Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

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Which of these does the Bull have that particularly turns her on?

1. Big dick
100
20%
2. Physical body; six pack, muscles, height
73
14%
3. Glamour : sports car, yacht, mansion... things that the cuck cannot afford
7
1%
4. Status : socially superior to cuck, successful, popular ... instinctive appeal to woman living a lower status vanilla married life
15
3%
5. Sexual Reputation : known cassanova, badboy, confident ladies man.. his prowess and lady appeal is far above the cuck
30
6%
6. Aura : confident, in control, masculine, powerful, mysterious sexy... radiates male power
70
14%
7. Colorful personality; witty, fun, adventurous.... more that cuck
24
5%
8. Intelligent ; brilliant star (like a hotshot doctor or lawyer), where the cuck is more plain and regular
12
2%
9. Actual sexual skills ; exceptionally good in bed regardless of dick size
77
15%
10. Attention/Availability : fills in for insufficient attention from cuck (perhaps cuck is a busy workaholic)
14
3%
11. Alpha behaviour ;; cuck is wimpy , beta... bull is more manly in a primal way
57
11%
12. BDSM or other kink appeal : hotwife wants a totally different dirty minded man for her indecent indulgences
19
4%
13. Any other? , pls explain....
8
2%
 
Total votes: 506

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by JMNBABE » Wed Mar 31, 2021 7:56 pm

Was going to vote for #13 Other also, but had too many choices........lately, my wife seems to be attracted to guys I CANNOT STAND!! If she gets a hint that I don't like someone, she is all over being friendly, sexy, suggestive, and encouraging of them. Most recent is a guy that is building (maybe someday) a dock for us....he talks INCESSANTLY about anything and everything, annoys the hell out of me, and to top it off he has to weigh at least 450 lbs!!! Only thing I see drawing her to him is I don't like him.......and she seems to REALLY get off on this!

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Unread post by humiliation » Thu Apr 01, 2021 9:18 am

Thanks for your response. Well, with my wife, she's very jealous. So the bull can be married, but other than that, she wants to be his only girl. So, this feeds into our pillow talk about how busy she's going to have to be to keep him fully satisfied so that he's not looking for others. This would probably mean one or two mid-week blow jobs in a car or somewhere when they didn't have the time to really have a full session. I love the though of my wife being treated like a cock-sucker, being forced to inconveniently run to him to relieve him. We have kids, so I often think about him pulling into our garage at night and my wife having to run out back and get on her knees for 15 minutes. I'd absolutely love him to separately taunt me about it.

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by best_friend » Sun Jan 29, 2023 5:55 am

i don`t think of my penis being very thick or very large, but there are always enough hotwives for me to play. and as they are coming back again and again, they seemed to be happy.
that said, it must be something else, not the big dick what is at the moment no1 at the poll.

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Unread post by Knotty Irish » Sun Jan 29, 2023 7:36 am

I picked 1, 2 & 9 but there many others on there.
1. My wife has has a Boyfriend and a Bull. They are well endowed black men that are younger than us.
2. Both are in great physical shape and work out three to four times a week.
9. Their sexual skills are far superior than mine. Both can last forever. After that they different from each other. Which is probably the reason she attracted to both. Her boyfriend is very attentive and sensual type of lover. His only draw back is he’s a one and done. At least two or three hours before the next round. Which they do quite frequently. Her Bull can literally go for hours, four one time and can almost cum when ever he wants. He is rough, aggressive and some what treats her as his fuck doll. Which she craves at times. He is very Dominant and controls both of us.
But both also fall in the 4,6,8 and 11 categories.
When she go out with either of them she never has to pay for anything.
So 1,2,9 and being Black have been her consistent for the last four years.

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by maxbud » Sun Jan 29, 2023 6:23 pm

Very hot!
:D
May I ask:

A. How does he dominate her and control both of you? (does he make you fluff his dick? Does he tie her up and ram her pussy,.. or her her at his beck and call, drop everything and come to suck his dick? )

B. Does either of them have a wife or GF? I imagine there might be FMF threesomes with him, and your wife and his own wife/GF?

C. Does your wife get aroused by seeing him control you? Maybe she even "rewards" him with deeper kisses, for dominating you.

