MrBear wrote:Nope, wasn't me. I don't even have AIM. There's another user with a similar name, though- maybe it ws him?
Yup, wasn't you, sorry! Hope the small description below is sufficient. If anything feel free to PM me as I dont wanna make this thread go off topic.
Do what? Own apartment with the bf? How does that work? Do they actually live together? OR is it a place they rent to met up for sex to cancel out on the cost of hotel visits and such because they see each other so often? Do explain the reason behind it.... I can't say I'd understand the need for it if he lives close and your apartment/house is near by.. Is it his apartment he rents to see her??? Alot of cheaters will buy a "summer home" or a "flat" near work and tell the wife it's so they don't have to drive home if they have to go back to work so soon.. That makes more sense. What's the reason?mrs_palmetto wrote:ucaneffher wrote: This is not counting her getting her own apartment with her boyfriend.
Yes they did actually live together....Well this was back in 2007 when we decided we kind of wanted to try kinkier stuff with our relationship. At that time she was dating this guy for 4-5 months while she was still living here and he had recently graduated and was ready for a job, only problem was that he lived out in the open so he moved in the city and asked her if she wanted to get an apartment with him. She agreed and shortly they were officially dating and living as a couple.
Eventually after everyone found out she was moving in with another guy (which was her bf for 4-5 months in secret) she told everyone it was her new boyfriend and we were taking a break and she wanted to date around for a while. She lived in that apartment for a year, however they only lasted a few months together and he moved out. She's been living with me for the last year. I thought it was real hot knowing every night she slept with him, had sex with him, and was officially "his" girl.
Everyone knew they were dating except her parents and mine. They were exclusive with the exception of her sneaking out a few times while he was working nights. He thought I was the EX lol. After they broke up, she decided to keep the apartment to herself and continue playing single and dating other men. She had guys spending the night with her on a weekly basis. There were times where I'd come over unannounced and when I'd call her to open the door she'd tell me she was "busy" so even though I had keys to the apartment I usually called ahead when I wanted to come over to make sure I didn't end up making some random guy jump out the window. It was a different experience. I would definitely be open to try it again except this time having her and her bf last a little longer than a month or two. I'd recommend it for those who have a very solid and trusting relationship.
Hope that answered your questions and then some. Sorry for the long boring post