It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[Wifesharing]

I hope this really helps you accept that this is a very fun game of roles you are playing. Lana li es you and her your connection is solid.

She my crave and love the sex he can deliver and the showing off for you but she has demonstrated she will choose you and your life over that drug that is a beautiful thing

I always say this hotwife/cuckold stuff will make a good marriage better and a bad marriage worse. It should never be done to try a save a already troubled marriage but a good solid marriage with communication like yours it can be a very good source of exciting energy

[mundyman]

I’m really happy for you two.
Whatever path you two take it really sounds like Lana is totally committed to you and you to her.
Have fun and continued good luck!!

[hubudig2]

I'm assuming she knows it hurts you to hear how they were bordering on making love?
Does she now feel it may have been a mistake to go down there when he messaged her? Or does she just see it as something she's grateful for you letting her enjoy?
How did she feel about the creampie eating and what made her feed it to you?
Had you discussed that you might do it beforehand?
How did she feel about it then compared to when it was imminent?
What were the most enjoyable and arousing parts of the experience for you? And for her if you know.
How did she feel about being forced by Shawn to tell you things as he fucked her? You made it sound like she tried to resist saying those things.

It's interesting that Shawn thinks she's going to keep secrets between them from you.
Maybe because he thought she was keeping their "cheating" a secret before and thinks he is the one she's being open and honest with, not you.
Not cool though.

[mundyman]

So, was Lana in bed with you this morning when you got up??

[w770]

I hope this really helps you accept that this is a very fun game of roles you are playing. Lana li es you and her your connection is solid.

She my crave and love the sex he can deliver and the showing off for you but she has demonstrated she will choose you and your life over that drug that is a beautiful thing

I always say this hotwife/cuckold stuff will make a good marriage better and a bad marriage worse. It should never be done to try a save a already troubled marriage but a good solid marriage with communication like yours it can be a very good source of exciting energy

Right, in a way I'm really glad that it took this long to get here because maybe we weren't ready as a couple to go to these places when I first brought it up. I always attributed it to her, but now that you put it like that, maybe it was subconsciously a referendum on us as a couple.

I'm assuming she knows it hurts you to hear how they were bordering on making love?
Does she now feel it may have been a mistake to go down there when he messaged her? Or does she just see it as something she's grateful for you letting her enjoy?
How did she feel about the creampie eating and what made her feed it to you?
Had you discussed that you might do it beforehand?
How did she feel about it then compared to when it was imminent?
What were the most enjoyable and arousing parts of the experience for you? And for her if you know.
How did she feel about being forced by Shawn to tell you things as he fucked her? You made it sound like she tried to resist saying those things.

It's interesting that Shawn thinks she's going to keep secrets between them from you.
Maybe because he thought she was keeping their "cheating" a secret before and thinks he is the one she's being open and honest with, not you.
Not cool though.

She said that she felt regret in how she described it as love making, when she really was just trying to draw out the contrast of their aggressive and energetic raw fucking from earlier in the night. But she says that she never meant to imply that it was anything like what we do.

It's interesting, we haven't really discussed the creampie eating in much detail and in a way, I feel like it boosts the excitement behind it as it's more primal and less of a coordinated act if that makes any sense. However, she did say that something does take over her when I'm eating her pussy after Shawn's been in her, something that she really can't explain the reasoning behind.

I think for me, it was actually seeing her have the most earth shattering orgasms I've ever seen her have, even if I wasn't the one giving it to you. Perhaps the orgasm she had when she was riding him as she confirmed that she didn't know I was in the room at that point, so I know that it was genuine and less performative for my sake, not to say that her other orgasms weren't as "real," but I think you know what I mean.

She said that her favorite part was she looked in my eyes while she was in doggy. Even if she was being made to admit to be in that moment that he fucks her better than me, she says that she did feel more connected to me in that moment. Her initial reluctance to make those admissions, according to her, was her last bit of reserve in maintaining some semblance of control. But as soon as she did, she remembered that ultimately this was an act for both of us and our sex life.

And yeah, Shawn is an idiot to think that there can be secrets between them that she won't tell me. Big cock, small brain.

So, was Lana in bed with you this morning when you got up??

