It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
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Whosbeensleeping
Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
This should be post 2001. Open the hatch door Hal.
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Hahaha! Open the pod bay doors!
Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Happy New Year All...
...in appox. 3 hours and 19 mins for me.
...in appox. 3 hours and 19 mins for me.
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MonaLisaOverdrive
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
You bastard, I came here to say this
Also, it's 3pm on Jan 1st 2023 here. It's not looking good, stay in 2022.
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
W and Lana are presumably heading to their NYE party. May you have an excellent party and a Happy New Year!
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MonaLisaOverdrive
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Hopefully the hangover is manageable.
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W, Hoping to hear detailed updates about their time together and any new untold bits.
One thing that concerns me is that hopefully S has not setup any hidden cams at his home. There were also Webcam activities that are very easy to record with 3rd party apps. A jilted lover in future can leak such vids on porn sites after blurring his face. Just something you gotta think about.
You might also want to ask Lana if they have done anything more that she has never done with you, such as anal play, slapping, choking, etc. It seems quite possible that such boundaries may have been crossed, given the massive intensity of these rendezvous.
One thing that concerns me is that hopefully S has not setup any hidden cams at his home. There were also Webcam activities that are very easy to record with 3rd party apps. A jilted lover in future can leak such vids on porn sites after blurring his face. Just something you gotta think about.
You might also want to ask Lana if they have done anything more that she has never done with you, such as anal play, slapping, choking, etc. It seems quite possible that such boundaries may have been crossed, given the massive intensity of these rendezvous.
Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Open the airlock door Hal...
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MonaLisaOverdrive
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
The scene in all it's haunting glory.
Actually it's quite an apt metaphor, I think, of the feelings us husbands feel when we want to tap the breaks on a HW/BF relationship that we feel as gotten away from us and the wife is ... relunctant to do so.
I'm afraid I can't do that Dave, this is what you asked for. And now I'm enjoying it too much.
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Quick update: I'll get back to your private messages and posts when I can (hopefully tomorrow?) but I just wanted to give an update.
We're at her parents place right now and it's been a very emotional and a difficult time, but simultaneously, I'm glad we're going through it together. We're trying to find a way where she can be with him again while respecting our marriage at the same time. We're also tossing around the idea of them being together until he leaves but with the requirement that I'm there every time. No more late night dates or secret dalliance encounters. We're still working out the details but we agreed that she's addicted to his cock as much as I'm addicted to their fucking. We're in a good place and our marriage comes first, so any choice we make will have that as the primary consideration.
Happy New Year to everyone. Thank you to everyone that gave their perspective. Lana has read over most of the posts and we really do appreciate everyone's input.
One hour left for us in this year. We hope everyone is well.
We're at her parents place right now and it's been a very emotional and a difficult time, but simultaneously, I'm glad we're going through it together. We're trying to find a way where she can be with him again while respecting our marriage at the same time. We're also tossing around the idea of them being together until he leaves but with the requirement that I'm there every time. No more late night dates or secret dalliance encounters. We're still working out the details but we agreed that she's addicted to his cock as much as I'm addicted to their fucking. We're in a good place and our marriage comes first, so any choice we make will have that as the primary consideration.
Happy New Year to everyone. Thank you to everyone that gave their perspective. Lana has read over most of the posts and we really do appreciate everyone's input.
One hour left for us in this year. We hope everyone is well.
Last edited by w770 on Sat Dec 31, 2022 8:07 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Thanks for the update. We are all hoping everything works out for all three of you.
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year!
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Mattmattiass
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
This kind of makes me sad. Hope it works out.
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MonaLisaOverdrive
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
As someone that has had a heroin addiction in the past, sometimes cold turkey is best. If not the most comfortable way to move forward. As you say, your marriage comes first and your decisions about what it can survive are your own, but remember that in this case they do also involve another person here. That makes things more complicated. You have to be comfortable with your decisions 6 months or 6 years down the line.w770 wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 7:11 pmWe're at her parents place right now and it's been a very emotional Anne difficult time, but simultaneously, I'm glad we're going through it together. We're trying to find a way where she can be with him again while respecting our marriage at the same time. We're also tossing around the idea of them being together until he leaves but with the requirement that I'm there every time. No more late night dates or secret dalliance encounters. We're still working out the details but we agreed that she's addicted to his cock as much as I'm addicted to their fucking. We're in a good place and our marriage comes first, so any choice we make will have that as the primary consideration.
Happy New Year to everyone. Thank you to everyone that gave their perspective. Lana has read over most of the posts and we really do appreciate everyone's input.
I wish you and Lana all the best for 2023 and you've given me a lot of inspiration on how this lifestyle can be satisfying, even if it's not all suitable for my personal relationship. You both deserve happiness and satisfaction for the year ahead.
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whenwillshe
Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
From my limited perspective, The only way you should even contemplate that is after full disclosure.
It may also be the end of your role so be careful what you decide.
If Lana is insisting on this, that is nuclear bad.
It may also be the end of your role so be careful what you decide.
