It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[wantingfun]

I'd like to suggest a gradual approach into cuckolding over several days:

Lana lets Superman know that you were starting to suspect something. That freaked her out and she knew she had to cool it for a while, and that seemed to work, as your suspicions have died down. Still, she desperately wants to see Superman and is "addicted" to his cock. She has not been "fucked like that for a long time", especially after she married you. She tells him that you have great qualities as a husband and she would never leave you, but sex with him is so tempting.

Later, Lana tells him that she tested you by telling you about a dream she had about you and another woman, and it was hot. However, you turned the tables and told her that it would be hotter if she was with another guy. Then, after a day or two, she tells Superman that that fantasy has progressed to the point that you asked her who her dream fuck would be. She mulled it over for a while, and mentioned a guy at her work who lives very far away (in order to make it seem impossible to accomplish), and then you asked "who would you do around here"? And Lana replied with the name of one of your co-workers, which was a total turn-off for you. And then she innocently suggested Superman in order to gauge your response. You thought about it for a bit (because that's so close to home!), and you asked her, "is he your type, really?" And she replied, "well, in fantasy he definitely could be my type".

And then over the next few days, the fantasy could progress into reality. This approach would preserve the cheating wife history so you don't have to come clean with him, and you could write the script totally as you wish. You have enough time to accomplish a lot of cuckolding before he leaves, but this will also keep you in control of the situation. I would also figure out a way to make him keep his mouth shut going forward, because your jobs are way more important than a cuckolding fantasy. Once the cheating wife charade is dropped, he has little reason to not brag to everyone.

[w770]

I'd like to suggest a gradual approach into cuckolding over several days:

Lana lets Superman know that you were starting to suspect something. That freaked her out and she knew she had to cool it for a while, and that seemed to work, as your suspicions have died down. Still, she desperately wants to see Superman and is "addicted" to his cock. She has not been "fucked like that for a long time", especially after she married you. She tells him that you have great qualities as a husband and she would never leave you, but sex with him is so tempting.

Later, Lana tells him that she tested you by telling you about a dream she had about you and another woman, and it was hot. However, you turned the tables and told her that it would be hotter if she was with another guy. Then, after a day or two, she tells Superman that that fantasy has progressed to the point that you asked her who her dream fuck would be. She mulled it over for a while, and mentioned a guy at her work who lives very far away (in order to make it seem impossible to accomplish), and then you asked "who would you do around here"? And Lana replied with the name of one of your co-workers, which was a total turn-off for you. And then she innocently suggested Superman in order to gauge your response. You thought about it for a bit (because that's so close to home!), and you asked her, "is he your type, really?" And she replied, "well, in fantasy he definitely could be my type".

And then over the next few days, the fantasy could progress into reality. This approach would preserve the cheating wife history so you don't have to come clean with him, and you could write the script totally as you wish. You have enough time to accomplish a lot of cuckolding before he leaves, but this will also keep you in control of the situation. I would also figure out a way to make him keep his mouth shut going forward, because your jobs are way more important than a cuckolding fantasy. Once the cheating wife charade is dropped, he has little reason to not brag to everyone.

I'm going to go ahead and mention your idea to Lana. I understand what you're getting at though in regards to preserving certain elements to maintain a plausible cover story so I'll keep it in the queue. Thanks!

Maybe I missed it...but what changed her mind about cucking you? Yes, I'm going back to the start

It kinda came on fast. Spontaneous afternoon sex today. Lana ended up fantasizing about Superman, I admitted to her that it's hot imagining a scenario where I'm watching them fuck, and it kinda progressed from there. We're thinking of this weekend but there are still a lot of details to hammer out and time to see if we feel the same in a matter of days, seeing how quickly things have progressed already.

