It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[william70]

Speaking about who may or may not know. Does anyone remember 6 digress of separation? Six degrees of separation is the theory that any person on the planet can be connected to any other person on the planet through a chain of acquaintances that has no more than five intermediaries.

[mundyman]

One word of caution about the party is that you can't assume that you are in control of how it plays out and S-man has proven that he enjoys going for the jugular. He could easily say that he and his beefy friends will allow you to depart once you've performed fluffing duties. If you want to poke your head in and be introduced before kissing her good night, maybe.

I think you should go to the party (I would), but just be ready that it will likely go in unexpected ways. Just so many variables in that situation.

Also remember that Shawn is a Neanderthal in his development, and therefore likely surrounds himself with similar friends. They will all assume that Lana is a slut and that you are a wimp and that she is open for anything. They will look to Shawn for social cues, and restrain themselves accordingly. But when he's gone, it'll all be different. So this will set the stage for when he's gone, with respect to these friends of his.

I just know the one friend that was over for the WC a few Saturday's ago and he's the same type of behemoth that Shawn is. Lana saw the others on the Zoom call that one morning and said they all looked like they were one big soccer team. All of them fit, all of them bros, which is fine because me and my friends are very much about fitness too. We're just not the beer cracking bros that they seem to be. The party is going to be an intimidating environment I think. I'll be impressed if I can last there for longer than an hour.

It would be the neighborly thing on Saturday for Lana to go to Shawn’s early and help him setup for the party. Of course as his bro-friends arrive with their GFs she would have that flushed face and just fucked hair look as she greets and meets.
And even have Shawn’s cum running down her leg since he took her panties and wouldn’t let her clean up.

[mundyman]

I wonder if his bro-friends GFs are bimbo slutty types or the hardcore fitness chicks? After all Lana jumps into Shawns bed rather easily, so maybe she’ll have more in common with the GFs than you think.

[w770]

Then she flashed me that same flirty smile from earlier in the day. She definitely opened her legs for him today, but is saving the story for later... This woman...

So hot! You're living the dream, man!

It's been the best rollercoaster so far.

I'm with w770 in that I think the party will be interesting for him as he tries to read the reactions of everyone. It's not a given that everyone at the party will be in the know. Also secondly, unless Supes is a complete A-hole (which, don't get me wrong, given his previous may very well come to pass) he's not going to necessarily want to come across as a complete douche bag to all of his friends and their collective girlfriends by blatantly rubbing W770's nose in Lana's infidelity too publicly. From the behavior he's shown he likes to be bold but also seems to get off on the subterfuge involved in taking another man's wife. I think a quick blowjob in the toilet, or gradual incursion into Lana's personal space, with the occasional knowing wink or smile to one of his Zoom buddies is most likely. Also when in a social situation face to face many of these guys will be pretty intimidated themselves to say anything that's too out there to someone they've just met. Again their girl friends may very well be ignorant of the subplot that is being played out and it's pretty difficult to blatantly belittle a stranger without coming off as a complete jerk so I don't think it will be quite as dramatic as some on this thread seem to think. Don't get me wrong though, for w770, Lana and Shawn the sexual tension will be unbelievable and I daresay W's cuckold angst will be in overdrive. As the evening progresses things may get more interesting but I imagine that will be as people start to drift off home. I'm very much doubting that W770 will be fluffing a queue of 20 something Jocks as Lana pulls a train, but I'm guessing there may be the odd comments, knowing look between guests and points where Shawn and Lana go AWOL for slightly too long that will get W770's heart racing and cock hardening.

I also think that this is the best prediction of what the party will be like. I'm sure alcohol will amplify everything, and Lana tells me that I have a unique ability to get everyone in a room to relax and feel comfortable with relative ease, but this will be a different sort of setting for me, and I'm not sure if I'll be met with sympathy or condescension from those that know.