She was. I tend to get up rather early, maybe around 5 to start working out, and by time I'm done, she's just waking up with the dogs, and then she goes to the gym, where she is now. She made no mention of meeting Shawn there and said that she'll be home around the regular time. In all likelihood, she will "cheat" on me after the gym, and I fully anticipate her telling me at the most random moment in the coming days or weeks.

[hubudig2]

She was. I tend to get up rather early, maybe around 5 to start working out, and by time I'm done, she's just waking up with the dogs, and then she goes to the gym, where she is now. She made no mention of meeting Shawn there and said that she'll be home around the regular time. In all likelihood, she will "cheat" on me after the gym, and I fully anticipate her telling me at the most random moment in the coming days or weeks.

Do you think you will be able to tell?
Won't she be eager to have you reclaim her in some way?

[SixInchDick]

Does Lana have some sort of sexy Christmas outfit she can wear for you guys? I'm thinking like a red plaid skirt, christmas hat, white shirt, stockings? Just something super cute and seductive but festive?

[w770]

She was. I tend to get up rather early, maybe around 5 to start working out, and by time I'm done, she's just waking up with the dogs, and then she goes to the gym, where she is now. She made no mention of meeting Shawn there and said that she'll be home around the regular time. In all likelihood, she will "cheat" on me after the gym, and I fully anticipate her telling me at the most random moment in the coming days or weeks.

Do you think you will be able to tell?
Won't she be eager to have you reclaim her in some way?

You know, I'm not really sure. I guess it depends on the urgency she feels for me to reclaim. It'll be obvious if after the gym or a dog walk, she rushes me into the bedroom to eat her out, but it'll be interesting to say the least in watching this play out.

Does Lana have some sort of sexy Christmas outfit she can wear for you guys? I'm thinking like a red plaid skirt, christmas hat, white shirt, stockings? Just something super cute and seductive but festive?

Actually yes, as Shawn's Christmas gift, she plans to wear a short red/green plaid skirt with white fuzzy lining and a cute Santa hat and black heels for him. I don't know if she's decided on when to "give" it to him, but I imagine sometime this week.

[Libertine_Lark]

If you, like my wife Anna, thoroughly enjoyed the singular hotwife experience from your past and harbored a genuine (albeit dormant) interest in trying it again, what advice would you give a loving and very willing husband?ple, we didn’t explore a fraction of what you have. Your level of resilience in this adventure is admirable.

Lastly and as it relates to Shawn’s sexual prowess, I’m skeptical that any chemical high (NRE) can last much beyond six months. The real gift we stag, hotwife, or cuckold husbands give our wives is novelty. Something new and exciting. What they give us back is the vicarious experience (compersion). Maybe we are particularly empathic or, as your Lana noted. selfless. I don’t know. I do know for sure, though, that giving this freedom to our wives pays huge dividends in the bedroom and brings us closer together as couples. The benefits are real.

Again, enjoy the ride!

Will

[Libertine_Lark]

I like the addition of “cheating” to this equation, as it allows for the prospect of her being with him at any moment — which in turn provides you the constant endorphin drip. Nice.

Separately, I admire where you and Lana have progressed and in such a short period of time. Further to the endorphin comment above, that will prove a difficult high to replicate once Shawn departs for California (i.e., the addiction is real). I speak from experience here and, as more of a hotwife couple, we didn’t explore a fraction of what you have. Your level of resilience in this adventure is admirable.

Lastly and as it relates to Shawn’s sexual prowess, I’m skeptical that any chemical high (NRE) can last much beyond six months. The real gift we stag, hotwife, or cuckold husbands give our wives is novelty. Something new and exciting. What they give us back is the vicarious experience (compersion). Maybe we are particularly empathic or, as your Lana noted. selfless. I don’t know. I do know for sure, though, that giving this freedom to our wives pays huge dividends in the bedroom and brings us closer together as couples. The benefits are real.

Again, enjoy the ride!

Will

[Libertine_Lark]

Apologies. Two different posts (from two separate threads) somehow got meshed together above. Please disregard the first post. The second post seems fine. Maybe a moderator can remove the first of those two postings. Thanks!

[w770]

I like the addition of “cheating” to this equation, as it allows for the prospect of her being with him at any moment — which in turn provides you the constant endorphin drip. Nice.

