Leggysandy Stepping Out

[mundyman]

Congratulations. I can’t wait to see how your beautiful wife continues to develop as a hotwife now that her candle has been lit.
Is there any talk of over night stays?
Going out on dates that end in incredibly hot sex?
Does she dress differently now? Wear different clothes or underwear?
Is there talk of expanding her stable of lovers as she seeks to sample different dicks?
Eagerly awaiting future updates and future adventures!!!

[leggysman]

Thanks all! We're loving life right now.

S and her new man are in contact all the time. What was a mixture of getting-to-know-you conversation and sex talk before their first encounter, has now mostly reverted to pure sexy talk and planning. Which is good I think.

The hotel is booked for a date on Oct 6th, but there remains a possibility that they'll get together this Thursday 29th. I hope so! Everyone's excited. I can't wait for the repeat engagements. I think I'll suffer from a lot fewer nerves now that it has already happened once. Going forward, I think it's just going to be pure hotness, and I'm really really looking forward to the next time she comes home to me, after having amazing sex with her very talented lover.

The other night I typed up a bit of a sexual user manual for my wife, and she sent it to him. It seems like they both enjoyed that, and I look forward to hearing about him using some of my tips to make my girl come hard, with his cock inside her.

They do want to have overnight stays, and I'm cool with that. It will be difficult to sleep when she doesn't come home, but I want that for her.

She's not different now, apart from having a lot of dormant horniness and sexuality coming roaring back, after a few years of being mired in mummy stuff. It's brilliant to see -- I remember that woman, and I'm very glad to see her again! Horny S is pretty unstoppable, and I love hearing about how she's been so turned on and distracted all day.

I think we both understand that this guy won't be her first and last. I believe she's loving the whole idea now. Knowing her though the years, I always felt confident that she might someday! And although she's been telling the other guys she's talked to that she's 'taken' for the moment, I understand that she has a bit of a waiting list ready, for whenever this one burns itself out (as they generally seem to). But, no hurry on that.

While I can't wait for her to experience her next new man, we're all having a great time as it is right now. He's a good'un, and they have a great connection. Not to mention how spicy the sex between S and I has been; from the moment she told me she'd decided to "take the plunge", to the day when the hypothetical new lover materialized into a real life guy, to the night when it all became a reality, with my wife getting a glorious fucking. Like S said today, it's like a second honeymoon. Not that our sex life wasn't good all along, mind you.

And now it seems like it's going to keep on happening, which is just ridiculously sexy. I don't know why, but having my wife fuck the same guy repeatedly is very hot -- moreso than a series of one-offs.

[leggysman]

I don't know why, but having my wife fuck the same guy repeatedly is very hot -- moreso than a series of one-offs.

I think because I eroticize the jealous feelings, "she's fucking a guy" is more of a turn on than "she fucked a guy".

OTOH, if and when she has her second new man, I will finally believe that this is our new life, and not just a dynamite little episode in our marriage.

OTOOH even if last Tuesday was a one-time event, and never happened again in our marriage, she's already made my fantasy come true, in a big way that I'd be able to remember for the rest of our life together. She did it - that happened.

[RemMb36+]

Glad it's working and can't wait to hear about the next time.
And that is with just one hand not the other, other other hand... Lol

[eater]

congratulations on your progress .

[54321]

Wow! You two are a pair of hotwifing naturals. Congratulations.

54321

[avid fan]

Thanks for the story, which I've just caught up on. Looking forward to how things progress.

Out of curiousity, have there been any post sex difficulties with guilty conscience etc?? I've heard a lot of wives have some second thoughts once the deed is done and she has a 'clear head'? Sounds like things are going swimmingly thus far!

[leggysman]

Thanks for the story, which I've just caught up on. Looking forward to how things progress.

Out of curiousity, have there been any post sex difficulties with guilty conscience etc?? I've heard a lot of wives have some second thoughts once the deed is done and she has a 'clear head'? Sounds like things are going swimmingly thus far!

Thanks for your interest and feedback :-)

I read your question to S (@leggysandy) and added, "I think you'd say no -- no guilty feelings at all!" She replied, "No, I'm having fun!"

