Do you prefer your wife to feel stretched or tight?

[Izzy2]

When it is the 2 of us and she has not been with someone else before me I like it tight and like for other men to get her tight to start and loosen her up for me when she comes home after one of her friends has fucked her the looser the better I like knowing she has been well used and I get to use her sloppy pussy

[Izzy2]

I would be very happy for her to be sloppy loose all the time if it was because she was fucked senseless by other men frequently knowing that she was never tight for me because she was getting used by other men a lot would make me happier than I can describe

[Countrycouple]

I prefer my wife’s pussy to be tight for me to fuck. But I love to watch her pussy get stretched by another man.

I agree. It's great when it's tight but to see her stretched is amazing. To hear her give that grunt as he first enters her because she didn't realize how big he was ... mmmmm

That moment when I look up between their legs and I see the head of his cock first touch her slit, and then slowly pushes in and splits her pussy as the lips close tightly around his shaft. Well damn…… just damn.

[Tryagain]

I prefer her stretched out for sure. The lack of friction excites me so that i do not need her tight.

And yes...the best view of her is when she is on top and bends over to kiss him him, and he is holding her tight with big arms wrapped around her thin frame holding her in place and he is up thrusting his thick cock in her and her pussy being stretched out and being pulled out each time he withdraws. and the moans...Phew!

[Tryagain]

So what is it about this that gets us so excited? That our wives are so lustful that they become like used up rag dolls after he is finished with them - spent, sore and rendered practically unusable by us.

[Chrislydi]

When Cath gave birth to our twin boys 18 years ago and had some very slight tearing, I was more than tempted to ask the doctor to add a few more stitches. Tbf I love slippery seconds but being too loose doesn't really do it for me, even though I can easily understand the psychological turn on.

Chris

[mysexylittlehotwife]

Definitely loose! I always go after she’s come on her big dildo! Loose and sloppy is the best!

[MikeyP]

My cock isn't that big, so although I'd prefer my wife's pussy to be a snug fit for me, it's usually too loose for me.
She loves her big vibrators a little too much lol.
I guess that a Bull with a much bigger cock than mine would think she was pretty tight though.
Please view her pics in the Hotties section and let me know what you think.

[troilusand]

My cock isn't that big, so although I'd prefer my wife's pussy to be a snug fit for me, it's usually too loose for me.
She loves her big vibrators a little too much lol.
I guess that a Bull with a much bigger cock than mine would think she was pretty tight though.
Please view her pics in the Hotties section and let me know what you think.

Well, provide a link or title to the Hotties post and I'll oblige...

Troilus

[MikeyP]

My cock isn't that big, so although I'd prefer my wife's pussy to be a snug fit for me, it's usually too loose for me.
She loves her big vibrators a little too much lol.
I guess that a Bull with a much bigger cock than mine would think she was pretty tight though.
Please view her pics in the Hotties section and let me know what you think.

Well, provide a link or title to the Hotties post and I'll oblige...

Troilus

Sorry...here it is
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[troilusand]

My cock isn't that big, so although I'd prefer my wife's pussy to be a snug fit for me, it's usually too loose for me.
She loves her big vibrators a little too much lol.
I guess that a Bull with a much bigger cock than mine would think she was pretty tight though.
Please view her pics in the Hotties section and let me know what you think.

Well, provide a link or title to the Hotties post and I'll oblige...

Troilus

Sorry...here it is
viewtopic.php?f=9&t=68366

I think she's absolutely gorgeous!! Does she want bigger men than what you provide? Has she been getting them?

Troilus

[MikeyP]

My cock isn't that big, so although I'd prefer my wife's pussy to be a snug fit for me, it's usually too loose for me.
She loves her big vibrators a little too much lol.
I guess that a Bull with a much bigger cock than mine would think she was pretty tight though.
Please view her pics in the Hotties section and let me know what you think.

Well, provide a link or title to the Hotties post and I'll oblige...

Troilus

Sorry...here it is
viewtopic.php?f=9&t=68366

I think she's absolutely gorgeous!! Does she want bigger men than what you provide? Has she been getting them?