If Lana is insisting on this, that is nuclear bad.
- Dharmadude
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
I sincerely hope everything works out well for you both.
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MonaLisaOverdrive
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
A couple of people seem to be suggesting this is the final outcome and w770 is out of the game/being replaced. I dont see this, based on what he has written. Am I missing something? And/or is this more experienced members seeing things that I am not?whenwillshe wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 7:49 pmIt may also be the end of your role so be careful what you decide.
If Lana is insisting on this, that is nuclear bad.
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Congratulations on your decision! These were the steps I suggested for this to continue. I know you both want this, and it would have been a shame for it to all end. Here’s to a Happy and Hot New Year!
Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
"Banana!"
"Banaanaaaa!!!"
You both waited many years for this. Now that you both know you like it, a short wait for a more suitable stunt-cock might be another option
That said... If you do go ahead, I assume he'll be made well aware of new limits, and more importantly what triggered them and why they are there. If it were me I'd be leaving him in no doubt that his "even if husband didn't know I'd still be fucking her" is very much mistaken and always was (it is very much mistaken, isn't it?) He'd also know she's still on the pill and always was.
I'd also just raise the slight possibility (I'd say this is unlikely but you never know) that you and L might decide exactly what way you're going to proceed only to go back to S and his response is so much less than enthusiastic that he actually pulls the plug!
"Banaanaaaa!!!"
You both waited many years for this. Now that you both know you like it, a short wait for a more suitable stunt-cock might be another option
That said... If you do go ahead, I assume he'll be made well aware of new limits, and more importantly what triggered them and why they are there. If it were me I'd be leaving him in no doubt that his "even if husband didn't know I'd still be fucking her" is very much mistaken and always was (it is very much mistaken, isn't it?) He'd also know she's still on the pill and always was.
I'd also just raise the slight possibility (I'd say this is unlikely but you never know) that you and L might decide exactly what way you're going to proceed only to go back to S and his response is so much less than enthusiastic that he actually pulls the plug!
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whenwillshe
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Again, limited perspectiveMonaLisaOverdrive wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 8:09 pmA couple of people seem to be suggesting this is the final outcome and w770 is out of the game/being replaced. I dont see this, based on what he has written. Am I missing something? And/or is this more experienced members seeing things that I am not?whenwillshe wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 7:49 pmIt may also be the end of your role so be careful what you decide.
If Lana is insisting on this, that is nuclear bad.
If Lana is pushing W to continue with anything less than full disclosure, that is where I see the risk.
Shawn believes he owns Lana and maybe he does.
I really hope they find a way to control this but to date, it has been Shawn with Lana's deception calling all the shots.
I think.Lana may, and I say may have joined the other side.
Shawn sees W as an inconvenient pothole in his journey that can be ignored and Lana has led him on in that regard.
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Best wishes for a Happy New Year. Together and Happy!!!!w770 wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 7:11 pmQuick update: I'll get back to your private messages and posts when I can (hopefully tomorrow?) but I just wanted to give an update.
We're at her parents place right now and it's been a very emotional and a difficult time, but simultaneously, I'm glad we're going through it together. We're trying to find a way where she can be with him again while respecting our marriage at the same time. We're also tossing around the idea of them being together until he leaves but with the requirement that I'm there every time. No more late night dates or secret dalliance encounters. We're still working out the details but we agreed that she's addicted to his cock as much as I'm addicted to their fucking. We're in a good place and our marriage comes first, so any choice we make will have that as the primary consideration.
Happy New Year to everyone. Thank you to everyone that gave their perspective. Lana has read over most of the posts and we really do appreciate everyone's input.
One hour left for us in this year. We hope everyone is well.
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kevinkevin800
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Sorry to interrupt, but it seems to me, at this point, that your priorities need to be either to your marriage or to your kink. You know that too
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jasmineb87
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Glad to hear you and Lana are working it through. If you do choose to proceed, I think you’re going to have to ‘come clean’ to Shawn that this was obviously a little more engineered than he thought, set some ground rules and limits. Probably best the three of you sit down together for this.
Make sure he knows that you and Lana are in control of this, and he is a welcome guest, and should behave as such.
I think the ‘cheating’ thing could be something you do with another person in the future, but I think Shawn is just a little too close to home for that.
Make sure he knows that you and Lana are in control of this, and he is a welcome guest, and should behave as such.
I think the ‘cheating’ thing could be something you do with another person in the future, but I think Shawn is just a little too close to home for that.
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No, I dont think so either, since w770 and Lana have strong communication l. But it does feel like Lana's feelings for Shawn are too strong and there may be some danger.MonaLisaOverdrive wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 8:09 pmA couple of people seem to be suggesting this is the final outcome and w770 is out of the game/being replaced. I dont see this, based on what he has written. Am I missing something? And/or is this more experienced members seeing things that I am not?whenwillshe wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 7:49 pmIt may also be the end of your role so be careful what you decide.
If Lana is insisting on this, that is nuclear bad.