A poll on parents in this lifestyle

[best_friend]

i don`t have children, because i`m what is called here the lover.

but i can tell from my own experience, that couples being parents is not always easy to manage. when i was playing with the wives, it was most of the times the daddies were at home sitting the babies. worked out fine.

young mothers have something hot for me. as long as i`m not the father.

[mrdnrm]

My wife had cheated on me twice before getting married and then once before our third child was born, the older two were 3 and 4 years old at the time. But after that when the youngest was about 8 years old we started the Hotwife-ing lifestyle. At that time we had moved to Florida where it was normal for women (moms and wives) to dress sexy any and all times of the day. So my wife dressing in mini skirts and halter tops most of the time was nothing for our children to see daily. The only difference was when we went out the wife had her hair done, more makeup on and high heels on. At night 90% when we got home the kids were asleep and we only had to deal with the babysitter at 2 am.

Our babysitter was in her teens and some nights the look on her face was priceless , especially when my wife's mini skirt was on backward or inside out. Another time her halter top was inside out and then one night neither my wife or notice until after I had taken the babysitter home and I had come back (she lived 5 house away) that my wife had cum in her hair and on one of her eyebrows, it was dried but quite obvious what it was. There was a lot of it because my wife just had her first small gang bang with three Black guys. We both just laughed and said the babysitter must think I cum like a race horse.

When our kids were all in their teens they slowly figured it all out as we went out every weekend and the middle one heard my wife talking on the phone to one of her dates. We tried to down play it as just flirting with a friend, but once he told his brother things started to get awkward when we would be getting ready to go out for the night. Then one day the oldest asked my if we were swingers. Oh no, not us, that's gross I replied. Then a few years later the two oldest were away in college when the oldest come home one Sunday morning my wife and were both naked past out on our bed and the computer was connect to the tv scrolling the previous' nights photos of my wife fucking one of her Black lovers. Well no more hiding things now.

[best_friend]

My wife had cheated on me twice before getting married and then once before our third child was born, the older two were 3 and 4 years old at the time. But after that when the youngest was about 8 years old we started the Hotwife-ing lifestyle. At that time we had moved to Florida where it was normal for women (moms and wives) to dress sexy any and all times of the day. So my wife dressing in mini skirts and halter tops most of the time was nothing for our children to see daily. The only difference was when we went out the wife had her hair done, more makeup on and high heels on. At night 90% when we got home the kids were asleep and we only had to deal with the babysitter at 2 am.

Our babysitter was in her teens and some nights the look on her face was priceless , especially when my wife's mini skirt was on backward or inside out. Another time her halter top was inside out and then one night neither my wife or notice until after I had taken the babysitter home and I had come back (she lived 5 house away) that my wife had cum in her hair and on one of her eyebrows, it was dried but quite obvious what it was. There was a lot of it because my wife just had her first small gang bang with three Black guys. We both just laughed and said the babysitter must think I cum like a race horse.

When our kids were all in their teens they slowly figured it all out as we went out every weekend and the middle one heard my wife talking on the phone to one of her dates. We tried to down play it as just flirting with a friend, but once he told his brother things started to get awkward when we would be getting ready to go out for the night. Then one day the oldest asked my if we were swingers. Oh no, not us, that's gross I replied. Then a few years later the two oldest were away in college when the oldest come home one Sunday morning my wife and were both naked past out on our bed and the computer was connect to the tv scrolling the previous' nights photos of my wife fucking one of her Black lovers. Well no more hiding things now.

thatswhy i highly recommend the concept of the father watching the children while the mommy has the fun.

[luvwives999]

I could only pick one category, but we actually fall into 2. When first married we had a MMF with a friend, which in actuality turned into me just watching them. For 3 years after, she would go to his apartment, for some one-on-one, until he was transferred. He had no idea she told me everything, we are still friends and he still doesn't know I know. Fast forward 17 years and 2 kids later, for about 7 years my wife had "friends" on the side, none I ever met, all thinking she was cheating and had no idea she told me everything. The first one , and the one that lasted the longest was from out of state and they would meet for weekends. I wonder to this day how he thought she was leaving me home with 2 kids and going to some fun locales alone. After a few different men, 5 in all, and a bad experience with the last one, we decided to try couples, swing clubs. We went every saturday night for 5 years. I personally loved the clubs, they were erotic and we met some really great couples who we are still close friends with. But, as far as sex goes, it certainly made our sex supercharged, but the problem is,I realized that I am a voyeur and not an exhibitionist, and although I had no trouble having sex with my wife at these clubs, having sex with another woman in front of my wife, I was not comfortable with. So we never swapped with another couple. I get the what a hypocrite , it's ok for me to watch my wife, yet not ok for a husband to watch his wife with me, can't help it it's just me. After some discussion, we realized that her going it alone was an easier way for her to fulfill her desire for other men, and my desire for her to have other men.

[desertsub]

My wife and I both had kids from our previous marriages. Several years after we got married and she was actively cuckolding me she got pregnant and we had another child. She says I am the father but I am not sure that is true. I have never worried about it though.

[sherulestherooster]

We live in a fairly affluent area so it’s unusual to find a younger stud (our preference) have the means to host. One time she and a bull had availability but no place to play so I was going to be the wing man for her and take the kids out so she could play at home, presumably in our marital bed. I cleaned up a bit and had a plan for the diversion but unfortunately he flaked. What a turn on to be Mr Mom while she banged a stud in our bed at home. I wish it would have happened.

This kinda reminds me of her first date. She had sex with a guy in her van (again, problems with hosting) and we met near a local park where she gave me the “tell-all” of her date. My hormones were raging, I wanted to reclaim her right then. And we did, cause the kids would hav been home and it would have cock-blocked US. So I reclaimed her right where she lost her hot wife cherry only hours before.

[Gloria80]

20 yo daughter is aware since was teenager

[gruenberg]

i choose "Just married and expecting kids." although it is not absolutely correct.

we aren`t expecting right now, but we started in this lifestyle when my wife was pregnant.