Troilus

I'm sure that she would like bigger and thicker cock than i can give her. She refuses to be with another man in front of me, or even with my agreement behind closed doors but I know for sure that she has cheated on me twice with other guys...she doesn't know that I know though.
So, whether she is getting any action from other guys at the moment, I have no idea.

[troilusand]

Maybe confronting her with any evidence (if you still have it) that she's lying when she says she hasn't cheated may get her to cuckold you.

Early in our marriage I guessed Cressida was fucking around behind my back...so I snooped around our house and found love letters in her purse! I literally jacked off more than two dozen times (I was a quick reload back then when inspired) waiting for her to come home to confront her (she was out with "him"). I convinced myself that my masturbation was my way of getting even. Through tears she confessed when I showed her the evidence. I called her a fucking whore and told her how many times I jacked to get even. What floored me was when I asked her if she loved him and she said, "Yes." But she also said she didn't want to leave me for him and said she'd never cheat again (HA!!)

And then a few months later, after more snooping, I found evidence that when she was going on work related trips she was prepared for sex if the right opportunity came along. It was then I accepted the truth: I was TURNED ON that I married a slut who would risk our marriage in order to get all the cock and love that she wanted. Sooooo, during pillow talk, I told her what I'd found and confessed that I actually wanted her to continue to be a slut. And I'd rather have her fuck other men (and fall in love if she wanted) than me fuck other women...which she found hard to believe because I was such a horney bastard.

The point is, after many more cheating affairs (she really didn't think I could handle hotwifing, I guess), I finally got her on board as my slutwife. But it wouldn't have happened unless I had confronted her with my evidence of her cheating. It was then, during pillow talk that she told me about all the love affairs she'd had that I was clueless about! And I loved hearing about every one of them.

So think about showing her any evidence of cheating, if you have it. It might get her motivated to cuckold you.

Troilus

[DedicatedHubby2013]

I like when she is loose. Any evidence of slutty activities is a huge turn on.

[kwaka400]

For me I love the play after she has had a date and returned home well used and full.

[Watchinu69]

Nice and loose is best, knowing shes loose because her BF has stretched her allows me to last much longer without it being so snug around my cock... love it lose

[roshnikhanna]

Seems like the majority so far prefers a loose pussy.

[ucaneffher]

Considering that is has been 6 years since my last reply on the thread, I think that it's only fair to update my thoughts on the loose/tight debate. Sorry to provide sooo much background of arguably irrelevant information but will add it for the sake of making sense of my changes.

* I will make a divider at the bottom if you just want a concise and direct response.*

As of this moment compared to when I first starting the hot wife lifestyle with the hot gf, I feel that my desires and fantasy has drastically tilted towards the cuckold side as opposed to just being a stag who shares his girlfriend.

I find it that my newly discovered (not brand new but within last few years) tendencies typically gravitate significantly more towards denial, mild public humiliation, de-prioritization as primary partner, and as part of the denial; I find myself more and more open to long term denial from penetration. Have been wanting these more than ever before, in the past I just wanted her to have additional partners but as time passes I find myself evolving into more of a cuckold but with the following exceptions.

Some things I am definitely certain of and firm that I will never see myself ever crossing onto. That would be the "extreme" cuckold side which for me it means no chastity, no man on man activity, no degradation, no disrespect, no cross dressing/sissification. I am not attracted to those nor do I hold an open mind to even consider them. I would literally rather watch my girlfriend marry her lover a d have his children than ever doing any of above mentioned. Everyone has their kinks and pick and choose what is extreme to them and what is not. Both examples are extreme but I am more open minded to her doing those than me doing the ones that I don't approve of for myself.

From the mentioned above that I find myself wanting more and more:

Denial - while I am not specifically after it, if we ever reach a point where we naturally head towards it or she starts expressing desire to cut me off whether short term or long term so she could reserve herself for a lover or group of men, then I would show no major opposition and would be supportive of her letting another man/men become her primary sexual partner(s).