Separately, I admire where you and Lana have progressed and in such a short period of time. Further to the endorphin comment above, that will prove a difficult high to replicate once Shawn departs for California (i.e., the addiction is real). I speak from experience here and, as more of a hotwife couple, we didn’t explore a fraction of what you have. Your level of resilience in this adventure is admirable.

Lastly and as it relates to Shawn’s sexual prowess, I’m skeptical that any chemical high (NRE) can last much beyond six months. The real gift we stag, hotwife, or cuckold husbands give our wives is novelty. Something new and exciting. What they give us back is the vicarious experience (compersion). Maybe we are particularly empathic or, as your Lana noted. selfless. I don’t know. I do know for sure, though, that giving this freedom to our wives pays huge dividends in the bedroom and brings us closer together as couples. The benefits are real.

Again, enjoy the ride!

Will

It's a bit difficult to offer advice as I don't want to hold myself out as someone who engineered patiently a situation that encompasses everyone's needs and desires. It really was a perfect storm of circumstances of Shawn being physically exactly what Lana likes in a guy, a short and defined time period of him being here, close physical proximity, and undeniable sexual chemistry between the two of them.

I agree that the cheating angle allows for a constant stream of potential arousal as instead of planning around the next time they'll fuck, either in his bed or ours, the idea is always looming so much so that even the most common errands like running to the store, walking the dogs, going for a walk to call my friends or family, even falling asleep, etc., every one of them has potential for being another moment where Shawn's cock is thrusting deep inside Lana's tight pussy.

She should be back from the gym in a few minutes. It looks like a pretty standard week for us except for Friday, where we both have off from work and there's the party, which I'm unsure of whether I'll be attending or not.

[Wifesharing]

Yeah the Party could be exciting however I think if I was in that situation I would have to skip it I would actually have both of us skip it

I know that it is likely you and Lana will both go as it is the path you are on and wanting and there is nothing wrong with that there is no right or wrong in this.

For me this party is more for him then you and Lana. Is it going to be intense and sexy oh hell yes I can’t wait to hear about it but it is definitely something I would not do personally.

[w770]

Yeah the Party could be exciting however I think if I was in that situation I would have to skip it I would actually have both of us skip it

I know that it is likely you and Lana will both go as it is the path you are on and wanting and there is nothing wrong with that there is no right or wrong in this.

For me this party is more for him then you and Lana. Is it going to be intense and sexy oh hell yes I can’t wait to hear about it but it is definitely something I would not do personally.

Can I ask you why you wouldn't go? Any perspective would be appreciated. I'm fully expecting that if we go, we'll be getting odd glances all night, and if it gets too overwhelming, I can always just leave and I'll be home in less than a minute. I know it's been about 36 hours, but I'm still feeling a bit rattled and intimidated all stemming from Shawn's staring on Saturday night and I don't really know how it will impact my general ability to interact with him and his friends.

[whenwillshe]

To me the party really is part of the humiliation aspect that Shawn is driving and I think he is likely to raise thst bar.
Are you ready for everyone in the building to know what is going on?
That seems to be an unintended consequence of the party.
In that case, when Shawn goes west, you are still the neighborhood cuck.
Maybe better to pick dinner and a show.

[slenderfish]

I'm thinking ahead of possibilities once Shawn is gone. Perhaps these may inform how you proceed, including the party. Some initial paths:

- He finds reasons to visit his parents and needs a place to stay. Your place?

- He requests Lana visit him and at some point keeps her for a bit longer than planned

- He transitions Lana to one of his friends for while he's away (this is the one I'm thinking may be a party consideration)

- He changes his plans and stays

Just wondering out loud, since he seems to believe at this point he can pretty much do anything (which is probably true).

[w770]

To me the party really is part of the humiliation aspect that Shawn is driving and I think he is likely to raise thst bar.
Are you ready for everyone in the building to know what is going on?
That seems to be an unintended consequence of the party.
In that case, when Shawn goes west, you are still the neighborhood cuck.
Maybe better to pick dinner and a show.