[Jujube]

I think the easiest way to broach the subject is for Lana to tell Superman that she thinks you have cuckold tendencies, and that you have told her in the past about fantasies about her with other men. Then she can say “let me work on him”. Then they can basically “start over”. She can invite him over and flirt mightily with him, sitting beside him on the couch, touchy-feely sort of stuff that most hubbies would take exception to.. but you don’t… Tell her to give him a lingering kiss when he leaves. With no objections from you, he will get bolder, and be none the wiser how much you knew about the preceding week.After a few evenings like that, he will undoubtedly seduce your wife in front of you. She will lead him into your bedroom, but you stay behind. After that, you two can open up to him about boundaries, desires, and whatever. This avoids the awkwardness of going to meet him and laying out on the line.There are other variations to this, but it’s like the previous week is your secret, and they can pretend it’s beginning in real time. What do you think?

[Texas Jack]

It kinda came on fast. Spontaneous afternoon sex today. Lana ended up fantasizing about Superman, I admitted to her that it's hot imagining a scenario where I'm watching them fuck, and it kinda progressed from there.

I would LOVE to hear the details of how that conversation went, if you're amenable to sharing that!

[whenwillshe]

It would make you both feel so much better if you just have conversation with him and get it out in the open. He’s feel better. He’s wanting to continue this and now he’s feeling guilty under false pretenses.

Continue your fun. Life is short! You two are a great couple. When I’m very old, I want to regret the things I’ve done, not regret what I haven’t done. Either way, I’m sure you’ll make the right decision.

I'm with him.
Seems likely he knows or suspects that you know and would get off on helping you please her.
If he isn't on board, he is leaving soon anyway.
Consider if it is time to raise the bar for all 3 of you.
It is really all about pleasure for all but especially Lana.

[Oasis94]

I wonder if he has admitted yet that he knows that you know.

He just asked her, "what would your husband do if he walked in and saw us right now?"

then I heard her say, "I'm not sure. Why?"

"It might be funny, right?"

I couldn't hear the rest as the audio wasn't clear.

This made me feel physically sick. The further I get into this thread the more i fucking hate this guy. To start it's an amazing story and you tell it so well there's times I've even held my breath but page by page warning signs appear over and over. It might be funny to destroy your marriage in his mind.... I'm only on page 20 but i hop by the time i get to 29 he has been kicked into touch.

[mundyman]

Over the next couple days you need to think long and hard about how much humiliating remarks you or Lana are willing to put up with going forward. His comments to her when they were alone verged on downright mean. Things that would be hurtful if said to you. She may have put up with them because it wasn’t to your face. He seems to have read a lot of cuckold porn and tried to act the part of a dominating bull. Whatever level of humiliation you are willing to accept may change over time but he should follow what you and Lana decide will enhance the experience.

I feel that as long as we keep a sense of disassociation, it's easier to maintain a sort of emotional distance from taking it personally and making it "real." And the assurance from Lana that she won't ever lose respect for me makes it feel safe to tread out to those distances that I otherwise might not be comfortable with.

If you decide to tell him, and truly have an ‘open’ relationship here’s an idea:
They meet at the gym, after they go out for coffee or wherever. 10 minutes after they get there you come in and you three have the conversation. Or when they get to the coffee shop you’re already there and you three have the conversation.
As you two reconnect this week, you could find out why her fantasy involves you watching but not participating……or does she have a real deep dark fantasy of you somehow being involved with getting both of them ready. As in you go down on her and get him hard with your mouth, and then place his cock at her pussy and watch him up close push it in.
Or you are both in a 69 position with her on top and Superman fucking his Lois Lane from behind while you lick her clit and his ball sack. Then when cums in her you are there to immediately clean her up.
You might say no, bbbuuuuuuuttttttt you never know and she’s really opened up, this last week. Do you really know all her deep, dark, twisted fantasies???

I understand that some have this as a part of their cuckold relationship, but it's not in ours. I believe at the least, I will be listening in from the living room and at the very most I'll be in the room, watching him fuck her brains out. I've told Lana that I'm okay and also a bit turned on by slightly humiliating comments, but it stops there and won't progress into any participation.

Yeah, that's a little extreme for most and especially for someone just starting out. I doubt Superman would want you anywhere near his junk either. Getting you in the same apartment, let alone in the same room, will be tough enough. Plus, the humiliation factor would be way too high with that.

