Dharmadude wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 9:45 am
I’m glad you guys talked it over. Was looking like a not good situation but if she was holding off on telling you, for your benefit, that changes the perception quite a bit.
What does Lana think about him showing her off to his friends on the zoom call and to the neighbors with the open blinds. Was she excited by it, indifferent, or is it something she will “hard line” him with?
She said it was unexpected but she also found it hot. The act itself was more performative than likely that people would have seen though as there's slight reflective quality to the glass in our building, so you'd have to be catching the right lighting situation along with the perfect angle at the right time to actually have been seen.
Tryn wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:01 pm
I’m so curious as to what Shawn’s roommate and friends think about him fucking Lana. So curious as to what he shares with them and how he presents what’s going on to them. I’m sure he’d tell Lana if she asked. It might give you some good insight on what to expect Saturday night!
Well he doesn't have roommates right now as he's just watching his parents' place. The friend that was over for the WC just lives nearby, but otherwise it's just Shawn in the 2 bedroom place by himself.
hubudig2 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 10:37 am
How did she go about revealing her 3 secret times with Shawn?
Did she build it up and tease you with it like it was something she'd been planning and looking forward to telling you?
Was this the moment she had been planning to tell you or was she prompted to come clean sooner?
She was really relieved actually when telling me because it was hard for her to hold it in, and then when she saw that it got me hard, it excited her more revealing their meetups, especially the one that I didn't have any clue about. Originally, her plan was to tell me about how they have been fucking a few minutes before we left for Shawn's place for the party, but she admitted that this would have been difficult to hold in that long.
Wifesharing wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 11:48 am
For this Christmas party Friday made since Saturday is Christmas Eve what is you Christmas usually like I am guessing no family get together
Just curious and is her rollling in the wee hours of the morning Christmas going to be okay. I mean hell it might be like Santa bringing you a Christmas pie to eat and that is hot just not sure what your original Christmas plans were if any
gulfcpl wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:00 pm
Wifesharing wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 11:48 am
For this Christmas party Friday made since Saturday is Christmas Eve what is you Christmas usually like I am guessing no family get together
Just curious and is her rollling in the wee hours of the morning Christmas going to be okay. I mean hell it might be like Santa bringing you a Christmas pie to eat and that is hot just not sure what your original Christmas plans were if any
I thought this was kinda odd also. None of the people there are spending it with family? Having a non-family party on Christmas Eve is strange.
Well friend that Shawn hasn't seen the longest is his best friend couldn't make Friday work, so it was kind of rescheduled because of him. How it affects other people is that the people that were planning on spending a long night over at Shawn's place partying will just be stopping by for an hour or two and then going back to their families. In terms of Lana and myself, my family is on the other side of the country so we only see them once a year or so, but with my sister overseas for a while, it was unrealistic for her and her giant family to make the flight back state-side for the holidays this year. Lana's parents are bigger into celebrating on Christmas Day so Christmas Eve has been more or less "our day" together where we exchange gifts for each other.
Whosbeensleeping wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:03 pm
gulfcpl wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 11:04 am
Ok. It’s there thing, not ours. They are adults. Everything we do in life has consequences, some good and some bad. It doesn’t affect me at all. It’s not that I don’t care, but it simply doesn’t affect me. Starting out, everyone was cheerleading. Now, oooooo, the sky is falling. It’s a risk everyone in this lifestyle takes. The opinion of those not in this lifestyle doesn’t matter.
I truly hope for these two that it all works out. I really do but life is full of choices.
Exactly.
I find it amusing how many are essentially accusing them of lack of a self-awareness while being singularly unaware of their own tendency to flip-flop.
Cue the chorus of protest and brutal rebuttal, lol.
I'm even more impressed how w770 endures the drama here than how he navigates the events there.
Of course many are also exercising restraint, and I'm no angel or I wouldn't be commenting this!
Well I'm really appreciative with everyone's perspective on here since this entire experience started, and if the cost of that is to randomly get the creepy and offputting private message or the judgmental post, I'll take that deal.
mundyman wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 10:34 am
I don’t think Shawn is trying to steal Lana as in he wants her to leave W and live with him in Cali, rather I think his goal is to own Lana body, mind, and soul before he leaves. To break that bind that Lana and W have. She just admitted Shawn has her body, ouch!
Next step is her mind and it sounds like he is well on his way to owning that as well.
Lana can say what she wants, but the proof is in the pudding as they say.
She seems to say one thing to W but do something very different with Shawn.
He is definitely
Starting to own her.
That soulful Connection between Lana and W is next
There was a thread on this forum a couple of years ago about a cuckold couple who entered into a relationship with a man who’s stated goal was to do just this very thing. He actually accomplished his goal before the couple pulled back at the last minute and saved their relationship.
Even if you're right and that's what he's trying to do, the beauty of this arrangement, in our perspective is the expiration date built in by his departure back to California in a handful of weeks. So in the worst case plausible scenario and Lana becomes really emotionally attached to Shawn, well he's gone next month anyway, and we get back to real life.