One word of caution about the party is that you can't assume that you are in control of how it plays out and S-man has proven that he enjoys going for the jugular. He could easily say that he and his beefy friends will allow you to depart once you've performed fluffing duties. If you want to poke your head in and be introduced before kissing her good night, maybe.

I think you should go to the party (I would), but just be ready that it will likely go in unexpected ways. Just so many variables in that situation.

Also remember that Shawn is a Neanderthal in his development, and therefore likely surrounds himself with similar friends. They will all assume that Lana is a slut and that you are a wimp and that she is open for anything. They will look to Shawn for social cues, and restrain themselves accordingly. But when he's gone, it'll all be different. So this will set the stage for when he's gone, with respect to these friends of his.

I just know the one friend that was over for the WC a few Saturday's ago and he's the same type of behemoth that Shawn is. Lana saw the others on the Zoom call that one morning and said they all looked like they were one big soccer team. All of them fit, all of them bros, which is fine because me and my friends are very much about fitness too. We're just not the beer cracking bros that they seem to be. The party is going to be an intimidating environment I think. I'll be impressed if I can last there for longer than an hour.

It would be the neighborly thing on Saturday for Lana to go to Shawn’s early and help him setup for the party. Of course as his bro-friends arrive with their GFs she would have that flushed face and just fucked hair look as she greets and meets.
And even have Shawn’s cum running down her leg since he took her panties and wouldn’t let her clean up.

It's almost sort of a pre-game ritual for us at this point where Lana and myself spend the time leading up to seeing Shawn as time to plan, go over our feelings, reassuring each other, etc., so I don't really see her doing this but it is hot to imagine.

I wonder if his bro-friends GFs are bimbo slutty types or the hardcore fitness chicks? After all Lana jumps into Shawns bed rather easily, so maybe she’ll have more in common with the GFs than you think.

Well I think all of them are pretty fit from what Shawn has said when describing who will be there to Lana, but I'm not sure about their level of bimbo-ness.

[w770]

I tend to agree, the more people that know what is going on between the three of you, the more chances that the Information about you are doing, will get out to family members, coworkers and other people you and your Wife wouldn't want to find out about those activities. That could very well effect your jobs and your futures, that may possibly cause you both some major problems.

But they are people who don't run in w770's and Lana's social circle.

Sometimes that doesn't matter, sometimes we are around people we don't know, but happen to over hear them talking about someone, then you realize that you know that person that they were talking about.
If SM has shared photos of her with his friends, they might be seen by someone that shouldn't see them. Sometimes you can't trust people that you don't know.
It is just one more thing to think about...
...Good Luck with whatever you both choose to do.

I will say that one of Lana's faults is that she becomes overly trusting of everyone right away. I asked her about the possibility of him having recorded any part of their FaceTime moments when they were masturbating together and she said "oh I'm not worried about him doing something like that."

I'm pretty interested in trying to read everyone in the room to see if they know or don't. I'll assume most if not all of the guys will know, and definitely the girlfriends of Shawn's friends. But I won't really know for sure and judging the way they look and interact with me, especially around Lana will be fun to read. I wonder if it'll be a mix of condescension, pity, astonishment, or a mix of all?

He might also just out you from the beginning of the party by hugging/kissing/being possessive of Lana right in front of you, then taunt you in front of everyone how he has had your wife every day of this week. Who knows how he might behave...

I think he might show some restraint at least until the alcohol kicks in, but then again I might just be giving him the benefit of the doubt that he probably doesn't deserve

[Upindown]

Long time lurker here.