That said, we did hit some bumps in the road early last week that can be attributed to New Relationship Energy. I started to feel (with good reason, I think) like I was being shut out, and I told S it was making me miserable. We had a good talk, and reaffirmed that we should be partners in crime. In it together.

Part of what came of that talk -- and it was S who said it first, on this occasion -- is that it might be better if she wasn't so focused on this one guy. It seems pretty well documented here in various stories that, as a new hotwife, it's possible to go a bit "first love" with your first new lover.

So this is where things start to get even more interesting. I think we're going to have to assign her first lover a name. He's A, like me, but I'd rather use names than an alphabet of suitors. Let's call her current guy Anthony. We are still very much looking forward to her second hotel date with Anthony this Thursday, and hopefully more to come. S thinks that after she's been alone with him several times, and once I've become more accustomed, she'll have me join them for a threesome (though I honestly think that will be the *easiest* one for me). Can't wait!!!

Recall that I said she has a bit of a waiting list, whom she'd been telling that she's 'taken' for the time being. That's not the case any more. In fact, new names have been added to the list, and she is actively setting up dates with them ("because I can!!!"). I'll hold off detailing things for the time being, but suffice to say that she may meet new guys this week/weekend, and next week. She would probably have gone out with someone last night, if any of them had been available. In theory they're just meet-and-greet drinks, but S has a glint in her eye. I think she might escalate some of these dates, if they begin well and it feels right.

Tonight we were making out, and preparing to head into the bedroom, and she whispered, "I want to fuck them all. Do you want me to fuck them all?" Reader: affirmative. The sex that followed was very heated!

As I told S tonight: I always knew she was awesome, but even I am amazed. How lucky am I? My wife is a superstar. Look out boys, here she comes!

[Her number1]

Thanks for the story, which I've just caught up on. Looking forward to how things progress.

Out of curiousity, have there been any post sex difficulties with guilty conscience etc?? I've heard a lot of wives have some second thoughts once the deed is done and she has a 'clear head'? Sounds like things are going swimmingly thus far!

Thanks for your interest and feedback :-)

I read your question to S (@leggysandy) and added, "I think you'd say no -- no guilty feelings at all!" She replied, "No, I'm having fun!"

That said, we did hit some bumps in the road early last week that can be attributed to New Relationship Energy. I started to feel (with good reason, I think) like I was being shut out, and I told S it was making me miserable. We had a good talk, and reaffirmed that we should be partners in crime. In it together.

Part of what came of that talk -- and it was S who said it first, on this occasion -- is that it might be better if she wasn't so focused on this one guy. It seems pretty well documented here in various stories that, as a new hotwife, it's possible to go a bit "first love" with your first new lover.

So this is where things start to get even more interesting. I think we're going to have to assign her first lover a name. He's A, like me, but I'd rather use names than an alphabet of suitors. Let's call her current guy Anthony. We are still very much looking forward to her second hotel date with Anthony this Thursday, and hopefully more to come. S thinks that after she's been alone with him several times, and once I've become more accustomed, she'll have me join them for a threesome (though I honestly think that will be the *easiest* one for me). Can't wait!!!

Recall that I said she has a bit of a waiting list, whom she'd been telling that she's 'taken' for the time being. That's not the case any more. In fact, new names have been added to the list, and she is actively setting up dates with them ("because I can!!!"). I'll hold off detailing things for the time being, but suffice to say that she may meet new guys this week/weekend, and next week. She would probably have gone out with someone last night, if any of them had been available. In theory they're just meet-and-greet drinks, but S has a glint in her eye. I think she might escalate some of these dates, if they begin well and it feels right.

Tonight we were making out, and preparing to head into the bedroom, and she whispered, "I want to fuck them all. Do you want me to fuck them all?" Reader: affirmative. The sex that followed was very heated!

As I told S tonight: I always knew she was awesome, but even I am amazed. How lucky am I? My wife is a superstar. Look out boys, here she comes!

Some things for us hotwife husbands can be worrisome, especially early on in the journey, but you and Leggysandy have handled it spot on. You knew to, and had the sense/courage to, talk to her about your feelings, and........ she had the good judgment and love to reassure you.
A "Well Done" to both of you.

Others out there, This is how it's supposed to work!

