pm

thanks army guy !!!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by dadah » Thu Sep 29, 2022 8:54 pm

aimie honey i hope u didn't find me weird or offensive.......i was just agreeing with your husband's reasoning. but if i have offended, i apologize profusely!! please don't go away !!!

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by AmieLee » Fri Sep 30, 2022 3:36 am

Hi:-)

I m not offended but was like wow really? Now looking back I was thinking hey I asked for opinions so there you go lol! Tom and me are getting together today so I'm happy about that :-) Still have to think some more about Will but it does make me feel good that hubby says he really thinks Will is attracted to me.

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by superb101 » Fri Sep 30, 2022 3:48 am

Would your husband set something up for you and Will just as a dinner date to get to know him better?

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by xxxRyno » Fri Sep 30, 2022 4:45 am

What are you going to wear for Tom today?

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Re: Not sure what to do

Unread post by eater » Fri Sep 30, 2022 8:39 am

Amie your husband seems to understand that you should only do what is comfortable and appealing to you. Please take all of the respondents opinions with a grain of salt and with your desires in mind. the important opinions are yours and your husbands. try not to let some poster's fantasies about you be upsetting.

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