I still think she should say that you figured it out. Telling Superman that she told you that she loves you but needs to be fucked properly, which you can't do. That you surprisingly you agreed to an open relationship to fill her needs which you can't. This will stroke his ego and open the door for you.

The progression is a bit surprising to me as each step of the way seems overwhelming at first and then it seems relatively mild upon reflection. So who knows where we'll be in a week's time given that this time last week he was just thrusting into Lana for the first time

My post above references Lana and the potential deep, dark fantasies she might have about W participating. She went from no to yes, then to Holy Fuck he has the best cock and this is the best sex I’ve ever had, to I want you to watch us while he fucks me into his senseless fuckdoll, to ………maybe some of the things I mentioned.
No hate towards Lana or W intended. But usually where’s there smoke there’s fire and I was hypothesizing where her fantasies might lead to.

[hubudig2]

I've been visiting this forum for a long while but this thread is so hot it made me register.
I'm not a cuck however, the stories/situations turn me on from a bull perspective.

No I have not tasted his cum and I'm not sure I ever will because I don't know if that really appeals to me, no judgement on those that do.

Have you considered whether she might enjoy it though? Especially if she's sore after.
I've always been intrigued about creampie cleanup, I've always heard that women have mindblowing orgasms from it and wondered why that might be.
It made me wonder if my wife would react the same way, why would she be any different?
Before a few weeks ago, if I had suggested it to her there's no way she would allow it, she would've said she was disgusted by the idea and would've sworn she would hate it.
I also wouldn't want to do it but was so curious how she would react.
So a couple of weeks ago at the end of a normal fuck session where she'd cum a few times, a couple of them intense, I faked cumming into her.
After waiting about 10-20 seconds like we normally would before pulling out, I quickly restrained her legs and went down on her.
She was confused for a second but proceeded to go into a "mindblowing" orgasm, I couldn't believe it, it was true!
After allowing her to finish cumming, I admitted I had faked it to find out if she would react how I'd heard she might.
She was gutted and confused. She agreed she would've never let me try it if I had asked and confused why she enjoyed it so much.
For the next week I tried to pluck up the courage to do it for real until a week later I did.
I managed to not actually lick any cum but it had the same result and she loved it.
Now she wants to try snowballing

Sorry, I'm not trying to hijack the thread, just wanted to share something, hoping it might be useful.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum hubudig2. All the hype about the taste is just that. It is pretty tastless but what a turn on and just enough taste to give her lips something really special after she swallows.

[phoenix2020]

I've been visiting this forum for a long while but this thread is so hot it made me register.
I'm not a cuck however, the stories/situations turn me on from a bull perspective.

No I have not tasted his cum and I'm not sure I ever will because I don't know if that really appeals to me, no judgement on those that do.

Have you considered whether she might enjoy it though? Especially if she's sore after.
I've always been intrigued about creampie cleanup, I've always heard that women have mindblowing orgasms from it and wondered why that might be.
It made me wonder if my wife would react the same way, why would she be any different?
Before a few weeks ago, if I had suggested it to her there's no way she would allow it, she would've said she was disgusted by the idea and would've sworn she would hate it.
I also wouldn't want to do it but was so curious how she would react.
So a couple of weeks ago at the end of a normal fuck session where she'd cum a few times, a couple of them intense, I faked cumming into her.
After waiting about 10-20 seconds like we normally would before pulling out, I quickly restrained her legs and went down on her.
She was confused for a second but proceeded to go into a "mindblowing" orgasm, I couldn't believe it, it was true!
After allowing her to finish cumming, I admitted I had faked it to find out if she would react how I'd heard she might.
She was gutted and confused. She agreed she would've never let me try it if I had asked and confused why she enjoyed it so much.
For the next week I tried to pluck up the courage to do it for real until a week later I did.
I managed to not actually lick any cum but it had the same result and she loved it.
Now she wants to try snowballing

Sorry, I'm not trying to hijack the thread, just wanted to share something, hoping it might be useful.

