It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[gulfcpl]

I agree that Superman needs to learn that lesson but do you really think he will learn that from our hero, Mr. Husband? I think he is more likely to learn the opposite of that lesson here. (Quoted from another reply)

He needs to learn a lesson? Again, not knocking Lana but she’s the one that let him her home.

Another poster stated that he needs to be more careful when playing with a married woman.

This could all be true if Lana’s husband didn’t know but he does.

The problem with all these hypotheticals is that Superman was lead to believe from the get go that she was just a cheating wife. Now they are having to backtrack to come up with a story to teach Superman a lesson. This is absurd.

The best thing is to let Superman know that her husband knew everything from the start. Get it out in the open and let them have fun again. Even if you never watch, it’s still a thrill.

I’m not trying to be the morality police here but telling the truth is always a lot easier in the long run.

My advice, you both go Superman and tell him that you were aware of this tryst and that it has been wonderful. Then if they want to continue, husband needs to decide about watching or not. The arrangement they had was perfect. Everyone got what they wanted.

[w770]

She is defiantly wanting to play with him more and she is wanting you to watch, we have to consider that the push to have you in the know might be her desire. This is not a bad thing she is just going with what excites her and she doesn't want to just tell you out right, seems she will do what ever makes you both happy but she wants you to want to watch her.

She is giving you plenty of hints as to what it is she wants. I am starting to think Lana is the one wanting this more so then superman. She is a good wife though she wants to tease you into doing it how she wants it and a big part of that seems to be she knows (thinks) you will get the most pleasure from that as well. Like I have said my wife and I do it both ways but she much prefers I am there to wtch and join.

Great post, it's the impression I get too. Lana seems to be getting even more than Superman out of this arrangement and is definitely the one driving it forward, she wants to be the one pushing the boundaries further and further. She knows in order to fulfill her newly found erotic desires without damaging her marriage, she needs to find ways of bringing her enthusiastic and encouraging husband with her, to make her desires his too. She's a true cuckoldress who knows exactly what she wants.

Chris

Well, consider yourselves psychic. We just had a talk. When I first brought up my fantasy of seeing her with another guy years and years ago, she just didn't understand and frankly found it revolting. But being a loving and supportive wife, she role played along for my benefit. And as of last night, she mentioned to me that if wanted her to, she would give up not only being with Superman, but this entire experience altogether and we could put it behind us and look back at it as one crazy week. But whether it be Superman's magic cock, the NRE, the "risk" of being caught, the adventure of it all, etc., she has since become quite enamored. I asked her, "don't take any of my feelings into account, in fact, just pretend that I'm okay with whatever decision you'd make, but if it were just solely up to you, what would choose?" There was about a full minute of silence and I read her face - she really was thinking hard, but when she broke the silence, the words came out of her mouth. "I'd continue to sleep with him. And I'd want you to watch."

I told her that we're still in the first 24 hours of our pause with Superman, so lets just take it slow for now. But the momentum seems to be going in the direction of him openly cucking me. She said that it would be okay too if watching was too much for me, but if it were entirely up to her fantasy, I would be watching her with him. And him specifically, as I asked her about what happens after he leaves, and if she thinks she will want to continue. She really doesn't know and would like to focus primarily on our time now.

As naïve as this sounds, I honestly didn't see things going here, but I guess that's a part of the adventure.

Next is the issue of how we broach the subject with Superman. There seems to be a few options: Direct and straight-forward, "my husband found out, and I confessed," having me "catch" them in the act, etc. There is a lot of process which I'm sure will be the main topic of conversation for her and I over the course of the next few days.

[gulfcpl]

It would make you both feel so much better if you just have conversation with him and get it out in the open. He’s feel better. He’s wanting to continue this and now he’s feeling guilty under false pretenses.

Continue your fun. Life is short! You two are a great couple. When I’m very old, I want to regret the things I’ve done, not regret what I haven’t done. Either way, I’m sure you’ll make the right decision.