D. How dominant is your wife, to YOU? Does she deny you pussy? or perhaps make you a sub to her,.. licking her feet etc?
Knotty Irish wrote:
Sun Jan 29, 2023 7:36 am
I picked 1, 2 & 9 but there many others on there.
1. My wife has has a Boyfriend and a Bull. They are well endowed black men that are younger than us.
2. Both are in great physical shape and work out three to four times a week.
9. Their sexual skills are far superior than mine. Both can last forever. After that they different from each other. Which is probably the reason she attracted to both. Her boyfriend is very attentive and sensual type of lover. His only draw back is he’s a one and done. At least two or three hours before the next round. Which they do quite frequently. Her Bull can literally go for hours, four one time and can almost cum when ever he wants. He is rough, aggressive and some what treats her as his fuck doll. Which she craves at times. He is very Dominant and controls both of us.
But both also fall in the 4,6,8 and 11 categories.
When she go out with either of them she never has to pay for anything.
So 1,2,9 and being Black have been her consistent for the last four years.

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Unread post by Ktsmth1994 » Sun Jan 29, 2023 6:31 pm

My husband and FWB are complete opposites of each other. My husband is 31 my FWB is 52 (I’m 28) My FWB is significantly taller and more built and he’s a bit more aggressive. Hubby isn’t necessarily a “cuck” but not nearly as assertive as my FWB. I think this is primarily due to the dynamic of each relationship. When I see my FWB it’s all about one thing, and he’s kind of like a real life sex toy. With my husband the relationship and responsibilities are obviously much more complex. So naturally the sex in both relationships are going to be vastly different.

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Unread post by JustAnotherName » Sun Jan 29, 2023 6:46 pm

it definitely helps that my bull has what i consider the ideal dick, 8" x 6.5" with a slight upward curve while hubby is pretty average at 6"x 4.75". Both my bull and my husband sizes can get me off, even if there is a stretch and fullness i feel with one but not the other. I think the biggest difference between the two is how long they can last.

MOST TIMES... With hubby, once i feel that i'm starting to get my orgasm, i need to chase after it otherwise there's a good chance hubby is going to cum before i get there. knowing that my bull has more than enough endurance, i can slow down, and build that pressure up before ultimately it overflows into a much more intense orgasm. It's like I can edge on his dick until i can't take it anymore, whereas hubby i'm in a race.

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by MrPepeLePew » Sun Jan 29, 2023 7:54 pm

He's new and exciting. That's the hook. The rest just describes the bait. All good stuff.
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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by desertsub » Mon Jan 30, 2023 10:36 am

I voted 1,9 & 11. My wife likes a big dick but she really likes a guy who can fuck her to several orgasms before he cums. Recently she has been with a guy who was really aggressive and dominant towards me and she loved it! She said that the more dominant her lover is over me, the wetter her pussy gets. One of her lovers has fucked me twice and she says it's one of the hottest things she has ever seen.
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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by Ktsmth1994 » Mon Jan 30, 2023 1:34 pm

JustAnotherName wrote:
Sun Jan 29, 2023 6:46 pm
MOST TIMES... With hubby, once i feel that i'm starting to get my orgasm, i need to chase after it otherwise there's a good chance hubby is going to cum before i get there. knowing that my bull has more than enough endurance, i can slow down, and build that pressure up before ultimately it overflows into a much more intense orgasm. It's like I can edge on his dick until i can't take it anymore, whereas hubby i'm in a race.
Same here, I know what ya mean ;)

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by hwfanatic » Mon Jan 30, 2023 2:58 pm

JustAnotherName wrote:
Sun Jan 29, 2023 6:46 pm
it definitely helps that my bull has what i consider the ideal dick, 8" x 6.5" with a slight upward curve while hubby is pretty average at 6"x 4.75". Both my bull and my husband sizes can get me off, even if there is a stretch and fullness i feel with one but not the other. I think the biggest difference between the two is how long they can last.

MOST TIMES... With hubby, once i feel that i'm starting to get my orgasm, i need to chase after it otherwise there's a good chance hubby is going to cum before i get there. knowing that my bull has more than enough endurance, i can slow down, and build that pressure up before ultimately it overflows into a much more intense orgasm. It's like I can edge on his dick until i can't take it anymore, whereas hubby i'm in a race.
Welcome, you are lovely!

How did you first come to the decision to swing/Hotwife, and how did you meet your endowed bull?

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by 4incheslong » Fri Feb 03, 2023 6:41 am

This is a good topic. I chose his confidence and her view of me as a wimp. She called me a wimp once when I found her at a party getting fingered and playing with a guys dick and didn't stop it. I have tried to tell her that guys fake super confidence when they are hitting on a chick but to no avail. She loves to submit to them and do things, like sucking and swallowing, that she wouldn't do for me ever. Alfa's turned her on even in high school. She had a reputation and fucked lots of guys on the football team.