I'm guessing your reading of how his party will pan out is somewhat optimistic regards your comfort levels.
Here's why:
Lana appears to be a little submissive to Sman. She doesn't appear to be the same to you. The three of you are basically on a set of steps. You're on the bottom step, Lana is on the middle step, and Sman is on the top one. Each thing that happens is effectively expanding the height of each step - there's still only one step between the bottom and the top, sure, but the distance is growing (and rapidly, you need to take care that it doesn't become a gap that can no longer be climbed). He knows this gap is widening and it's giving him a rush. He wants to keep it going

So add this to the fact that the party is on his territory where you have pretty much no control at all - which he well knows - and here's what I can see happening:
Partygoers all there before you and Lana arrive. He introduces you as "this is my neighbour Lana, and, uh, her husband. Guys, introduce yourselves to each other, I'm going to my room a few minutes first. Lana, come here with me baby", he takes her hand and leads her out, you've not yet said a word, and all of a sudden you're in the middle of a room with a bunch of people you've never set eyes on all staring silently at you while the unmistakable and deliberately loud sounds of fucking start to come from his bedroom door.

They're all wondering what you're going to do.
So am I.
Do you know what you're going to do, if it does indeed pan out something like that?

[gulfcpl]

It will definitely be interesting to see how the party goes. Unfortunately, I don’t have the ability to predict the future. I’ll wait and see.

[StandingO1984]

Exactly what day and time is the party? I need to put it on my calendar. I can also serve as bartender if there’s an opening. Lol.

[w770]

Exactly what day and time is the party? I need to put it on my calendar. I can also serve as bartender if there’s an opening. Lol.

It was originally supposed to be this Friday, but it's been changed to Saturday night around 1700 (5pm) I believe. I'm on eastern standard time in the US.

Update:. I woke up around 3 this morning to the sound of the front door closing. I heard Lana come into the bedroom but for some reason, I pretended to still be asleep. She got into bed and cuddled up next to me without trying to wake me up. I don't know why, but I just assumed that if she snuck off in the middle of the night to fuck Shawn, she would've woken me up upon her return so we could have reclaiming sex. She's still asleep now so I think she's going to the gym later this afternoon for her yoga class. I'm just curious if she'll mention anything today about last night or even the day before.

[hubudig2]

Update:. I woke up around 3 this morning to the sound of the front door closing. I heard Lana come into the bedroom but for some reason, I pretended to still be asleep. She got into bed and cuddled up next to me without trying to wake me up. I don't know why, but I just assumed that if she snuck off in the middle of the night to fuck Shawn, she would've woken me up upon her return so we could have reclaiming sex. She's still asleep now so I think she's going to the gym later this afternoon for her yoga class. I'm just curious if she'll mention anything today about last night or even the day before.

Feel ok about it?
Do you feel like you missed a good opportunity for some cheating reclaiming by pretending to be asleep?
Or is the idea of her telling you at a later time hotter than immediate reclaiming?

[w770]

Update:. I woke up around 3 this morning to the sound of the front door closing. I heard Lana come into the bedroom but for some reason, I pretended to still be asleep. She got into bed and cuddled up next to me without trying to wake me up. I don't know why, but I just assumed that if she snuck off in the middle of the night to fuck Shawn, she would've woken me up upon her return so we could have reclaiming sex. She's still asleep now so I think she's going to the gym later this afternoon for her yoga class. I'm just curious if she'll mention anything today about last night or even the day before.

Feel ok about it?
Do you feel like you missed a good opportunity for some cheating reclaiming by pretending to be asleep?
Or is the idea of her telling you at a later time hotter than immediate reclaiming?

Well I guess I thought that she would wake me up, so it hurts a bit thinking that she may not have "needed" to reconnect with me in the way that she's shown in the past few weeks. I know it's a monster of my own creation as I signed onto the idea of her "cheating" which inevitably involves the delayed reclaiming, but witnessing it first hand hit me a little differently than expected.

So although the idea of her telling at a later time is indeed hot, it's also endears more of the gut punch feeling.

[Dharmadude]

She probably has it planned out how she’s going to surprise you with the details. “By the way, honey….so.. the other day…”

[hubudig2]

Well I guess I thought that she would wake me up, so it hurts a bit thinking that she may not have "needed" to reconnect with me in the way that she's shown in the past few weeks. I know it's a monster of my own creation as I signed onto the idea of her "cheating" which inevitably involves the delayed reclaiming, but witnessing it first hand hit me a little differently than expected.

