How is it the relation/acquaintance between you and your gf/wife’s lovers?

tempus_fugit36 · Unread post by **tempus_fugit36** » Tue Dec 27, 2022 9:36 pm

I would like to make a small research to see how is it for you, the husbands or boyfriends, the level of acquaintance, friendship or total impartiality between you and your wife or girlfriends lovers.

submissivedanny · Unread post by **submissivedanny** » Wed Dec 28, 2022 3:57 am

My wife can have sex with anyone she wants and doesn't need my permission. The only requirement I have is for her not to do it behind my back so she always tells me if she is meeting someone for sex although these days she has a BF and hasn't seen anyone else other than him. I have a good relationship with her current BF.

Lucky Dog · Unread post by **Lucky Dog** » Wed Dec 28, 2022 9:03 am

Although the pandemic killed the relationship, I was happy knowing a good guy made my wife and me both very excited and happy. We wanted more, but will have to find a new bull to start things off with.

troilusand · Unread post by **troilusand** » Wed Dec 28, 2022 3:36 pm

I chose three options:
I was a friend to her longest lover, Diomedes, her co-husband (even went on vacation with both of them once).
And one guy was her boss whom I met at my workplace and suggested she seduce him -- yeah, she reeled him in. But he and I never interacted much.
And a few others I never even met, but was happy hearing about her adventures.

Troilus

Cdncuck · Unread post by **Cdncuck** » Thu Dec 29, 2022 5:46 pm

My wife likes to be watched so I'm often present when she fucks. I've become good friends with a handful over the years. Some have become social acquaintances over the years. We might go for a coffee or a drink now and then but we aren't close. The third kind are very casual. I work with them when we're fucking her. When it's done, they have donated their sperm and gone their merry way. They might be back, they might not.

tempus_fugit36 · Unread post by **tempus_fugit36** » Thu Dec 29, 2022 10:34 pm

Cdncuck wrote: ↑
Thu Dec 29, 2022 5:46 pm
My wife likes to be watched so I'm often present when she fucks. I've become good friends with a handful over the years. Some have become social acquaintances over the years. We might go for a coffee or a drink now and then but we aren't close. The third kind are very casual. I work with them when we're fucking her. When it's done, they have donated their sperm and gone their merry way. They might be back, they might not.

Interesting that you somehow got a connection to your wife bulls; I can’t even imagine how that would be possible for me, I mean, I would not have anything against contacting new people, that is not the case. My point is that they are there because they feel attracted to my wife and they fuck her, there is nothing for them, or for me, for us to get acquaintance for any reason. We are no friends, there is not a common business or interest between me and them…it is between my wife legs and them merely. The closest I get to them is when I come home after work and I see my wife with another men fucking her; we just look at each other and then I give them the privacy they deserve, but turning my back and allowing space for them. At most I do go and masturbate myself on the living room, I watch them discretely from the sleeping room door..after I am finished I normally leave my house and come back later when the bull is not there anymore. My wife always tells me how it was in every detail.

warmnsalty · Unread post by **warmnsalty** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 4:32 am

My wife has only fucked 2 guys that we both new before she fucked them. All the others have been strangers. For us, hotwife/swinging is about variety not a relationship. Sure some of the guys that have fucked her have become semi regulars and nice guys but any friendship is purely about cock and pussy play.

AngiesHusband · Unread post by **AngiesHusband** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 6:19 am

after some very dark things that happened with Angie when she met someone without me, it's important that we get along and that things are out in the open.

plus without that base and foundation of a friendship everything else just seems...less

fredfred2 · Unread post by **fredfred2** » Sat Dec 31, 2022 5:25 am

My wife's bull was a great friend of us both before he mounted her. It would have been very doubtful that she would have submitted to a stranger. It also helped as people and family were used to him being round our house or staying at weekends..

Unread post by **Farmgirl** » Sat Dec 31, 2022 5:48 pm

My lovers know my husband, and are generally in awe of him, or have a profound respect. You could say, "His reputation proceeds him"

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Filou · Unread post by **Filou** » Sat Dec 31, 2022 11:08 pm

Her sexpartner are generally speaking her choice. However it would be quite strange would she choose someone I got problem with.
So far it did not happen though and I very much doubt that it will. In fact I actually have a quite good relationship with most of her sexpartner so far.

dinoo · Unread post by **dinoo** » Sat Dec 31, 2022 11:36 pm

Very well. I think they know it is the best way to play with her.
If there isn't a acquaintance, they are respectful to her and me.

But not always.
Once my wife (she on top) and I were fondling in what became "our" club.
A very handsome guy with a huge cock entered her (protected) from behind and fucked my wife without any mercy.
Because she was on top of me I felt thus witnessed every thrust of him.
He tried to fuck her as hard as possible. He did hurt her so I asked her if I should stop him.
She could hardly look into my eyes but tried andwhispered "No, let him. Please let him."
Obviously he got this message because he penetrated her as deep as possible.
Gasps of pain escaped from my wife's mouth. Again I posed the same question but her answer was the same.
Both came while I kept my wife strongly in my arms.
He left without any nice word to her.
My wife asked me if he was handsome.
I reacted with "yes, very" and asked her if she liked this way of fucking.
"Yes, she said, especially because you could feel it together with me. Just that made it so wonderful."

Dinoo

desertsub · Unread post by **desertsub** » Thu Jan 12, 2023 7:45 am

I am friends with several of my wife's lovers, and very good friends with her ex-boyfriend from back before I knew her. She likes to have me there watching so if she does anything long term with a guy he and I usually develop a friendship.

Back in the early days of my cuckolding I was never allowed to be present, but I was still friends with several of the guys she fucked because she fucked several of my friends!

They didn't know I was a willing cuckold though, they thought she was cheating on me.

As far as who she fucks, that is entirely up to her and she is under no obligation to even tell me about it. As her sub, I relinquished any say in what she does many years ago. She says that she would always keep me informed and has done so even though she knows she doesn't have to.

Wooster · Unread post by **Wooster** » Thu Jan 12, 2023 11:57 am

I’ve never met anyone my wife has dated, she prefers to keep that part of her life separate from our marriage.

sml_peterBR · Unread post by **sml_peterBR** » Thu Jan 12, 2023 4:50 pm

My wife has a regular lover and sometimes dates other men for short periods. I've met her regular lover and a few of the other men, it's always been a cordial relationship, with respect but no friendship involved. We use to talk just about topics related to their dates with my wife.

MrsandMrG · Unread post by **MrsandMrG** » Fri Jan 13, 2023 7:29 am

MrsG's long term lover is a good friend and we hangout together sometimes. And some others i have seen them taking her to orgasmic realm but have never interacted with them, if they are worth friendship she will introduce us to each other.

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