Potential cheating? Maybe get to hotwifing ?

[Colorblind]

Have been reading the forums for long time and finally decided to post and ask for advice how to try get this fantasy as reality.
So my wife and i were married for 6years. She is 29 and im 36. Our sex life was pretty vanilla, nothing special. She is pretty much a housewife and taking care of our kid and im providing the finance(doing more then well, she has everything she has dreamed). So pretty much our marriage is great, not having any major issues, lot of trust has been build between us. She is secure financialy etc.
Sex life is not the best tho. At first years after marriage we were having sex more often, lets say 1-2 times per week, and i always cum in like 2-3minutes. Last 2 years we are barely having sex, i guess mostly because i dont initialize it and she us not the person to initialize it. At first she was not happy that sex was missing, and i guess i blamed my hard time working and that i dont have power. Eventually she got used to it and stopped complaining.
She never complained about my ejaculation for 2mins, but im pretty sure she needs and will love to have some better and more lasting sex.
So far I never opened the topic of cuckolding, mostly because of fear of rejection i guess. I guess i will have to soon, if i want to try to get us into this lifestyle.
Some small good signs that lately happen.
Couple of months ago she got a boob job and after it decided to completely change her wardrobe and looks to more provocative. Ofcourse i support her for that and tell her its great to dress sexy. I guess it looks like she loves the attention she gets. Also recently she started accepting friend requests from males on instagram(before she didnt accept pretty much anyone). Some of those males started writing to her and replying to her stories, but she dont reply to them or follow them back usually. The other day she asked me and little bit confronted if i have followed some girl on instagram told her i didnt follow no girls there since years and showed her how u can see recent follows and took her phone to show it on her profile also. When i took her phone she was like “oo i followed some guy (that guy replies to her with hearts all the time to her stories) because the other day when i was with my girlfriend K. asked me to follow him so she checks him (?!wtf explanation haha) , oh let me unfollow him” and she unfollowed him, i told her oh im not jealous and dont mind if u follow guys on instagram so i took her phone from her hands and followed the guy back infront of her. Looks like the guy is some well build boxer or mma or something like this.

So this is pretty much my story so far. Looking for some advices! How to proceed eventually to get to the cuckold / hotwife lifestyle.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum colorblind. Sounds like she is well ahead of you. You need to make your feelings known before she cheats. Let her know she has a hall pass or however much latitude you have in mind but she already has it in mind but hasn't admittied it to you. She needs more dick and you need to let her know it's OK and you need to do it soon. Her friend has realized what she needs and has advised her. You two need to talk and right away. I think it's going to be easy as she is going to be relieved that she has permission and doesn't have to cheat.

[Colorblind]

Hehe i hope you are right! if thats the case maybe the cuckold life could be reality . Whats your suggestion, how to open the topic??

[SilverStag]

Yes, communicate, communicate, communicate. You have to be able to have clear, sober, open discussions to advance in the Ethically Non-Monogamous life. Don't set her up to cheat, set her up to play. Make her feel safe in your relationship while explaining what it is you desire. It's a two-way street. You will have to engage in lots of on-going talks to keep things on the rails.

[Colorblind]

Hello dear all,

Havent posted awhile since there was no movement lately untill recently.

So ive been reading different advises and started using them last months. Like when we go out and she is dressed provocative men checking her out and pointing that to her and discussing it, she definitely loves it, eventho when few times i try to mention that i would be ok if she does something with another guy she says that im the only one and so on but never really talked it deeply.

Also been doing alot of oral to her lately and she likes it but unfortunately when i penatrate i cum so fast and really not enough for her eventho in talks she denies it, i guess to not make me feel bad.

So the other day we were checking Agent Provocatuer website to order her some sexy night dress, and suddenly while checking for nightsdress she show me a vibrator on AP website and is like what u think. Ofcourse i encouraged her that i love it and would be great to try it. So we ended up ordering not this one from AP, but she liked more a huge realistic vibrating dildo.( the delivery will take 5days and that was like 2days ago).

So the next day, we were out and she posted some sexy story on intagram with her boobs very revealing and if you read my first post, the same boxing/mma guy been sending her love emotes all this time but still she never replied. So i told her why dont you reply him something atleast an emote or so. She did and they chatted like 30-40mins. She was telling and showing all the time what they are chatting like they were defenatly flirting. I was so horny in the meantime only from their chat almost cum in my pants wow.

Then when they finished i told her i like that she chat with another man and i get so horny from it and took her hand to feel my erection. So that was yesterday, and today she was like : oh i dreamed last night for the vibrating dildo baby how you use it on me, why dont u go to the sex shop and buy one now, because i dont wanna wait. So ofcourse i did and tonight we gonna use it. She never used a toy before.


Ill be happy to hear your thoughts and advises on our situation and if i get on the wright way. I really feel im getting close and soon i might have the sexies naught hotwife.

So the be

[sharedfantasy]

Since it has been almost a year exactly, I’m curious to know if there has been any progress since the purchasing of the large, realistic dildo.

[feetuji]

Wannabe here. So, these is just my 2 cents:
A cuckold/hotwife wife, from what I understand, is more faithful than most of the monogamic women. They dont cheat. They make agreements with the husband. A cuck/HW relationship can only work with trust on each other. If she cheats you, you cant trust on her for many other things too (watch your wallet!).