So although the idea of her telling at a later time is indeed hot, it's also endears more of the gut punch feeling.

That's how I imagined it would feel, I've always thought the reclaiming needed to happen at the soonest opportunity.
I seem to learn something new everyday though so it's always interesting to find out I don't completely understand it.
So how is this different to yesterday when she went to the Gym?

[w770]

Well I guess I thought that she would wake me up, so it hurts a bit thinking that she may not have "needed" to reconnect with me in the way that she's shown in the past few weeks. I know it's a monster of my own creation as I signed onto the idea of her "cheating" which inevitably involves the delayed reclaiming, but witnessing it first hand hit me a little differently than expected.

So although the idea of her telling at a later time is indeed hot, it's also endears more of the gut punch feeling.

That's how I imagined it would feel, I've always thought the reclaiming needed to happen at the soonest opportunity.
I seem to learn something new everyday though so it's always interesting to find out I don't completely understand it.
So how is this different to yesterday when she went to the Gym?

It's not really different per se from yesterday upon her return from the gym, it's just compounded as I'm wondering how long she can keep this up for. I'm really curious and also hoping that there will be a moment where she reaches somewhat of a breaking point, and feels an urgency for me to reclaim her.

[hubudig2]

Do you think you'll have a breaking point?
What might that look like?
Do you wonder if she's hoping you'll break before her?

[parmaham55]

w770, you are showing amazing patience and understanding. I am starting to feel a little uneasy now. Perhaps when you first discussed the excitement of the cheating element, you could have agreed some kind of easing into the situation, like not allowing it go more than a day without coming clean on events. At least to start with, so as to check in with you about whether you are still okay with it.

But now, you have already got two presumed incidents that you know of, but what about any you don’t know about? I’m worried this will lead you into some murkier waters of distrust and lack of open communication, your wife developing a sense of ‘I got away with that one’ rather than ‘I can see he’s enjoying the tease.’ It’s a fine line.

[w770]

w770, you are showing amazing patience and understanding. I am starting to feel a little uneasy now. Perhaps when you first discussed the excitement of the cheating element, you could have agreed some kind of easing into the situation, like not allowing it go more than a day without coming clean on events. At least to start with, so as to check in with you about whether you are still okay with it.

But now, you have already got two presumed incidents that you know of, but what about any you don’t know about? I’m worried this will lead you into some murkier waters of distrust and lack of open communication, your wife developing a sense of ‘I got away with that one’ rather than ‘I can see he’s enjoying the tease.’ It’s a fine line.

I 100% agree. I think I'll have to tell her today that there shouldn't be more than 2-3 days in-between the incident and her telling me.

Do you think you'll have a breaking point?
What might that look like?
Do you wonder if she's hoping you'll break before her?

As of now, it looks like I'll hit my breaking point before her as my workout today didn't ease my nerves as I thought it would, and meanwhile she's still sound asleep.

[mundyman]

Then she flashed me that same flirty smile from earlier in the day. She definitely opened her legs for him today, but is saving the story for later... This woman...

So hot! You're living the dream, man!

It's been the best rollercoaster so far.