Reminds me of the first time I went down on my wife after I came in her. I wasn't looking to cleanup anything, but I fully noticed that she was purposely pushing the load out with her vaginal muscles. She wanted that load in my mouth, and yes she came really hard. I didn't mention that I knew until years later and she got a devilish grin on her face about it. So yes, I would say that eating a cream-pie seems to be a huge turn-on for a woman. I can only imagine what it would do to her if it was her future lover's cum.

I cum hard thinking about cleanup now, but like most I lose the urge to do so after I cum. I can only imagine how hot it would be if I was still in the pre-nut frenzy zone.

[w770]

Over the next couple days you need to think long and hard about how much humiliating remarks you or Lana are willing to put up with going forward. His comments to her when they were alone verged on downright mean. Things that would be hurtful if said to you. She may have put up with them because it wasn’t to your face. He seems to have read a lot of cuckold porn and tried to act the part of a dominating bull. Whatever level of humiliation you are willing to accept may change over time but he should follow what you and Lana decide will enhance the experience.

I feel that as long as we keep a sense of disassociation, it's easier to maintain a sort of emotional distance from taking it personally and making it "real." And the assurance from Lana that she won't ever lose respect for me makes it feel safe to tread out to those distances that I otherwise might not be comfortable with.

I understand that some have this as a part of their cuckold relationship, but it's not in ours. I believe at the least, I will be listening in from the living room and at the very most I'll be in the room, watching him fuck her brains out. I've told Lana that I'm okay and also a bit turned on by slightly humiliating comments, but it stops there and won't progress into any participation.

Yeah, that's a little extreme for most and especially for someone just starting out. I doubt Superman would want you anywhere near his junk either. Getting you in the same apartment, let alone in the same room, will be tough enough. Plus, the humiliation factor would be way too high with that.

I still think she should say that you figured it out. Telling Superman that she told you that she loves you but needs to be fucked properly, which you can't do. That you surprisingly you agreed to an open relationship to fill her needs which you can't. This will stroke his ego and open the door for you.

The progression is a bit surprising to me as each step of the way seems overwhelming at first and then it seems relatively mild upon reflection. So who knows where we'll be in a week's time given that this time last week he was just thrusting into Lana for the first time

My post above references Lana and the potential deep, dark fantasies she might have about W participating. She went from no to yes, then to Holy Fuck he has the best cock and this is the best sex I’ve ever had, to I want you to watch us while he fucks me into his senseless fuckdoll, to ………maybe some of the things I mentioned.
No hate towards Lana or W intended. But usually where’s there smoke there’s fire and I was hypothesizing where her fantasies might lead to.

I honestly don't think that she's had a plan to push me towards some fantasy that she's not told me about, however I have been wrong in this experience already. But her and I stress the importance of good communication and I feel that the fact that it turns her on having me watch is a relativity new discovery for her.

I've been visiting this forum for a long while but this thread is so hot it made me register.
I'm not a cuck however, the stories/situations turn me on from a bull perspective.

No I have not tasted his cum and I'm not sure I ever will because I don't know if that really appeals to me, no judgement on those that do.

Have you considered whether she might enjoy it though? Especially if she's sore after.
I've always been intrigued about creampie cleanup, I've always heard that women have mindblowing orgasms from it and wondered why that might be.
It made me wonder if my wife would react the same way, why would she be any different?
Before a few weeks ago, if I had suggested it to her there's no way she would allow it, she would've said she was disgusted by the idea and would've sworn she would hate it.
I also wouldn't want to do it but was so curious how she would react.
So a couple of weeks ago at the end of a normal fuck session where she'd cum a few times, a couple of them intense, I faked cumming into her.
After waiting about 10-20 seconds like we normally would before pulling out, I quickly restrained her legs and went down on her.
She was confused for a second but proceeded to go into a "mindblowing" orgasm, I couldn't believe it, it was true!
After allowing her to finish cumming, I admitted I had faked it to find out if she would react how I'd heard she might.
She was gutted and confused. She agreed she would've never let me try it if I had asked and confused why she enjoyed it so much.
For the next week I tried to pluck up the courage to do it for real until a week later I did.
I managed to not actually lick any cum but it had the same result and she loved it.
Now she wants to try snowballing

Sorry, I'm not trying to hijack the thread, just wanted to share something, hoping it might be useful.