[chastity_boi]

Wow. That is an interesting development. I guess how you proceed depends to a degree on how you want the dynamic to be between the 3 of you. The staged discovery doesn't seem like a good idea to me - you and Lana may be fantastic actors but if you're not it leaves you open to discovery and putting Superman in what could be a stressful situation that has been contrived is more likely to go in a direction you're not expecting or wanting - especially if he guesses he's being played. A 3 way discussion in a neutral setting wold be more measured. You can set boundaries, limits and expectations and also feed him the narrative as to how you got to this point that you want to present in a more controlled and believable setting. Also if things go well - Lana may well blow your mind by moving across to sit next to Superman and start cozying up to him if that is what floats your boats. The sky really is the limit and with this approach you could really guide Supes to be the best Bull for both of you, fulfilling both your fantasies. Can't wait to hear how you progress.

[johnstevens555]

It would make you both feel so much better if you just have conversation with him and get it out in the open. He’s feel better. He’s wanting to continue this and now he’s feeling guilty under false pretenses.

Continue your fun. Life is short! You two are a great couple. When I’m very old, I want to regret the things I’ve done, not regret what I haven’t done. Either way, I’m sure you’ll make the right decision.

I dont think superman feels guilty at all. I wouldnt be surprised is he only sees the the text from Lana and the subsequent break (only 17-18 hours so far) as an obstacle to cross. The thing about his sending his workout schedule to avoid problems sounds like bullshit. He probably wants to come off as caring about them because he knows it is the fastest way back to his goal which is inside of Lana.

[Dharmadude]

My friend, your wife is amazing. You hit the jackpot with her.

My opinion….don’t do the “catch in the act” thing. Way too many ways it could go from there and a lot of them aren’t good. What would you two “get” out of that anyway?

Just have her text him to meet and talk. Tell him you suspected and she caved and told you everything. You both had a long talk and you are okay with them continuing. And would like to watch at some point if he’s okay with that (I suspect he will be).

Get it out in the open so everyone can have relaxed fun. Maybe when she is no longer cheating then he will lose interest. Doubtful from the mental picture you have provided but, as was discussed before, some guys aren’t as into it when that’s the case. My wife had a similar ONS.

As far as you watching. I know this is new and that first time will be some nerve racking angst but I can tell you watching my wife is still the hottest thing I have seen. Your cock will be in your hand immediately.

[mundyman]

If you decide to tell him, and truly have an ‘open’ relationship here’s an idea:
They meet at the gym, after they go out for coffee or wherever. 10 minutes after they get there you come in and you three have the conversation. Or when they get to the coffee shop you’re already there and you three have the conversation.
As you two reconnect this week, you could find out why her fantasy involves you watching but not participating……or does she have a real deep dark fantasy of you somehow being involved with getting both of them ready. As in you go down on her and get him hard with your mouth, and then place his cock at her pussy and watch him up close push it in.
Or you are both in a 69 position with her on top and Superman fucking his Lois Lane from behind while you lick her clit and his ball sack. Then when cums in her you are there to immediately clean her up.
You might say no, bbbuuuuuuuttttttt you never know and she’s really opened up, this last week. Do you really know all her deep, dark, twisted fantasies???

[KevDi69]

Her response is not unexpected. After all, she’s probably screamed his name and professed his ownership of her pussy 30 or more times during orgasms in the past week. Kudos to you for how you asked the question and kudos to Lana for her honesty.

[johnstevens555]

If you decide to tell him, and truly have an ‘open’ relationship here’s an idea:
They meet at the gym, after they go out for coffee or wherever. 10 minutes after they get there you come in and you three have the conversation. Or when they get to the coffee shop you’re already there and you three have the conversation.
As you two reconnect this week, you could find out why her fantasy involves you watching but not participating……or does she have a real deep dark fantasy of you somehow being involved with getting both of them ready. As in you go down on her and get him hard with your mouth, and then place his cock at her pussy and watch him up close push it in.
Or you are both in a 69 position with her on top and Superman fucking his Lois Lane from behind while you lick her clit and his ball sack. Then when cums in her you are there to immediately clean her up.
You might say no, bbbuuuuuuuttttttt you never know and she’s really opened up, this last week. Do you really know all her deep, dark, twisted fantasies???

It only took a week and you are trying to get a cock and/or balls in w770’s mouth. What indications have the man given that suggests he would be Ok with that?

[w770]

It would make you both feel so much better if you just have conversation with him and get it out in the open. He’s feel better. He’s wanting to continue this and now he’s feeling guilty under false pretenses.

Continue your fun. Life is short! You two are a great couple. When I’m very old, I want to regret the things I’ve done, not regret what I haven’t done. Either way, I’m sure you’ll make the right decision.