I'm with w770 in that I think the party will be interesting for him as he tries to read the reactions of everyone. It's not a given that everyone at the party will be in the know. Also secondly, unless Supes is a complete A-hole (which, don't get me wrong, given his previous may very well come to pass) he's not going to necessarily want to come across as a complete douche bag to all of his friends and their collective girlfriends by blatantly rubbing W770's nose in Lana's infidelity too publicly. From the behavior he's shown he likes to be bold but also seems to get off on the subterfuge involved in taking another man's wife. I think a quick blowjob in the toilet, or gradual incursion into Lana's personal space, with the occasional knowing wink or smile to one of his Zoom buddies is most likely. Also when in a social situation face to face many of these guys will be pretty intimidated themselves to say anything that's too out there to someone they've just met. Again their girl friends may very well be ignorant of the subplot that is being played out and it's pretty difficult to blatantly belittle a stranger without coming off as a complete jerk so I don't think it will be quite as dramatic as some on this thread seem to think. Don't get me wrong though, for w770, Lana and Shawn the sexual tension will be unbelievable and I daresay W's cuckold angst will be in overdrive. As the evening progresses things may get more interesting but I imagine that will be as people start to drift off home. I'm very much doubting that W770 will be fluffing a queue of 20 something Jocks as Lana pulls a train, but I'm guessing there may be the odd comments, knowing look between guests and points where Shawn and Lana go AWOL for slightly too long that will get W770's heart racing and cock hardening.

I also think that this is the best prediction of what the party will be like. I'm sure alcohol will amplify everything, and Lana tells me that I have a unique ability to get everyone in a room to relax and feel comfortable with relative ease, but this will be a different sort of setting for me, and I'm not sure if I'll be met with sympathy or condescension from those that know.

I think you should go to the party (I would), but just be ready that it will likely go in unexpected ways. Just so many variables in that situation.

Also remember that Shawn is a Neanderthal in his development, and therefore likely surrounds himself with similar friends. They will all assume that Lana is a slut and that you are a wimp and that she is open for anything. They will look to Shawn for social cues, and restrain themselves accordingly. But when he's gone, it'll all be different. So this will set the stage for when he's gone, with respect to these friends of his.

I just know the one friend that was over for the WC a few Saturday's ago and he's the same type of behemoth that Shawn is. Lana saw the others on the Zoom call that one morning and said they all looked like they were one big soccer team. All of them fit, all of them bros, which is fine because me and my friends are very much about fitness too. We're just not the beer cracking bros that they seem to be. The party is going to be an intimidating environment I think. I'll be impressed if I can last there for longer than an hour.

It would be the neighborly thing on Saturday for Lana to go to Shawn’s early and help him setup for the party. Of course as his bro-friends arrive with their GFs she would have that flushed face and just fucked hair look as she greets and meets.
And even have Shawn’s cum running down her leg since he took her panties and wouldn’t let her clean up.

It's almost sort of a pre-game ritual for us at this point where Lana and myself spend the time leading up to seeing Shawn as time to plan, go over our feelings, reassuring each other, etc., so I don't really see her doing this but it is hot to imagine.

I wonder if his bro-friends GFs are bimbo slutty types or the hardcore fitness chicks? After all Lana jumps into Shawns bed rather easily, so maybe she’ll have more in common with the GFs than you think.

Well I think all of them are pretty fit from what Shawn has said when describing who will be there to Lana, but I'm not sure about their level of bimbo-ness.

We’ll, perhaps your new pregame ritual is to have her go down early and help prepare for the party….

More thoughts on the party:
1) given that his bro-friends from the zoom call will be there, my guess is that many of them will be the last to leave. My guess is Shawn will try to give them an opportunity to see Lana in action.
2) they’ve already seen her topless, so I wonder as the crowd thins out and the alcohol flows that there will be calls for Lana to lose some clothing again. Maybe her sexy panties and heels only by the end of the party.
3) as the alcohol flows, and you leave, how many of his friends will make an attempt to be with Lana, or will coping a feel as they pass by her,
4) I wonder how many looks or comments she is going to get from the GFs because she is a slutty cheating wife,
5) have you and Lana discussed boundaries for the party? Does she have a total hall pass to whatever with whomever at the party,
6) and finally I wonder if Shawn is so alpha that he is the jealous non sharing type and will not want anyone else near her

[Wifesharing]

Man wow yeah you are strong I couldn’t handle the not telling me.