Reminds me of the first time I went down on my wife after I came in her. I wasn't looking to cleanup anything, but I fully noticed that she was purposely pushing the load out with her vaginal muscles. She wanted that load in my mouth, and yes she came really hard. I didn't mention that I knew until years later and she got a devilish grin on her face about it. So yes, I would say that eating a cream-pie seems to be a huge turn-on for a woman. I can only imagine what it would do to her if it was her future lover's cum.

I cum hard thinking about cleanup now, but like most I lose the urge to do so after I cum. I can only imagine how hot it would be if I was still in the pre-nut frenzy zone.

This is interesting. I've never considered doing this as it's never been something that appealed to me, however, if you both are saying that it's a method to give a woman a mind blowing orgasm, I'm intrigued. Is it accurate to say that it's a mental thing?

Update: Her period just came on and so there's no sex. However, she loves to give me a blowjob during the 3 days she bleeds and this morning was no different. I think we all have the ability more or less to read our partners after being with them for years and I could tell that she was thinking of him while she was sucking my dick. So I knew that as soon as I broached the subject, the floodgates would open and she would freely speak her mind. "You know I'm fine if you still fantasize of him, right? It's okay." "I'm thinking about his cock, baby....." The talk progressed towards how she loves how absolutely massive it is, how she never knew that she could cum so hard, the feeling completely submitting to him, etc. I told her to show me how she sucked his cock in our bed the other day and she proceeded to trace the tip of her tongue and move it from the base of my shaft to the head, stroke it with her hand before putting me entirely in her mouth. I asked her if it turned her on thinking about me watching her and me moaned "mmmhmm....." I didn't make it beyond that point and exploded in her mouth.

In other news, it looks like Superman has dropped his nice guy act where he says, "I respect your decision to work on your marriage" to sending Lana a picture of his desk setup, his computer opened up to his remote classes with her red panties that she gave him next to it. "Thinking about how sexy you looked in these..."

[hubudig2]

This is interesting. I've never considered doing this as it's never been something that appealed to me, however, if you both are saying that it's a method to give a woman a mind blowing orgasm, I'm intrigued. Is it accurate to say that it's a mental thing?

It has to be because I made a point of going down on her before I faked cumming and it was a normal/pleasurable response but 30 seconds later when she thought I had cum in her it was a crazy orgasmic one.
I would definitely recommend it as something to try, you might just get hooked on how she reacts to it.
Also it's probably easier if it's someone else's because you're still horned up but I can't confirm that.

[w770]

I've been visiting this forum for a long while but this thread is so hot it made me register.
I'm not a cuck however, the stories/situations turn me on from a bull perspective.

From a Bull perspective, can you shed light on the difference between the husband watching, not watching and not knowing? There are a lot of differing views here (which I appreciate all varying opinions) but it would be interesting to know what Superman may or may not be thinking from where you sit.

[chastity_boi]

Sounds like super Douche is back. Clearly his cock is overriding his brain as per. It sounds like you guys are beginning to explore what you both want from this. Have you discussed or set hard and soft limits for when you have the conversation with Supes so he doesn't overstep the mark? IE - things you're happy to freely explore, things you are willing to try and push the boundaries of and hard NO's, as in if you do this or go there the whole deal is off. I think given what a prick this guy can be if you don't set limits, he'll set his own and that could end in a shit show.

[w770]

Sounds like super Douche is back. Clearly his cock is overriding his brain as per. It sounds like you guys are beginning to explore what you both want from this. Have you discussed or set hard and soft limits for when you have the conversation with Supes so he doesn't overstep the mark? IE - things you're happy to freely explore, things you are willing to try and push the boundaries of and hard NO's, as in if you do this or go there the whole deal is off. I think given what a prick this guy can be if you don't set limits, he'll set his own and that could end in a shit show.