Well to be fair, I think it will just be his friends and their girlfriends, so no one from the building. Of his friends, I think only one of them lives nearby (about 15 min away) whereas everyone else is about 30-45 minutes away. Plus, they all are around maybe 10-15 years younger than me, so I don't think it's too likely that our paths will cross in the future, and even if they do, it will be sparse. But I do agree that given his propensity towards humiliation, it's expected that he will flaunt his relationship with Lana in front of everyone at the party as a way of bragging and also to taunt me.

I'm thinking ahead of possibilities once Shawn is gone. Perhaps these may inform how you proceed, including the party. Some initial paths:

- He finds reasons to visit his parents and needs a place to stay. Your place?

- He requests Lana visit him and at some point keeps her for a bit longer than planned

- He transitions Lana to one of his friends for while he's away (this is the one I'm thinking may be a party consideration)

- He changes his plans and stays

Just wondering out loud, since he seems to believe at this point he can pretty much do anything (which is probably true).

We really haven't thought that far ahead, but if he does come back in the summer to visit his parents, my guess is that it would be more likely that Lana and him get a hotel room, as there are a number of nice hotels right in the area we live.

I'm not entirely sure if Lana would go all the way out to California to see him because flying terrifies her, although we do travel out to the west coast every so often, and if we're an earshot away, I could see it happening.

I'm not sure if Lana would want to be with any of his friends, but I'll keep an eye on how she interacts with everyone at the party if I muster up the courage to go.

I think it's unlikely that he will change plans and stay as the logistics don't really line up. He has some schooling program to get back to in California, his parents will be back soon, he will have had to start looking for apartments already, etc.

Slight Update: She came back from the gym earlier, gave me a long hug and kiss, told me that she needed to jump in the shower and start work. She gave me a flirty smile before heading to her bathroom, which all but confirmed that she was just with Shawn. I can't wait for her to pick the moment she randomly "confesses."

[Long Lurker 34]

W770 - After the dust has settled from Shawn departing and the, at that point roughly six weeks of, I'm going to call it affair, seems to me your wife is due for a vacation at a nice resort with great beaches and lots of eye candy. For both of you.

[falzar]

You"re livng my dream man. I do have some cuck experience but limited and some time ago. For selfish reasons, I really hope you and Lana both go to the party. I find the humiliation aspect of being in a social setting with your wife and her bull/lover (whichever you prefer) and his "in-the know" friends totally off the charts. As you say, you have a quick and easy escape route. How it may go is not predictable which is part of the excitment. But, of course, you and Lana must decide what is best for you as a couple.

[Magellanic29]

Hello, long time lurker and wannabe. I'm glad to still see everything is going good for you. It's refreshing to see a couple that is honest about things. I've read way to many post about couples that aren't honest with each other and...I'm sure everyone can guess what happens because of it. I hope things keep going good for you and hope you end up going to the party. I'm curious about one thing how would you feel if he was the first to take her ass?

[Wifesharing]

Yeah the Party could be exciting however I think if I was in that situation I would have to skip it I would actually have both of us skip it

I know that it is likely you and Lana will both go as it is the path you are on and wanting and there is nothing wrong with that there is no right or wrong in this.

For me this party is more for him then you and Lana. Is it going to be intense and sexy oh hell yes I can’t wait to hear about it but it is definitely something I would not do personally.

Can I ask you why you wouldn't go? Any perspective would be appreciated. I'm fully expecting that if we go, we'll be getting odd glances all night, and if it gets too overwhelming, I can always just leave and I'll be home in less than a minute. I know it's been about 36 hours, but I'm still feeling a bit rattled and intimidated all stemming from Shawn's staring on Saturday night and I don't really know how it will impact my general ability to interact with him and his friends.

For me personally it just would not be my seen. For you, you do seem to crave a ever more intense level of humiliation and if that is what you want then you should for sure go. I am finding it hard to articulate why i wouldn't go and why i wouldn't want my wife to go. I would be against it, please remember this is my reasons and how you decide to proceed is not right or wrong just right or wrong for you and only you can figure that out.

