"he does less jerking off than 'edging'."
This is interesting to me. I have often wondered about David's - er - "interest" in the topic of your love for frequently fucking guys with big black cocks.
He posts about his reactions often. Sometimes he seems to be aroused by it - sometimes a bit distressed. And sometimes, which is incredible to me, sort of indifferent.
You mentioned "tantra" and I am wondering if the "edging" is related to semen retention practices or some kind of effort to be more disciplined and mindful with respect to his sexual feelings as they come and go.
Of course, for the many years I have been following your adventures, I have envisioned what I would do* when you returned home from "seeing" (as you say) a guy with a large black cock.
Any enlightenment you or David would be willing to share on the general topic of David's disposition towards your exploits nowadays would be very welcome. It has been some years and is always, as Mrs Bubba and I know, a work in progress.
You two have been very generous in sharing your evolution in the lifestyle, for which I and many others here are truly grateful.
Best as always,
Bubbajack
*(Very briefly, it would involve seriously fucking your hotwife bad girl naughty mommy used mouth and pussy - I don't think you do anal - but if he got to do you that way, I would too.

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