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by maxbud » Fri Feb 03, 2023 8:14 am

4incheslong wrote:
Fri Feb 03, 2023 6:41 am
This is a good topic. I chose his confidence and her view of me as a wimp. She called me a wimp once when I found her at a party getting fingered and playing with a guys dick and didn't stop it. I have tried to tell her that guys fake super confidence when they are hitting on a chick but to no avail. She loves to submit to them and do things, like sucking and swallowing, that she wouldn't do for me ever. Alfa's turned her on even in high school. She had a reputation and fucked lots of guys on the football team.
I LOVE your post
The thing about a hotwife being turned on by bold confident alphas, is something I really like.

For your wife, I would like to imagine her, as she sees you as a wimp, with less sex appeal... onn the contrary, she sees him he is someone who is unapologetically promiscuous, and has several adoring women; his desirability to other women turns her on... and she does not mind him fucking her and her best friend (or another sexy woman) , threesome , cumming in both their pussies, two pussies for the alpha stud ; (something she could never think of doing with you). And when she is with him, she allows/enjoys him being playfully territorial about her. does this happen?

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Unread post by 4incheslong » Sun Feb 05, 2023 2:32 pm

She has not had sex with other women present. She is not into lesbian things which I would think he would want to see. She kind of acts jealous of them. In high school she has had lots of her friends boyfriends and now lots of married men but I don't think she would want to share him.

Does the act of saying you want someone to fuck her make you a wimp right out of the gate? It's not an alpha thing for sure.

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Unread post by humiliation » Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:14 am

Masculinity, both physical and emotional.

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Unread post by Cuckyboy3 » Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:59 am

1) With the bull, wife is able to ride the cock at an angle that titillates her clit for a long time, whereas she can't feel it with hubby's dick because it falls out.

2) Bull is able to lift the wife over his shoulder and carry her, whereas husband is not fit enough to do

3) Bull has a knack for knowing what the wife wants sexually and taking the lead, whereas the husband keeps asking

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Unread post by JRE2 » Mon Feb 06, 2023 8:07 am

Half her age and half my recovery time.

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Re: Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

Unread post by Knotty Irish » Tue Feb 07, 2023 9:13 pm

maxbud wrote:
Sun Jan 29, 2023 6:23 pm
Very hot!
:D
May I ask:

A. How does he dominate her and control both of you? (does he make you fluff his dick? Does he tie her up and ram her pussy,.. or her her at his beck and call, drop everything and come to suck his dick? )

B. Does either of them have a wife or GF? I imagine there might be FMF threesomes with him, and your wife and his own wife/GF?

C. Does your wife get aroused by seeing him control you? Maybe she even "rewards" him with deeper kisses, for dominating you.

D. How dominant is your wife, to YOU? Does she deny you pussy? or perhaps make you a sub to her,.. licking her feet etc?
Knotty Irish wrote:
Sun Jan 29, 2023 7:36 am
I picked 1, 2 & 9 but there many others on there.
1. My wife has has a Boyfriend and a Bull. They are well endowed black men that are younger than us.
2. Both are in great physical shape and work out three to four times a week.
9. Their sexual skills are far superior than mine. Both can last forever. After that they different from each other. Which is probably the reason she attracted to both. Her boyfriend is very attentive and sensual type of lover. His only draw back is he’s a one and done. At least two or three hours before the next round. Which they do quite frequently. Her Bull can literally go for hours, four one time and can almost cum when ever he wants. He is rough, aggressive and some what treats her as his fuck doll. Which she craves at times. He is very Dominant and controls both of us.
But both also fall in the 4,6,8 and 11 categories.
When she go out with either of them she never has to pay for anything.
So 1,2,9 and being Black have been her consistent for the last four years.
A: Her Bull just takes charge and controls everything. Whether I’m there or not pretty much as soon as she walks in he tells her to strip. If I’m there he usually tells me to strip and go sit where he wants me. Yes I have fluffed both her Bull and B/F. He has tied her up and fucked her atleast once I know. Because I was there to witness it

B: Both are married but don’t interact with her.

C: yes she gets really wet when he controls me and her.

D: She not dominant but she does deny me a lot of the time. I believe she is usually disappointed when we have sex and just Denys me so she doesn’t get disappointed.

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