Mild public humiliation - this would involve her not restraining herself from acting single publicly while she is with me. It it means that when we are together she can initiate flirting, respond when flirted with, walk off with another man at a bar or club, she can get physical with PDA with other men without prior consent or notice while we are out, she can dress as revealing or provocative as she desires, and lastly she has absolutely no obligation to disclose that I am her boyfriend If asked by men and I will follow her lead by acknowledging that we are just friends if she is approached.

De-prioritization - to me it means that if she finds herself another man who she connects with physically/emotionally, it is entirely up to her to decide if he takes priority over me as long as she doesn't entirely neglect me, of course. However, I can have some very very high tolerances and can handle seeing her go to extremes with another man. It's her choice and if she chooses to make another man her main partner, then I support her decision by backing down a bit to make room for the other man in her life and helping her with the logistics of me becoming the friend or the secondary partner. This one is by far extreme in my opinion but truly pushes my cuckold buttons.

Long term/semi permanent cutoff from penetration - goes hand in hand with the first description but ultimately boils down to how involved she becomes with her lover/boyfriend and I feel that if she becomes very sexually active with him, then it would feel appropriate to accept him taking over almost entirely or altogether entirely over my role of intercourse with her. My only requirement would be to not be permanent cutoff. This means that I would still require penetrative intercourse from time to time to remain intimately connected. It can be on special occasions like my birthday, our anniversary, Valentine's Day or at least the week after although ideally I would be content with once a month should she decide to make the other man her full-time sexual partner instead of me.

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And finally ladies and gentlemen, now that I've given you my entire life story, here is my answer.

Seeing things from my now more cuckold oriented desires, I think that I would love it if my girlfriend found a full time boyfriend who would in many ways take over my role as her partner, including becoming her primary sexual partner. Ideally this man would have a significantly larger penis than myself. I'm very girthy and close to 8" long so ideally he would be in the 10"+ class. If I am going to have sex with my girlfriend/wife only once a month or just a couple of times a year while he gets her 3-5 times a week, then I would want to be reminded of it by finding her very loose every one of those times.

As a cuckold who has nearly fully surrendered his girlfriend to another man. I would want to be reminded each and every time when we are intimate that her pussy is absolutely and entirely his, it has been, and it will continue to be his. By her being loose, it will serve as my reminder of what he is doing to her, how frequently she is giving herself to him, and how her body has adjusted to the man that she now has as her main lover. As a cuckold, I want to be reminded each time that his bigger penis has altered my girlfriend and there is nothing that I can do.

[Tryagain]

Too bad you are 8 inches and thick. You are going to have a very hard time finding a decent looking guy with 10 inches.

[ucaneffher]

Too bad you are 8 inches and thick. You are going to have a very hard time finding a decent looking guy with 10 inches.

Sadly I think you are right. My ex and I were in the lifestyle for 7 years which resulted in her getting to know 17 different men intimately and only one of them surpassed me in length but he had a pencil dick, so thin that she couldn't feel it. My current gf is attracted to chocolate and is curious to try some so that might just be best bet. I don't care what flavor she likes as long as it makes her crazy and gets her addicted to the point of having minimal control of her sexual desires.

[Smit_hd]

I love it loose and wet

[kort677]

I prefer a bit of tightness but over the years of having babies, me fisting her and have a lot of sex with a lot of large men she now is so wide that I am swimming in a bottomless ocean when I'm in her. she has been doing exercises to try to get more control but I think that it can't be reversed.

[Cornudo1960]

There is nothing better than sliding into a well-stretched cunt especially after it's been fucked. with my wife having lots of men in her life it was a sight to see her spread her legs for me and see her cunt hole well opened for me to slide in.
JJ

[Aussiem]

My 70 yo wife is still tight. I have seen her gaped so much I could see inside her, after a good session. Pussy and dicks are amazing, growing and shrinking depending on the state of excitement.

[hotfreaks]

I prefer loose and filled with other men's cum. It's physical proof that my wife is letting other men fully enjoy her perfect pussy. And she is getting the length and girth she deserves