Oh yeah, Super Douche is back and in a big way. She hasn't responded to any of his texts (over 10 at this point), but that hasn't deterred him. He sent her a text late last night saying "Happy 1 week anniversary!"

Lana and I have discussed boundaries if we actually move forward with him on what can and can't be said, a hard stop on me participating, and any other deal breakers. But yeah, you're right that it's necessary with a guy like him.

[hubudig2]

I've been visiting this forum for a long while but this thread is so hot it made me register.
I'm not a cuck however, the stories/situations turn me on from a bull perspective.

From a Bull perspective, can you shed light on the difference between the husband watching, not watching and not knowing? There are a lot of differing views here (which I appreciate all varying opinions) but it would be interesting to know what Superman may or may not be thinking from where you sit.

I imagine every bull and situation would be different but if it were me at his age...
Sneaking around might be fun at first but I think that got boring once he realised he could have Lana whenever he wanted. It was easy and no risk as far as he was concerned, it would be far more fun to actively push the limits of getting caught because he doesn't fear what you might do and there's no long term consequences.
Ultimately I would want you to watch. I'd want you to be in awe of what I can make your wife do and feel. I'd want you to enjoy watching as she submits to me in ways you've never seen her do and make her enjoy sex in ways you can never do for her. I'd also get a kick out of how humiliating it would be for you. Personally I'd want to see you express your love to her by holding hands, kissing, going down on her, cleaning up etc. I imagine she would want you to do those same things to put her at ease and so she knows you approve. Fucking a woman while the guy that she means everything to watches is hot as fuck.
If you were aware but not watching, I'd want to find ways to do all the same things but by leaving evidence, reminders and having her make my sexual pleasure her #1 priority. I'd want you to have to plan around her having sex with me. I'd want to get in your head as much as possible which might lead to more sneaking around and you being a bit more out of the loop and out of control.

Don't hate me for putting myself in his shoes lol.
I'm not saying this is what I would do now but what I think I would've done at that age and in his situation.

[Wifesharing]

Yeah you have to consider that she has fantasies as well and that they might not fully align up with yours. It is possible like you that she never knew she had them you yourself have admitted that there are things about this that turn you on that you never considered. I believe this has happened to all of us i know it has for me.

None of this is bad it is not her hiding things from you but it appears she desires and has fantasies some of which revolve around you being fully cuckolded and watching, it may be that she sees this as the best way to get what she wants most his big cock, but I think she also knows it will enhance the it for her and you. I am thinking that Superman's actions have planted seeds for her but I think she is the one that really want the you there fantasy.

You need to decide if you also want to go there and if that is something you can handle and then discuss with your wife, this could be a great ride. Also since for the next three days only Blow jobs are on the table maybe watching that is a better place to start .

[StandingO1984]

Sounds like super Douche is back. Clearly his cock is overriding his brain as per. It sounds like you guys are beginning to explore what you both want from this. Have you discussed or set hard and soft limits for when you have the conversation with Supes so he doesn't overstep the mark? IE - things you're happy to freely explore, things you are willing to try and push the boundaries of and hard NO's, as in if you do this or go there the whole deal is off. I think given what a prick this guy can be if you don't set limits, he'll set his own and that could end in a shit show.

Oh yeah, Super Douche is back and in a big way. She hasn't responded to any of his texts (over 10 at this point), but that hasn't deterred him. He sent her a text late last night saying "Happy 1 week anniversary!"

Lana and I have discussed boundaries if we actually move forward with him on what can and can't be said, a hard stop on me participating, and any other deal breakers. But yeah, you're right that it's necessary with a guy like him.

Does Lana say you can’t participate or is that more you? Is the door permanently closed to giving her an MFM, for example, a spitroast?

[w770]

Yeah you have to consider that she has fantasies as well and that they might not fully align up with yours. It is possible like you that she never knew she had them you yourself have admitted that there are things about this that turn you on that you never considered. I believe this has happened to all of us i know it has for me.

None of this is bad it is not her hiding things from you but it appears she desires and has fantasies some of which revolve around you being fully cuckolded and watching, it may be that she sees this as the best way to get what she wants most his big cock, but I think she also knows it will enhance the it for her and you. I am thinking that Superman's actions have planted seeds for her but I think she is the one that really want the you there fantasy.