Do you don’t know how long she was down there wow

[mundyman]

Yes, this is a monster of your own creation. You’ve asked, encouraged, suggested that she cheat on you, and now she is doing it. With gusto, exuberance, and often.
My worry is the lack of reconnection or reclaiming now.
You have gone from you and Lana doing this together to Shawn and Lana doing this together and you’re cut out.
Personally I would have fucked the shit out of her cheating pussy or confronted her, depending on my mood at the time, when she came back to bed after fucking a Shawn.
My question is what does their sex look like? Is it soft, slow, sensual and romantic, or is it still rough, primal and aggressive.
Since she’s not coming back to you for reclaiming my guess is a both, but definitely becoming much more of the former rather than the later.
Have you ever heard of the story of how to cook a frog.
You don’t drop it in a lot of boiling water because it will jump right out when feeling the burn, but you put it in a lot of cool water and then turn the heat up so the frog doesn’t realize what’s happening until it’s too late.
Be careful my friend.
This week could end explosively at this Christmas party if things come out that you aren’t aware of, and I mean her feelings for him and Lana’s obvious comfort with cheating and humiliating you.

[Tryn]

It’s okay to say you tried something and you don’t like it and ask for it to stop. If Lana tried something new with Superman, didn’t like it, asked for it to stop and he didn’t, you go ape shit on him. It’s okay to not like something and it’s important to communicate that to Lana. I’m sure she would want to know!

[chastity_boi]

w770 at this point, if you're feeling insecure about the 'cheating' element you should reach out to Lana and discuss, if only to tell her it's more than you were expecting. ATM she is only doing what she thinks you want and what you have given her license to do, but it seems like you weren't as thorough in your communication about limits, or it's just a little more emotional/frequent than you anticipated in your head. The thing is that's fine and to be expected. You both won't get everything fantasy level right on your first attempts in this 'lifestyle'. These are treacherous waters you are navigating and you can't always predict how people will act when placed in new situations (even the people you love) and how you will react to those developing new situations. She's still your Lana and you have the power of veto if it really comes to it, but it seems like in the last couple of days communication has stalled a little. Maybe you just need to talk about this new development before it develops into something that becomes a barrier between you rather than an experience you share. Of course it may be that you are enjoying the angst and are just venting your feelings here in which case just ignore me - after all you're the one living through this and we are just reacting to the fragments of this experience that you write about here so we are literally skimming the surface of everything that is going on. From what I'm reading though it's probably worth the two of you just checking in and letting each other know where you're both at with the new set up. You don't want to be in a situation where this is still hanging over you on the day of the party.

[Wifesharing]

w770 at this point, if you're feeling insecure about the 'cheating' element you should reach out to Lana and discuss, if only to tell her it's more than you were expecting. ATM she is only doing what she thinks you want and what you have given her license to do, but it seems like you weren't as thorough in your communication about limits, or it's just a little more emotional/frequent than you anticipated in your head. The thing is that's fine and to be expected. You both won't get everything fantasy level right on your first attempts in this 'lifestyle'. These are treacherous waters you are navigating and you can't always predict how people will act when placed in new situations (even the people you love) and how you will react to those developing new situations. She's still your Lana and you have the power of veto if it really comes to it, but it seems like in the last couple of days communication has stalled a little. Maybe you just need to talk about this new development before it develops into something that becomes a barrier between you rather than an experience you share. Of course it may be that you are enjoying the angst and are just venting your feelings here in which case just ignore me - after all you're the one living through this and we are just reacting to the fragments of this experience that you write about here so we are literally skimming the surface of everything that is going on. From what I'm reading though it's probably worth the two of you just checking in and letting each other know where you're both at with the new set up. You don't want to be in a situation where this is still hanging over you on the day of the party.

I was going to write a post but this actually says what I was thinking. I just want to highlight that as of now she is not doing anything you didn't state you wanted.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Upindown.

[Wifesharing]

How she she behaving? Is she giving any clues? I am so curious I wish I could be a fly on that wall today?