The party setting would be to much unknown for me it is all his friends and not yours if the guest were more neutral I would consider going but a party or people 15 years my junior and all his friends and in the know just not my thing. You both really have done a great job of planning and discussing how things will go sure there are things that don't go fully to plan but you two have been in control , this party is not something that fits that part of your previous planning. I guess the biggest thing for us, is this is about her and I, it doesn't matter what others think and what the other men think it is her and I, he is getting the pleasure to have sex with my wife, I would not be interested in going to a party that appears to be more about him showing off to his friends at your expense, your going to be viewed as the cuck and worse she is going to the older married slut. This can be hot, but in this setting that you are talking about to me my gut would be to choose to skip that for both of us. Again I am sorry i can't really articulate why I just think this feels too much like something for him and you two are props.

I am by no means saying that you shouldn't do it, I actually think you are going to do it and I think everyone has to make their own choices as to what they want. Like said above for selfish reasons I want you two to go I want to read the hot story.

[Dharmadude]

The party is tricky. I have no problem with flirting in front of me. I would be okay with her fucking him right in front of me. Myself, and anyone else there could watch and it would be hot. If she so chose, more could join in and I would be there to shut it down if it went beyond her comfort level.

Like I said before, I’m not into the humiliation aspect so that would have been pre-determined and “shouldn’t “ be an issue.

You enjoy that aspect and, IMO, the humiliation will be off the charts. Not only because some or all of them know, but his personality, and lack of respect for you, will embolden him to push it. To what level? I think anything is on the table with this guy. From kissing, feeling her up, all the way to making her blow him or having some join in.

If you can handle it, I think you should go. You will get that charge from the experience plus you will be there to keep Lana from going past her limits.

IMO you should discuss what her limits are with honesty and no judgement. You have stated here some of her limits/desires but, as you have said many times, things are different now and they may have changed. You might not get another opportunity like this so you both should explore it to its fullest.

I know it seems like I have pushed this angle, and maybe my pervy nature influences it which is a fair assessment, but I believe in experiences and having no regrets so when opportunities arise then take them.

[SixInchDick]

Part of me can't shake the feeling that you should just walk away from this crazy lifestyle before something bad happens. I'm sorry, I just can't help it. Your wife seems so amazing, I just don't want you to get hurt. At the same time, I also realize that Shawn is merely just a fantasy played out in real life. The young man with the ideal looks AND penis, which is a rare combination. The only quality time they really have is at the gym and that's hardly the definition of quality time. Otherwise, their time together is just intense physical pleasure which is not the same as day to day emotional bonding and back story. So, I'm torn. It's clearly none of my business, just my thoughts.

If I imagine the roles reversed, where you get the same experience with a perfect-looking female like Elizabeth Hurley, then would you fall for her solely based on the sex? Don't answer that we are men, so the answer would more than likely be yes. Women aren't usually wired that way though.

[hiki]

Slight Update: She came back from the gym earlier, gave me a long hug and kiss, told me that she needed to jump in the shower and start work. She gave me a flirty smile before heading to her bathroom, which all but confirmed that she was just with Shawn. I can't wait for her to pick the moment she randomly "confesses."

OMG you have amazing self control. I understand you want to let the 'cheating game' play out but how the heck can you resist jumping her bones in a situation like this?

[johnstevens555]

Yeah the Party could be exciting however I think if I was in that situation I would have to skip it I would actually have both of us skip it

I know that it is likely you and Lana will both go as it is the path you are on and wanting and there is nothing wrong with that there is no right or wrong in this.

For me this party is more for him then you and Lana. Is it going to be intense and sexy oh hell yes I can’t wait to hear about it but it is definitely something I would not do personally.

Can I ask you why you wouldn't go? Any perspective would be appreciated. I'm fully expecting that if we go, we'll be getting odd glances all night, and if it gets too overwhelming, I can always just leave and I'll be home in less than a minute. I know it's been about 36 hours, but I'm still feeling a bit rattled and intimidated all stemming from Shawn's staring on Saturday night and I don't really know how it will impact my general ability to interact with him and his friends.

I think you should try to wrap your head around the fact that this is what you want to be doing and not something that you’re ashamed of or being forced into. It’s something that gives you and your wife great pleasure and you’re using Shawn to do it. If you can wrap your head around that maybe then you will be able to carry yourself with confidence at the party. Fuck Sean and fuck those people at the party. Be willing to talk about it since everyone knows anyway. A lot of people have kinks in you and your wife have the balls to act on them. I don’t think the party has to be humiliating at all.