You need to decide if you also want to go there and if that is something you can handle and then discuss with your wife, this could be a great ride. Also since for the next three days only Blow jobs are on the table maybe watching that is a better place to start .

You make a lot of really good points. I think she has developed a fantasy of me watching them fuck very recently as a result of Superman bringing it out of her. And that's a great idea of maybe watching her blow him instead of the entire act.

I know it sounds stupid, but I'm really intimidated by Lana seeing my dick compared to his cock at the same time. It's no secret that he's MUCH bigger than me, but I think the difference in size will be even more stark if she sees both simultaneously. It's part of the reason why I'm apprehensive of watching them, because I don't know if I'll be able to resist touching myself if I were to see it happening right in front of me.

[w770]

Sounds like super Douche is back. Clearly his cock is overriding his brain as per. It sounds like you guys are beginning to explore what you both want from this. Have you discussed or set hard and soft limits for when you have the conversation with Supes so he doesn't overstep the mark? IE - things you're happy to freely explore, things you are willing to try and push the boundaries of and hard NO's, as in if you do this or go there the whole deal is off. I think given what a prick this guy can be if you don't set limits, he'll set his own and that could end in a shit show.

Oh yeah, Super Douche is back and in a big way. She hasn't responded to any of his texts (over 10 at this point), but that hasn't deterred him. He sent her a text late last night saying "Happy 1 week anniversary!"

Lana and I have discussed boundaries if we actually move forward with him on what can and can't be said, a hard stop on me participating, and any other deal breakers. But yeah, you're right that it's necessary with a guy like him.

Does Lana say you can’t participate or is that more you? Is the door permanently closed to giving her an MFM, for example, a spitroast?

It's more of my own boundary. I don't want to participate in ways such as stroking him to get him ready for her, guiding his cock into her or anything like that. I'm also not really into the idea of a MFM because I think the difference in his size, performance and stamina will be too obvious and I have hard time overcoming that insecurity, especially after hearing how much louder she is with him and how he's able to effortlessly make her have mind blowing orgasms.

[Wifesharing]

Oh you should touch yourself while watching she needs to know you get off on it, my wife always says one of the reasons the guys seem better at making her cum is that she is actually pleasing me and the other guy at the same time she said knowing I am getting off on it excites her and actually makes the other guy better.

Also don't worry about the comparing size thing trust me she already does that and in the head the difference is even more then in real life there is not turning that back. I have a fairly good sized cock but the idea of being her biggest has long since sailed.

[gulfcpl]

Sounds like super Douche is back. Clearly his cock is overriding his brain as per. It sounds like you guys are beginning to explore what you both want from this. Have you discussed or set hard and soft limits for when you have the conversation with Supes so he doesn't overstep the mark? IE - things you're happy to freely explore, things you are willing to try and push the boundaries of and hard NO's, as in if you do this or go there the whole deal is off. I think given what a prick this guy can be if you don't set limits, he'll set his own and that could end in a shit show.

Oh yeah, Super Douche is back and in a big way. She hasn't responded to any of his texts (over 10 at this point), but that hasn't deterred him. He sent her a text late last night saying "Happy 1 week anniversary!"

Lana and I have discussed boundaries if we actually move forward with him on what can and can't be said, a hard stop on me participating, and any other deal breakers. But yeah, you're right that it's necessary with a guy like him.

Does Lana say you can’t participate or is that more you? Is the door permanently closed to giving her an MFM, for example, a spitroast?

It's more of my own boundary. I don't want to participate in ways such as stroking him to get him ready for her, guiding his cock into her or anything like that. I'm also not really into the idea of a MFM because I think the difference in his size, performance and stamina will be too obvious and I have hard time overcoming that insecurity, especially after hearing how much louder she is with him and how he's able to effortlessly make her have mind blowing orgasms.

I had the same insecurity but over time, I turned it into a turn on that I couldn’t possibly satisfy her. Having the other guy see my small cock actually now excites me. Just another twist.