[leggysman]

Some things for us hotwife husbands can be worrisome, especially early on in the journey, but you and Leggysandy have handled it spot on. You knew to, and had the sense/courage to, talk to her about your feelings, and........ she had the good judgment and love to reassure you.
A "Well Done" to both of you.

Others out there, This is how it's supposed to work!

Thank you for that reassurance, Her number1. We agreed that we're learning as we go -- no blame or fault here, just learning. And hopefully, a lot of fun. I really think we'll be good at this!

[leggysman]

One more tidbit from tonight. As things were heating up, she asked me

"Would you rather be in a threesome with me, or watch me in a threesome?"

This second idea has been mentioned before, a couple of times. I asked

"Do I really have to choose?!?"

"Yes"

arrrgh

[kaskap79]

Choose watching a threesome and later join them in a foursome.

[regular3]

What a delicious dilema.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

That said, we did hit some bumps in the road early last week that can be attributed to New Relationship Energy. I started to feel (with good reason, I think) like I was being shut out, and I told S it was making me miserable. We had a good talk, and reaffirmed that we should be partners in crime. In it together.

Part of what came of that talk -- and it was S who said it first, on this occasion -- is that it might be better if she wasn't so focused on this one guy. It seems pretty well documented here in various stories that, as a new hotwife, it's possible to go a bit "first love" with your first new lover.

A lot of guys are fine (and maybe even prefer) waiting at home while their girl goes out. We experimented a few times with that recipe and it was fun in its own way, but not nearly as fulfilling as sharing the live experience together. I think once you start joining the festivities (as witness or participant) any feelings of being left out or a lesser priority will disappear.

[leggysman]

Choose watching a threesome and later join them in a foursome.

You sir, might be an evil genius of the most agreeable sort

A lot of guys are fine (and maybe even prefer) waiting at home while their girl goes out. We experimented a few times with that recipe and it was fun in its own way, but not nearly as fulfilling as sharing the live experience together. I think once you start joining the festivities (as witness or participant) any feelings of being left out or a lesser priority will disappear.

Being left out of the sex part doesn't bother me, and indeed I find it erotic. I'm more than happy to greet her when she comes home! Also, she doesn't share (or even fully understand - yet?) my sharing kink, although she's getting pretty good at pushing my buttons with the things she says and does.

For her part, I think she's just horny and wants to have sex with new guy(s). We've acknowledged that we're both getting something different out of this, even as we enjoy it together. So, solo seems to suit us both. But then there's her threesome fantasy, which, yum!

[Johng1953]

One more tidbit from tonight. As things were heating up, she asked me

"Would you rather be in a threesome with me, or watch me in a threesome?"

This second idea has been mentioned before, a couple of times. I asked

"Do I really have to choose?!?"

"Yes"

arrrgh

Depends on how much of a cuckold experience you want. Watching is more on the cuckold side. As I tend towards the cuckold side myself, that's not a judgement, merely an observation.

[leggysman]

She's video-chatting with one of her prospective new guys now. They started messaging a few weeks ago. Just now he wanted to 'meet' me. He seems friendly! It was kind of cool but also vaguely awkward. I think it would be less awkward if they had already been together, but as of now, he and I don't have that much to talk about (...yet!). Better to leave them to it :-D

[glassfull]

You could tell him what she likes, what turns her on. And dislikes she has, if any. Also that you are with the situation 100% and looking forward to talking again after he has been with her. I'm pleased to hear Sandy is planning on seeing more men, I think that's very healthy and I think you (leggysman) will like that too. If there's any chemistry, I think Sandy will fuck on the first meeting, which I think happily married women should do.

I've done threesomes with my lady both watching and joining, but she's also gone out regularly on her own which I find just as exciting. And dating usually can be more flexible so she gets laid by more men, more often!

[leggysman]

This guy she was doing the video call with, he's D. We'll call him Dante. He lives on the continent, but visits regularly. They are expecting to meet up in November. S is pretty sure that this first date will escalate - she really likes him and they've been chatting for a while.

Depends on how much of a cuckold experience you want. Watching is more on the cuckold side. As I tend towards the cuckold side myself, that's not a judgement, merely an observation.

I don't think I'd feel humiliation or anything like that. I don't personally crave any of the 'cuckold' trappings at all.