I dont think superman feels guilty at all. I wouldnt be surprised is he only sees the the text from Lana and the subsequent break (only 17-18 hours so far) as an obstacle to cross. The thing about his sending his workout schedule to avoid problems sounds like bullshit. He probably wants to come off as caring about them because he knows it is the fastest way back to his goal which is inside of Lana.

I tend to agree with this sentiment, as that was my first impression when he sent that text.

My friend, your wife is amazing. You hit the jackpot with her.

My opinion….don’t do the “catch in the act” thing. Way too many ways it could go from there and a lot of them aren’t good. What would you two “get” out of that anyway?

Just have her text him to meet and talk. Tell him you suspected and she caved and told you everything. You both had a long talk and you are okay with them continuing. And would like to watch at some point if he’s okay with that (I suspect he will be).

Get it out in the open so everyone can have relaxed fun. Maybe when she is no longer cheating then he will lose interest. Doubtful from the mental picture you have provided but, as was discussed before, some guys aren’t as into it when that’s the case. My wife had a similar ONS.

As far as you watching. I know this is new and that first time will be some nerve racking angst but I can tell you watching my wife is still the hottest thing I have seen. Your cock will be in your hand immediately.

Wow. That is an interesting development. I guess how you proceed depends to a degree on how you want the dynamic to be between the 3 of you. The staged discovery doesn't seem like a good idea to me - you and Lana may be fantastic actors but if you're not it leaves you open to discovery and putting Superman in what could be a stressful situation that has been contrived is more likely to go in a direction you're not expecting or wanting - especially if he guesses he's being played. A 3 way discussion in a neutral setting wold be more measured. You can set boundaries, limits and expectations and also feed him the narrative as to how you got to this point that you want to present in a more controlled and believable setting. Also if things go well - Lana may well blow your mind by moving across to sit next to Superman and start cozying up to him if that is what floats your boats. The sky really is the limit and with this approach you could really guide Supes to be the best Bull for both of you, fulfilling both your fantasies. Can't wait to hear how you progress.

It would make you both feel so much better if you just have conversation with him and get it out in the open. He’s feel better. He’s wanting to continue this and now he’s feeling guilty under false pretenses.

Continue your fun. Life is short! You two are a great couple. When I’m very old, I want to regret the things I’ve done, not regret what I haven’t done. Either way, I’m sure you’ll make the right decision.

So far, Lana and I have settled on a scenario where she will essentially be telling him "truths" and letting him fill in whatever blanks he has with his own assumptions. She is thinking somewhere in the realm of telling him that I came home and smelled the scent of sex in the bedroom and saw her naked on the bed, she told me everything which I had a hard time initially accepting. She will also tell him that she told me that she wants to continue having sex with him, but with one major difference, that being me watching. All of these statements are true, and he's welcome to assume what he will. She also plans to lay out any boundaries that her and I discuss over the next few days in this talk with him. She's being really understanding of how fast we're moving and has been asking me every time she comes out of the office for coffee or a bathroom break if I'm okay. I will admit this is moving quickly, and in a direction I really didn't see coming, but it is exciting nonetheless.

[Topnotch]

hi unc

[w770]

If you decide to tell him, and truly have an ‘open’ relationship here’s an idea:
They meet at the gym, after they go out for coffee or wherever. 10 minutes after they get there you come in and you three have the conversation. Or when they get to the coffee shop you’re already there and you three have the conversation.
As you two reconnect this week, you could find out why her fantasy involves you watching but not participating……or does she have a real deep dark fantasy of you somehow being involved with getting both of them ready. As in you go down on her and get him hard with your mouth, and then place his cock at her pussy and watch him up close push it in.
Or you are both in a 69 position with her on top and Superman fucking his Lois Lane from behind while you lick her clit and his ball sack. Then when cums in her you are there to immediately clean her up.
You might say no, bbbuuuuuuuttttttt you never know and she’s really opened up, this last week. Do you really know all her deep, dark, twisted fantasies???

I understand that some have this as a part of their cuckold relationship, but it's not in ours. I believe at the least, I will be listening in from the living room and at the very most I'll be in the room, watching him fuck her brains out. I've told Lana that I'm okay and also a bit turned on by slightly humiliating comments, but it stops there and won't progress into any participation.

[KevDi69]

Good luck. How soon does she plan to talk to him? I hope she gives it a few days so you can get used to the idea. Thanks for sharing.