[w770]

Oh you should touch yourself while watching she needs to know you get off on it, my wife always says one of the reasons the guys seem better at making her cum is that she is actually pleasing me and the other guy at the same time she said knowing I am getting off on it excites her and actually makes the other guy better.

Also don't worry about the comparing size thing trust me she already does that and in the head the difference is even more then in real life there is not turning that back. I have a fairly good sized cock but the idea of being her biggest has long since sailed.

Oh yeah, Super Douche is back and in a big way. She hasn't responded to any of his texts (over 10 at this point), but that hasn't deterred him. He sent her a text late last night saying "Happy 1 week anniversary!"

Lana and I have discussed boundaries if we actually move forward with him on what can and can't be said, a hard stop on me participating, and any other deal breakers. But yeah, you're right that it's necessary with a guy like him.

Does Lana say you can’t participate or is that more you? Is the door permanently closed to giving her an MFM, for example, a spitroast?

It's more of my own boundary. I don't want to participate in ways such as stroking him to get him ready for her, guiding his cock into her or anything like that. I'm also not really into the idea of a MFM because I think the difference in his size, performance and stamina will be too obvious and I have hard time overcoming that insecurity, especially after hearing how much louder she is with him and how he's able to effortlessly make her have mind blowing orgasms.

I had the same insecurity but over time, I turned it into a turn on that I couldn’t possibly satisfy her. Having the other guy see my small cock actually now excites me. Just another twist.

Thanks guys. My saving grace was always the emotional connection with Lana so my thoughts rationalized it thinking, "so what if he can fuck her brains out and make her entire body shake with an earth shattering orgasm that she's never felt before? At least I can make tender love to her." But I think in the moment, while she's spasming on his giant cock and looking over to see me stroke my considerably smaller dick, she's not going to be thinking about how much she wants to be making love to and re-establishing any emotional connection with me, especially as she's screaming at the top of her lungs how much he owns her pussy. I'll mention this to her later, and I'm sure she'll tell me it's nothing to be concerned about, but I know it will still linger for me.

[FadermanL20]

Hello, all. Long time lurker (10+ years) inspired to join the forum because of this thread. Not a cuck, and don't have a hotwife. Flirted with swinging a couple of times, but it fizzled. Several girls I knew in High School were involved in gangbangs-I never participated, but I knew the girls and developed a real fascination in women acting slutty.

Some thoughts.

You are going to want to watch at some point. I think that's why you started this in the beginning. You've already listened in real time. Seeing your wife as your favorite porn star will be one of your life's highlights. I think all the ups and downs will be worth it. I think you'll regret it if you miss this opportunity. I'd definitely consider pics or video, because this isn't going to last forever.

HE, on the other hand, is going to blast right through whatever boundaries you set for him. You need to be ready.
My suggestion: He's an accessory. Treat him as such. As soon as he shoots, hand him his clothes and show him the door if (when) he mis-behaves.

Is it remotely possible that he's reading this thread?

Women can have liposuction, they can make their boobs bigger, they wear makeup and heels. There are all kinds of enhancements available for women. There's no realistic way to make your cock bigger. None of us can. The Men that are blessed with this trait have hit the lottery.

Other than the spank marks, has he left any other marks on her? Hickies, bite marks?

How did she feel when she got out from under his desk after giving him a semi-public blowjob? I'll bet she was secretly very turned on. Would she consider giving some thoughts on how to give great head? Psychological aspects, etc?

When you witness and experience this first hand, this is going to go from incredibly hot to Supernova hot.

If not a 2 on 1 situation, how about you guys taking turns on her? You get her while he's in his refractory period and vice versa.

I think she's developed a real taste for this lifestyle; like someone else noted, the switch has been flipped. No going back.

Enjoy this. To quote Hunter Thompson, you've bought the ticket, now enjoy the ride.

[gulfcpl]

Maybe at the outset of watching, you can remain dressed to avoid the comparison aspect. As you become more comfortable with watching, then you can decide if visually making the comparison works for you.