For as long as we've been a couple, I've really only ever watched porn where the woman is a plausible stand-in for my S; petite brunette, smaller chest, great legs, etc. Usually fairly sensual scenes with a fair helping of full body shots, kissing, etc., in addition to the legs-on-shoulders fucking (the porn that's more "for women" ) All I want to do is fantasize that it's my wife in that scene, with that guy. I've visualized it so many times, that watching her for real, in person, would be the amazing. Best porn ever.

But in the meantime I'll settle for any pics, or video, or just her description!


BTW, I chose "participate"


But there's more. She's having a drink with J tomorrow, whom we'll call Jake. He's naughty. She won't have sex with him tomorrow (she's saving herself for Anthony on Thursday), but he has instructed her that she must wear a dress with no panties. And that he's going to check. If it's a good date they might meet again this weekend... stay tuned! I know I am!

[RemMb36+]

So
Can't wait to hear your report.

[Jamesparis]

Amazing journey. And thank you for letting us ‘participate’ through the forum.

[Jamesparis]

The other night I typed up a bit of a sexual user manual for my wife, and she sent it to him. It seems like they both enjoyed that, and I look forward to hearing about him using some of my tips to make my girl come hard, with his cock inside her.

What an amazing idea. Is that manual something that can be shared here? Would be very curious.

Hope you have lots of fun tonight with her meet with J! And the big repeat coming tomorrow. Will be watching closely here.

[leggysman]

What an amazing idea. Is that manual something that can be shared here? Would be very curious.

Haha! Ok. Feels weird, since I wrote it specifically for Anthony, but she's OK with me posting it.

Bit of backstory: S comes a lot. She's been doing it since she was in preschool. But, she can only come in a specific way (believe me, I've tried my best in other ways). She must clench her thighs together, and basically has to use her own hand(s). On the plus side, she can - and does - do this discreetly nearly anywhere. Even at preschool

When we first met, she would lie back and I would mouth-fuck her while she got herself off (she loves a cock in her mouth). We now call this the "old way" and it works well when she's feeling hot and bothered and naughty.

What follows is the newer way we figured out, and do most often:

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How to help [S] come the "new way" :-)

As she lies on her tummy, with her legs out straight behind her, and her arms under her, enter her from a straddling position.

I like to warm her up with 20-30s of fucking, then stop. Let her start to rub her pussy, with your torso upright (gives her the best angle of your cock inside her).

Go in as deep as you can and stay there (I can go all the way in, your mileage may vary!). As she rubs herself, her gorgeous little bum will move up and down, and you should grind/thrust opposite her movements. Use your hands to help her; get creative! I squeeze her butt, or hold her hips, or use my hand up and down her back with a bit of light scratching, or grip her shoulder, or reach back and massage her thigh/leg. But no spanking! Talking dirty can help as well. Of course lately I'm mostly talking about you fucking her. ;-)

She will stop every minute or two for a breather. When she does, give her 10-20s of nice, dominating fucking. Maybe some faster in-and-out, maybe some hard deep thrusting. For this I usually change from the upright straddling position a bit -- e.g. lying down on her, putting my hands around her throat and/or forehead, kissing her hard on her neck, shoulder, cheek, etc.

It doesn't take her long to come this way. I always encourage her to delay, enjoy, take as much time as she wants.

You'll know when she's coming -- from her body language, and she'll vocalize it. At that moment I try not do distract her; just staying still or giving her a bit of slow, gentle movement/thrusting.

I love it this way, feeling her come with my cock inside her is great.

(and, please do share with me any new variations/innovations you're successful with!)

Good luck! Let's do this! Let's get my girl coming with both of us inside her in the same night!

[BDJ]

Wow, that's good advice for anyone intent on pleasing a woman. And any man who is lucky enough to take your place will benefit from reading it first. The plus for her is that, even before he starts that way, she is already in a state of high arousal just from the novelty of the moment...a new man to fuck her, a differently shaped (and maybe larger) cock taking your place there. Those thoughts while that new cock is filling her up should give her some incredible orgasms!

Thanks for sharing that...and her experiences as a hotwife. I'm sure everyone greatly appreciates it.

BDJ

[Jonbinks1]

Really nice journey guys. Looking forward for her next date. And may she send more sexy pics to you. A's cock is a unit and doubt she'll meet many like that.