[w770]

Good luck. How soon does she plan to talk to him? I hope she gives it a few days so you can get used to the idea. Thanks for sharing.

It depends on how the conversation goes between her and I tonight and tomorrow, but we're thinking of her reaching back out to him on Friday to see what he is doing this weekend. Not gonna lie, my stomach is twisting in knots, but in a good way. I think...

[Dharmadude]

Sounds like you two have a plan so that’s great. It would be best coming from her. Honestly I think if you are there for the talk it will be quite tense amd who knows how he’ll react. If it’s just her, well, sexy women can soothe any situation.

I doubt he gives shit one about how you feel. I’m still on the arrogant douche train, lol. He will only care about getting back into her pussy. Which is fine; it’s who he is, and what you both desire.

Allow them to go into the bedroom. You tell them you’ll be in the other room. Take a peek, watch for a few, and see how you do. If you can stand it stay and watch for awhile. If you need a break then take one.

Anything further than that, while quite the enjoyment for some if us, is far down the line. Maybe you get there, maybe not. But go slow. You guys have come a long way in a week.

[w770]

Sounds like you two have a plan so that’s great. It would be best coming from her. Honestly I think if you are there for the talk it will be quite tense amd who knows how he’ll react. If it’s just her, well, sexy women can soothe any situation.

I doubt he gives shit one about how you feel. I’m still on the arrogant douche train, lol. He will only care about getting back into her pussy. Which is fine; it’s who he is, and what you both desire.

Allow them to go into the bedroom. You tell them you’ll be in the other room. Take a peek, watch for a few, and see how you do. If you can stand it stay and watch for awhile. If you need a break then take one.

Anything further than that, while quite the enjoyment for some if us, is far down the line. Maybe you get there, maybe not. But go slow. You guys have come a long way in a week.

I agree, Lana will plan to meet him for coffee and tell him and outline the limitations. It's almost as if I can feel the heart palpitations already.

[KevDi69]

Over the next couple days you need to think long and hard about how much humiliating remarks you or Lana are willing to put up with going forward. His comments to her when they were alone verged on downright mean. Things that would be hurtful if said to you. She may have put up with them because it wasn’t to your face. He seems to have read a lot of cuckold porn and tried to act the part of a dominating bull. Whatever level of humiliation you are willing to accept may change over time but he should follow what you and Lana decide will enhance the experience.

[mundyman]

Your communication with each other is amazing!

[phoenix2020]

If you decide to tell him, and truly have an ‘open’ relationship here’s an idea:
They meet at the gym, after they go out for coffee or wherever. 10 minutes after they get there you come in and you three have the conversation. Or when they get to the coffee shop you’re already there and you three have the conversation.
As you two reconnect this week, you could find out why her fantasy involves you watching but not participating……or does she have a real deep dark fantasy of you somehow being involved with getting both of them ready. As in you go down on her and get him hard with your mouth, and then place his cock at her pussy and watch him up close push it in.
Or you are both in a 69 position with her on top and Superman fucking his Lois Lane from behind while you lick her clit and his ball sack. Then when cums in her you are there to immediately clean her up.
You might say no, bbbuuuuuuuttttttt you never know and she’s really opened up, this last week. Do you really know all her deep, dark, twisted fantasies???

I understand that some have this as a part of their cuckold relationship, but it's not in ours. I believe at the least, I will be listening in from the living room and at the very most I'll be in the room, watching him fuck her brains out. I've told Lana that I'm okay and also a bit turned on by slightly humiliating comments, but it stops there and won't progress into any participation.

Yeah, that's a little extreme for most and especially for someone just starting out. I doubt Superman would want you anywhere near his junk either. Getting you in the same apartment, let alone in the same room, will be tough enough. Plus, the humiliation factor would be way too high with that.

I still think she should say that you figured it out. Telling Superman that she told you that she loves you but needs to be fucked properly, which you can't do. That you surprisingly you agreed to an open relationship to fill her needs which you can't. This will stroke his ego and open the door for you.

[johnstevens555]

The only thing superman need to say to you is thank you W770 for letting me fuck your wife. Maybe he can mix in a “you’re a hell of a dude” if he wants too. I think the risk of losing the respect of your wife goes to a whole new level when he starts saying humiliating shit to you while he’s fucking her. I understand some people are into that and you really just have to make a choice at what you want And hope it continues to mesh with what Lana wants going forward. Sounds like guys really are still managing this well but you are at a crossroads.

[gesdell]

I have no idea what lies ahead for you but this thread hasn't even been up a month and it is already 28 pages with more to come. I haven't seen this much attention paid to a thread in a while, so you are very good with story telling and explaining your emotions about what is going on. Other OPs are almost begging for replies, and yet there are so many here. You've struck a chord with your experiences and writing about them. Don't take all of the replies seriously though, people just love to tell others what they should do.

[w770]

Over the next couple days you need to think long and hard about how much humiliating remarks you or Lana are willing to put up with going forward. His comments to her when they were alone verged on downright mean. Things that would be hurtful if said to you. She may have put up with them because it wasn’t to your face. He seems to have read a lot of cuckold porn and tried to act the part of a dominating bull. Whatever level of humiliation you are willing to accept may change over time but he should follow what you and Lana decide will enhance the experience.

I feel that as long as we keep a sense of disassociation, it's easier to maintain a sort of emotional distance from taking it personally and making it "real." And the assurance from Lana that she won't ever lose respect for me makes it feel safe to tread out to those distances that I otherwise might not be comfortable with.

If you decide to tell him, and truly have an ‘open’ relationship here’s an idea:
They meet at the gym, after they go out for coffee or wherever. 10 minutes after they get there you come in and you three have the conversation. Or when they get to the coffee shop you’re already there and you three have the conversation.
As you two reconnect this week, you could find out why her fantasy involves you watching but not participating……or does she have a real deep dark fantasy of you somehow being involved with getting both of them ready. As in you go down on her and get him hard with your mouth, and then place his cock at her pussy and watch him up close push it in.
Or you are both in a 69 position with her on top and Superman fucking his Lois Lane from behind while you lick her clit and his ball sack. Then when cums in her you are there to immediately clean her up.
You might say no, bbbuuuuuuuttttttt you never know and she’s really opened up, this last week. Do you really know all her deep, dark, twisted fantasies???

I understand that some have this as a part of their cuckold relationship, but it's not in ours. I believe at the least, I will be listening in from the living room and at the very most I'll be in the room, watching him fuck her brains out. I've told Lana that I'm okay and also a bit turned on by slightly humiliating comments, but it stops there and won't progress into any participation.

Yeah, that's a little extreme for most and especially for someone just starting out. I doubt Superman would want you anywhere near his junk either. Getting you in the same apartment, let alone in the same room, will be tough enough. Plus, the humiliation factor would be way too high with that.

I still think she should say that you figured it out. Telling Superman that she told you that she loves you but needs to be fucked properly, which you can't do. That you surprisingly you agreed to an open relationship to fill her needs which you can't. This will stroke his ego and open the door for you.

The progression is a bit surprising to me as each step of the way seems overwhelming at first and then it seems relatively mild upon reflection. So who knows where we'll be in a week's time given that this time last week he was just thrusting into Lana for the first time

[w770]

The only thing superman need to say to you is thank you W770 for letting me fuck your wife. Maybe he can mix in a “you’re a hell of a dude” if he wants too. I think the risk of losing the respect of your wife goes to a whole new level when he starts saying humiliating shit to you while he’s fucking her. I understand some people are into that and you really just have to make a choice at what you want And hope it continues to mesh with what Lana wants going forward. Sounds like guys really are still managing this well but you are at a crossroads.

The plan is to actually have very little to zero communication between me and him. I figure that the less I say, the more he can assume and fill in the details of the extent of what I know, what I think of him, what I think of them etc.

[w770]

I have no idea what lies ahead for you but this thread hasn't even been up a month and it is already 28 pages with more to come. I haven't seen this much attention paid to a thread in a while, so you are very good with story telling and explaining your emotions about what is going on. Other OPs are almost begging for replies, and yet there are so many here. You've struck a chord with your experiences and writing about them. Don't take all of the replies seriously though, people just love to tell others what they should do.

While I don't take everything said seriously, I think everyone has something of value to bring with their input as it seems like most people here have more experience than myself and Lana. On top of that, a lot of people's assumptions here have been correct so it's only smart to listen what everyone has to say.

[phoenix2020]

Maybe I missed it...but what changed her mind about cucking you? Yes, I'm going back to the start